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Hannibal:
MKO Abiola forgot to screen his kids. . . . .After his death, 60 of his 150 kids were bastards.
Food for thunk. . . . . . .I would not let any woman fool me to take care of the seeds of her numerous sexcapades.
Not this life or the next. . . . .If she feels insulted, finding the exit shouldn't be a difficult task.

But what if she's been faithful? that would be terrible I couldn't even imagine it. Anyway just goes to show that it can be done. He was oblivious to it his whole life.

Hannibal:
I am not married yet. . . .far from it.
No bastard shall slip under me radar so the woman should use her oestrogen-induced tact judiciously to beat SCIENCE.

So your going to have all your children tested! WOW   If my husband mentioned that to me that would be the biggest insult.

eldee:
I live in a country where it'll soon be a civil offence to say 'this job is a man's job'
But I won't throw away my values

I throw away any "values" that conflict with my "morals" and infidelity is one of them  

Hannibal:
Me being Hannibal knows what i can do to other women so no bastard would slip under me radar.

We'll see   Let's just hope you havn't already put them through uni before it's too late.

eldee:
We're still african you know
Our soceity can't stand cheating women

Most cheating women start lose all their friends
Even family members leave 'em

Well if you live in africa then yeah but that's not where my mindset is. Lesson: don't advocate something you wouldn't have someone do to you. Period

Hannibal:
What tact?? All those kids DNA are getting tested after their first 180 days.
Who wants to father bastards??  Let her use her tact to defeat science.

Whats so good about that??

don't hate Hannibal, at least a couple of them will sneak under the radar. After all she was being a good wife sitting at home praying right  

stillwater:
Lmao!!! Good one!!!!!!!

*high five*

Hannibal:
Not all MEN get caught. . . . .This category are the righteous ones.

Fast and pray her spouse does not catch HIV.

Sure that's what you hope she's doing, but with the tact women have, she'll be getting hers to. Then it'll be your turn to fast and pray that those kids are actually yours

Hannibal:
How does adventure equates to weakness??
Adventure is bravery. . . . .Your ability to plot-plan-strategise how to aim at a target and HIT and escape uncaught and unharmed.
Selfish?? I don't even think so.

But with all that planning you still get caught   so you might as well put all thosse strategies away.

Very selfish what does your partner do while your on your adventure, get even?

See, you do all this nonsense and then complain that women are to quick to shout for a divorce. At least your village chic will be oblivious to it all

proo212:
The ladies that cheat for adventure (a lot do) and those that cheat because their needs are not being met are equally as guilty of being weak. Abi mo puro?

We've never said we can't control ourselves which is what the men seem to be using as their excuse. And I think if a man feels it's ok to cheat for the sake of an "adventure" then he shouldn't complain when his woman turns around and does the same thing.

onyinye2:
This is what im saying. For you to say that when i guy cheats, it is for adventure, shows a sign of weakness and heartlessness. If you want to adventure, Go. Leave. Bye Bye.

That's all we're saying

proo212:
If you've been there done that, then nothing shakes you anymore. As a guy I want to sample as many as I can. Sometimes you're of the mindset, been there done that at times someone comes along and you just have to talk to her. If you've been there done that, it makes it easier to settle down. A lot of people both male and female who are unfaithful didn't sow their wild oats.

Bottom line is I don't believe in any of that cos at the end of the day we all have different priorities, and that certainly isn't one of mine.

eldee:
As I said, I'm tasting errthing now so marriage will really be settling down
But I refuse to criticise men that can't resist temptation

As Debo said sumn last week
It's not like men are the mistresses

Does that ever really happen, me thinks not, most of these men that cheat weren't exactly virgins when they got married were they? Like you said hormones always win.

Hannibal:
You will never understand this because you are not a man. . . . .

It's similar to why MEN want to pull off after making love to their partners.
A hormone triggers the man to pull off while the female hormone(oxytocin) triggers the woman to cling. . . .
Should we put this down to being selfish or a natural phenomenom??

Y'all chics got alot to learn.

I don't care if he wants to explore, I really don't, Just make sure he tells me first so I can move on with my life and he can carry on his nonsense elsewhere, far away from me.

I'm going to hope and pray that all men don't think like you and eldee

eldee:
@syren
When you give the armed robber all your money, it's a choice too
C'mon he didn't take it himself, he only pointed the gun
And you decided that you valued your safety over money

Same with cheating too
You obeyed your hormones over you marriage
It's nature

Your not making sense here   Will you die if you don't cheat on you partner, bad comparison my friend.   Again it was their choice, I can't believe people are advocating this, I hope you'll be this open to it if it ever happens to you.

Hannibal:
Men are adventuresome. . . . . .It's in the DNA.
When men cheat, they are doing it NOT because they don't love their partner. . . .It's just an adventure.
The same urge that makes men want to open the hood of a car to dig his hands into it. . . .exploration!!!

ooooh not this again.   Adventure my foot, if the person is not ready to stay faithful as expected then they should continue their exploration somewhere else. I'm not gonna let somene cheat on me and let it slide for the sake of fun, when I'm left feeling hurt and betrayed.

Hannibal:
What choice??

The choice to cheat on your partner

ChinenyeN:
You know, I always thought that females got it together before males, but I guess I was wrong.

Some of us do we're not all like that. 

eldee:
Our choices are often affected by different reasons
Sometimes, the gun . . . which makes you choose to empty your pocket to a stranger
Or the fact that we have more than 60X the testosterone in women . . . that makes a man forget he's married when he sees a beautiful woman

I am so confused   At the end of the day you had a choice but you couldn't make the right one. It was not by force and it never is.  

eldee:
Nah . . . Every man has a 50/50 chance of being a cheat
The one that decides to is strongly motivated to by sumn he really loves/hates

I know a man that started cheating just because his wife forgot to leave food when he came from work
That's his own trigger, hunger

I'm saying unless he was held at gunpoint he always has a choice. Depend which head is making that choice I guess  

Outstrip:
No woman can snatch a man to start with because he is not a purse. He makes the choice to leave.

Thank you

@ post, I don't understand How much money are we talking about here?

Hannibal:
Who told u single women/mothers don't shag??

Is it all of them? I know you find it hard to believe but virgins do still exist, so do divorcees and widows who don't "shag".

Can we look at the bigger picture please. Let's not give sex priority, Like eldee said in his unique way   everyone needs a partner. Women are not just for procreation afterall you don't have the child and then toss the woman to the side and decide to raise it on your own do you? she's there to help in all areas of your life and same goes for the man.

Hannibal:
For procreation, YES. Not for anything else.
If u take children out of the equation, men are physically stronger to cope without the other gender.
I cannot say the same about women.

So u know!!!!

Yes for help in his work and mutual support aswell as procreation.
So what about of single women/mothers are they dying, lying in hospital because they havn't got a man.

No one compares to Jesus wheter it be woman, man, child or beast so yes I know.  

Adam needed Eve. If we want to get biblical.

Hannibal:
Jesus spent 33 years without moving near a woman. . . . . .Name me one woman in the Bible that never went near a man.

That's a bad comparison women are nothing like Jesus.

@ poster

my dear, take as much time as you need, because all the people who'll engourage u into it wont be there if any problems jump off so it's all entirely up to you.

@ topic

I can't see why I would want to do that I have too much fun being a woman.

The face.

Think of the children.

But all this comes after personality and character.

onyinye2:
sexually satisfication.

mmmmhhhh perhaps

this is what I don't understand, they slate us and say we're this and that but that doesn't stop them running after us?  Same goes for women I guess

This whole issue of light skinned black people being seen as more attractive stems from many things in the past. Things like the ruler test and the brown paper bag test to diffrentiate between shades or types of black people has given people the wrong mentality that lighter is better. We can't blame people if they have a preference but we need to ask what has influenced their preference. All shades beautiful.