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If my husband wants his 80% in running the home then he is also soley accountable when things go wrong. If he doesn't consult me and disregards my opinion I will be the first to say "I told you so"  

DeepZone:
Some take your views into consideration but their ego will not let them. Because of that ego factor, they'll keep landing the family into serious financial mess. Won't you stand up and take the mantle off him leaving him with about 20? This mostly happens between couples that are not equally yoked.

If need be,   yes i will step in but then i'd also have to question his role as a husband if he can't make sensible decisions.

DeepZone:
Lmao; If you allow men, they'll start looking for allowance. Seek ye your 50 and above now and all other things will be added unto you.

That's what I mean, if he breaks out the iron fist or makes bad choices I won't have it. But if he's making the right decisions and takes my views and interests into consideration I have no need to object.  

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if he deserves 80% i'll give him 80% but if he doesn't then I wont just sit there and take his nonsense.  

Oracle14:
Well thats exactly what the guys are cared of, definitely the western culture seems to over shadow the Nigerian culture: But you should also know most of the Nigerian girls over use their new found rights, the problem is evident in high divorce rates amongst Nigerian couples abroad.

How do you know they a not justified in wanting a divorce, we don't know their reasons.  

stillwater:
Ask him why, take whatever reasons he has for doing so even if most reasons are foolish without interrupting. Tell him it was nice knowing him, give him a handshake and totally cut off any ties with him as precise as a surgeon. Whether I feel emotionally hurt or not is left for me to deal with.

couldn't have said it better myself  , why pine over someone that doesn't want you? just move on I say  

These tips a great, I just got a new job today too. I can't wait to start.

It's not good to typecast people. Because someone says they're a virgin doesn't mean they are an undercover sex addict.

Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins?

Doesn't seem that way from what I've seen. 

konkocious:
@syren

if you are the one he want to married what will you do when u get to know about the kids

I can't marry someone who neglects his own children. How do I know he wont do the same to our child?

Is he even responsible enough to get married? God help the woman that marries him.