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MizMyColi:
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He Called me Wicked

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How could you fall my hand, his hand and our hands


Don't you care bout his feelings?



#Angry

MizMyColi:

Why are you this wicked

samflexxy:
cooperate ke read the above postshe even say she want space rom

Nawa oo......


What's your plan now?

dytbabe:
3 options na
1. Marry him by force by fire
2. Keep the child
3. Abortion


Is she a mumu ni, when she was doin without cd, it was sweeting her
Ode oshi

Abortion is not an option at all.

Famouspecky:
I wake up this morning with a call from my friend.
Aisha am in trouble ooo, sobbing, I decided to calm her down so that I should hear the full gist……………

I'm pregnant, Just confirmed it last week, am so scared"
Is he aware of this an what is he doing about it?
He distant himself since he heard an the only thing he said is that am matured."

Am so confused, My career is on the brink, I'd never tried abortion, marriage to this man is a suicidal mission"

Why she come open leg 4 am nah??

Women and their fishy Brain sha.

She thinks she take the worm without getting caught by the hook.............






@OP. I understand where you are coming from sha buh I just had to say that cause some ladies really think that way.

samflexxy:
wad up my bro how villa

Very ok........


How far............


She dey cooperate?

germainediva:
Have been following ds thread..........who is fooling who....men are careless in cheating women are extreemly carefull....d truth s dat most women cheat becos their men cheat too...infact more women cheat dese days due to social media......you can't eat ur cake and have it..men tink dey r smart......if u don't want a cheating wife den don't cheat period.

It doesn't work that way ma


majority of the cheating wives are married to faithful men.

Sophyrocks:
Naija men hardly forgive because they have been taught not to forgive but expect forgiveness when they cheat. They have been taught to be selfish. they do not follow the priniciple of Jesus when he said 'Do to others what you would like them to do to you'. They do not remember forgiveness when they are cheated on but become automatic pastors and can preach the whole of the bible when women cheat. What do you call that? Hypocrisy and Selfishness. They are not aware that God himself detests adultery. God himself does not care who commits it. He detests it. Most nigerians do not practise true christianity, their christianity is usually mixed with traditional religion and that is why there are a lot of double standards in the society and the society itself is totally messed up. Do nigerians know that Galatians 5 vs 19-22 mentioned adulterers as people who have no place in the Kingdom of God? No they dnt. Adultery is a serious offence in the bible that is capable of depriving one from inheriting the kingdom of God. Do they remember this? No. because they have simply refused to follow bible principles and prefer to be more traditional than being christian.

Who taught them?

Mondisweets:
Wait aren't u the same people who agree with equal rights when it to a woman working and providing 50/50 in her household but when it comes to the same woman giving your children her surname instead of yours (since u guys have agreed on equality) you will scream abomination! "Its against the African culture!


Are you not the same people who shout a woman should be independent and when she becomes independent, you will scream she is proud if she doesn't tolerate anyone of your bullshit ways because she knows she can live longer without you in her life!


Are you not the same people that scream women shouldn't be so cheap and easy but when she expects you to work hard to win her heart you scream she is a gold digger or her shakara is too much!

Are you not the same people who expect women of this generation to be more like your mothers, but when she decides to be just like your mother and become a stay at home mum, u will call her lazy and greedy.

Are you not the same people that scream i don't want a girl who doesn't like traditional food but when she gains weight from eating too much of it you will call her a whale, if she doesn't eat it because it unhealthy u call her a coconut!

You Are Quoting The Wrong Guy

Odilafta:
I actually prefer to be referred to as 'classy' or 'gorgeous' than 'sexy'. To me,that word 'sexy' sends erotic messages...The way that word is used this days suggests that someone's dress looks trashy or nudity is seen...

How abt hot?

Bro ah just called my bro wey dey Kogi and he said nothing dey happen............



Where did u get your post?

banjicom:
R. I. P lindaikeji's blog, we love u but google loves u more.

Click on that link

pickabeau1:
So how will u propose to a lady

The ring is a white man ting but our girls love it

Welcome to the boyz room

PS I'm a dude

This proposing thingy is mainly for those that are dating/courting and I don't date.




Hard to believe.

pickabeau1:
The major issue is that ladies want to show off with something...hence the engagement ring which is not our tradition

And as anything ladies accessory wise, they want to show off with their friends

its a waste of money and time and can be even a determinant of a ladies maturity level and her ability to withstand peer pressure


The proposal is good.. the issue is that it goes with a ring....if only one could propose without a ring

Let me call a dude.. Tallesty1

*sighs*.


My dear............

I will not wear any girl an engagement ring.

Neither will I kneel down to propose to her.

If that is the only way to make a girl feel loved then i'm sorry............

Wickedness............
If she is sure of what she said then let her sue them.

Bro

pickabeau1:
Bro.. forget the bible
In most cultures, patriarchial cultures dwarf matriarchial or matrilineal ones

Most in Africa, the Jews, the Arabs, etc

You have brotherzoned me already

BananaBender:
How did nature prove/indicate that the man is the head of the family? You still didn't answer the question.

I really don't wanna reply you but I just can't help it............

You are a Christian? Cause what I'm going to say will make sense only to Christians.

A man is the head of the home, he started everything from 4st step and that gives him upper hand in some certain areas.

Being the head here does not imply that he should oppress his wife, No... You and I know that women cannot and can never be 50/50 equal with men. Although you can believe what you like but truth is unchangeable.

A man being the head makes marriage wonderful…no more arguing, no more strife, no more fight for power. Only having one leader makes life so much simpler. God absolutely knows what He is talking about and His way is the only way that truly works.

I'm about to get bible involved.

First, let me say that God sees men and women equally. At the foot of the cross there is neither male nor female. Galatians 3:28 says – “There is neither Jew nor Greek,there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”

But we should not forget that Ephesians 5:23 says For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. If we make this passage obsolete, we lose Christ and marriage without Christ is full of pain and misunderstanding.

Now, in Genesis 2:17 before Eve existed, God commanded Adam to not eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. And then in Genesis 3 –it is Eve who first took the fruit in verse 6 –and ate it.............then she gave the fruit to Adam and he ate it too.

Now Eve ate the fruit but Romans 5:12 tells us that sin entered the world “through one man and death through sin.”

Eve sinned first – so why didn’t sin enter the world through one WO-man? According to scripture we see Adam – the one who God had given the command, as being held responsible for the sin of he and his wife. And we see the first picture of headship.

1 Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God.

Like I said, if you really want to liberate women then make men the head and save women some troubles.

Love in dah air............




I can feel it from here.

kennygee:
All our celebs are running.

Women don use kpekus to collect all the money wey dey Nollywood.

onila:
Its nice thing to do

but I will never do it

changing my last name is enough
I love my native first name

More Than Enough.


Maybe their names are hard to pronounce.

Who knows............

cococandy:
Pls you guys should stop all these lies. Who are you decieving?
A man goes out to sleep with other women outside and you believe that he can still treat his woman like a goddess. Are you for real?

Some men will forget their families because of a mistressm some will deny their families luxuries because they want to cater for a mistress first.
Some men have wives driving an old merc 190 but will buy new RAV4 for the mistress,take her dubai for shopping etcetera but his kids are under cared for.

Some don't even take the well being of their kkids into consideration that much whenever they begin to see a new mistress who turns their brain the other angle.

What makes you think men don't fall in love with their mistresses? That's so naïve. They do. All the time. To the point that his family becomes second in his list of priority.

As much as you guys like to say sex Is just physical for men,I've seen families ruined by affairs the men had. Once they begin seeing the other woman,nothing else matters.


Pls stop spreading lies

It is possible............

Maybe rare.

I know a man that cheats on his wife, the wife is a lawyer by profession but she is not working presently.

The man loves him to bits, he really do and if he spend 5k on/for his mistress he must take his wife out and spend 10 or 15k on/for her.

A generous man I tell ya,

Very Generous.

cococandy:

Why it annoys me is that it fuels the main chick/side chick analogy more.

Some women will start believing because they wear the ring and have kids for the man even if he's sleeping around she's the number one.
That's all that matters to her even when it sometimes means nothing to the men involved.

Forgetting that the amount of love a man has for his kids is proportional to that which he has for their mother(most times)

Don't mind Tallesty. I saw that post. I just SMH.
He actually said 'forget bible here'

I'm sure he'll remember bible when it's time to quote the part that favors him

You sef...............

I was very careful while writing this to ensure that I don't drag Christianity into it............at least not much because it will confuse everything.

And I have been doing my best not to quote bible for anybody here(although I did to one guy who quoted many verses)

That's why I told her to forget bible............

It will get worse if we should start quoting bible because it is harsh on women. Especially in the old testament.

I won't quote it when it favours me.

bukatyne:
Tell me something!

But you believe wives must submit to their husbands and husbands are the heads of their homes which is a 'Christian perspective'

Eating your cake and having it?

I hope not!

It is not............


Our great grands were not believers yet they submitted.

Yungwizzzy:
baby the first pix is that you and your bf?

if so please you deserve better, pm me, I'm a CEO!!

The girl is got serious laps

teewai3:
dnt you trust her

It doesn't matter

MzMariah:
why?

lols.....


I don't know why............

But I know that bad things happen to good people.

MzMariah:
Lol.

I hope all the men wey dey shout 'I can't stand a cheating wife' no dey cheat o. derris God in everything we do.

Faithful men hardly marry faithful women.


Don't ask me why.

Grendel:
I never thought of cheating or having any side chicks not until my woman denied me sex ... We are not staying together, I visit her twice a month but this particuler time I was busy at work I couldn't visit her for four months.

I was angry because I don't know why she denied me the only thing that's strengthen our love

The union ended long before she said no to sex.

If there is not connection, there will be no sex.

That is women for you.

drlawizle:
What bebe2 said is a good explanation...cheating is wrong on all fronts agreed but the motives behind it are absolutely different....a man can cheat on his wife and still treat her like d goddess dat she is, love her with allhis heart and take excellent care of his children....wat does dat mean: sex with another woman is just a game to d man...have you ever wondered why a man can still sex a woman he hates so much & still enjoy it (as long as she's sexy)but a woman will find it difficult to even if he's rich & handsome.

On d other hand a woman dat goes out of the 3 reasons I mentioned earlier is capable of murdering his husband and selling off his property and running of with another man...its difficult for it just to be fun for her...you yourself know you were not wired and created dat way... we are all gifted and unique in our own different ways....theres really no point tryin to behave like a man that doesnt attach emotions to sex or thinking men lie when dey say d woman means nothing to him....cos she actually means nothing to him...I understand dat it hurts d woman which is d reason I will never cheat on my wife but what I want you to understand is a man cheating on his wife is absolutely different from a woman cheating on her man.

carefreewannabe will never listen to reason.

She is reading different meaning into the whole thing.

She kept saying the Evil men commit.

Show me where cheating is encouraged in this post. We all condemning it and we are somehow confused about why things are the way they are.

You want equal rights?

Ok but first we must abolish marriage.

Yea, you can't milk a man dry in the name of marriage and still expect enjoy some certain privileges he has as someone who paid your price.

Secondly you must travel back to times of old and undo this tradition that punishes a cheating woman.

Until then............close your legs.

Equal right is not needed here at all cause we are against cheating.

bebe2:
But a virgin has no experience wit different "hormones" so the first outside one she tastes will be the end of u in her life.

Scary