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She should find out from him. You can't be married to someone in this society and not know their age. When it comes to health, finances, legal issues the cat will come out of the bag at some point.  

[quote author=*Morenike link=topic=169392.msg2787129#msg2787129 date=1221154481]Trust me, if that was your wife, you wouldn't be typing that.[/quote]tell him o, or even his sister or daughter 

_{probably doesn't have any sha}

Is there a reason why he's refusing to tell?

I don't see the need for that anyway. He can't even tell her his age? God knows what else he could be hiding.

He must have friends or family she can ask?

I understand some of the reasons some cultures do it, to maintain virginity and what not, but the act is simply barbaric to me. Some ridiculous reasons too, such as, it increases sexual pleasure for the man. Unbelievable

9ja4eva:
Live your life ----- TI ft Rihanna

TOYOSI20:
Me too, can't get enough of that song. . . . .

And me three  

@ poster

I know, it's so hard being a good hostess.

I mean what do you do with a guest who constantly farts in your presence?

I'm really suffering here

cmalaysia:
[color=#770077][/color] thankyou for all the advice. I have to say I have searched a long time for a site like this. I keep sooooooooooo much inside because I live in a big city and have been here for 2 years and don't have people to talk to because I have sheltered myself so much I know noone but my boyfriend and his friends that actually aided in him cheating on by so imagine. But I thankyou for this forum.

do you mean he's cheated on you aswell or what does that mean?

Uche2nna:
Anyways, your boyfriend is a jackass!!! No offense

I think that needed to be said.

But I really understand. Let them have their useless opinions they have no importance in your life, all that matters is how you view yourself. Wish U Luck

I don't see what this has to do with her being a virgin? She was right to refuse, virgin or not.

About women can't do a man's job whatever

Many women play the role of the father and mother in their households of course it's not easy but it's done.

What's wrong with wanting good things? That doesn't mean i'll instantly reject anyone who doesn't have a 6 figure salary.

Afterall if halle berry proposed to any man here, will they cross leg and say no.

We all like the best in life but love comes first.

Fred Hammond - No Weapon
Ruben Studdard - I Surrender All
Micheal W. Smith - Breathe
Modjo - Lady
Armand Van Helden - You Don't Know Me

@ post

I don't see the problem, after all guys dream of being with supermodels and an endless list of gorgeous women but they are all married to the rich men so hardly anyone gets what they want in the end, abi?

doe82:
life is good!
been like a century!!!

what does that mean?

well u sound happy so that's nice to hear.

kkkossy:
men , u guys should try and listen to this song is da bomb:

ne-yo-miss independent.

u will love it i swear!

already addicted to it

Donnie McClurkin (he makes the most beautiful songs and they're very uplifting)
Kirk Franklin (guy's a genius)
Kierra "Kiki" Sheard (amazing voice for a 19 yr old)
Mary Mary (great voices)

@ topic

Micheal Jackson
Bob Marley
Ray Charles
Stevie Wonder (anyone who can play a piano without their sight is a legend in my eyes  )

_{I have perfect vision and I still find it hard}

Tinie Tempah - Tears (UK)

Ben20001:
Years before now, Nigerian girsl wouldn't write such on nairaland.
Zee all of them, none is even saying "she likes skirt"
na wa o
Nigeria don spoil.

Did you you read all the replies well?
And what's wrong with liking jeans/trousers?

@topic

I usually go for jeans but I like a nice skirt when the weathers nice.

Roflmao @ topic

Gospel any time but second would be neo-soul.

doe82:
we agreed that u ll slow down and take things one step at a time!

ok, I'm trying to do that now, but its not easy.

How's life?

@ OP

your post is very insultive, live your life as you want but theres no need for this thread at all.

Why Do Some Naija Women Think Being A Single Mom Is Ok?

Why Do Some Naija Men Think Abandoning Their Kids is OK?

They both made the child therefore they have equal responsibility over it but that's hardly ever the case.

Pataki:
Deal.

Need to get off nairaland now. Got work to do.

Goodnight.

ok, goodnight dear.

Moyola:
In diz case, yeah d man iz heartless, stupid. . . . . n d woman's rily stupid!!

dat's all I'm saying, both are in the wrong.

Pataki:
Studio? Lol

Please do it quick. Need to make those quids in time. So whats your deadline?

Patience Pataki, these things take time afterall I want to impress you now.

Give me just over a week and I'll have something for you. Deal?

Pataki:
Same with me, I got to be careful, I am not signing in a quack.

Send me a demo version of what you got. . . . You do get to see I ain't heartless at all.

Quack? Lol

Well when I've made one i'll let you know. Studio time doesn't come cheap i'm afraid  

Pataki:
C'mon, I have always had your interest in me mind.

Just that you do not trust me, and you are making me sound as a heartless soul. You and I both know we are seeking for a mutual benefit of each other right?

So whatchu say dread once again?

im sorry, its just that one needs to be careful these days.  

ok then   so where do we go from here? I'm expecting my first single to atleatst be in the top 10 in the charts.

Pataki:
Resume and References for making some few quids out of ya?

Now you making me think I am a heartless being.

oooh so that's all you wanted, i see your plan now Pataki.  

My lawyer was right, thank God for the background checks we did on you.  

And there I was thinking you had my interests in mind

Pataki:
Your lawyer is wack. I ain't heartless, and I know you ain't stupid either. But my offer is grand.

So whatchu say dread?

depends, what it is, and I'm gonna need a CV and that includes references.

Pataki:
Very well stated. How you doing?

Got a new contract for you now.

HI Pataki

Contract eh? My lawyer has advised me against such but I can be swayed. So, whatchu got for me?