well i view them as human beings but the ones i hate are the oyinbo gals that feel every black man is attracted to them.

I also hate the ones that call beautiful slim women sticks or bag of bones to make themselves feel better when they look like moby dick in pampers

so what is the point of this video. Are you saying that just because a child picked a white doll his parents have something to do with it?

Low self esteem is not as simple to be easily traced to the fault of a parent.

5 children can grow up with the same religious parents, who love them all equally and still one of them can turn out to be an atheist, gay or even in this case posses low self esteem.

You can show your child all the love and admiration in the world and he can still have a low self esteem.

Havant you seen cases where one brother is outgoing funny and charming while the other brother is withdrawn and shy. Are you going to tell me that the outgoing child was much more favoured and adored by the parents?

lets be real. if u are living in nigeria yes u would because thats the only thing you can get or try to get lol but if u were living a place like america or europe you wouldnt. When i left nigeria i only had only a single experience with a nigerian gal.

have u met all d men in the world

am sure the video was made by an angry black woman lol

You cannot blame a parent for everything a child turns out to be. Self esteem like anything else is a belief. To be exact a belief of ones self but at the end of the day it's still a belief just like religion.

To make my pount am going to use religion. Just because you are brought up in a religious home don't mean you are not going to turn out to be an atheist at the age of 30.

Because we are a third world country heading for the fourth title very soon

I think self esteem all boils down to the personality of the individual. While parents might have little or no influence on a child's self esteem you have to realise that no two kids of the same parent are the same. Not all children are the black sheep of the family or end up with a low self esteem.

looool Africans n their superstitions

so lemme get this straight just coz he is old he is not allowed to voice his opinion. and to all you people wey dey tyalk wetin concern am wetin come concern you people say he talk wetin him talk

The man is a fool. Who is he to speak for God's like and dislike. No where in the Bible is the word trouser mentioned.

Nigerians and their naiveness. So If u associate eating in your dream to demons what would you relate sleep walking to. Are you saying people that sleep walk and perform activities like cooking, eating or even gyming are condemned. This is 2012 we need to shed this village mentality and do some research.

You are not capable of controlling what happens in a dream or your actions.

Now that's what I call a real woman. Someone who looks at the state of things, is not happy and makes things happen for herself. This is 2012. It is only barbaric old school men that would be looking for a housewife to assume the role of baby factory machine. If only African women can learn a thing or two from this

I would prefer head to kissing anyway.

Like a wiseman said. Sex without head is like a sandwich without bread.

sexkillz:

Love and Integrity, which comes first?

If i dont love her, will i keep my integrity to her? Does integrity function without love?

i am not a vulcanizer im tired of twisting words believe what you wanna believe. its a free world fam. the thread was a question for everyone and i simply answered with my opinion and gave some logical explanation.

if love helps you sleep at nite then goodluck. for me i dont believe in it.

sexkillz:

No! That's the way you love. That's not the way it is meant to be! If you had ulterior motives prior to entering the relationship, then that is applicable. Like i said earlier, true love manifests it's self when "those" things are gone! Ask your self if you will divorce your wife for no offence committed except that she had bre[i]a[/i]st cancer, and her right bre[i]a[/i]st was cut off. . . Answer! That's not respect! How many parents have refused to pay up their children's school fees all because the children did not respect them?
So what keeps an old married couple together? The woman's skin is so frail, and her bo[i]o[/i]bs are so flaccid! The man cannot even command johnny to stand, But they are still together. . .

hey i never argued morals with you. whether it is right or wrong is not my issue. hate the game dont hate the player.

regarding issue of divorcing my wife with cancer  and your old couple storyline, the whole rule that applies there is integrity. Like i said earlier its not about love its about trust tolerance and understanding. If you really believe in love why would any man loose intrest in a girl he thinks the world of only for her to tell him she has HIV on their first date.

Regarding the respect issue you completely lost the plot.

Children will only respect their parents because of fear of what they might be deprived of. Now if a child starts earning more money than his parents, his parents opinion are no longer of meaning to him. if u dont believe me then take a trip down europe

sexkillz:

Are you saying it's only in such cases that true love exists? What if the poor penniless man is marrying her for her good looks, cars, or her shoes? Would you still believe it's real love?

True love is found when money is not a determinant to love, from either the man, or the woman!

We all love people for a reason and once that reason leaves so does the love.
same thing goes with respect. We all respect our parents because of fear. Fear that if we dont respect them our school fees will not be paid or we wont have a place to sleep or pocket money.
Men love women for their looks and assets but when its all gone guess what so does the love.
women love men for thier status, money and in some cases looks but once that goes the woman goes.
such is life.

sexkillz:

I get your point! It has to be mutual. You can not give up a limb because of those things in bold, right? That means you will for something more! Romantic love exists, but it is made more manifest when your good looks, cars and shoes are all gone! If she sticks wit you then, that's true love. But even i have to admit that it is quite rare! It's rarity doesnt mean it's non existence!

show me a rich woman who married a poor pennyless man and i will start believing in real love

sexkillz:

You dont know the meaning of true love, hence it's non existence to you! Now lemme ask you. For love to wear off means it existed, right? Else you wouldnt have asked "why does it wear off?"
Does the word "love" have an antonym? What's the antonym of love? If the antonym of love exists, why would someone say "love does not exist? Love is not restricted to romantic love alone, and that's the mistake a whole lot of people make!
If you love someone, you'll never hurt them, or think of hurting them emotionally, especially!

and lemme guess you know the meaning of true love right? love Doctor. loool
love exists in different forms. Am not here to argue about whether the love for a mother to a child exists.
We are all argueing about this so called romantic love between a man and a woman. I dunno about you but as selfish as it sounds i cannot give up a limb for a woman who likes me probably because im good looking, the car i drive or the shoes on my feet.

true love does not exist. it only exists in a womans world
if love exists why then does it wear off?
why do you jump from partner to partner under the guise that your last relationship didnt work out
why do men in love say to their women you are the most beautiful girl in the world and after sleeping with her realize that they are better looking women out there for them.
why do rich women not get married to poor or handicapped good looking men?
its all a fictious feeling that we hold on to to feel hopeful.

what i personally believe is that we men give up hence the word settle down. we men are all dogs but we realize that we are not getting younger so we choose to do what society dictates as normal; get married.

i believe in understanding, tolerance and trust but love hell noo

s-e-x yes relationship a no no

Mrs, Chima:

You are okay suga?

im not sure if this is a statement, insult or a question. hmmmn

Me like to think of meself as Jamaican today. Nigerian 2moro.

Mrs, Chima:

Yall some curried goat eating mofos.

TruSt me u would love some curry goat with sum jerk chicken by the side

Yh that's d way to go. Men miss mums ackee. Hmmnnn u Jamaican too. Wargwan yardiegal

What u hate Jamaican food? Dumplings anyone?

MsDarkSkin:

Dude youre half jamaican?

Last time I checked moms still made rice and peas with curry goat meat.

Why should you care what strangers you are likely never to meet offline think about you. You got family and friends who think d world of you. The Internet is the worst place to look for attention.  

Real talk if I was Tiwa I would not even reply the tweet.  Look at justin bieber . He got mad haters everywhere. Do u think he has the time to  respond to hateful youtube messages and tweets  

In d words of chipmunk opinions ain't facts u got 2 take em in and let it go. The motto is bleep wot everybody say coz d money in the way. PeoPle will always talk. That's life. Talk later joor. Chics Plenty for gym today. Oulala

damn that dude insulting tiwa although rude was funny as hell. I really need to jump on this twitter bizniz. If tiwa was as beautiful as you call it why did she have to respond?

@poster this is life, people will always try to knock your confidence. No one is innocent. You have also put someone down before in this lifetime.


Get used to it.

Missy_B:

Yes, as long as the beating is done under the sheets.

damn u are so so freaky

me being half jamaican i would date any gal from wherever as long as she comes correct.

zoomman:

I,as a guy,luvs hairy ladies.dey r always cute

Please tell me you are kidding