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You are blessed with this idea God will uplift you bro...


Cos that's the only way he can see d truth in her

falcon01:
As a Man, you are always gonna be used.
That been said, test her that your stay in UK is abruptly coming to an end tell her some of your things are gone you are broke and only have things for minimal sustainance tell her you are coming back to Nigeria and you don't think you are going back to UK but back in Nigeria you can have a house, marry and sustain yourself. And notice if her attitudes towards you changes, watch how she comforts and consoles you, notice if she's genuinely concerned about your situation, go like 5 days without calling her and see if she's calling e.t.c Note tell her all those things on different occasions, gradually gradually and see if she draws back.

9ja083:
Would you have said this if it was the wife that has been a serial cheat and got pregnant for another man while legally married to her husband?

Yes ooo ;Dthat can actually be what has happened unknowingly to us

Kingsmm55:
Madam as much lamentable and pathetic your case sound I won't be gullible enough to fall for Nigeria scammers again...it could be illogical if me...I want to help but let me ascertain your sincerity.... Just send your current contact.... Let me investigate ur personality first....

I guess you are right cos.that same Afolashade opened an account on Dec 22 2020 and immediately created this topic for help and according to her first paragraph she said she has been a normal memeber contributing to topics and post

So why opening a new account just to beg and also the account number she sent wasn't her own with d sake of complain ...




So her writeup is picky and fishy and need an intervention

The system must still continue cos if you go to d north u will know that without malpractice no one will pass WAEC till Jesus come

Cos even the south and west that do study or understand d importance of education too do fall prey to fail the exam ....

Well education should be based on relativity and practical research work and not mere writing on book book to learn abstract things

TheWolfen:
Yes kick him out.
There is no peace without war.

However it turns out. Make sure you won't regret it else then settle for dialogue. If you choosing the later option then make sure he won't marry the pregnant lady.
Do ask him the reason why he cheated and make amends. Sometimes women make the home too hot for men that they rather choose to hang out at the bar after work... They meet other girls there and the rest is history.
Check yourself too woman, if you nag or do something else to make him uncomfortable then stop it else the next man will won't want it too.


Goodluck

God bless you cos some women too are coarsive at home and that's why I think or fell like we need to hear from the side story of the kan too ..

So we can have a good conclusion on this matter

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

My brother i can see u made a wrong decisiom before getting married probably the love you have for her has made you forgot what u should have done before choosing date for wedding ...

Didn't you have spiritual father or pastor to pray if your marriage will have Cain leg or not
Why now

Well i think you have to teoo her to chill to her parent house temporarily you study the suituation of things yourself ...

I pray you overcome the wrong partner u choose as ur wife

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This is super story ..

So after.it got burnt what next bro

I guess.thats there bussines for crying out loud mtheew

So.where they want his family to get such cash from
Or are they ready to waste his.dlife either

It's well OO ..

U saw Obi u didn't kidnapped him

Yet na ex deputy una see abi mtheew

Mazzkenny:
It is called "Akudaya" by Yoruba.
According to the Yoruba

It is a Jinn ( demon ) that put on the person's face, it wasn't the real person that has died. So whenever they see a familiar face, they will disappear.
According to the Islam.

Acknowledged I agree with you

But yet is part of what we were thought according to Islam and that does6mean our traditional believe too about them is not right ....

To me it's real because do u know how many years they have been saying Jesus is coming


That means it's life without end because we will keep reincarnating from one generation to another bro

Mazzkenny:
It is called "Akudaya" by Yoruba.
It is a Jinn ( demon ) that put on the person's face, it wasn't the real person that has died. So whenever they see a familiar face, they will disappear.

Is this according to the Quran bible or yoruba culture or rather your own understanding

1Sharon:
Those stories aren't about reincarnation. In reincarnation, aren't you meant to have bo recollection of who you were in your past life?


And don't the souls take on a different body?


Why is it always an unsuspecting woman that marries a man who's a ghost?

Ok i think I understand your point of view too but in Yoruba we call it akudaya meaning die and reappear in another form or location ...

This are part of the mysteries of life that the bible and the Quran denied but do happen

1Sharon:
Let him come and explain himself.

Lol u mean am be that Abi

camri:
why is african traditional religion seen as diabolic?

AT is the greatest problem we are having after the colonization we have put down all our practice and blackmail them and put the white traditions and believe as superior...

It's part of the major problem in our society today

phemmyfour:
Image laundering

E.g the best thing to happen to Nigeria after sliced bread is Buhari

How

The word unusually simply means illegal ..meaning by scamming posting fake new or fake advert to lure people to send money to get it ...

1Sharon:
Why do these stories always sound the same??

This narrative has been rinsed several times and remixed with different locations


Excerpt one:




Excerpt two:






Why does it seem like CHINESE WHISPERS?

The LIAR in Excerpt two slotted in that a person directly involved told him the story to make himself seem more believable and credible.


Superstitious Nigerians just ask yourself why these stories all sound similar as if they're all reading from the same script??

Could it all be fantastical stories ? Could these stories all be circulating because Nigerians love myths over facts??

Think!!

You see ehn in Yoruba culture an adage says it's only a fool that is afraid of death because it marks a beginning of another existence or world ...

So reincarnation is real according to yoruba but don't know abt urs or other tribes ..

But the problem is since the foreign religion christain and muslim entered Nigeria had made us to forget or know d realities and facts about the true life itself

1Sharon:
Lmaooo...you're a Muslim and you believe in reincarnation.

Anyways...

how comes your mum's "cousin sister didn't know about her death?

.if he is a yoruba he will believe and it's not about religion stuff either xtian or Muslim

MufasaLion:
It's not a fact but the probability that reincarnation exist is almost zero. No evidence. It's all myths and legends just like mermaid!

People will keep believing in all these myths until parents and society stop indoctrinating kids into nonsense things.

It is not

You see ehn in Yoruba culture an adage says it's only a fool that is afraid of death because it marks a beginning of another existence or world ...

So reincarnation is real according to yoruba but don't know abt urs or other tribes ..

But the problem is since the foreign religion christain and muslim entered Nigeria had made us to forget or know d realities and facts about the true life itself

Onetenth:
I have never believed in reincarnation but my eyes did saw one yesterday

Here's the story:

Year 2020, I think around may according to his parents because I can't recollect, this neighbor of ours and close friend to my sibling was into cultism.
There's was a cult clash at ikorodu that year and he lost his life, I wasn't told I was there life when police released his corpse to his parents and I was even part of those who digged the grave he was buried. Two years ago oo..


Now, this is year 2022, I saw this boy at orile, he wanted to board the bus I was in with my girlfriend. Immediately we both saw each other I wanted to scream but I couldn't I don't know how. But everyone in the bus saw my reaction, this boy disappeared on that spot.

This isn't a made up story, if there's any nairalander at orile bustop around that time will testify to this.

Omo! I still can't believe what I saw, I cried till I got home, my girlfriend was shocked and speechless as well. How did he do that? How did he disappear in midst of people? Why is he not dead? There's obviously something spiritual about this that I'm not told.

His mom has been hospitalized since we got home and I explained everything that happened. He was her only child. This is so disheartening and scary as well

Many people will still not believe you because of the foreign religion that we have inculcated in our culture has made us forget things of the facts and realities of life ...

According to yoruba culture an adage said it's a fool that fears death because it marks the beginning of once existence in another world state or country etc..

And also there are some more mysteries of life that the bible and the Quran didn't talk about and when those things happens? They do consult the traditional herbalist or oracle for solution and not church or mosque ...

Am telling you this things base on experience

So in conclusion all what u have said is 101% facts and realities and probably the kids on this thread too might not understand but as time flies one day they will come across one..

Take kia bro

You actually met the bad eggs in CCC and that doesn't disqualify the church as a bad or red flag to worship in because many people has also seen salvation and a positive feedback to say thanks to God almighty

paulicoco:
I want to give thanks and praise to the almighty King of Kings and Lord of Lords, Jesus Christ. (Rom 8:35-39). I want to thank him for delivering me from evil spirits, spiritual husbands and the marine kingdom. Without my knowledge, I was initiated into worshipping the marine kingdom, when I started my worship in celestial church of christ. I have noticed that since then things where going from good to bad, and that everyone in my family was been seen to be my enemy ( according to prophetic revelations in the church). It came to the point that I stopped talking to everyone and stayed away from my family and friends, in the hope of delivering myself from any evil eye. I developed a spirit in the church, which allowed my to be in 'spirit' and prophesy..but I was told to hold a feast at the church,by a prophetess in spirit, to satisfy the spirits that are following me-by (Obanje- apparently it was a good obanje spirit) and this is when I unknowingly got initiated to worship marine kingdoms. The sheperd also revealed to me that an evil spirit was blocking my ways.. And asked 3 elders to take me to the sea..where I had to take my bath and leave items(bowl, swords etc..and a white yard cloth) at the sea coast. It is now, that I realise that by doing this, I entered a covenant with a marine spirit husband, which made it very difficult for me to stay in a serious relationship talk less of get married. I also started having dreams, in which I had full intercourse with men and women and would be ashamed to tell anyone about it.... To cut the long story short... A couple of weeks ago I embarked on a journey to nigeria, to visit my family after almost 19 years and to bury my father and as I was passing by, a pentecostal church I decided to attend one of their services ( believing in my mind that God is one!), the service was quite good, but all of a sudden the pastor asked me to come to the pulpit so that he could pray for me. He held my hands and we started praying.... After 10 minutes, I started feeling hot and faint...and a male voice started coming out of me telling the pastor to stop praying, because this body belonged to me( I was later on told that my spirit husband was the one talking to the pastor). The spirit husband was very violent during the whole deliverance service and threatened the pastor that he was going to kill him and his family. The spirit husband also bribed the pastor and told him that he will give him money or even my body (to make love) if the pastor stopped with the deliverance, but the pastor rebuked him and used anointing oil and ' the blood of Jesus' to cast him out of me. In spirit I was also pregnant with children and that deliverance service forced me to have a spiritual miscarriage.... The whole deliverance took 3-4 days.. Since many unclean spirits where deposited in me. The pastor did not know me from Adam, but God told him that I was a member of the marine kingdom and that I was initiated by the so called ' celestial church of Christ'. I deeply apologise for my bad english.All I want to tell u people is that, there is darkness in white garment churches and that if u are a member and do not know about the evil in that church, that u should leave the church before it is too late. I thank God for delivering me!

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adeniyi65:
Thanks for the question.i already have one who is now in age 4 while his dad is now drawing near to being 29 years of age.my submission is that people shouldn't see raising kid as a must.seeing it as a must hinder dreams of many that should have delay it for a promising invention. and it makes who is not eligible to have a child by his/her financial strength or hearth issues to drag children into the world.i see nothing fruitful in trying to be different or impressing others but giving dignity to someone's name sounds so distinctly promising.

Am pleased with this ur comment and that's why I want to reply because my immediate brother fell into this category whereby he is fucking brilliant back then in secondary school and both of us do talk about achieving greater dreams in life through education..

But he mistakenly impregnated a lady and till date for d past 12 years he had been struggling to feed and all his forthcoming dreams are diminished and ow he look up toe to beg for money to feed d family of 6

And he is baking himself till date ..
So i think giving birth shouldn't b aist or rather someone shouldn't accept societal pressure to do scuba when u aren't ready yet

Jack500:
Igboland is burning.

Simon Ekpa want to reduce the 5% votes to 2%.

Obidient people brain will start working in February 2023, after obi has been roundly defeated.

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Yet they still want Igbo man to rule again

What a blind citizen

richidinho:


From 2007 - 2015 import restriction was removed

Foreign rice. 50kg N9,000
Local rice. 50kg. N4,000


From 2015 till date import is restricted
Foreign rice. 50kg N35,000
Local rice. 50kg. N30,000

Obi is right

I really wish Tinubu should win but with this analysis ehn at least food items needs.to be cheap to the citizens so i think retriction9should be removed so this items prices should be reversed Biko ...

I think I will vote for Obi this time due to this reason

chikason22:
Atiku is going nowhere. A thief is a thief. He has no voice of his own.
We have passed the era of godfatherism.
He will sell the country and loot us dry.

Atiku can't be president. Never.

For Unity and Equity, vote Obi-Datti for a better Nigeria.

Not those old thieves

Atiku will drain nigwria to zero degree ..

Atiku must never happen to Nigeria as a whole