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Omo Poster: you have nothing to worry about except if your body no resemble boxer and wrestler own, then you may need to go to the gym and muscle up, because e be like say your baby de send wella for dat kind Stone Cold Austin body ooh

@Poster:
You can tell your paddy say make him help am but on condition say from then on de girl must agree to dey give am de coochie for FOC any time on demand; otherwise make she carry leg waka.

@Lola:
You have already identified the cause of his behaviour, and somebody rightly said trust is earned; what he therefore needs is patience and understanding and above all, assurance it wouldn't to him again in this relationship.

If you love him enough and want the relationship, then it is up to you try to win his trust through your actions not just words. By all indications, you are already doing just fine by not falling into his traps; he is just testing and if you keep passing with flying colours, sooner or later he would have no reason to doubt you any more and will have to give up.

This would no doubt require a great deal of patience from you, because I can imagine how uncomfortable (even demeaning) it is to be constantly under the microscope; but if he should continue unchanged beyond this point then there will be no need continuing in such relationship.

In the interim, appreciate he came to you as damaged goods, he therefore needs to be nursed and nurtured back to normality, look at it as your job (a sacrifice for love) - now that your still together. Good luck. 

@Poster:
Your list no complete till you add born2fuck and MOBO wetin sef, dis guys de very romantic and de girls dey even send for dem wella

Subscribing to this position whole heartedly

@Poster:
I am interested, please contact me via my e-mail addy, tashanja@419.com

@ Poster:
You claim you want reality yet you continue to be in denial, burying your head in the sand like an ostrich.

The truth and harsh reality of life is that we can't always get what we want but only what we can - its as simple as that.

Your girl clearly doesn't want you no more and already told you so, what else do you want? Why must she have to give it to you in graphical details before you will accept the truth and move on.

Note, everybody on this thread can easily see it, so why can't you see it for yourself - after all we can't all be wrong.

Also note that Sexkills was only giving you the formula to act upon the (slimmest of) hope, based on your expressed wish to win her back; but I am sure even he too wouldn't  tell you that it was the wisest of options opened to you.

For goodness sake get a grip man, don't be wimp, move on; or else even if you were to succeed, you would have only succeeded in marrying a woman whose fidelity and commitment to you would always be questionable - to say the least.

You are unfortunately behaving like a drowning person ready to clasp the sharp end of a sword in order to save this relationship; but believe me man, she is clearly not the right woman for you - much as you may love and want her back, the more you try the more you would be pushing her into more lies and seemingly this endless circle of deceit.  

Sorry for telling you the bitter truth.

Yeah, the whole thing (representation) stinks and lacks authenticity and quite frankly many of the girls also are below par.