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intbizoil:
madam op snoop on his phone for a week. There lies your answers. Thank me later

I for one detest the idea of checking people's phone.just my person. my hubby's phone could ring from now till thy Kingdom come I go just dey look am. even before I got married I don't touch my siblings phones or my parents, I just hate the idea.

@op please do not do that, it will only complicate matter, whatever is hidden will be opened sooner than you expect, it can never be hidden forever.

5minsmadness:
Problems deciphered so far:
1. Romantically frustrated wife.
2. Introverted husband.
3. Introverted wife.
4. 4yrs of marriage yet no kids.
5. Strange boring and scarce sex in which wife recieves less than 90% of sper..m.

For those of you thinking this man is cheating I highly doubt that is the case. It all lies in thier sexua.l lives. Something is not right.
@fablady, can u elaborate more on the 90% absent sper.m?

you could be right, the man might not be cheating or even have a thought of it. He just might have lost the attraction and bond between them. No matter how much she tries he just might never look back

hmm mm this one na real long thing oo. One really can't say till u experience it sha. As for me I will return the money But if na one yeye bank official that wants to steal
someone's money now mistakenly transfer the money to my act I doubt if I will return it o.abi a politician money. na my own share of national cake be that o. lol

on a second though again, I ask myself the question * can I really do that ? *
I don't think I have the mind to do it oo, conscience fit kill me o,..... It is well. God help us all, make one small sin/mistake no destroy our life jare.

Ewuro4:
That was the exact trauma I experienced in 2012 from similar video on NL too. I almost consulted a shrink before I got over it. I was obsessed with my kids safety & prayed over my kids every freaking day & night, my husband almost banned me from NL. It's sick sick sick how people behave. I'm frustrated.

hmm my sister, it is well. I held my tummy tight and remembered the pains of labour. what wickedness from a woman. to think the mother of that baby will sleep peacefully with the believe that her little angel is in safe hands.

salsera:
I googled this online

Seems happened in Bulgaria and aside from physically hitting the baby,strangling, she also used a bottle.
Baby had a number of injuries to the head required surgery and is currently stable showing vital signs. Nurse has been arrested.

I knew it. There was no way that baby wunt have injuries. I just hope it doesn't lead to and permanent damage.

That nurse doesn't need to be arrested alone. They need to chop off her 2 hands and her legs and her eyes plucked out. * God forgive me *

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Here is wishing our Esteemed and wonderful Family/Friends/loves Ones/ Customers a happy new month. Also to thank you for all your love and support God bless you all abundantly.
In our quest to serve you better,we are happy to inform you of a new outlet has been opened to the Glory of God @ no 1 Olayiwola Street, New Oko Oba,by lasu junction ( jim aro bustop ) Abule egba. Lagos.

Looking forward to meeting your demands at all times and exceeding your expectations exceptionally.

N.B : Please also be informed that training is on going and our new pin is. 33313FAC. And our direct line remains still remains 08061385853 which can also be reached on whats app.

Also like our Face book page(s) https://m.facebook.com/BoashCakesAndEvents?refid=52&__tn__=C.

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Fablady:
Yes I work. I come home and do house chores. In my free time, I try to talk to him but when he is not willing, I watch tv or read books.

You are a strong woman oo, for 4 years. You have really tried.

LWKMD. Whoever wants to share her man and the father of her children

Faithful partner : happy home. Happy children. Progressive family. Success in all you do cause your spouse will always pray for you, Rest of mind. Beautiful life. Inner peace. All of these CANNOT be bought with the riches of this world.

Fablady:
Seldom does - can go as long as once in 2 months. And when I try to force it, it does not end well.

Sorry sis,gotta hit the nail on the head. If its has bad as once in 2 months and he comes home everyday from work. Abeg e be like say somebody dey service am outside oo.

S3X is too important in a happy marriage oo. If he wasn't coming home everyday is different but seeing you everyday and laying next to you on the bed and not touch you for that long. Oga o. Abeg which kain tiredness be that or hotness him dey feel.

But of course you dint expect him to admit he is cheating on you when you raise the topic na * who does that * ,he will definately deny and defend himself o.


WHAT SHOULD YOU DO Start the game of ignoring him jare. Make imaginary calls like you chatting with girlfriends and gist all the way. Continue with your normal life. Be happy and strong, dress beautifully has you do when you were dating which attracted him.

Even if you not happy, pretend you are and ignore him. Treat him like you dint know he was in the house. Fake calls in his presence and laugh out loud BUT DO NOT CHEAT ON HIM O, my assumptions my be wrong.

* you could also fake you are sell servicing yourself * moan out loud such that he wakes up from his sleep. You sabo this tricks na, you are a woman.

If he truly loves you, jealousy will make him run back to your arms BUT if nothing works then you are on a lonhg thing oo..

cococandy:
some people are not mentally balanced. That's just the explanation. No thinking human can do this.

I could not sleep well at all. That video never left my head, I woke up this morning and cried again. Oh God that baby got several blows to the head and hits on the back. I pray so hard that baby doesn't suffer any damage to the brain or ribs or even spinal cord. Still feeling so bitter

cococandy:
at a point I wanted to console myself so until I remembered the baby moved at the beginning part of the video.
Except it is a moving toy.

Cococandy did you watch it till the end? For like 2/3 minutes d baby dint move. This point my cousin was d one consoling me then the baby moved and I was relieved abit only for the nurse to appear again and continued. She tried to kill that baby.

God know how many baby she had done that to before the camera was installed. And the mother will be happy thinking her child was in good hands.

EfemenaXY:
Your description is more than enough. I don't think I'll watch it.

To upload a video if it's from youtube (I doubt this one is), simply click on the "share" link, then copy and paste on here.

thanks sis done..

Have been cry so much for the past 20minutes since I watched this video. Tried posting the video for all to see but don't know how. Please if you open the link and can help upload it please do.

Parents need to see what a woman did to this 4 day old baby at a pediatric clinic: the baby woke up and cried,surveillance camera recorded what she did.


www.pinoymovie4k.pw/2015/04/shocking-what-this-woman-did-to-4-day.html?m=1

Wicked nurse caught on camera:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PA5UPSErS2E

I feel so scared taking my children to school on monday.

Royalroy,EfemenaXY,Ewuro4,tearoses
. Please how do I upload videos here?

level10:
thanks for your contribution, I appreciate....please, I need you answer on this second question. from a lady's point of view.

I called her yesterday and her line was on *call waiting for about 10mins..I asked her who she was on phone with..she said it's a friend. ..so, today I went tru her phone and saw a particular guy's number...he calls her like 3times a week...(long calls).....

question

1) is it a norm, that a girl receives long calls from other guys when she claims to have a bf..

2) do u think I have anything to worry about.

I really don't know what you want to hear o. Is it that your scared of facing the truth or what. Are you a MAN or a boy If you are a boy then stay in the relationship BUT if you are a MAN then please ACT like one and make things right.

Empressgifted:
One of the main things that leads to extreme shyness and low self-esteem is masturbation. If you are involved in such or watching porn pls keep off it destroys both psycologically and spiritually.

That being said, try to be less self-conscious, focus your attention more on things happening around you than on yourself. Try to free yourself more around your peers but don't let them influence you negatively, compliment people around you on their clothes, achievements and on occasions like their birthdays.

Don't let anyone convince you that joining a cult or getting a girlfriend will make you flow with the flow, trust me if you have a brighter focus in life then these things will compound your problems because you seem to be a very sensitive person.

My advice is, make God your friend, draw closer to him and he will draw closer to you, study his word steadily and ask him for the grace to overcome your fears because if you don't tackle this problem now you might loose many opportunities in life as a result of it and pls don't overlook this, it's not something you can just outgrow.

WHAT!!! You gotta be kidding me with your first paragraph. Oh God in heavens. So your conclusion is that every shy person or person with low self esteem MASTURBATES

You need to be examined and you saying it with all confidence. Oga o.

Please if you have been saying this to people abeg stop am. If only you know the damage you must have caused or made their problems worse.

@ op please read the book WHY YOU ACT THE WAY YOU ACT/DO by TIM LAHAYE. You will be a melancholy or a combination of Melancholy and phlegmatic. That book will expose you to a lot about your personality and to deal with it.

Please note that its no big deal and you will be fine, a lot of people are going tru and have gone tru same so its no new thing under the sun. Good luck.

mukhcech:
I remember in my early primary school days, I was
thought by my teacher that the father is the Head of
the family or home. In reiterating his headship we
were meant to understand that his sole responsiblity
is to provide for the Home I.e The man first
responsibility is in working to provide for his
immediate family. Social studies was the subject. I
don't know if this subject is still in the Nigerian
curriculum or if that topic is still in the syllabus but in
Nigeria over the last one to two decades there has
been a lot of clamour for gender equality, equal job
opportunities for men and women. And I am
perplexed and forced to ask this question? Is
providing for the Home still the sole responsibility of
the man? Ur sincere contribution I seek. Thank you.

YES it is. And its in the wife best interest to support her family with her own quota no matter how small it is.

Goovo:
Dear Family

Have been wondering about this, most homes in nigeria, during celebration of a new born into the family, the women goes around spraying powder, rubbing it on their neck, some would even 'baff' with it.lolz

My question is, what is the essence of this? Does the powder has any connotation or meaning?

Just wondering

MOST HOMES Guess you have been to 90 percent of homes in Nigeria and also been around 90 percent of all babies in Nigeria to arrive at this conclusion.

Well I have never seen it before and nobody did this when I had my kids and family and loved ones dint do it either. Or may there is a particular tribe that does that and NOT most homes as you think.

RoyalBlak007:
anoda boring 1876 nollywood script

LWKMD. I couldn't have said it better.

And you dint say anything for 10 years. Hmmm I understand the feeling of shame you had. But really you should have told your mum. Only God know how many other girls he has done that to after you.

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megan1:
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Ewuro4:
*Dancing Azonto* Thanks for coming back. We miss you like kilode

Greatgod2012 & Tayour

Good night and have a great week yall.

Thanks sis. How you doing and all yours.


@tearoses. Welcome back sis. Good to have you back egbon.

greatgod2012:
Good morning house, I just noticed that chaircover has deactivated her account. Please, I'm worried, what happened? For those who have her contacts, please let us contact her to verify her well being. Thanks.
May God be with us all
Amen.

Have tried reaching her for over a month now can't get through. But am certain all is fine. Might pay a visit this week by the grace of God.

So funny. This is typical of what my boys did this morning. They woke up around 4am today. I was too sleepy to even attend to them cause went to bed late.

I woke up after about an hour and found them both in the sitting room with their body cream (shear butter/ori ) rubbed all over their faces,head and on the rug. First thing that caught my attention was my younger son face,his face was so oily and all of his hair was creamy,his brother was same. I just stated laughing at them cause I couldn't beat them.

I went into their room and meet it upside down, their shoe rack was off and shoes every where.

It was funny but not easy getting the whole cream off the rug.

I would have spanked them both but when I asked them why they did that, they started laughing and running up and down. Na wetin I go do? Kids indeed beautify our worlds.

Getting them to bath was another episode. Lol

Na true Destiny resetting. Very good for him. For him next life he will be wise enough to choose a better destiny.

Tgirl4real:
Amen.

We should pray that God grants them the courage and wisdom they need to rule as they ought.

Hi sis. Longest time o. How have you been? I lost your contact o. Please get in touch please.

Ewuro4:
He actually looks like him

Seriously?? Make I go ask my personal person.
How are you sis and all yours?

Caracta:
Jaybee3?

Lobatan oo. Lol

irunoobo:


Who cares

And you intend being a mother someday You will also be praying to be congratulated on the birth of your own child What a soul you have in you.


@ Topic: The missing girl will be found soonest IJN. AMEN.

Bplati:
What really makes one religion better than the other?

Nothing makes one religion better than the other. It all depends on your choice of religion and your belief. Serving one true GOD and doing unto others what you want done to you.