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IF this story is true please Disown yourself from that family before they kill you. You have your OWN FAMILY now, your WIFE and your CHILDREN which is your number one PRIORITY.

Cut every means of communication from them. But keep intouch with your mother, your mother remains your mother and its your duty to take good care of her no matter how bad she is. Let them talk whatever they want DO NOT let it bother you anymore or distract you from your career.

A house for each member of a family my foot.

blank:
I dey o.

Work has been so stressful. Seems like i am permanently on coffee.

Saw that your old post and couldn't help bursting into laughter.

Yes oo and I really appreciated your post then oo. Infact na only sabi who my other half be. *winks* you guessed right then.

Good to hear you doing great. God is your strength sis, you sure do need a lot of rest.

sucreblazing:
WHO KILLED THIS WOMAN??
A woman was in labour along the road,she
noticed
a YORUBA man passing by and she cries for
help"biko,bia neba,help!".The man replied
"ah!
Omo igbo ni sa!,No,I can't
help you because una no be good people"he
hisses and passed by. The woman sees an
IGBO
man passing by and she cried for help
"biko,bia
neba,help!".The igbo man rushes to help,
he ask"what is your husbands phone no?so
I can
call and inform him on which hospital to
meet
us".she stretches her phone and said"I
saved his no with honey Adewale",the igbo
man responded
in shock "is your husband a yoruba man"?
She
replies" yes"the man angrily said to her"so
you
carry the refinery wey God give the igbos go
give
yoruba people?I no go fit help you again
because
as you dey so you be yoruba person and I
don't help them.nonsense"he concluded and
passes by.
The woman sees a HAUSA man passing
by,she
cried for help "biko,bia neba,help!". The
hausa man
replied "madam,your people I no good atall I
no go
fit help you.when My brother go look for
work for
your brother company, he no give am work
he say because my brother
be aboki,say aboki and your people no be
one
nigeria chikena" he concluded and passes
by.
The woman died by the road side
WHO kILLED THE WOMAN?
A. The Yoruba Man B. The Igbo man
C. The Hausa man
D. Divided nation







please let us desist from hating ourselves ...we are one !!!

together we shall rise as a nation

NONE cause this will never happen. Nigerians are not wicked. We are our brothers keepers. Be it igbo/hausa or yoruba. Nigeria is ONE.

moca:
We r fine o!
Currently idle and looking for people's wahala here

Abeg,employ me na so I can be useful to myself and the society

At least I go dey chop free cake

I'm positive u all are doing fine
Gratias

Yes o my sister we all are doing very very fine to God glory. Lol @ looking for trouble, catch fun sis while it last. And yes you are welcome on board, a lot of free cakes in the house *winks*

moca:
K.
No wahala.
Just take it easy cos wife and family needs u.
D earlier people start accepting the fact that internet wars zapps us of energy emotionally, d better for everybody.

I'm a female o .

Hello sis, longest time. Trust you doing great,family and work.

blank:
Wedon is ujujoan.

Oh thanks sis, noted. How are you doing?

Wedon:
Sweetie you don confuse me tire.

I never would have guessed this was you ooh, had you not MT'ed me.

wow so you are jadlyn07 aka jennykaddry? This is getting more fun. eku ise o, how are you and all yours?

greatgod2012:
With this post i'm quoting, is it wrong to assume that the purpose of this thread is mainly because of tearoses and his/her former moniker?

Can't believe this!

I couldn't have said it any better. Spot on

Dheartless:
I still believe that woman needs to be killed


anyone who supports an attack on an innocent defenceless person needs to be killed

talk more of a 4 days old baby

if na my pickin I go commit murder and I will be happy in prison

this is pure wickedness, even the devil is more merciful than that fat witch.

It is well jare. Nobody would watch that clip and not feel very bad. We thank God the baby is doing fine and the wicked woman has been caught and wunt go unpunished. May God heel the mother of the baby completely from that trauma.

May we all never have reasons or be tempted to commit murder and may God continually protect our kids from dangers.

Dheartless:
I still believe that woman needs to be killed


anyone who supports an attack on an innocent defenceless person needs to be killed

talk more of a 4 days old baby

if na my pickin I go commit murder and I will be happy in prison

this is pure wickedness, even the devil is more merciful than that fat witch.

It is well jare. Nobody would watch that clip and not feel very bad. We thank God the baby is doing fine and the wicked woman has been caught and wunt go unpunished. May God heel the mother of the baby completely from that trauma.

agborodun:
How can one handle an arrogant wife?

Handle Na object you marry abi human being?

EfemenaXY:
Digging up old posts, madam T?

How're you and the family?

Abi o my sis,since sleep no gree come and wasn't in the mood for films. Just decided to read through my topics and post on here ni jare.

We all are doing great ma thanks and yours? So good to hear from you o,been a while. * hugs *

Modesayo:
I can bet it wiv u when the contactions or labour pain starts,you wuld be the one to put the doctor's hand btw ur legs....u v bn preg for 9mnths&i believe u go for antenatal...so what's d fuss about that? Keep on talking to God&i pray for u a safe delivery

You mean after I have had 2 big boys now? Lol

cococandy:
^^^^
They better give her many years behind bars

Many years abi forever in prison sef. Thank God the baby is fine and no permanent damage. I doubt if that woman has kids yet.

EfemenaXY:
^^ You don't say!
No wonder she's been scarce of late. T'is good news sha

And this too.

greatgod2012:
abi o, my sister, each time i jam this thread, i just laugh,if taryour herself check this her thread again, im sure she will burst into laugh. D baby would have become really big now.

Btw, I expect taryour to be warming up 4 another delivery now

Couldn't sleep so I went tru all of my past thread and I came across this, I could stop laughing o.

VolvoS60:
^^^^
OP,

There is a limit to how useful the advice you get from on here will be, no matter how well meaning.

From your posts, it seems you had at least some time to get to know your spouse a bit - you courted and got married over a 2 yr period. From what you say, things were not like this when you began. The biggest problem from what I have read up here is your husband's refusal to communicate honestly with you to resolve the problems in your home.

Until that wall is broken down, all you've got is a lot of trial and error, trying to guess what the problem is. As you can see, some posters have said he's seeing someone else. Some say he's lost interest in the marriage. Some say he may just be introverted. Some say he wants out. And so on.

The problem could be all of these things listed, some of them or none of them at all. All I can say from what I can read here is that your husband has to communicate with you to make your marriage work. You are not a mind reader and trying to guess what the problems are (and how to solve them) is of course, a major frustration. Your husband owes you a duty of communicating with you - you are his wife. Even if he is annoyed with you, tired of you or whatever, he owes you a duty of letting you know what his issues are - if indeed he wants the marriage to work.

There is only so much you can do. I do not want to suggest bringing in third parties to mediate yet - sometimes that causes more harm than good. I would suggest you pour out your thoughts, fears and hopes on paper and give them to your husband to read. Take your time and write him a letter - pour out your heart and let him know that he is driving a wedge between you. A letter may make him less defensive than he would be in a face to face discussion - he can read it without feeling he's being put on the spot. My wife does that sometimes whenever she is upset and she can't get through to me. Take your time to write it - only you can determine if you want to make it long or short - but let him know that you are reaching the end of your rope. Four years is a long time for you to struggle like this. Try this and get back to us.

You may want to look carefully at some of the advice you have been given here. You are the one married to your husband - you alone know his personality, quirks and foibles. Weigh the advice you have been given very carefully. For example, those suggesting you bring a vibrator to bed may be suggesting something that could backfire spectacularly. It is entirely possible that there are men in this world who might finally recognize your cry for help (if you brought a vibrator to bed) for what it is. There are also some men who might actually welcome this new 'equipment' as useful technology . And it is also very possible that for some other men, your bringing a vibrator could be the kiss of death for your marriage. You are the only one who can predict how your man is likely to respond to stuff like that. Nobody here knows him like you do.

Write that letter to him letting him know that he is leaving you with very few options for resolving your problems. You will have to decide for yourself how you want the tone of your letter to be. Best wishes.

Nice input. Words of wisdom.

Fablady:
Possibly but why wouldn't he tell me?

Hmmmm my sister that's for you to find out o, you know your hubby best and how to go about things with him. You really need to talk to him about it and also think very very deep about it.

Mayb he found out something about your past which you dint tell him yourself.

I always advice people to go into their relationships with a clean slate. Lay all your secrets open cause you will be spending the rest of your life together, there should be no secret at all. No matter how horrible,if he or she truly loves you and is your rightful partner he or she will stay with you and start a new life together. Its best said from the right person than finding out elsewhere.

* I am not saying you might have a secret oo *

lordkrato:
No fp for your thread thou

A great comedian you are. Lol

lordkrato:
Okay.. You need company.


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If it were me, she'll be dead in seconds, a quick snap of the neck does the trick mostly...

BUT,

I'll not come here and cry like I'm one goody two shoes... That's a double offense in my book. I see life in black and white so if you're mean, day you are at least that

I no fit laugh abeg. What a comic relief.

lordkrato:
Don't worry, I'll not be coming near hypocrites like you very soon.

Change.

Adieu pendeho..

Errrm mr FAKE, I don't need the likes of you around me anyways. Am just being real here and not pretending or claiming saint like you. I myself do not know what my reaction will be *Gof forbid it happens* it happens to any one I know. I can only but type

Be real man. Am no SAINT neither are you abi no no get blood for your veins ni?

lordkrato:
You're being silly.

In saying if your for vengeance don't bring God's name into it because even he said vengeance is mine... You're just being like all these politicians who pick the wrong words...


Don't worry eh.. I'm sorry for those who take advice from you..

Na you sabi o, mr lordkrato. I don talk my own, you don talk your own. Thank you, oya guy park well.



And besides why not go and preach this your sermon to the judge who sentenced her or the police who arrested or even her boss when she was caught. They could have actually let her go free you know? Abi what do you think? And then she would continue to do that to defenseless babies na abi? Mr self righteous lordkrato.

lordkrato:
Nice use of words to there.. Even though I see it as the ramblings of a self righteous person.

It's Sunday so I understand.

You can't call God one moment and scream torture and murder the next, that's why we have a country like this!!! Must people don't have roots in morals!

I'm well beyond not seeing the farce of a character you are.. Next time look long in the mirror and see the hidden monster in your also because you're no different from that girl..

Self righteous you call it. No wahala, when someone does this to your child path him on the back and say thank you.

lordkrato:
Nice use of words to there.. Even though I see it as the ramblings of a self righteous person.

It's Sunday so I understand.

You can't call God one moment and scream torture and murder the next, that's why we have a country like this!!! Must people don't have roots in morals!

I'm well beyond not seeing the farce of a character you are.. Next time look long in the mirror and see the hidden monster in your also because you're no different from that girl..

Lol. Enjoy yourself man.

lordkrato:
I'm not pretending holy.. You are.

After all you called upon God in your heading...

Alright, kill her.

Does that satisfy your bloodlust?

All these females eh.. Self deceptive species..

OH yes I called God because I felt the pain, I cried watching that video, I remembered the pains I went through during labour and I wept for motherless babies who don't have their real mothers to watch out for them, I cried for babies and children who are molested,abused and maltreated.

And thank God we are not God but humans and for giving us the grace some of us have. May God forgive our sins.

I repeat any one would over react YOU inclusive. Thank God the mother or father of that baby was not there at that moment. Am sure when the parent saw the video the woman must have been arrested or hidden somewhere.

lordkrato:
So martial law for all you're saying right..? That's plain silly.

I'm not supporting her but saying she needs to be killed doesn't make you better.

It's just self righteousness..

I dint say KILL her. I said chop off her hands and her legs and pluck out her eye balls does that mean KILL. Sit down down there and be pretending claiming holy holy, like if that was done to your 4 DAY OLD baby, you will smile and path the nurse on the back and say thank you ma.

lordkrato:
So martial law for all you're saying right..? That's plain silly.

I'm not supporting her but saying she needs to be killed doesn't make you better.

It's just self righteousness..

Abeg quit pretending jare. Anyone will think and say what we can't even do after watching that video YOU inclusive, doesn't mean we will do it. Just be real, its as simple as ABC.

lordkrato:
Can you create humans?

Idiot.

People talking with their arses.. I hope your wish comes true.. People like you need to be killed also ..

Did you watch the vidoe at all Any human being with blood in his or her veins would over react after watching that video and act out of anger. Especially a Mother or a Father or even one who needs a child.

ConfessionsNgr:
I am a 39 year old female banker with one of these new generation banks here in Lagos. I have been working in the banking industry for the past 10 years and I have risen to the top of my career as a regional manager. My rise to the top has not been an easy one but I have been able to do what a girl got to do in order to reach the top if you know what I mean but that is a story for another day. The problem I am having right now is that all my hard work is about to be washed down the drain if care is not taken. The truth is that I have been involved in some underhand dealings in the bank and right now the bank is carrying out a serious audit of our books and has brought in external auditors to audit us. At the moment about three of my colleagues have been indicted and I know that there is no way I can escape this because this is something senior personnel like me have been involved in over a period of time. I have thought of resigning and travelling abroad but that option does not just seem appealing to me. I have a very good relationship with one of the executive directors of our bank but I do not think that he will be able to save me when the poo hits the fan. So right now I am at cross roads as to what to do. I wish I can take this all away. Please advise.


Source: http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/72/the-agony-of-a-banker

sorry dearie you can't escape this, you will be caught. just pray your punishment want be too hard to bear ad you live to teach others no to thread on the same part you did.

its simply called reaping the fruits of what you sowed, either good or bad. may God forgive you.

Fablady:
He can always clean up his phone before getting home in the evenings. Lol.

on a second thought op, you might have offended me in the past. It could be before you got married or after marriage, it might have really broke his heart. He thinks he has forgiven you but deep down he hasn't or hasn't forgotten which is affecting him now and making him act like this. * I could be wrong though * just my thought.