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Xcapist:Where do you want me to start? Your belief is different from mine. My own is different from Dav's even thou we are both Christians. So how can we agree on one thing? Like I said earlier, I'm a Christian not mostly because what I read or what I was taught but because what was revealed to me. How can I make you understand it? You will get nothing from me sir until I'm able to reconcile the Old Testament God and Jesus. Till then............ ![]() |
carefreewannabe:Can one really explain that? I don't think so. But we are different and you know it............ Take 4instance. A man can get another woman pregnant, and the wife may never know about it. But can you imagine your wife pregnant for another in your house nah to just drink rat poison. |
drlawizle:You sound like you just came back from another planet |
Ugovin:He is not devilish nor wicked. Thank God you quoted the Scripture so lets look deeper into it............ Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. That is the only acceptable ground for divorce amongst Christians. Ugovin:I no lie you bro, I honestly hate the Way Christians misquote this verse. When Jesus told us not to judge in Matthew 7 He was telling us not to judge hypocritically. He was telling us not to condem rather we should judge with the goal of bringing repentance in the other person. 2 Timothy 4:2 instructs us, "Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage with great patience and careful instruction." We are to "judge" sin, but always with the goal of presenting the solution for sin and its consequences. Ugovin:You are right but then, if you know that you cannot forgive and forget then free the person otherwise none of you will know peace. Ugovin:I can say that most Christians do not understand what happened here. In the time of old(according Jewish oral tradition)when a woman is caught in adultery. She is to be brought to the priest alongside with the man and at least two witness. The priest will then write their names on the ground(the man, the woman, and the people that caught them). Then judgement will follow. When the woman was brought to Jesus. The accusers said she was caught in adultery. Jesus(being a priest) wrote down the woman's name, then waited for them to present the man but they couldn't. It is possible that he even wrote with who?. He waited for them to tell him the name of the accusers but they couldn't. All they could say was that she was caught in adultery. With who? By who? So the accusers broke the law which they were trying to protect(Hypocritical judgement). Jesus knew this so he said to them."Let him who is without sin be the first to cast the stone" They couldn't because. 1: I'm not sure if the woman was really caught in adultery. The bible says they wanted to test him. 2: They didn't bring the man. 3: There were no witness. Lemme stop here. Thanks for the comment thou, I am not against forgiveness but you can't force someone to forgive. My comment is just to right some contradictions in your comment. |
faceURfront:Same In Kogi and Some Parts Of Nsukka. |
bukatyne:Things will never get better if we should treat them from a Christian perspective. No bring church into this............ |
RuuDie:You are right............ I know that too that's why I said in most cases. |
MzMariah:Wow! I thought it was only nature that gave us some bonus. So culture sef follow favour us ![]() |
BoboYekini:Exactly............ Thanks for the correction |
timawoku:Society aside bro. Lets look at it from this angle. Women are born sealed. Apparently to be opened by that special person. Men are not. Nature itself gave us some bonus |
timawoku: |
MizMyColi:If I hear. She didn't wait for him or because of him. |
Fkforyou:Say it bro |
Joeself1:I think he is a magician |
Richiy:The Chosen Ones |
claireshan:You Too? *MODIFIED* There is nothing person will not see on this nairaland. I just highlighted the few reason men find it difficult to forgive a cheating partner and someone is preaching equal rights already. Equal rights in cheating? Jesus Christ In Heaven. Where does equal right feature in this? Did I say "Reason women must forgive a cheating partner"? Will your equal right change the heart of women? If yes then the equal right is satanic. It is not a must that your forgive him. If you can't then leave, nobody is gonna blame you. We want equal right yet we collect heaven and earth from men that want to marry us.... We want equal right yet it is men that propose to and engage us. We want equal right yet it is a must that a man provide for his family. We want equal rights yet dating a broke is a no no even when we are broker than broke. Is it only in infidelity that you want equal rights? Why is it that women are declared brave when they hit men but men are brutal cowards when they do the same? Why is it a mistake when a woman gets into the men's restroom but a man is perverted in the reverse? Why are courts lenient with female criminals but males must be put down soon? Why is it that when a woman is doing work a man is required to help her and not the same when the reverse is occurring? No one is encouraging infidelity and that a man cannot forgive does not mean that a woman must forgive. Nobody is saying that. So aside with this equal right thingy. It is getting boring already. |
MizMyColi:From You ![]() |
Before I start this, I want to make it clear that I'm not a sexist. People say it is a man's world, and honestly, it is. I will show you how. Nature gave us some bonus and women gave their support. Even if a man forgives a cheating wife, the women(society) will not. Here are the few reasons some men find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife(They are what I heard men say. I didn't author some of them) 1: EGO:- It certainly has alot to do with their ego being bruised. The thought that another man was able to sleep with Someone they believed they had "ownership" of breaks them to pieces as most of them think the women incapable of sex without emotions, meaning the woman loves another. Remember men are like a lioness that can kill most animals for its cubs but will not allow another animal to even play with its cubs. 2: GUILT:- If a woman cheats, the man will never forgive not only the woman but himself no matter whose fault it is. He feels he has failed as a man to protect and keep his own. 3: THEY CAN'T FORGET:- When a man is making love with his wife, it is a sacred rituals the way she moan shows that his sacrifice has been accepted. So if she makes love with another man he will be thinking the temple is no more sacred and when he make love to her and she moan, it will be disgusting cause it will be like that is the way she moaned for the other guy! 4: YOU HAVE LOST HER IF SHE CHEATS:- Female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the beginning of the end of the relationship. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic—they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally. In fact a man can sleep with a woman today and not remember her again but for a woman to have sex with you(in most cases)you must win her heart to win her body. 5: HE PAID YOUR PRICE:- I guess i gotta be blunt here. I know we call it marriage but I think women are being bought in a way. Don't kill me yet, let's analyze it. He buys engagement ring. Proposes to you, you accept then he decides to see your people. Your people accept him and give him a list containing heaven and earth. He agrees to pay, he pays for everything and when your parents feel they have collected enough, they hand you over to him. Then you automatically change your name(Change of ownership) which confirms that you are now his own. I have seen where women sponsored their marriage and the men don't care when they cheat soI believe the day you stop asking for head-cutting bride price for us to marry then we won't bother much, imagine paying all that money and she gives it to another man..On a serious note. A cheat is a cheat and you can't quantify cheating. Who is cheating doesn't matter. Stay Faithful |
Richiy:Ladies do ignore their male friends. |
Richiy:It is true. |
kika23:Impossible. Those who take less than 47. Spend hrs editing them. |
faithugo64:Make I zoom your profile ![]() |
faithugo64:If I hear. |
Mprex:Make I change am. |
faithugo64:You nko? |
fuckshit:I now believe that people's name influence their character ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Bros you can lie oo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Zedric:15?? Nah, the least they take is 47. |
Mprex:Kataway |
MizMyColi:Yes... I noticed that she forgot to add "1" I have begged Seun severally to remove it but it seems like I didn't provide enough evidence to prove that I own the two accounts. Owk... Loading............ |
Elantracey:Madam can I really hear you from here? I want you to do it here............ Woo him here and we will forgive you. That's the penance |
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