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Tgirl4real: Ur point exactly? Why bother to do the party then when it's not that necessary?

doesnt matter however they choose to do the party, point is at the end of the day, the marriage is valid.

I think you people wrongly assume the act of marriage is the "ceremony". Its not. Its from the heart, a promise you make from the depths of your soul and spirit whether it be by phone, or telegraph. The ceremony is just for show, to let people know we're officially married, to have witnesses or for the legal system to issue certificate. so doesn't matter if its a stick that represents the bride or groom in that wedding party.

I doubt God cares about your marriage certificate or wedding ceremony. God does not need any signed witnesses, because he was right there with you two. Once two people "agree" to be married and exchange vows to that effect, weather by phone or email, undersea or in space, in jail or mortuary, they are seen by God as married. You don't need a priest, judge, lawyer or parents to be married in the sight of God. After all two people can agree in prayer, make vows or covenants with God in their basements and God takes it as valid.

If you need a ceremony and party to validate the connection you and your spouse have and bond you into marriage maybe you shouldn't be getting married. Most times, you know the heart of someone not by what they say in a public gathering, but what they say to you when you're all alone gazing deeply into each other's eyes.

^^ Dr Finn, are you allowed to work in private practice with your provisional medical license issued by MDCN? Make dem no catch you o.

Your determination is admirable. I'm really impressed. I hope you get all your money back sis. Women really go through alot.

spoilerx: Please guys , can we playbook owners get on twitter & bug @opera (opera mobile), blackberry (@blackberryhelp) & @ubersoc (ubersocial) requesting for their apps on the playbook ! and even ucweb ! Mention Dem on ur tweet & ask when their app would b available on d playbook

hmm, not a twitter user but there's this twitter app called blackbird on playbook. Looked decent when I tried it, prolly better than ubersocial.

alstacs: This hiding of posts by TCD by the mod is becoming serious oh. No profanity, nothing.
TCD, u sure say una no de compete for or de fight over chinchins?
I decided to go back, at least while i wait to update my PB, to get familiar with all the tutorials and solutions proferred in the past but they are not just there.
I sat down occasionally to wonder if I just dreamt about those posts, maybe they never existed.
TCD, stop sharing women with them oh....

alstacs: This hiding of posts by TCD by the mod is becoming serious oh. No profanity, nothing.
TCD, u sure say una no de compete for or de fight over chinchins?
I decided to go back, at least while i wait to update my PB, to get familiar with all the tutorials and solutions proferred in the past but they are not just there.
I sat down occasionally to wonder if I just dreamt about those posts, maybe they never existed.
TCD, stop sharing women with them oh....

lol, I'm innocent abeg o. I no touch anybody babe.

Maybe I'll have to type again. But for the sideloading tutorial, I uploaded it in doc format on page 3 or so after the tutorial one can download and read. The pics are not there though.

Kobojunkie: You don't think US or Nigeria when considering these things, you think COMMON SENSE, "If I was in this woman's shoes, how would I want to be treated". We are all human beings, and we all have an idea how we want to be treated by our fellow man, let alone those we love. Those ideals should have nothing to do with what country you are from or what gender you are.

My dear, there is nothing like universal common sense. This "idea" of how you want to be treated, you were not born with it. Rather it was shaped by the society you have grown up in, the culture your interactions and learnings. In essence was shaped by the environment you found yourself in.
in other words, its Your Bias.

if you were born amongst the Kayan people of burma, you'll probably reason its "common sense" and beautiful to put painful discomforting brass coils around your neck to enlongate them to giraffe level. If this culture had conquered the world the way the romans did, you would have been typing this post today with your giraffe sized neck and be very sure of yourself.

My point is, its a different society in india with different dynamics that none of us here understands. The poster will be better served asking advice from indian married folks who understand the intricacies of the society and how things work over there.

ace1: Even Timaya got dat singing pattern from Frank D'Nero's song titled "Banger" buh he made his own sound diff a bit. P Square just lifted everything. If u avnt heard "Banger", I pasted the link on this thread. Listen and let's see if u'll still be defending P Square

i just listened to the banger, and it sounds really similar to the alingo than the rubbish bum bum song people are making noise about.

Like I said, this is the dance track style that's in vogue now, p square has committed no crime releasing a track to meet that demand. Afterall they didn't copy any lyrics and those beats have been around for quite awhile now and almost everybody has sampled it.

ogugua88: You hear the song sef? It's not about shaking. It's about how they sang it. They used Timaya's style from "Shake Your Bum". Timaya knows it too. Anyone that mentions "Alingo" and "Shake Your Bum" on twitter gets a retweet.

YES I listened to both songs and replayed them side by side. oh so now its no longer them "lifting verses" its now using "Timaya's Style"? Anyone who sings reaggae is copying bob marley, right? Or who sings RnB is copying R kelly. All RnB songs sound alike in some way and that's no crime. That's why they are grouped under the same genre of music. So if psquare decide to make a dance track from Timaya's genre how is that a crime? Most new songs I hear especially from upcoming artistes sound like that, everybody knows dance tracks like that are in demand. Inyanya's hit song kukere has the exact same beat wonder what you folks are crying about.

Even the intro of timay's bum bum song sounds like Terry G, so do some parts of the song where he keeps mumbling like Terry G, wonder why you people don't accuse him of copying Terry G's style.

Jobless People on twitter are just looking for something to talk, and I'm not surprised some attention seeking people just mention those so timaya can retweet them.

Wonder how the two songs are similar. Just listened to both and you lot are just exaggerating and being unnecessarily dramatic . Waste of time.
The lyrics are so different. So anyone who sings about shaking a..as is copying timaya? Is it his father that invented bu,tt shaking?

Much ado about nothing. Giving yourself heartache because of irrelevant birthday. I don't get it, What's so special about that day sef, is it not just like every other day?

Just discovered some of the tutorials I typed earlier on this board on sideloading and and set up using connectify-me have been hidden. Wanted to refer someone to the links. Mods abeg wetin dey happen?

^^ you're still on this update ish? Mehn na suffer be dis o. What networks are you using?

^^ I experience that occasionally, wonder what's up with that.

In india, women actually pay dowry to the grooms family to get married to a man. Its a different culture over there, so using Nigerian or US culture as a yardstick doesn't make much sense.

drumme: Okay. In my previous post I wrote PB update issue is a network and Rims update server issue too. My discovery is that because we all use naija ip address. Technically RIMS server will first listen to other ip addresses from other countries like UK. Us. Canada n likes. This is because naija ip globally has been given limited access to most corporate servers in the world for a reason we all know (God help n save the youth's of this country).

The tweak and solution is look for a way of changing your ip address to other countries the best is Canada cos that's where rims server is. USA n UK ip too works great. This way your update will finish under 1hr so long ur Internet is fast. Note don't use proxy ips but strong vpn connection. Goodluck everyone.

Thanks for posting this, had no idea ip is a determinant in your access to rim servers for update. Luckily for me, never had such difficulties. I really hoe this helps someone.

Although I've experimented with vpn's and proxies and was able to load via wifi a pb update for the North American region, to see if there are any extra goodies worth having. Had to use a friends paid private vpn service though. free vpn I found it difficult to find ones that work.

So like 2010 said, could you please describe how you set yours up and where you got the free vpn (if that's what you used) so those having problems can do so too. Thanks

drumme: Okay. In my previous post I wrote PB update issue is a network and Rims update server issue too. My discovery is that because we all use naija ip address. Technically RIMS server will first listen to other ip addresses from other countries like UK. Us. Canada n likes. This is because naija ip globally has been given limited access to most corporate servers in the world for a reason we all know (God help n save the youth's of this country).

The tweak and solution is look for a way of changing your ip address to other countries the best is Canada cos that's where rims server is. USA n UK ip too works great. This way your update will finish under 1hr so long ur Internet is fast. Note don't use proxy ips but strong vpn connection. Goodluck everyone.

Thanks for posting this, had no idea ip is a determinant in your access to rim servers for update. Luckily for me, never had such difficulties. I really hoe this helps someone.

Although I've experimented with vpn's and proxies and was able to load via wifi a pb update for the North American region, to see if there are any extra goodies worth having. Had to use a friends paid private vpn service though. free vpn I found it difficult to find ones that work.

So like 2010 said, could you please describe how you set yours up and where you got the free vpn (if that's what you used) so those having problems can do so too. Thanks

alstacs: Now, its my turn to lament and shout at RIM for doing this. I guess the most feasible option i have now left is this psudo-server cos all the other ones were met with recurrent interrupted connection. I understand the tutorial fairly. however, i have been searching for the OS itself, cant get from any site. do u have a link to any site i can download it?
Dont know why i didnt beg Oga Fhemmmmy to do this aspect of the config for me

download an array of PB OS's here, download OS 2.0 not OS 1

www.opensourcebb.com/playbook-oses/

drumme: I can help u update it if u can send it to Ibadan that's where I am. My pin is 27a11781

bro, nobody will send you their PB's to update in your house, haba. Why not tell them this "tweak" you have done on your pc so they can do it too.

Niiade: This updating is big rubbish from blackberry o, Kai spent five hours updating the oS, just leaving the office at 10pm only for the stuff to stop n ask for restart at 412mb out of 509mb. I have consumed about 2.5gb in downloading n still its not complete. If it doesn't work this wEekend Lord know selling it is the next greatest idea.
I don tire

Sorry my brother, I know how you feel. Its frustrating. Luckily Blackberry is doing away with this compulsory update with the new OS2.1.

Like spoilerx has adviced above try another network, but this one MTN don increase their 3Gb to 7K, maybe looking to airtel and others, with good 3G service in your area will be best.

Btw, airtel 1200 BIS can be used as Mobile hotspot, but they only give 1GB. Once used it for my OS reload.

Niiade: TCD thanks for the response om I have been using swift to update it both night n day still no headway.
Regarding the method I am using the PB itself, didn't know I could update using desktop manager, first time update.
Funny thing it neva continues from where it stop earlier.
It always say download stopped and the only option is to reset after reseting it shows try again or turn off PB.
TCD can I have ur pin. This is mine 27F4E94A.thanks

the blame should lie with your swift connection, it keeps getting interrupted. Don't have a bb phone now, about to get a new one though,.

Niiade: This updating thing na wa o, Been on it for the second day o, no stable internet it just stops halfways and I have to restart and start all over again.
Any update secrets to updating o.I don die

Try doing it at night, networks generally stable then. Btw, which method and connection are you using? From the way you keep restarting all over again after each interruption, I'll assume it's desktop manager you're using. If you use the PB itself to update, it just resumes from where it stopped the last time and continues the download of the update from there.

No it does not show EPL and Yes it works via bridge.

Lacomb: Good day @TCD: please, which tv application will you recommend and where can i get it?

My screen doesn't rotate immediately, if any thing wrong?

download Tablet TV app, you can find it in one of the links I posted for PB native apps.

^^
Glad you have that finally sorted. Goodluck man.

efewhoa: Sorry, I meant to select device to share over. Its under advanced settings and its currently showing no sharable device present, while the sharing mode is just empty. What can I do about this please?

" no sharable device", "sharing mode", these are all strange to me. There is nothing like these in my connectify even when I have nothing. Wonder which you're using. There's a link to the cracked version of connectify I posted here sometime ago. Download that instead.

efewhoa: @TCd, I tried to use that connectify-me app to connect my pb to my laptop using wifi, downloaded it but I am unable to use it. The place where am to select a device is empty. Please what do I do

dont understand this. There is no place in connectify where you select "device".

Hope you all know 2.0.1.668 is still os 2.0 and not 2.1. RIM should release the 2.1 abeg.

Did they put a gun to your head and force you to buy the blackberry?

I don't understand people these days. You heard about a device from people instead of you to use the Internet to research on the device and find out if it fits your needs in a phone, you did not. Now you're coming to the same internet you refused to use to whine and complain. No be you do yourself?

Bundle Plan Inclusive Data Validity Period Price (N) Activation Codes
Daily 150MB 24hours 500 103
Night 3GB 9pm-6am 2,500 102
Weekend 3GB 9pm(Fri )-6am (Mon) 3,000 108
Daytime 3GB 9am-9pm( 30days) 6,000 107
Monthly 5GB 24/7 8,000 101
Out of bundle rate 5kobo per kilobyte applies.


These are MTN'S Internet bundle plans. Subscribe time anyone of your choice. Note their data limits so you don't over use.

souljaboi51: Dnt really like the play book, wanted apple but unfortunately, the person i sent bought the wifi only version and there is no way of returning it since nobody is travelling. So, that's where am stuck

even if you get an ipad with sim card slot, it'll still suck the same amount of data, so getting a 3G ipad isn't the solution to your problem.

You can subscribe for MTN Internet bundles on the same line you have your BIS, though not too cheap at least it's cheaper than "Pay as you go" browsing you're doing now.

If paying for those data plans is too expensive for you or you want to browse on a tablet with your unlimited BIS , then like others have told you, you shoulda gotten a playbook.

^^^dude, it's not possible.