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oluwizard:
Any other June 19th here

June 19th 1976 with proof #5,000 call card in your phone

Another birthday mate of mine. *winks*

Akunyun:
JUNE 19th!

My birthday mate. *winks*

r231:
halloooo......

dont forget to vote tomorrow o and bring us Easter cake after

Ha my oga, me no dey vote oo, I dint register not even talk of having pvc sef. As for me and my children na house we go dey sleep and watching news on election day o. And putting Nija in prayers and for the safety of nigerian citizens o.

I no fit shout oo. Yesterday was so annoying. Fight everywhere and panic movements. So much heavy traffic and que for fuel. My ankle ache so much from long hour of driving.

As I dey now,my kitchen is stocked and na lock up I dey. Not leaving my compound till monday morning by the special grace of God.

May God protect us all these election season. AMEN

damiso:
Hello Sis

Aunty Dami,eku ojo meta. How is family and work?

pickabeau1:
taryour

thanks for the mention
Have a safe weekend with the family

May there be peace this time as we make our choice

I sure will thanks and you too. Ese gan.

edwife:
Hello dear,i am doing fine-hope you are too.

Great to hear from you.

Egbon, good to hear from you too. How is the family and work? Do have a wonderful weekend.

Idowuogbo:
Sweet sis mi, i kuku dey where you put me oo...ko da gan, mi o jeun. Miss you like kilode.

Omo iya mi,biko eat oo. Nothing do you,I miss you too. * hugs*

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Madam Taryour, been a long while. Hope you are doing fine?


Wishing you a great weekend ahead!!! [/color]

Yes o my oga,am doing very fine to the glory of God. How you doing too? Wishing you a great weekend as well.

naijababe:
Madam cake, wetin dey pop nau?

My sister am fine oo. Got a lot up lately. Relocating plus opening a new outlet which is taking a lot of my time. How are you and all yours?trust you all are doing great.

Idowuogbo:
awww...omo iya wassup nau? how every and famz? she gbogbo e jo ra won

Id baby longest time.

Tunapa,efemenaXy,naijababe,damiso,edwife,r231,pickabeau01,greatgod,mocca,oga bellong,aunty cc,royalroy,ewuro4 E.t.c

Chai I don forget plenty names oo. Pardon me abeg.

I greet all of una o.

I miss this thread so so much. * subs and quietly walks out *

A child is a child. Either male or female. The most important thing is how a child is raised. May we all give birth and raise prosperous children in the right path whom will make us proud parents. It all by God grace.

babyosisi:
This is my post on my marital advise thread
So I understand fully the situation of a woman who is pushed to ask her husband to choose.
Many people speaking her,speak out of ignorance so I excuse you
Unless you have been there,you have no clue
I also wrote that within a short while of meeting my hubby he told me his mom was a tough person
I was soon to find out what that meant.
This is my story.ait is hard to summarize 4 months into one post.it was torture.

And you feel what your 6 year old daughter did by throwing her grandmother bible under the bed in anger because she took the phone from her and slammed it was proper? Towards her own grandmother I just wonder what her height of anger would be.

And you also think packing your mother inlaws stuff and throwing them out is justified Hmmmmm I laugh in spanish, I hope your children dint see you do that,most especially your 6 year old daughter cause am sure will grow up thinking all mother inlaws should be treated as such.

Anyways its your home and your choice NOT mine.

babyosisi:
Please are you married and with a mother inlaw?
If you were the young woman whose MIL poured hot soup on her because the soup didn't have salt and the same MIL flogged her,would you be saying this?
In a normal situation greatgod's advise will fly but those words about choosing don't occur in those normal situations and that is what those who don't buy what you are saying are trying to stress
There are men who know from birth that their mothers are difficult,it is their duty to protect that wife from that mother they know too well.

YES I am married and a PROUD mother of 2 BIG BOYS. And yes I have a mother inlaw. And I look forward to being a very good mother inlaw to my sons wife in future. Because whatever my inlaw does I take it that its my own mother that did it to me, cause truly whatever our own mothers do to us we still stay together forever and that's cause we don't have a choice.

Like a proverb that goes thus " do you trow the bath water away with the baby ". The woman that hot soup was poured on only said the version of the hot soup, we never heard the full gist or where it all began. So you can't just conclude the mother inlaw is that bad.

No human is perfect, even we as wives and mothers are not perfect so learning to tolerate and patient is the KEY. Your mother inlaw remains your mother inlaw. You can not change that. You either take it or leave it.

Some mother inlaws are bad yes but what do you want to do about it? The world isn't going to end because of mother inlaws.

My point still remains. IF you can not love the mother of a man as if she were your mother then DO NOT marry the man.

A mother would have shown signs of a good or bad mother inlaw before marriage so if the woman then decides to go ahead then by all means should be ready to accept the mother inlaw as she is.

I really don't know why this thread is so difficult to comprehend to some folks here o. The logic is simple. " If you can not marry a man loving his mother the same way you love your own mother then please DO NOT marry the man "

Afterall its not like we all grew up without having quarrels and arguments with our own mothers even our grandmothers. We all has mothers will also become mother inlaws one day.

You should learn to tolerate things once you are married cause a whole lot will come your way, however you handle determines your happiness and rest of mind.


Even in worse scenarios there are still more sensible and matured ways to iron things out,rather than telling a man to choose between his mother and his wife. Its never possible cause he would choose his mother and this will just hurt the wife more so what's the point.

Its so so dis respecting, that's the height of F00lishness. No matter how frustrating she is,she isn't going to leave with you forever na just hold on for that short while and learn to love her the way she is.

cynhamscakes:
Still waiting ooo.

I have exactly like that sis. So far so good. Bought it like a year ago.

Am so going to learn from this thread. Am in same situation and its so so annoying. My boys would win Gold medal if there were to be a crying contest.

Now am so used to their cry I just ignore.

Evina:
really? Do you know the person of whom I speak? gurl, how can you speak so strongly about people you know absolutely nothing about? Is that how you impose your opinions on others? So laughable!

Listen! The ONLY requirement to receiving a miracle, is believing in the infinite capabilities of God!

What many people like you term foolishness is what God delights in using to confirm His supremacy!

Please note, that I am not interested in entering a debate with you about the limitless possibilities with God, because I understand that you are speaking from your limited experiences.

So, you are free to air those opinions but don't force them on others by insisting on firmly stating assumptions about people you DON'T know!

Yea right but I put this to you that I DO NOT also intend having a debate with you. And point of correction, am also taking from experience. I personally know a couple who lot 2 kids to SS.

Secondly my 2nd immediate younger sister had to break up with a fiance cause he was As as well. And this my sister very strong in christ. Still she dint act f00lish to go ahead because she had a strong faith but because she knew God had a better plan for her feature of a good husband and very healthy children. She is someone I secretly admire her faith and closeness to christ.

I do not just post on any thread on nairaland except i have real facts, knowledge and enough experience to back up my post.

Enough said thanks.

DuchessLily:
It is not tempting GOD....she wasn't aware when she married him. Now she has married him

Do u think God prefers d divorce

I guess HE would be shaking his head and saying...."oh u woman of little no faith"

If that is the case then they should continue being married but without having ANYMORE kids till that miracle happens.

DuchessLily:
It is not tempting GOD....she wasn't aware when she married him. Now she has married him

Do u think God prefers d divorce

I guess HE would be shaking his head and saying...."oh u woman of little no faith"

Double post.

Evina:
Hallelujah!!!

You can only speak for yourself.
And what do you mean by "not the one you can clearly see?" Is God incapable of performing miracles because you can "clearly see" the problem?

If a couple who are both aware they are AS,then decide not to have any kids until a miracle happens then by all means its possible.

But when the couples are aware they are AS and proceed to having kids with the high risk, waiting on FAITH and PRAYERS then please that's F00LISHNESS!!!

DO NOT PUT YOUR GOD TO A TEST.

In the miracle you share now, the guy was single I guess and am most certain that if that change dint take place he will NEVER marry an AS even if he had the strongest FAITH.

DuchessLily:
Yes dear, love , faith and pray

They r married already... If they were not married I would advice her/them not to try getting married @ all

But d deed has already been done

Indeed, I believe you are a christian right? Please what does your bible say about putting GOD to a test??

This isn't about LOVE , FAITH and PRAY at all. Its being realistic and facing the facts. What's the point bringing a child life to suffer the f00lish acts of their parents in the name of LOVE and FAITH. Why do you think the parents wunt end up hating each other due to the pains,agony,sorrow,stress,bills,sleepless night of watching over a sick child, endless appointments with doctors and with less hope of a long term recovery.

How will the parents deal with a child knowing fully well that he or she fall ill at any given time which is not same with other kids he knows Knowing fully well that the innocent childs days are numbered,will that make the parents LOVE stronger.

At the end of it all they might end up blaming God for not answering their prayer whereas they caused the big problem themselves.

The worst thing that can happen to a mother is loosing her child while she is alive, more worse when the parents caused it.

Its a diffrent ball game if they were not aware,but in this jet age... Please
Prevention they say is better than cure.

That woman took the best decision she could ever take in her life. All you posters saying she made the wrong move,I wonder what you would if they end up having a child who is ss. Abeg leave matter you wunt be there to nurse a sick child with her o.

Goodnuel:
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babyosisi:
I was talking with some younger colleagues and the issue of marriage came up and I stated that I will not marry more than once.
This is it for me
I am sure some were surprised to hear that especially in a society where divorce and re-marriage was the norm
Not for me
While I cannot control anyone's action but hypothetically just for the sake of conversation,my husband decides tomorrow that he is done with me and found someone else and we part ways,I will not remarry.
Marriage is a lot of hard work,marriage is tough
It takes a lot of energy to learn another person,adapt to him and him to you,raise a family, adapt to the extended family
We have gone through some real tough times together financial and emotional and matured together too
I can only do that once
I cannot at this stage start dealing with a new man and his temperaments or his kids from someone else and his family.

This resolve makes me work harder to make this work because this is my only chance.i don't want to try again with someone new.
If I married a man I fell head over heels with and happy to spend my life with and it doesn't work,who the heck will it work with?

I will just ask people to pray that I don't live in fornication or I contact Chaircover to sell me some of those her gadgets but as for remarrying and starting this all over with a brand new man?
Never

True sis. God bless your home.