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Lost my best friend in d year 2019. We actually saw each other in July but I was shocked to hear d news of her demise in September. She slumbed and died. Since then, I have not seen someone who can replace her in my heart. We did everything together, even when she died, her spirit usually visited me. Anytime I wanted to sleep she would stand by my bed side.

Paying your parents rent of over700k, when they are supposed to be living in their own house. When will they continue to pay rent? Instead of using d money for something people will question its source because of your age, why not get a land and develop it first, then move your parents in. Then continue to hustle. Just don't go into internet frauding o.

God bless you for helping her, your own children too will help you.

Start doing night vigil between a period of 12am to 3am with serious and aggressive prayers. Do this for a week, you will see a total change. Don't stop d night prayers until you no longer experience it, then gather money and leave d fucking house.

Sir, from your write up, it shows you are only looking for a woman who will serve you and your children. Since you are a widower, why not look for a widow with children? All indications show you don't want to take care of someone else's children but looking for a woman to take care of your children. Even looking for someone with childlessness issue, which woman in her right sense will marry someone she wouldn't want to have child (ren) for, even as she is having difficulty in getting pregnant. U are been selfish here, sir.

Any guy body shaming women is indirectly body shaming his mama at home.

Lalami3232:
Na so marriage suppose to be, not what we're seeing nowadays. Today if you mistakenly annoy your partner, the next step na divorce. Dem think say marriage na bed of roses. We dey even take pride in divorce sef. You go hear people dey say "I don't take shit from anyone ooooo", "marriage is to be enjoyed, not endured" bla bla bla. No perfect union anywhere. People wey we dey see wey don marry for years learnt how to tolerate, forgive and accept their partners for who they are. God know say I can never divorce my wife, except on the ground say na life/death situation. A friend of mine wey he marriage dey barely 2yrs dey ask me of divorce proceeding, I just look am and hiss. Funny enough eeh, na the women dey suffer for the divorce matter pass because before dem go see a better man, street don fvck dem tire. Small boys wey no reach to talk to you before go come. He too go wan still try luck weather he fit still shine your Congo and move. My dear men/women for nairaland, divorce is not the best option, that's if the situation isn't life threatening. No perfect union out there!!! Try to make yours work if you can


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "no perfect marriage out there. Try to make yours work and you would be glad you did"

I was expecting your usual if I born a girl child ending. And na your type dey born all girls.

Happy birthday grandpa. Many more years in good health! Igba odun odun kan o!

Healfastijn:
God help us, those who have healthy hearts don't know what God has done for them. Give me and anyone battling with heart diseases a perfect heart healing.

I pray that the healing hand of God rest on you IJN. May He restore your health back. By the stripes of our Lord Jesus you are healed IJN. I will always pray for you

Why do you look shakushaku? U and your wife should have worn something better.

U should have apologized. Some times, we apologise for somethings we are not guilty of.

Thank God you have started working, save up and get an apartment for yourself. U are an adult, so move out of their house.

If you don't want to die untimely, divorce that devil you called wife. U can also move out of the house to somewhere else to finalise your divorce. Send upkeep to her to for your children. This thing is so common among the Igbo women.

This is so bad of your girl, simple current affairs. I'm a lady but there is nothing you ask me about things happening that I won't answer you, though might not be in full details, even in sports. At least one should be able to know what is happening around, not just to be pressing phone and watching tiktok videos.

But as a security in a community, sebi you supposed have numbers of all d community leaders saved in your phone, so incase of a situation like this, you for just call the community head to inform him of what is going on at d security post. Whatever the man says, it's what you will follow. Don't worry, better jobs are coming. Cheer up!

Any guy here body shaming women is obviously referring to his mama

Op is a nairaland o and he has been mute to all the questions everyone has been asking him. It clearly shows he is guilty of all the allegations levelled against him, that's why him no dey talk again.

U can call d attention of other co tenants to the situation and all of you should come with what you can do to help d lady.

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Please get the hell out here! Don't derail my thread

Felimax:
The simple and honest truth before you go on dating a guy ask some three point very vital questions.
Don't let love carry you away.
Every guy desires a good relationship, some want it short some others long.
Ask your prospective boyfriend what are his idea or opinion about relationship?
Ask him where he is coming from and possibly where he is going to in life?
Ask him to tell you frankly who is his ideal woman, he should give you an imaginary picture of her?
Ask him what he thinks about WOMAN, of course what he also think about his mother.
Ask him his sexual fantasies and let him give you some of his secret escapades.
Check if your man is from a broken home?
What are their most important values.
This should take you maybe weeks or days depend on your speed.
Connect the dots and see if you fit in.
I insisted I must marry my woman among other values mainly because she is from a home that hold marriage to a high esteem.
The parents are married for over forty years.
Just pick the little sense and leave the rest for me.

Thanks for this

As a lady, I have read countless stories here on nairaland of how men used and dumped girls not because they are not pretty, but because of some traits these ladies exhibited which turned you men off. So I have been wondering, what do you men really want? For a long lasting relationship, even a successful marriage,what can a woman do to win or capture your heart as a man? What advice will you give the female gender on relationship matters? Ur opinions will be highly appreciated. Let's learn from you!

Feelings79:
We Men have a huge preference for younger women as they have a better sexual appeal so why would anyone cheat a younger girl for an older woman? The second thing we naturally crave for is submission,it really makes us feel like the man we were created to be, and this girl with her inexperience and lack of economic resources will provide this plenty,l mean the submission.In my prediction of this marriage from the point of view of a man,it will be a happy time for them both while it lasts.I'm forty three and I'm planning to dump this my thirty three years old cargo/wild horse for an 18 year beauty I found recently for marriage

See yourself! After you don over bang and over use that old cargo / wild horse finish with several abortions. And that one would think say she don see husband in you. Calling a lady of 33yrs old cargo,what will you now call a lady of 43? If you jilt that lady and she curses you, you are doomed. U men think you can do whatever you like to a woman and later dump her ass for a younger girl and go scott free? Do you even think of what will happen to her after you have jilted her, someone that has come along way with you? Marriage is not about marrying a younger girl but a woman who gives you peace and happiness. Don't worry by the time you are 70yrs and can no longer satisfy her sexually, she will start cheating on you with security man, driver and d likes.

Let me try mine☺️

The man wants to take advantage of your sister's naivity. And your sis is being carried away by d man's money. The man is far too old for her and will use that to abuse her when married. She won't have any say in anything happening in her family, the man may start cheating on her with matured ladies, he won't allow her to further her education once she is married to him, he may beat her blue and black when there's a fight and reduce her to nothing. I have read different stories like this on Facebook whereby d women are complaining of the marriage they entered, similar cases like yours. If d man truly loves her, let him allow her go school first and marry her after her first degree, this time, it is not advisable for any woman to go into marriage without job or anything she is doing to make her own money. When a woman depends on a man for survival even in marriage, it makes d man maltreats such a woman and loses respect for her. He won't involve her in his life decisions because he would always sees her as being immature and doesn't have a say. He is only marrying your sister for making babies.

We have different weird names for saving contacts on our phones for easy identification. These are mine, kindly share yours.
Bimpe busty
Omo Ibo
Baba woli
Brother eleran
Bode DStv
Sola pelebe
Kola drycleaner
Mr Tade teacher
Mama Ngozi crayfish
Data boy
Kemi hairdresser
Aanu tailor
Adamu onions
Orobo
Mama elewedu

Yes it still crows in my house every day, my neighbour's chicken though.

What were you doing since all these years? Did you abandon the mother and child when he was small? If you didn't offend the mother then in any way, after so long years, may the Lord help you locate the boy. And if you did, even if you are able to see your son, possibility of him accepting you as his father is slim. Good luck!

How I wish I could help seen all the comments . May the Lord bless d Op

What's d price in naira?

U need to give your life to Christ. With the help of the Holy spirit, you will overcome your addiction.

Na sport news I dey listen to especially in my dialect