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Jodha:
I'm not really looking for who to mingle with... I'm looking for true undiluted love in it's real self... someone that'll love me unconditionally...not just for how I look...or for my body ...or what I say or do ...but just to love me for me...


As for the expectations and standard....i don't think I can go below my standard.... it's personally what I want....

Somebody who will live u unconditionally

I hope u will love them unconditionally too

sapphiere:
That would be his fault.

Until it happens to ur son, ur brother, ur dad

Crystalom3:
thanks. Pls can you erase the quote?

Done.

But u must tell me thank u if not i will post it back

The thank u i will accept is 1 kobo in cash.

Hahaha

Sixfeetbelle:
You said it happens because of origins. Because of how ladies behave, because they have no substance. And, yes, in a way, it makes sense that guys may want revenge for being taken for a fool by what ladies do to them. But what about children? Are they anything like the ladies that they are being subjected to such depravity?

Read the post inwas referring to. Dont quote me put of context

Rape is wrong no matter who does it and no matter the reason. Simple

But the woman i quoted was referring to how men treat women in general, outside of issues of sex. Thats how i understood what she said. And that was what i was referring to in my response.


As far as i am concerned, no justification for rape. It is evil. Wheter done by men or by women

Homosexual men rape men. Lesbians rape women. Men rape women. Women rape men. All of them is evil

Sixfeetbelle:
I am fighting for justice which is why I didn't dismiss the singer's rape claim like most men here did. I try to empathize with the victim until it is disproved but in that story, most didn't even bother with her.

I know children can be raped, irrespective of gender and that's why I wondered why anyone could use excuse that women get raped because they monetise their pvssy as an excuse. That's the reason I asked that question. Children don't monetise their sexual organs et they still get raped so obviously rape has nothing to do with being a prostitute or not.

And again, ur bias comes out

You said you empathized with the victim.

This shows u already belived the woman is the victim and the man the bad one

What if the woman is the bad one and the man the victim. What if the man is being wrongly accused. Then he is the victim who needs ur empathy right now

Less than a year ago, there was d case of a doctor who was accused of rape by a woman. Initially, people like u believed d woman. When investigated by uk police, the man was cleared and the woman was found to have falsely accused man

Dont rush to side with one party. Dont call one of them victim until the case is investigated please biko mbok

If u have empathy to gove, give it to both parties until the case is investigated. Please. It could be ur son, ur brother, ur dad

Sixfeetbelle:
There's no gender war here.

You're the one that said girls get raped for monetising their pvssy and I had to use that line to show you your error in reasoning. Besides, I purposely went for children (boys inclusive) because those ones don't monetise their pvssy or preek and yet still get raped.

I never said girls get raped because theyrl monetised their pussy.

Read my post again and see what i was responding to.

I was responding to the below

Shortyy:
You know what? I've given up on this topic.

If only women can respect themselves, set high standards for themselves, tell me how they'll be treated like trash, and taken advantage of?

When you know your worth and your standards, you'll not be taken for granted and mistreated.

And just so you know, Nigerian men know nothing about consent. They're toxic, rude, and disrespectful.

They believe women are toys and objects of satisfaction.

Women should either stay on their own or continue to be subjected to this perpetual suffering by Nigerian men.

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Sixfeetbelle:
But some get raped even without eating the man's money. Surely children who get raped in the slums and in face-me-I-face-you neighborhoods did not monetise their pvssy too. So what's the excuse here?

I dont know how old u are. But i pray no female ever abuses or rapes ur son (if u have now or wish to have in the future), because u will not even believe ur son. Just because he has a dick. Which is a big pity.

Madame, fight for justice. Dont fight for justice for women alonw.

Everyday men get raped by womwn too. Little boys get abused and raped by aunties and co. Teenages get raped by women. Adult men get raped by women. Evil is evil irrespective of gender

Sixfeetbelle:
But some get raped even without eating the man's money. Surely children who get raped in the slums and in face-me-I-face-you neighborhoods did not monetise their pvssy too. So what's the excuse here?

There u go with gender war

Is it only female kids that get raped. Even boys get raped by adult women

Or are u saying it doesnt happen?

Evil is evil irrespective of gender

RisenPhoenix1:
It has nothing to do with any gender power struggle. It has to do with eliminating injustice. Men have as much right to be protected from false rape accusations as women do from actual rape. A better question would have been:

"Can a man not be alone with a woman in a hotel room without her accusing him falsely of rape?"

Especially a wealthy man or one with celebrity status.

Thank u. Oil dey ur head

Sixfeetbelle:
Forget that story and focus on my question.

Why is her claim being dismissed?
Is it because she's a prostitute?
Can a prostitute not be raped?
Does the fact that she willingly went into the room with him mean he couldn't have raped her?

Are u saying she should be believed and the man locked up, just based on her words alone

Y are u believeing her words and not the man's words

What if the man is truly innocent

U forget it could be ur son, ur brother ur dad

My point is that a rape accusation should be investigated. If true, the victim is punished. If false, the accuser is punished

Many women have falsely qccused men. Or do u want me to remind u of some high profilee ones?

Stop playing the gender card. Evil is evil irrespective of gender

Shortyy:
You know what? I've given up on this topic.

If only women can respect themselves, set high standards for themselves, tell me how they'll be treated like trash, and taken advantage of?

When you know your worth and your standards, you'll not be taken for granted and mistreated.

And just so you know, Nigerian men know nothing about consent. They're toxic, rude, and disrespectful.

They believe women are toys and objects of satisfaction.

Women should either stay on their own or continue to be subjected to this perpetual suffering by Nigerian men.

Nigerian men do that because Nigerian women have monetised their pussy. When u begin to bill a man for just being ur boyfriend, expecting him to pay ur bills then u lose value in his sight. Then u are like a toy to hi, something to be bought and sold and used and discarded

I am not supporting evil in men, i am only saying how women and society in general contribute to it. So if we want to change things, we need to change it from its deep origins

cosmatika:
I nva for once voted Buhari or APC at any point.
I'm a student of history and knew from his antecedents that he will fail.

Apologies sir.

Seyzcham91:
you right and you smart like me

despite her trying to prove all independent lady, her parasitic nature as so for all women parasitic nature still dominating and revealing itself

see the way she saying it as if its not proper or right to take care of herself and her own need

must a man, boyfriend or partner help you? don't judge your man or other person if you don't really know what they going through

as you might never know he might really wish to be supportive and since he no get the power or might, baba can't kill himsef

the way you were born is how he was also born! everyone struggling now okay, nobody come to this world to struggle and be taking care of other person, we all trying to survive

so you doing yourself a great favor by taking good care or yourself, upgrade yourself by finding another job but what i believe you were asking validation about don't think it.

if i'm right your purpose of this thread is to justify your leaving a struggling man that's trying to survive and going after some yahoo boy that will be lavishing money on you not knowing the outcome on you later.

afterall we all have one or two problems dealing with so this is still your problem keep on racking your brain on solving it. as far as i'm concern na your own side of the story be this i wish hear hin own side before anything cuz you females(vagina people) can't be trusted for anything.

always looking for reason to go Bleep a better person with money in the name of my boyfriend not helping

shiiorr

Thank u sir. God bless u. Oil dey ur head. More oil to ur head

frugal:
Where's the gold? They're both broke.

But what's the point of relationship if you can't help each other when in need?

U said they are both broke. So do u want the man to go steal

cosmatika:
I would have said Buhari should be sent there, but the old Dullard needs some torture.
Except they'll empty all the animals in Buratai's farm on the island to keep him company

Did u. Or did u not

Vote apc in 2015 and 2019

Shugavee:
Because a guy is a little interested in you , don’t mean u should throw all ur cards out there , it’s speaks desperation and any commitment and affection a man doesn’t earn, he takes for granted. Don’t be too afraid to loose a suitor. That’s no assurance he’s sticking with you anyways


Happy weekend

From ur favorite feminist ;

What does the woman do to earn the affection of the man

Or u think you do not have to earn the affection of men? You seem to think its only men who have to work for ur affection? Think again

Goodluck to u

5hanklee:
Omoh! × 99,999,999,999
Dis babe enter and we talked and talked. When it was time to enter, na so I see two holes o!!
Omoh I shock. I no Sabi which one I go carry brother Thomas enter.


I come man up, ask her say which one I go enter. She just vex wear cloth, carry bag, commot my dommot.


E don be be dat. Like say I go carry dis virginity enter next year.

Ignorr all those teasing u. They may have had the same experience

I had the same experience too. The girl refused to tell me which hole. After trying unsuccessfully, we abandoned mission. Mind u she was not a virgin. But she didnt tell me which hole. I was a virgin

Second attmpt with another girl, she happily showed me and guided john thomas in

U will get another chance with a better woman

Just be sure uare old enough and over 18 years old, and the girl u are doijg this with is over 18.

Make sure that u use condom, a good one too, and learn how to use condom

U can google how to use condom and how to remove it after sex. Tbis is to protect u from sexually ttansmitted diseases and protect both of u from unwanted pregnancy

Hassanmaye:
Another lucky man again abeg where did you meet your wife help a brother let me go search my luck

You rightly described it. I was lucky.
Good women are scarce. Very scarce.

I will say just keep being yourself. Never ever try to impress a woman with money or gifts or by doikg ridiculous things

I met my wife at a function. She is tall, slim, very dark complexioned. What attracted me to her was her black skin. I was like, who is this dark skinned lady who never bleached or lightened her skin. I went to her and we spoke. We became friends initially. No dating on the cards. No sex. Just friends. The more i got to know her, the more i realised this is the one for me

First gift i bought her was a wrist watch. For her birthday. It was about 20k. Many years ago, when 20k was money

On my birthday she bought me s phone. A phone worth about 30k then. This is many years ago. When 30k was money

How many women do that.


When she visited me the first time, i didnt cook anything outlandish, or take her out to a nice place. No. She just came to my apartment. I was real. No pretences.

When we go out for meals, we struggle over who pays the bill.

We once went on holiday. I looked at a cloth and liked it. But felt it was too pricey. She insisted on paying for it herself. For me.

Women like that are rare


I wish u luck bro. Just dont pretend. Dont go out for dating. Begin woth friendship. In that way u are likely to see the true person. If thenperson is for u, then move it to dating.

Well, i dont know ur age and if u are in a hurry. I was not in a hurry. And as u said, i was lucky

primestreams:
Following NCC instructions just like the rest MTN Nigeria has decided to make this simple for its customers, MTN customers can now link there NIN with there SIM online without any stress follow the below steps to link your NIN (national identification number) with your MTN number

Requirements:
.MTN Number
.FULL NAME
.NIN NUMBER
.EMAIL ADDRESS

Note:
You must have Gotten your national identification number from the NCC office

Follow steps to link up now

1. Visit the link below

CUSTOMER NIN CAPTURE
https://mtnonline.com/nim/

2.Fill In your MTN number

3. Fill In your NIN Number

4.Fill In Your email number


Finally summit it is very simple please do fast to prevent your SIM from getting blocked



https://twitter.com/MTN180/status/1339433799638274048?s=19



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QL1dbmQH6gI

And if u dont have NIN, how do u go about getting it

I canmot live in a house with a woman that contributes nothing.

If u begin that after marriage, that is reason for divorce

If u sjow me that attitide before marriage, i wont marry u no more

OP, God has revealed who she is to u

Marry her and know her money is hers for make up and clothes and hair and her family, while u slave to death

And when she looks too good for u, she will dump u and marry a richer man

I know i WONT marry a parasite. Thank God for the woman i married. She contributes according to her earning power. Anyday she decides to stop, end of marriage (she is not that kind of womn though)

rusher14:
In light of insecurity which pervades the Nigerian state, facilitated by unidentified individuals taking advantage of the mobile network and the anonymity the prevailing regime accords them, a most useful solution would be to tie phone lines to a database of identification on a national scale.

The ball is in your court, why do you disagree with the idea?

This is y I disagree with the idea. Vast majority of people do not have NIN. 2 weeks is too small for them to get it

Nugerians in diaspora use their naija sim. 2 weeks is too small for them to get NIN and protect their sim

If i am q kidnapper, i will kidnap people who are rich for ransom, then kidnap any poor person on the street. Hold them for a day. Use their number to make calls for ransom from rich family, then release the poor man and his phone. Police will go arrest poor man. I qm free.

If i need more than a day to communicate with rich person family, i will kidnap another poor man amd repeat the same process.

This policy will not solve crimes

Nazgul:
No rich fellow would sneak up on his neighbor's wife. He'll use his wealth to intimidate the husband then openly snatch the wife.

So we can both conclude that the guy in question isn't financially stable.

Hahaha. U make me laugh. Lets agree to disagree sir

Nazgul:
Charge him with being a nuisance to public peace. He's bothering his wife. Opening a file of 5k in a police station will see them deal with him terribly.

And knowing our our police, they can even change the charge to rape, so as to get more bail funds from him. By the time he's done paying himself out from their net, even if the wife greets him, he won't respond.

You are presumimg the accused is poor.

If he is richer, he will slam u with worse and u will go and spend more

Na dt kind thing i dey like when someome i know i can deal with start trouble first. When i start mine, na u go run. U go police, i go CID. U go soldier, i go court slam u with damages.

Forget ooo. Nothing to gain from wahala.

Its not a crime to toast somebody. Its d man's rigjt to toast. Its the woman's right to say no. The man only asked her out. No assault. No rape. So no crime

ENIGMATIC2023:
Forget that conspiracy theorist

And a deluded one for that matter

Aileexa1:
What I want to know is why some Nigerians are so obsessed with who is and is not president.

You guys couldn't put the right leader to govern your country through your votes but here you are, acting delusional for a country you might never visit.
Na wa oh

Thank you. This is what i truly dont understand

navzla:
Ladies love taking pictures in or around cars which are not theirs.Maybe they see owing car(s) as achievement.
I once knew an INEC officer. After every general election he will buy a car.This man do not have a house in his name.The worst of it all is that,,,,,it won't be up to 3 months before he will off the car and go on being broke again.
so is owning a car achievement? No.

You said it all

In my humble opinion, the money u used to buy a car should be money u can afford to lose, money that of stolen u dont mind

I have never ever spent more than 10 percent of my total worth on a car.

A car is not an achievement. Its a means of mobility which u should get if u need it, but make sure u have enough in savings after buying the car, and that u can afford to maintain it

Congratulations sir

Its ok to say no sex

But make sure u dont demand any money from the man

And just like its ok for u to say no sex, its ok for the man to say no giving u money or gifts till marriage

uunwanaobong3:
Thank you my brother.
It like you are the only one who read history in this group

People don't even know who is the real evil
They are allowing Democrats to decieve them.

I think these people does not even know that America civil war was fought by the Republicans (union) lead buy Abraham Lincoln to unit the country and liberate black slave from the hands of the democrat control Confederate army/slave owners.

Are you aware that up til 1950 democrat were still supporting slavery of black men? Are u aware that it was democrat who strongly opposed Black men from voting or being voted for before 1960s

Are you aware that slavery happens in the southern part of US? That is where slaves were forced into plantation farms and are you aware that democrat were in control of those southern states and they were slave owners?

Are you aware that democrat is the oldest party in the USA and they were the main perpetuator of these great evils.

Can you mentioned one good president the democrat have produce, who have the interest of Americans at heart apart from Kennedy.

Don't you know that the descendants of this evil democrat Confederate slave owners still harbour evil and hatred in thair heart against the Republicans (union) and the liberated slaves and they are seeking revenge, that is why they want to destroy the system of freedom.

Do you all know that most of the status destroy during black lives matters protest were that of union leaders, Republicans public figures including Abraham Lincoln who liberated the slaves, some of the liberated slaves status were also destroy..... Are you aware that democrat are trying to rewrite history of the U.S, in order to paint Republicans as the bad ones.

Do you know between democrat and Republicans, ..... Democrats control government have fought more wars around the world than Republicans including the two world wars, Korea war, Vietnam war etc.


It high time people begin to read history.....

Are you away that the Money used in establishing CNN was gotten from the wealth transfer from the grandfather to the present owner through slave trade? ........ That means the owner of CNN grand father was a slave owner. Are you aware?

Are you aware that Joe Biden was one of those legislature who sponsor and passes a bill to incarcerate black men in prison over minor offenses in the 90s

Keep supporting what you don't know simply because CNN told you so

Y are u takimg panadol on usa issues

Y dont u do this type of history and profer solutions to naija issues

Trump and biden dont care about u. They will sell u and Nigeria to achieve thier aim

Make una stop supporting and fighting over trump and biden. Let us use dt energy to make our lives better here in Nigeria.

Na waooo

nniero11:
GO SEE "PARANORMAL" IT'S A MOVIE BRO

Movie u called it. Right?

Movies aint reality. They express someone belief or imagination

Go watch harry porter. Its all imagination. Does that make harry porter happen in real life.

Rareoil:
Did you not read where he wrote she doesn't sleep at night. That she watches and protects him. Abi you skipped it.

He should have mounted a cctv or hidden camera, which will prove decisively whether she does that or not

That u wake up 2 or 3 times and see someone looking at u doesn't mean that person was awake when u were asleep. Or does it?