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Mobebi:
bygones are bygones.its painful share but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!

Rapsainot:
I'm lacking it... I don't just know why, I can't commit myself.

Rapsainot:
gunner as in?

wisdompraise:
The greatest question that has never been answered and I have not been able to answer it myself is "what dose a woman want?"

Please NairaLanders let hear from you, especially women tell us what you want.

Gorgeous58:
I don't believe in The Power of Love, I believe in The Power of commitment. I don't believe that Love moves mountains, I believe that mountains are moved by sheer commitment. The truth is, it is easy to love something but uncommitted to it, and in the end, lose it. But you can commit to what you don't love and never lose it, and often, end up loving it.

Practical example:

You do 36 courses in order for you to obtain a degree. You might find yourself loving only 10 of those courses, but your commitment to be a graduate is what will get you through the 26 that you don't love. And you find that after graduating, when you join the workforce, you actually love being a Geologist, working in some mine, when in varsity, you only loved 10 out of 36 courses you were doing to obtain your BSc qualification.

Equally, you can love someone very much, they may mean the world to you. But if you cannot commit to this person, if you are incapable of sticking to the principle of commitment where they're concerned, you will ultimately lose them, because no one, no matter how tolerant they may be, will accept being one of very many, particularly when there's no mutual agreement to include the many. So with all the love you have for it, you can still lose something, if you lack commitment.

So for me, the idea that Love conquers all, romantic though it may sound, is actually unrealistic. Commitment, not love, is what sustains things. You're more likely to enjoy the benefits of committing to what you initially didn't love, than loving what you initially and still can't commit to, because commitment might lead to love, whereas lack of commitment is guaranteed to result in losing that which you love.

But my man has both! I Love him and am committed to us!

MizMyColi:
Everyone needs to see this.

If you're not prepared for epistles, don't bother clicking.
Just a sisterly advice.


http://www.clarion-journal.com/clarion_journal_of_spirit/2013/11/satan-old-testament-servant-angel-or-new-testament-cosmic-rebel-by-richard-murray.html

TroubleMaker01:
do u mean a virgin should nt be in a relationship

Lolmoi:
Okay, we hear you

priscaoge:
[size=14pt] Wonderful Talent indeed She will be a Husband beater in the future Just marry her. [/size]


@Tallesty1 Shey d thunder never ready?

defendedvictim:
obviously..we all ought to do the things that make us happy abi. maybe, dats his! #jst saying

cokacoola:
am 32 years dating a girl of 19 . we love and understand each other very well but anytime we having argument, she will give me a very hot thunderous slap , me will take it as been loved and letter she will beg me and we have make sex. but now it becoming really embrassing cus she slaps me everywere even in front of my friend.... please is this normal

Godmother:
These beards are hideous abeg. Imagine my hubby having this. I will just shave it while he's sleepin at night. What nonsense.

defendedvictim:
wat a story..I hope he is happier now!

Yomieluv:
Dream,be consistent,and determination are the hallmark of success..

Success comes after hardwork,and grace

whisper88:
Pls, Wat is to woo a girl

dovelike:
Close ya mouth. You no join

bestestgirl:
Peppersoup without shaaki is like a train without an engine

AfricanApple:
post it joor, me na dat ur height I won see again

Buchukwu:
You should first tell me the link to the page so i'll view it before money ish sir.

urcutecrush:
I have this fear of being a failure