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Christianity EtcRe: If The Old Testament Is Of A Perfect God, Why The New Testament?? by Tallesty1(m): 12:33pm On Oct 08, 2014
Xcapist:
David, you did more to me than I did to you. Godspeed.

Oya Tallesty1, over to you bro. cheesy
Where do you want me to start?

Your belief is different from mine.

My own is different from Dav's even thou we are both Christians.

So how can we agree on one thing?

Like I said earlier, I'm a Christian not mostly because what I read or what I was taught but because what was revealed to me.

How can I make you understand it?

You will get nothing from me sir until I'm able to reconcile the Old Testament God and Jesus.

Till then............grin
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 12:24pm On Oct 08, 2014
carefreewannabe:
You still haven't explained how it hurts a man more than a woman to be cheated on.
Can one really explain that?

I don't think so.

But we are different and you know it............

Take 4instance.

A man can get another woman pregnant, and the wife may never know about it.

But can you imagine your wife pregnant for another in your housecry

nah to just drink rat poison.
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 12:21pm On Oct 08, 2014
drlawizle:
It still amazes me that women do actually cheat in marriage...how come?
You sound like you just came back from another planet
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op):
Ugovin:
It takes a devilish and a wicked man not to forgive. if been cheated on,,
He is not devilish nor wicked. Thank God you quoted the Scripture so lets look deeper into it............ Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. That is the only acceptable ground for divorce amongst Christians.
Ugovin:
WHY? Don't Judge Others. (Judge not, and ye shall not be Judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive and ye shall be forgiven (luke6:37) )
I no lie you bro, I honestly hate the Way Christians misquote this verse.
When Jesus told us not to judge in Matthew 7 He was telling us not to judge hypocritically. He was telling us not to condem rather we should judge with the goal of bringing repentance in the other person. 2 Timothy 4:2 instructs us, "Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage with great patience and careful instruction." We are to "judge" sin, but always with the goal of presenting the solution for sin and its consequences.
Ugovin:
as a christian, one of the features of your recreated human Spirit is love, and love doesn't judge or slander others.
You are right but then, if you know that you cannot forgive and forget then free the person otherwise none of you will know peace.
Ugovin:
One day JESUS was sitting somewhere and the jewish leaders and men chased after a woman whom they said was caught in the very act of adultery. So they said to Jesus, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act. Now Moses in the Law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou? This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But JESUS stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not. (John 8:4-6) when JESUS eventually raised his head, He said to the womans accusers ''let the one without sin cast the first Stone'' (john 8:7) but they couldn't. So one after the other, they dropped their stones and left, leaving the woman alone with JESUS. Then JESUS said to her, ( hath no man condemnd thee? She said No man, lord. And JEsUs said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go and sin no more'') John8:10-11) we are to act like JESUS; HE said, "I wouldn't condemn you,go and sin no more." Jesus recognized her sin; Meaning we can recognize when people do something wrong; yet, like JESUS, don't judge them. Love is not all about sex, or making love. There is more to It.
I can say that most Christians do not understand what happened here.

In the time of old(according Jewish oral tradition)when a woman is caught in adultery. She is to be brought to the priest alongside with the man and at least two witness.

The priest will then write their names on the ground(the man, the woman, and the people that caught them). Then judgement will follow.

When the woman was brought to Jesus. The accusers said she was caught in adultery.

Jesus(being a priest) wrote down the woman's name, then waited for them to present the man but they couldn't. It is possible that he even wrote with who?. He waited for them to tell him the name of the accusers but they couldn't. All they could say was that she was caught in adultery. With who? By who?

So the accusers broke the law which they were trying to protect(Hypocritical judgement).

Jesus knew this so he said to them."Let him who is without sin be the first to cast the stone"

They couldn't because.

1: I'm not sure if the woman was really caught in adultery. The bible says they wanted to test him.

2: They didn't bring the man.

3: There were no witness.

Lemme stop here. Thanks for the comment thou, I am not against forgiveness but you can't force someone to forgive.

My comment is just to right some contradictions in your comment.
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 11:26am On Oct 08, 2014
faceURfront:
Benue South Senatorial District things
Same In Kogi and Some Parts Of Nsukka.
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 11:04am On Oct 08, 2014
bukatyne:
If you a Christian that should educate the world is saying this, then all hope is lost

Thankfully, during the OT when it seemed women were worthless, God'a puniahment was equal for the adulterous men and women.

In the NT, we were told that our bodies was the temple of the Holy Spirit without been gender specific, then I do not get the women are more 'honorable, templelike etc'

@OP:

Jesus Christ that paid for us with His blood sef did not see it as a justification to do as He likes undecided

It is all good
Things will never get better if we should treat them from a Christian perspective.

No bring church into this............
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 11:01am On Oct 08, 2014
RuuDie:
I can't agree with this... I believe just about anybody can have s3x without 'severe' emotional attachment - do not mistake mere flitting 'attraction' for that.
You are right............


I know that too

that's why I said in most cases.
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 10:54am On Oct 08, 2014
MzMariah:
You just reminded me of a culture in my village. If a man cheats on his wife it has no side effect but if a woman cheats (sleeps with another man) then she is as good as dead if she doesn't confess and have the necessary sacrifice done. She go just die like chicken.

We all are hoping and praying for the best sha, nobody wants a cheating partner.
Wow!


I thought it was only nature that gave us some bonus.

So culture sef follow favour usgrin
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 12:43am On Oct 08, 2014
BoboYekini:
@op, I believe the word you intended was 'moan', not 'mourn'. I may be wrong of course wink
Anyways, like so many of the things that induce strong visceral reactions in humans, a man's aversion to a cheating wife has it's roots in biology.
No man wants to be conned into spending his resources on raising another's offspring. It also explains why this strong jealousy is only felt when the wife is prime se,xually and still of childbearing age( or looks it). No man gives two fhux if his postmenopausal wifey plays the field.
Sperm Wars, people.
Exactly............


Thanks for the correction
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 9:06pm On Oct 07, 2014
timawoku:
no mind am o, peops in naija can't even smoke cigarettes outside in naija without being 'termed'...society rules Nigerians, it only takes an 'eagle eyes' to see your point MzMariah
Society aside bro.

Lets look at it from this angle.

Women are born sealed.

Apparently to be opened by that special person.

Men are not.

Nature itself gave us some bonus
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 9:02pm On Oct 07, 2014
timawoku:
no mind am o, peops in naija can't even smoke cigarettes outside in naija without being 'termed'...society rules Nigerians, it only takes an 'eagle eyes' to see your point MzMariah
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 7:53pm On Oct 07, 2014
MizMyColi:

Talking about paying her price - well, that's true, let's not forget that the same way the guy forwent scores of women to pay her price, she forwent scores of guys to accept his price.
If I hear.

She didn't wait for him or because of him.
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 7:50pm On Oct 07, 2014
Fkforyou:
I am here to read peoples comment. Although I want to say something.
Say it bro
EducationRe: Funny Pictures Of People Studying by Tallesty1(m): 7:43pm On Oct 07, 2014
Joeself1:
that guy on the chair
is DAT real
I think he is a magician
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Tallesty1(m): 7:38pm On Oct 07, 2014
Richiy:
That is a rather strange assertion, because honestly, girls i know chat with their male friends.
The Chosen Ones
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op):
claireshan:
……
You Too?

*MODIFIED*

There is nothing person will not see on this nairaland.

I just highlighted the few reason men find it difficult to forgive a cheating partner and someone is preaching equal rights already.

Equal rights in cheating?

Jesus Christ In Heaven.

Where does equal right feature in this?

Did I say "Reason women must forgive a cheating partner"?

Will your equal right change the heart of women?

If yes then the equal right is satanic.

It is not a must that your forgive him. If you can't then leave, nobody is gonna blame you.

We want equal right yet we collect heaven and earth from men that want to marry us....

We want equal right yet it is men that propose to and engage us.

We want equal right yet it is a must that a man provide for his family.

We want equal rights yet dating a broke is a no no even when we are broker than broke.

Is it only in infidelity that you want equal rights?

Why is it that women are declared brave when they hit men but men are brutal cowards when they do the same?

Why is it a mistake when a woman gets into the men's restroom but a man is perverted in the reverse?

Why are courts lenient with female criminals but males must be put down soon?

Why is it that when a woman is doing work a man is required to help her and not the same when the reverse is occurring?

No one is encouraging infidelity and that a man cannot forgive does not mean that a woman must forgive. Nobody is saying that.

So aside with this equal right thingy.

It is getting boring already.
FamilyRe: Why Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op): 7:33pm On Oct 07, 2014
MizMyColi:
Hmmmmmm
Eleyi Gidi Gan.

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FamilyWhy Naija Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Tallesty1(op):
Before I start this, I want to make it clear that I'm not a sexist.

People say it is a man's world, and honestly, it is. I will show you how.

Nature gave us some bonus and women gave their support. Even if a man forgives a cheating wife, the women(society) will not.

Here are the few reasons some men find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife(They are what I heard men say. I didn't author some of them)

1: EGO:- It certainly has alot to do with their ego being bruised. The thought that another man was able to sleep with Someone they believed they had "ownership" of breaks them to pieces as most of them think the women incapable of sex without emotions, meaning the woman loves another. Remember men are like a lioness that can kill most animals for its cubs but will not allow another animal to even play with its cubs.

2: GUILT:- If a woman cheats, the man will never forgive not only the woman but himself no matter whose fault it is. He feels he has failed as a man to protect and keep his own.

3: THEY CAN'T FORGET:- When a man is making love with his wife, it is a sacred rituals the way she moan shows that his sacrifice has been accepted. So if she makes love with another man he will be thinking the temple is no more sacred and when he make love to her and she moan, it will be disgusting cause it will be like that is the way she moaned for the other guy!

4: YOU HAVE LOST HER IF SHE CHEATS:- Female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the beginning of the end of the relationship. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic—they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally. In fact a man can sleep with a woman today and not remember her again but for a woman to have sex with you(in most cases)you must win her heart to win her body.

5: HE PAID YOUR PRICE:- I guess i gotta be blunt here. I know we call it marriage but I think women are being bought in a way. Don't kill me yet, let's analyze it. He buys engagement ring. Proposes to you, you accept then he decides to see your people. Your people accept him and give him a list containing heaven and earth. He agrees to pay, he pays for everything and when your parents feel they have collected enough, they hand you over to him. Then you automatically change your name(Change of ownership) which confirms that you are now his own.

I have seen where women sponsored their marriage and the men don't care when they cheatcheesy soI believe the day you stop asking for head-cutting bride price for us to marry then we won't bother much, imagine paying all that money and she gives it to another man..

On a serious note. A cheat is a cheat and you can't quantify cheating. Who is cheating doesn't matter. Stay Faithful
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Tallesty1(m): 6:06pm On Oct 07, 2014
Richiy:
Please o, what exactly do you say is true?
Ladies do ignore their male friends.
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Tallesty1(m): 6:03pm On Oct 07, 2014
Richiy:
Its not true. Is it their female friends that they chat with? There are a lot of dynamics concerning social network chatting. But i know that girls chat majorly with guys.
It is true.
RomanceRe: Why E Come B Say Na Fine Fine Girls Full Nairaland by Tallesty1(m): 4:15pm On Oct 07, 2014
kika23:
How'd you know... Some take just 1 angry angry
Impossible.


Those who take less than 47.

Spend hrs editing them.
RomanceRe: Why E Come B Say Na Fine Fine Girls Full Nairaland by Tallesty1(m): 4:13pm On Oct 07, 2014
faithugo64:
LOL,na u sabi o,but definitely i don't edit my pics!
Make I zoom your profilewink
RomanceRe: Why E Come B Say Na Fine Fine Girls Full Nairaland by Tallesty1(m): 3:59pm On Oct 07, 2014
faithugo64:
wink ofcus am innocent!
If I hear.
RomanceRe: How Broken Are Broke Guys? by Tallesty1(m): 3:57pm On Oct 07, 2014
Mprex:
lolzzz.cheesy. You know its true. Even your siggy confirms that. tongue
Make I change am.
Nairaland GeneralRe: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland. by Tallesty1(op): 3:55pm On Oct 07, 2014
fuckshit:
your FÜCKING right grin grin
Chai.



You get wahala no be smallgrin
RomanceRe: Why E Come B Say Na Fine Fine Girls Full Nairaland by Tallesty1(m): 3:53pm On Oct 07, 2014
faithugo64:
LMAO,47 ke?100 ni??but i must admit some ladies do that!
You nko?
Nairaland GeneralRe: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland. by Tallesty1(op): 3:27pm On Oct 07, 2014
fuckshit:
FÜCK!! fuckshit would be FÜCKING grateful if you don't but would FÜCKING encourage you to have fun.

FÜCK!! without FÜCKING hurting no one grin grin
I now believe that people's name influence their charactergringringringrin
FamilyRe: . by Tallesty1(m): 3:13pm On Oct 07, 2014
Bros you can lie oogringringringrin
RomanceRe: Why E Come B Say Na Fine Fine Girls Full Nairaland by Tallesty1(m): 3:02pm On Oct 07, 2014
Zedric:
Shey u know the preparation that goes into one pic? Step 1- Take a bath.
Step 2- Apply heavy make-up
Step 3- Take series of pictures, as much as 15
Step 4- Use photo editor app
Step 5- Use Instagram filter on pre-edited pic
Step 6- Choose most suitable
Step 7- Finally Upload

Y dem no go fine?
15??

Nah, the least they take is 47.
RomanceRe: How Broken Are Broke Guys? by Tallesty1(m): 12:51pm On Oct 07, 2014
Mprex:
If you can feed yourself, cloth yourself, pay your house rent, recharge your phone and fix some basic needs for GirlieO,cheesy then you are a far cry from broke
Kataway
RomanceRe: My Tardy Apologies by Tallesty1(m): 9:05am On Oct 07, 2014
MizMyColi:

Lolest,

Free her joor.

Make she kill cow before una gree angry
I shared the post because of you sef.
I noticed she oversightedly omitted some letters.

Hiohiohiohiohio @ what I thinketh.

Nna, biko, bring it on.

We could use some laughs and admonition this morning grin grin grin
Yes...

I noticed that she forgot to add "1"

I have begged Seun severally to remove it but it seems like I didn't provide enough evidence to prove that I own the two accounts.


Owk...

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RomanceRe: My Tardy Apologies by Tallesty1(m): 9:01am On Oct 07, 2014
Elantracey:
is it that you just want to hear it from my mouth or you really don't know? huh
Madam can I really hear you from here?


I want you to do it here............

Woo him here and we will forgive you.

That's the penance

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