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agabaI23:
They go on vacation often. That they do not come to Nigeria is a matter of safety. Vacation is actually a necessity not a luxury. And most of the time, they leave their location to another country. I am referring to people who are not even politicians

Oga I'm talking about politicians, they rarely come to Africa for leisure

sonature1:
Stop comparing Africa to any part of the world because ours is a shitty continent.

People go to places where they see amazing things they haven't seen before, not where widespread poverty will keep pricking their conscience.

If this politicians start investing these monies into infrastructures, and other essential rather than running abroad, we definitely won't be so backwards....

agabaI23:
You will be surprised how many of them that come to Africa for vacation. They may not be coming to Nigeria because of safety issues.

They MIGHT but surely not as frequent as your country's political office holders

These foolish politicians
How many times have foreign political holders come to Africa for vacation or leisure but always you see our mediocre politicians spending our stolen money abroad

virginprincess:
Such a wicked and heartless fellow,may God not let this kind of beast come my way .

Are you planning on cheating

Seankhalifa:
Bull run getting close... if u know... u know

Atleast 50% up hopefully

Eriokanmi:
Just 1m? Be appreciative. Mine is x7

Ahhh you must be lying bro, 7m haba na

Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

Wehdon odogwu

captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.

You must be a fool, can't you go out and work, I HATE ENTITLED MOFOKAZ

Hopefully stock prices will start going up... I'm down 1 million naira because of the inflation

Geminita1:
Sexists, tribal bigots, same shallow brain.
Are you so afraid of thinking that you have to genderise and tribalise every issue.

Or you don't trust your brain in processing and transmitting information that you just put everything in a box to appear smart.

SHUT UP!!!!
gender wae de get conversation with serpent

Animegirl:
I pray they don't oh! Except he has money

� Mumu human being, you just invalidated yourself... "I can't date a man with receding hairline" then she goes "except he has money" �
Confused gender
I bet you las las you'll settle for anything as long as it has a dick

Comradepreneur:
So, in 2019, my dad decided to take him in.

One night, I woke up from sleep and decided to go to the kitchen and get drinking water (my room is just outside the sitting room, and you'll have to pass the sitting room before reaching the kitchen).

I observed that my cousin wasn't on the bed when I woke up. I decided to take a peek into my sister's room and there he was standing, jerking off to my sister's face! She was barely 15!

The lights was on, and his grandmother (my dad's mom) who came visiting was also on the bed together with my sisters! Such audacity!

I couldn't even believe what I saw, and tiptoed back into my room and woke up my maternal uncle who was staying with us in order to be my witness.

After witnessing the act, the only response he gave me was [b]Why is she (my sister) feigning to sleep, while he was touching her and jerking off to her face[b].

I was shocked and couldn't even believe his utterance. Like bro! You was supposed to help me bounce on the stupid slowpoke harassing my sister, (your niece).

He just said that and left. With the little energy left with me, I opened the door, dragged my cousin brother out and warned him never to try such act again (I initially wanted to teach him a lesson he ought to never forget in his lifetime, but I was hugely disappointed with what my uncle did).

Even though I still reported him to my parents, there wasn't any punishment meted out to him.

After that incident, I completely lost the respect I had for my uncle. Agreed he had some issues with my mom (her elder sister) back then, but why extend the hatred to her children?.

After that incident, I still occasionally catch my cousin brother in the night in the sitting room, claiming to iron out his clothes. But I still maintain my anger since it's not as if I caught him going into my sister's room.

What broke the camels back, was an incident which happened last 3 weeks ago.

One of my younger sisters (she's 13) reported to my dad in the middle of the night that he caught my cousin brother in her room, jerking off at her face while trying to remove her underwear.

All my dad did was to woke me up from sleep (saying that he wants me to be the witness), and he was preaching to the boy on how his mom, is his younger sister and that he should talk if marriage should be done for him since he can't hold his sexual desires (like man, you was supposed to call me and we smack the shit out of him together!!!).

I got angry and just left them there.

The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part.

And this happens whenever, my cousin brother is sent to take her to the room whenever she's asleep on the sitting room couch. And also, how one of my sisters told her that he once caught him trying to lift up her skirt while she was fast asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.

Right now, I'm Justin mad at myself and angry at the same time! I feel like a loser, a pussy who can't even protect his sisters.

The bastard is still living with us, in my room, and every day, my hatred for him grows stronger.

Even when my mom told his mom, her only reply was that he's still a kid, and she should forgive him. Someone who's 17!!!! For goodness sake!.

She didn't even called him out to kneel down in front of my mom and rebuke him. Nothing was done!!!! She didn't even spoke to him about the incident.

And whenever my mom makes her displeasure known to my dad, he always says that she hates his family, bla bla bla.

How can I reduce my hatred for my cousin? Or is my hatred justified?

Right now, he has been restricted into coming into the sitting room, anything past 8pm.

But still, I'm still sure things might just go back to being the same!.

My fear right now is, I'll be going for my youth service in a few months time, which means this bastard will be with my sisters unsecured!!!!

Op you are a very stupid and useless human being, they guy is molesting your sisters and all you can do is come here to write total rubbish, very foolish human you are, a total disgrace... You are looking for advice, give your sisters to him to marry, very bastard Op

virginprincess:
My dear you are very very observant,Nigeria men are the worst set of men on planet earth that any woman should be with,like you rightly said they nag over every little thing but we women don't have a choice we just have to manage them like that because God has already given them to us though they are still very few good ones that are lovely and caring but the bad ones are more,meanwhile just watch how they will insult your country men because you said the bitter truth .

Nigerian men are the worst? Lmao
The one you will marry will be the worst of us
I promise you

Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Where does your husband stand in these, does he know you had an affair with a married man

Samuelnze:
Eat three square meal a day first,before telling me that. Piglet

Lmao funny enough I'm eating right now

chris51:
Did you listen to yourself?

What's wrong with what he said

LordErrk:
This is the worst sarcasm I've ever seen in my life. You sound like you're drunk

It is actually a very brilliant sarcasm oga lmao

Samuelnze:
You are damn wrong,man. This is only applied in a man's case. When a man is first hit by a woman,it is morally right not to retaliate.. Retaliating will only create problems for the man.

Oga shut your dirty mouth

Jovialjune1:
Your attempt at sarcasm in this case is dumb.

Explain to me how it's dumb

Fahvvy:
That girl is not a real woman ...

Why didn't she walk away after she was hit by the man ...

You don't lay your hands on a man for no reason, even if he hits you first, you should walk away ...

That's what makes you a real woman ...

Chei!!!
What sorts of women are we breeding these days ...

� I see what you did there

Why exactly do you want to know, how is it your business

Op focus on yourself, what you need rn is not a relationship, work on yourself

Candidlady:
One think Ihave noticed with all this so called wannabe RP is that

they go bout ranting how they will never give a lady a dim but end up not even helping their fellow comrades

Iblame those ladies who go bout asking kids with nothing but withered stick between their legs for help

There was this giveaway Isaw one of em was helping his fellow comrades book space for giveaway

His comment •••please I know you really help jus that Iam sorry Icant help you now that was why imentioned you on here••••

Lmao

This post pain am lol... Let me guess, you've not eaten today

Shalommy:
Bushrat. Do you think every woman's pussy stinks like your mother,sisters and gfriend's own? Crawl outta that hole you're living and mingle with real women just for difference.

Why e de pain you lmao... Abi u have not eaten today?

Shalommy:
Trash from a stupid idiot. Broke guys will always lament, see faults in everything while Rich guys are looking for ladies to spend on. So boy, go and hustle hard. Chaii

� � � One of them spotted � � �

Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

THEM DE BANG YOUR WIFE, MUMU SAY SHE'S A GOOD WIFE

Onyi22:
What's wrong in being a runs girl in the past
Her past is gone Mr. Man, focus on the future n enjoy your marriage

You Bleep different colors and sizes of dicks finish come de expect innocent man to settle with you, God no go gree na

Weirdcamila:
That’s past , we have all done terrible things in the past or things we are not proud of.
If she’s changed then go ahead .
The truth is that if you leave the Ashawo you know , you will end up with another fairly used Ashawo .

Madam shut up!!!!!! You Bleep around finish come de fund already made man to marry you

eyinjuege:
The woman checked her husband's phone and realised 200K has been sent to her husband, from the person she bought the land from.
Definitely, the husband was colluding with the person selling the land to swindle/ overinflate the price for his wife.
I won't be surprised she saw more on the phone about the transaction between husband and the person who sold the land, and she hasn't just mentioned it all.
While I think this matter can still be resolved and shouldn't lead to divorce, we can't absolve the husband and say its the wife's fault
For her father to support her not going back, there is likely more to the story that the OP has not fully disclosed either from shame or disappointment
Women doing it too doesn't make it right, and it's equally as disgusting btw.
I would really like to hear her dad's reason for asking her not to go back

Oga the man was wrong, we already know that but the whole problem started with her, it's a marriage and you want to embark on a project alone? Just to show you can? Even when the husband suggested they do it together? Don't forget the husband has always asked for her input when embarking on other projects... She clearly wanted to separate herself and that's not right in a marriage

Also we haven't heard the husband side of the story

Socratiz:
I find several undefined goals in your marriage, especially in the area of family finances. Though married you are each living individual lives which does not enhance marital bond and camaraderie.

It is also unhelpful to disclose your challenges to your family. Better to relate with a marriage counselor who will employ his professional skills to guide you.

I doubt if either of you has the skills to handle this without the support of a marriage counselor so, I advise you contact one.

Your marriage does not have to crash because of this but get help now.

You can contact me if you wish.

What do you Mean they are each living individual lives abi did you not read the part the husband has been asking for assistance but she wants to do things on her own.... She is the only one wanting a separate life here

Man: babe i saw a piece of land I would love *US* to get TOGETHER

Woman: oh ok, where's the land, I HAVE THE MONEY TO BUY IT FOR *MYSELF*

man: (thinking) so me wae suggest mo buy am together na mumu abi


Sha this story no go complete till we hear the man's side of the story