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It's well but in this recent years or days where can you find such because social media has turn all our girls to olosho,

Also breaking many marriages between a year ,

Marriage don't last anymore,
Girls are not submissive anymore
Infact some lady like d one have mistakenly preganted now once told me we have 50/50 chance authority in a home ..

May God help us

Teeroyzimma:
How is this news going to reduce the price of rice?

How is that going to stop Agberos from robbing us on the streets of Lagos?

How is this going to stop poverty for Naija?

I dey tell u beo

Messi has done is all over again

Yet some fools still want to vote Obi whereby his region is full of killing and burning down structures and d likes and he has nothing to do to it .....

Nigerians wake up

The girl is cheating on you and besides u are d one that thinks she loves you but rather una plenty for her hand .. and since u say nalekki she dey live guy I can bet you.....

Na runs girl she be ..

letristian:
We can't wait for Obi to come and address all these nonsense accordingly.

Can you just imagine the guts of born to rule and domination

Which of the Obi .. is it the one that cannot handle and settle the killings in his region that want to settle the one in other people's region Get sense na .

God bless you abundantly for this

IyaTola:
Nothing is Permanent In This World

I visited my 120-year-old grandmother and gave her some money when I was leaving and she told me she doesn't need money again.

That she can no longer buy or sell at her age, so I should give the money to the younger ones who need it.

I also have a former governor friend whom I worked with as a greenhorn PA. He was governor from 1999-2007.
Not too long ago, I saw him.

After check-in, he was left seated by the corner of the Murtala Mohammed international airport awaiting his flight.

No one even recognized him again, not even passengers from the State where he was governor, and as I walked up to him and greeted him, then asked if he wanted any assistance, he stretched forth his trembling hands to hold me and simply said,

"Thank you for even recognizing me again. I just want your attention briefly my daughter . Sit down let me ask you something.

How is your Governor doing?"

I also have a retired Major General friend whom I served as a golf caddy at the NDA golf course in Kurmi Mashi, Kaduna.
He was so rich he built a beautiful house he was so proud of.

I visited him too not long ago and wanted us to climb to our favorite spot on his balcony upstairs.

He stared at me with a broad smile and said, "IT, I can't remember the year I went up there. It is lizards and cobwebs and the likes that live there now.

Even the kids, when they come, they don't enjoy my company in the house any more than a few hours and they are gone.

I don't have the limbs to climb up there again and the cost of cleaning keeps getting higher."

I have seen a lot more things.
How yesterday became the day before, how today became yesterday, and how tomorrow became today.

How the past became history, how the present became the past, and how the future became the present.
Nothing ever remains where it is.

Your strength, your muscles, your beauty, your wealth, your guts, your worth, your courage, your talent, your YOU, will progressively diminish until it returns to its source.

The richest man in the world in the 1960s will not be on the payroll of the richest man in the world today!

Even the strongest lion in the jungle will someday become weak, and frail and be eaten by the same predators it once terrorized.

Keep that in mind always and know that no matter how appealing and tempting that thing may seem, our interest in it will diminish with time.

Our strength to consume or own it will vanish with time until everything is surely taken away from us or we are surely taken away from everything!

"Nothing is permanent in this world".

Wishing you very Reflective Times.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT!!!

It's well ooo I think real monogamy has existed during to time of our forefathers and not the present day of today

Exactly these are the kind of comment gave been waiting for ...

I know very soon the lectures will complain of not been paid also in overseas to get a degree we do have in Nigeria is really expensive but here in naija we will pay less to obtain it and later still abuse the government again

carreport:
This is not sustainable.
From where will he get money to pay lecturers?

Nigerians when it tym to compare wages with people living abroad they will not compare this school fees ($70/session) with mid level schools in Europe or US or Canada..

After subsidized education when u get the chance u japa and insult ur country claiming they haven't done anything for them

I guess it's the blood of zakariahh in the bible

Thanks bro I will adjust or amend my ways

Richy4:
Oga no vexOoo.... I find your writeup amusing..

Even when you give command? (As in Military relationship )..

You don't command a grown ass woman u claimed to love instead you let her in on your thoughts with reasons..
Dialogue with her like a matured adults both of you are .. If she doesn't take it, then that's another matters entirely

Learn to communicate without bringing superiority and masculinity into it...Be cordial and you will have a peaceful home that you desired...
You don't have to cry... You have to learn how to talk...When u do that, u will get a desired result...there's no adult male or female that desires to be commanded.. except on BDSM

UyaiIncomparabl:
Don't worry, I want to believe she's not like that. It's the 'pregnancy pangs" taking a toll on her. It comes with this pent-up emotion and just raves her mad. All her senses are heightened and she feels this burst.

When she cries, it's extra.

When she laughs, it's extra.

When she gets livid, it's extra.

It's different for different women and pregnancies. You sound very naive. Both of you. Let her birth the child. If after she has, and the "incompatibility" you both share (because that's what I see) continues, you may decide to separate and co-parent in peace.

Lastly, I don't understand what you mean by "command her". You may need to watch it. You don't control adults. They will mostly rebel. You have to understand what " mutual respect" is.
I will advise you both to go for a therapy session and mental rehabilitation. Go for parenting classes and/or read parenting books, if possible. You are 30 but sound 22. Naive folks.

GL.

I love your matured contribution..
I really appreciate

Thank you God bless you..
Am really grateful Indeed

frozen70:
Since you don't know what to do

Suspend every form of marriage commitment

Wait till after the birth of your baby

Meanwhile ask yourself if you can cope with her uncouth attitude and manners

Forget about the joy of being a father
The birth of a child brings joy to a man, be it legitimate or illegitimate Gshaghga

Think with your head straight

Stop reporting her to her family, they will encourage you to go ahead (at your own risk)

Pregnancy is not marriage

Women can pretend to be good for a benefit to suits her not really to the whole interests of her marriage

I am a woman and am not condemning my gender

But if you don't use your head and apply wisdom, you won't take a decision that will progress your entire life

Pregnancy is not an automatic ticket
Pregnancy is not an authority for a woman to be naughty

Marriage is not gambling

Respect is what men wants in marriage
Love is what women wants in marriage

Leave centimeters aside

Mindlog:
Even though you said you are in your late 30s, you and the lady in question are both waving red flags to each other as you are not in the mental space to be a husband that will nurture a healthy marriage nor she, a wife that will nurture a healthy marriage ............you both are not good for each other.

By the way, who be the ‘prist’?

My pastor ooo

Thanks bro

ibechris:
U saw a lady and decided to impregnate her before knowing her proper,now u are complaining.


U have no sense of your own.
I hate men men and women who run to priest or pastors for something that could be resolved internally. Is it that u don't have the mind of your own?

Resolve your crisis and fears with that lady,most marriages are tough and more over,u have not known this lady the way it should be.

Remember also,that she might be reacting to pregnancy symptoms,u never can tell. Most women react badly.

Let us try not to destroy our women while making them single mothers and still going ahead to marry another woman.

TheboyGhost:
Your Priest simply said "Wait and let her deliver the child, take your child and move ahead. The woman is simply not your woman, if you go ahead and marry her then I am sorry.

The priest" please can you explain more on that one?

It's a spiritual stuff or adage

Babaken:
Just allow her to give birth and watch if the character will continue

Sometimes most pregnancy come with different characters and demands.

Thanks for this bro have been expecting such responds too

Meaning I should get ready to become a single father

Skyfornia:
You are in the middle of red sea, how did you arrive there? With canoe or parachute??

Someone you never marry dey choke you like this and you still dey ask question?

Okay, my advice is for you to organize the best wedding for her, I don't know your pocket but you can use 12 million naira for the wedding, you can equally sell all your family lands in the village to raise the money for the wedding.. make sure you take her to Dubai after the wedding.

Sorry for my speech oo but please just advise me abeg


I met this woman around February this year so we didn't really date at all and am in my late 30s and she is around 27y so after a month or two at most she got pregnant for me and I was so happy, immediately I plan of going for introduction but which I was instructed by my prist not to do such because the babys destiny don't want such for now that I should wait until we give birth ....

My problem now is.that the lady in the picture hardly listen to my instructions, like my ideas or always use hostile way to give responds to simple question ...
Even sometimes if I give command or correct her for something she has done wrong in my house she will reply in an agreesive way as if how can I be telling her what to do or what not to do....

Kai to an extend that I do call her.mothers elder sister because am close to her because she lives with her that this is what and what I do notice about this girl and that I may leave her in d nearest future probably after birth ...

My problem again is that this same lady is also trying to tell me about wedding bla bla and that we don't really need introduction..

CAN I STILL MARRY SUCH A LADY ?

Like I see her as if not because of the pregnancy stuff we are not really on same page .. **crying*** and am somehow blaming myself at this junction for doing such with her....


PLEASE WHAT DO YOU THINK I CAN DO TO FREE MYSELF FROM THIS UNFORSEEN CIRCUMSTANCES

What is Nigerians problem with relating religion to everything we do and yet we are not moving forward despite all this simp!!!

They are bunch of animals in the north

CaptainAyub:
Pastor Mrs Bridget Agbahime simply told her neighbour in her shop in Kano not to pour water/perform ablution in front of her shop.
The idiot started shouting "Allah Akbar" and "blasphemy".
The crowd that gathered never bothered to ask what she allegedly did.
They immediately killed her.
The idiot neighbour was initially arrested plus few other ring leaders of the mob.
After a few months, THE ATTORNEY GENERAL OF KANO STATE SIMPLY ENTERED A 'NO CASE SUBMISSION' FOR ALL THE ACCUSED.
ALL OF THEM WERE FREED.
THE NEIGHBOUR WENT BACK AND CONTINUED THREATENING THE VICTIM'S HUSBAND,THAT HE WILL FINISH HIM OFF.
The man had to abandon every and relocate to his village,after more than 35yrs in Kano.
So,Deborah's case is not a strange thing,that is how abokkis roll.
Gimme Biafra joor,tired of living with animals who will kill their fellow countrymen for a cartoon drawn by a white man in faraway Denmark!

DaddyFreeze2020:
But he also had opportunities to rectify such deficiencies in the Civil service, but did not.

As a civil servant in Nigeria, you're totally OYO if you refuse to plan yourself for retirement.

Ọmọ na correct Oyo ooo i have senior colleagues that have retired and they are living in pain and turment ....

I Sneed side hustle biko

malali:
WHEN OIL COULD FEED NIGERIA, WHAT DID YOU DO WITH THE REVENUE...

ATIKU STOLE THE MONEY....WHY DIDN'T YOU STOP HIM ?? A WHOLE RETIRED GENERAL...

OLUSEGUN YOU ARE ONE OF THE FAILURES THAT HAS LED NIGERIANS INTO ABJECT POVERTY....

SAUDI,QATAR,UAE WERE DESERTS BEFORE OIL REVENUE.......GUESS WHAT THESE 3 COUNTRIES DONT HAVE DEMOCRACY !!!!!

ALL OUR POLITICIANS ARE THIEVES....!!!

THE LONGER WE CONTINUE TO HAVE NEW AND RETIRED POLITICIANS ...THE POORER WE SHALL BE AS A COUNTRY

MALNUTRITION, INFANT MORTALITY, ILLITERACY, ERADICATED DISEASES, INSECURITY, SOCIAL INJUSTICE, MASS LOOTING BY GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS HAVE INCREASED IN NIGERIA....

DEMOCRACY IS A FAILURE IN NIGERIA.......WE NEED A HARD RESET....

ATIKU/BOLA/PETER ARE NOT SOLUTIONS TO THE NIGERIA WE WANT.........THEY ARE ALL STAKEHOLDERS FOR THEIR PERSONAL AMBITION/AGENDA.

God bless you

Brooktrader:
She did that which was right in her eyes.. Not God's eyes.

Proverbs 14:12 There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.

Story

gozmok1:
The issue is not IGBOS vs Yorubas, or Hausas. No matter how you try to tribalize this election, you will fail.

The issue is APC fielded a very old, frail, sick Hard Drug Lord and Baron, who faked everything about himself; from birth through education to health, social and financial life. He has a doggy life style.
He is contesting against much more responsible, mature, more educated, younger, straightforward, uncontaminated, verifiable more modern, people's candidate.

There are far better candidates APC should have presented, but they want to continue in their failed style of leadership

I sight u bro cos normally i still want APC to emerge victory but

Infact God will be more happier with what u have done .....
It's still better than to us it to stake bet and lose

Lets employ nigerian coach for them biko

princewarri1985:
wall gekco? Thats a big lie. I remember when i was very young, my mom just gave birth to our last born and my dad was cooking a pot of soup to take to her in the hospital, i was standing in the kitchen holding the torch because there was no light, and 2 wall gekco was fighting on top of the ceiling and both of them fell inside the boiling soup, and my dad simply use the spoon and threw both of them out of the soup and they both were already dead, we all ate the soup that night and nothing happened, so i suspect fowl play here

No wonder your chick is fat till date for eating a food with wall gecko spices

soundOsonic:
Welcome to Nigeria, they wouldn't eat wall gecko because it is poisonous, but they would eat snakes.
FYI wall gecko is harmless. People eat wall gecko in Asia please and please further investigation should be made.
Someone put the wall gecko in the food to cover their tracks, obviously Nigerians are not dumb to believe ingesting wall gecko can kill.

Where is your house let me beer you tonight

capnies:
LIES
WHEN I WAS IN SECONDARY SCHOOL WALL GECKO FELL INTO OUR POT OF YAM PORRIDGE IN BOARDING HOUSE, INFACT ONE OF MY DINNING TABLE MATE CHEWED THE GECKO THINKING IT WAS FISH BEFORE WE GOT TO KNOW, NOT EVEN A STOMACH PAIN

Na that kind food they sweet self for boarding school ...

I have similar experience too ..

The story is not true