My take is this. Take it easy. Almost all men are freaks. If you think there is a perfect man out there, its a lie. Try manage the situation calmly. Handling the situation angrily may take the matter out of control and you could regret your action. Pray to God about and check to see if there is something you are not doing right. Maybe you could also relocate since you said both of you are staying in different towns.
honestwife: Hello house, I have been been a nairalander for many years and i just need advice because am so devasted. I got married to my husband 7years ago with 3beautiful kids ,a girl and 2 boys
My husband is that perfect men any woman would ever prayer for.i have never suspected him for once not until last year september that i saw some frequent call from a particular no, i decided to take the no and store on my own phone,,i suspected he was cheating but i did nit have any evidence to prove it.
So last month,i activated an automatic call recording on his phone and here i am, all my doubt were confirmed, i decided not to ask him as i laid down my own plans too, i took his phone and scan his whatapp QR code and i deactivated the notification so he wont know. So with this, i was able to veiw all his chat directly from my phone through this chat i saw that the lady was around at his place yesterday morning and i travelled in the eveningbecause we dont live in the same state due to transfer
i took my children to my sisters place and i travelled, looo and behold this lady was wearing only paint and bra in my husbands room although i gave both of them good dirty slap of thier life, and i told her i have details of his guy and that i was going to call and let him know the kind of girl she is
so now to cut the long story short this lady has a fiance which is planning to wed her because i got to her instagram page and facebook page and i saw that she has a very good guy at her hand thus made me sad because i dont know why she would cheat with my husband even after having a good relationship,
my decision is that am planning to call this guy through facebook call and send him all the recording and whatappbchat between her fiance and my husband
i just want to know if am making the right decision
I like your post about karma. It catches up sooner or later. I hope she has not equally dated another woman's husband before she got married? I ask because when some of these people are doing it to others, they do not consider it a big deal until it is their turn to experience how sweet it is to share their husband with another lady. No insult intended, please. Just speaking from experience.
FemiEddy: I am not married yet, so am not fit to give you an advice, but at least I can reason well and have seen things so this is my opinion Firstly, Leave the lady and her husband alone, Karma always comes back to hunt it's victim, she will reap the fruit of her labour, mind ur business and give ursef peace of mind. Secondly, ur husband, u know his weak point, maybe pounded yam, or one food, or maybe d oda room, give him a good treat, after he is calm and relaxed, confront him, just ask him why he did it, he will tell u , don't raise your voice o, u already have three kids, those are ur treasure. If you indeed love ur husband, please try, it's hard, but try for the sake of the kids My opinion
ChangeIsCostant: Chelsea's stars enjoyed a brief flight on Friday as the club took the unusual step of travelling to their away game at Leicester via aeroplane. Eden Hazard, Michy Batshuayi, Victor Moses and Co posed for photos on board the chartered jet as the squad prepared for take-off.
Chelsea have chosen to fly to Leicester ahead of Saturday's Premier League clash - despite just 102 miles separating Stamford Bridge and the King Power Stadium.
Chelsea are set to welcome Hazard back into the fold with the Belgian in contention to feature for his club for the first time this season.
Hazard played twice for Belgium over the international break and has been training with the Chelsea first team after recovering from a fractured ankle suffered in June.
It means Antonio Conte has a full squad to choose from - with new signings Danny Drinkwater and Davide Zappacosta in contention to make their Chelsea debuts.
With the exit of these people from pdp, I think the party is better placed. There were the bad eggs. They crossed over to finish APC and that is why the party cannot perform. Their yansh go open after they leave office. Nonesence. Thief dey join beat the thief when them catch. Your own dey front.
coolzeal: Both political parties are the same. Politicians and Elites playing mind games on gullible Nigerians since 1914.
Below is the list of 30 key members of the APC who are formerly eminent members of the PDP. 1. Senate President Bukola Saraki PDP governor for 8 years and senator for over 3 years. He joined the APC in 2014. 2. Speaker of the House of Representatives; Honourable Yakubu Dogara Two-term PDP House of Representatives member. He joined the APC in 2014. 3. Former Vice President; Alhaji Atiku Abubakar PDP VP for 8 years and presently an APC elder statesman after jumping from one party to the other since 2007. 4. Senator Victor Ndoma-Egba PDP senator for 12 years. He defected to the APC last year. He is the serving chairman of the Niger Delta Development Commission board. 5. Senator Heineken Lokpobiri Two-term PDP senator from Bayelsa state. He defected to APC after the 2015 elections. He is currently the minister of state for agriculture. 6. Senator Barnabas Gemade Former national chairman of the PDP and senator from 2011 till date. He joined APC in December 2014. 7. Chief Audu Ogbeh Former PDP chairman. Currently the minister of agriculture 8. Senator Ita Enang Two-term PDP senator from Akwa-Ibom. He joined APC before the 2015 elections. He is presently the senior special assistant to the president on the National Assembly (Senate). 9. Governor Samuel Ortom of Benue state Former Benue state secretary of the PDP. Former national auditor of the PDP and former minister under President Goodluck Jonathan. He joined the APC in December 2014. 10. Governor Atiku Bagudu of Kebbi state A former two-term PDP senator from Kebbi. 11. Governor Aminu Tambuwal of Sokoto state Former PDP Speaker of the House of Representatives. He joined the APC in 2014. 12. Senator Abdullahi Adamu Two-term PDP governor of Nasarawa and senator in 2011. He joined the APC in 2014. 13. Senator Danjuma Goje Two-term PDP governor of Gombe state and senator in 2011. He joined the APC in 2014. 14. Honourable Dakuku Peterside He was a PDP House of Reps member from Rivers state. He joined the in 2014. He is currently the Director-General of NIMASA. 15. Senator Rabiu Kwankwaso Two-term PDP governor of Kano state and former minister of defence under President Olusegun Obasanjo. He joined the APC in late 2013. 16. Mr Rotimi Amaechi Former PDP Speaker of the Rivers state House of Assembly. Two-term PDP governor of Rivers. He joined APC in late 2013. He is currently the minister of transport. 17. Governor Rochas Okorocha of Imo state He was a special adviser to PDP's President Olusegun Obasanjo. He joined APC in February 2013. 18. Senator George Akume Two-term PDP governor of Benue state and senator in 2007. Left the party in December 2010 for the APC. 19. Governor Nasir El-Rufai of Kaduna state Former FCT minister under President Obasanjo. Left the PDP in 2010. 20. Governor Bello Masari of Katsina state PDP Speaker of the House of Reps from 2003 to 2007. 21. Senator Adamu Aliero Two-term PDP governor of Kebbi state and senator in 2007. Later became FCT minister under Late President Umaru Musa Yar'Adua. 22. Senator Udoma Udo Udoma Two-term PDP senator from Akwa-Ibom state. He is now the minister of budget and national planning. 23. Senator Chris Ngige Anambra state governor under the PDP between 2003 to 2006. He is currently the minister of labour and employment. 24. Senator Andy Uba Recently defected from the PDP to the APC after serving as a special assistant to former President Obasanjo and PDP senator for 5 years. 25. Governor Simon Lalong of Plateau state Former Seaker of the Plateau state House of Assembly under the PDP. 26. Senator Joshua Dariye Former governor of Plateau state for 8 years under the PDP. 27. Engineer Segun Oni PDP governor for 3 years in Ekiti state. He is currently the APC national vice chairman for South west 28. Governor Abiola Ajimobi of Oyo state PDP senator between 2004 to 2007 representing Oyo central senatorial district. 29. Governor Ibikunle Amosun from Ogun state PDP senator from 2003 to 2007 representing Ogun central senatorial district 30. Governor Umar Ganduje of Kano state Two –time deputy governor of Kano state under the PDP.
These people no get shame. Who were the PDP people who distroyed the country? You joined pdp to finish the country, change your garment and now claim to be saint. If people should open their mouth to condemn pdp, it should not be former pdp members. Shameless people. Wolves in sheep clothing.
GidiParrot: Former Governor of Benue State, Senator George Akume while addressing Zone B APC Women Leaders and their Deputies in Makurdi on Friday, said:
"Don't lose hope in the APC. This party inherited a damaged system that is undergoing structural repairs. Better days will soon be here. PDP Caused us the Pain we are in Today and shouldn't see their party as an option"
Senator Akume was elected governor of Benue State under the platform of the People's Democratic Party (PDP) in 1999. He was again re-elected in 2003 for a second term in office.
sukkot: but if you go there you will try to destroy it by doing things you do in africa over there. is it GOD that bless america or is it just that the humans there are civilised ? if africans start acting civilised will we not have the same country ? blame yourself. GOD is the answer to everything but sometimes you have to look in the mirror at yourself
just imagine the orderliness of the road users. If its in naija, the vehicles would cover everywhere that even the vehicle coming to town will not have a pathway.
If its naija, trust us. In attempt to escape, we would not maintain the line those vehicles are following. We would have made use of every available space including the fields and the lane for coming vehicles. Such a crazy country. I wonder whether we will ever get it right.
Explorers: 'This is a storm that will kill you if you don't get of the way'
'We can rebuild your homes, but we can't rebuild your lives' Governor of Florida
The largest evacuation in US history is underway as more than 5.6million people have been ordered to leave Florida before Category 5 Hurricane Irma strikes the Sunshine State.
The state's Gov. Rick Scott urged people who hadnot left yet to leave as soon as possible on Friday.
He warned those who plan to stay, that they may have to ride out the dangerous storm at their own risk.
He explained that the biggest concern with the powerful hurricane is the predicted storm surge that will come along with the lashing winds and heavy rains.
The storm has the potential to do $125billion worth of damage when it strikes Miami and possibly much more.
Irma has caused devastation in the Caribbean, killing at least 24 and leveling entire islands.
Extensive damage has been reported on Barbuda and St Martin, with over 90 per cent of buildings wrecked.
The storm is currently battering the northern coast of Cuba.
If soja catch you with this carmouflage, you no go sabi when the thing go fall commot for the bra.
Kolababe: The manner in which some Nigerian guys react at the sight of big boobs will make you wonder whether they weren't breastfed at infancy.So, Nollywood actress Adediwurah Blackgold hours ago, shared some photos with a friend of hers named Busty Benny on Instagram. That was when trouble started. People started started refering to the lady's massive boobs. We must not pretend, this lady is endowed. People on Instagram could not control themselves and some even called her boobs "atomic bomb", while one lady even surrendered by saying "Just when i thought i was busty . I give it to you ma".
riyanxeally: almost every lady is bound to xpand after child bearing if ure baloon now wat ll u be after three kids I know why marriages really no longer last
Is marriage solely based on breast shape & size? Just asking o.
MrBrownJay1: i once "mistakenly" dated a gal with such boobs... and while she was dressed she looked A-M-A-Z-I-N-G and so sexy, but then we went for bedroom acrobatics, and as she lay on her back, she undid her bra, and ONE BREAST fell on the bed on one side of her body, and the other breast fell on the bed on the other side. i have never seen anything so repulsive in my ENTIRE LIFE. my erection disappeared in a minute, and i had to ask her to put on her bra again.
She took to her official Facebook page to announce the good news, adding that she and the baby are doing well.
Governor Yahaya Bello welcomes a baby boy with his third wife, Governor Yahaya Bello, Yahaya Bello Third Wife, Yahaya Bello, Yahaya Bello wife, Yahaya Bello wives "Alhamdullilah! Alhamdullilah! Alhamdullilah! I am overwhelmed with happiness. My heart is full of joy. It is all good news, good news and good news, within and around me. Dearly beloved! Allah has blessed me with another bouncing baby boy. We remain grateful to Him for his mercy and protection. Alhamdullilah, the baby and myself are doing very fine. Thank you for your prayers and show of love. Goodafternoon."
She took to her official Facebook page to announce the good news, adding that she and the baby are doing well.
Governor Yahaya Bello welcomes a baby boy with his third wife, Governor Yahaya Bello, Yahaya Bello Third Wife, Yahaya Bello, Yahaya Bello wife, Yahaya Bello wives "Alhamdullilah! Alhamdullilah! Alhamdullilah! I am overwhelmed with happiness. My heart is full of joy. It is all good news, good news and good news, within and around me. Dearly beloved! Allah has blessed me with another bouncing baby boy. We remain grateful to Him for his mercy and protection. Alhamdullilah, the baby and myself are doing very fine. Thank you for your prayers and show of love. Goodafternoon."
Bleep off Hell Rufai. People are talking, fanatics like you are talking too. We hear your name among the possible people to succeed PMB. You are a jocking midjet. For you, its a no, no, no.
Joejoe12: many of you are Hypocrite, pray for Buhari to finish this one well and alive, you knew it Buhari is not strong enough for the next election, sycoelephant, eye service, talking for relevancy, pretend to love Buhari. The woman better than many of you, a woman with a Lion heart could speak for herself. She is only taling for next election, and you busybody has gotten work to do with that liars
They were like refuges then. Their hand don touch cash.
zoba88: As shared by Chico(said he copied it from someone's wall)...
'THE POWER OF ASSOCIATION. This is Adams Oshomole receiving an award from Philip Shaibu when he was labour president and Philip Shaibu was NANS President. Later Adams Oshomole became Edo state executive governor and left, while Philip Shaibu is now the Deputy governor of Edo State and the third man is Ayewo my then SUG president.I believe with Philip Shaibu,Ayewo should grow too'
But they equally that irrespective of the endorsment, other candidates are still free to vie for the post at the party primaries. I am yet to see a president or governor in naija who does not try to have a hand in his successor to cover their corrupt footprints no matter how clean they pretend to be.
It takes one day to plan, one day to execute & one day to be cought.
dainformant: The Imo State Police Command has paraded several persons suspected to have involved in armedd robbery and kidnapping activities in the command premises. Among them were those suspected to have abducted and killed one Rev.Fr Cyriacus Onunkwo,in one of the Catholic parishes in Orlu zone...
It was revealed that the abduction and killing of the Rev Fr took place when he returned from oversees to plan for the burial of late father.
Equally the suspected kidnappers of the popular Christian musician Evangelist Chinedu Nwadike were also paraded at the state police command headquarters.
The commissioner of Police in charge of Imo state command, while briefing the news men said that IMO state under his watch must enjoy peace in all areas of life. He also pledge to support his men where necessary to ensure efficiency in delivery of their constitutional duties.
Liar don see lie talk. He did all these while on medical vacation or as he come so?
Thebest12: The Minister of Information and Culture, Lai Mohammed, has explained how the administration of President Muhammadu Buhari got Nigeria out of recession.
RationalTV..com learnt that Mohammed, while speaking with the press, said the country was able to exit the recession that lasted for more than a year because of the efforts put in by the Buhari government.
He stated that the 0.55% growth in the Gross Domestic Product (GDP) in the second quarter of 2017, was one of the major things that got the nation out of recession, Daily Post reports.
He said:“Taking Nigeria out of recession did not happen by accident. It is the culmination of months of hard work by the Administration and fidelity to its well-articulated economic policies, especially the Strategic Implementation Economic Recovery (2016) and the Growth Plan (ERGP) that was launched on 5th April, 2017.
“This positive growth is attributable to both the oil and non-oil sectors of the economy. Growth in the oil sector, which has been negative since Q4 2015, was positive in Q2 2017. It rose by 1.64% as compared to -15.60 in Q1 2017, an increase of up to 17 percentage points.
“The non-oil sector grew by 0.45% in Q2 2017, a second successive quarterly growth after growing 0.72% in Q1 2017. In particular, improvement in the non-oil sector was driven principally by strong growth in agriculture and solid minerals sector, and reversal in the previous contraction of the manufacturing and construction sector. This shows that the government’s economic diversification programme is working."
Other positive developments listed by the minister are:
1. A fall in the inflation rate from 18% to 16% as of July 2017
2. The rise in exports, coupled with a decrease in imports, which brought the country’s trade balance to N719.4 billion, up from N671.3 billion
3. Increase in capital inflow that brought the total value of capital imported into Nigeria in the second quarter of 2017 to $1,792.3 million, representing a growth of 95.02 percent
4. Increase in foreign reserves to a 30-month high of $31.8 billion in July 2017
5. Appreciation in exchange rate from N520/$ as at 20 February 2017 to N362/$ as at 17th August 2017
Meanwhile, RationalTV..com reported earlier that Governor Ayodele Fayose of Ekiti has reacted to news that Nigeriawas out of recession, describing it as inaccurate.
In a statement signed by his spokesperson, Lere Olayinka, on Wednesday, September 6, the Ekiti governor claimed the statistics upon which the claim was based is meaningless to Nigerians.
He said that the reality is that Nigerians are suffering and dying, with foods out of their reach and no amount of economic statistics will make meaning to people who cannot afford to eat once daily.
Mr Cleric, this dressing is the dressing of Arabs because they stay in the desert, to protect them from sandy winds.
Ogashub: President of the Muslim Rights Concern (MURIC) has described as sinful, the act of Ekiti state governor, Ayo Fayose a Christian, wearing the Muslim regalia, to the Eid ground for the Sallah prayers on Friday, September 1st. A photo of Fayose wearing the Islamic regalia above.
In a statement released yesterday, Akintola condemned Fayose for using the religious gathering to deliver political a speech which according to Akintola is an “executive hocus pocus, highly sacrilegious and unduly provocative. It is Act I, Scene I in the Theater of the Absurd.” Akintola said Fayose came to the Eid ground to campaign for the next person who would take over his office.
He added that electorates now have to demand a psychiatric test to be conducted on those that wish to assume political office.
His statement in part reads “He has delivered several anti-Muslim speeches. His general attitude and body language to Muslims of Ekiti belie his status as the state governor.
He has also demolished mosques out of sheer desire to eliminate all Islamic landmarks from Ekiti. So who is Fayose deceiving? The fact that he offered advice concerning who Muslims should vote for in the coming Ekiti 2018 election in his speech at the Id ground reveals Fayose’s real motive. But that is his undoing. Delivering a political speech in a serene atmosphere and on a sacred ground is sacrilegious.
Fayose has also politicized religion. Who are Fayose’s advisers for Allah’s sake? Or is it that he does not listen to them? It is most likely that he doesn’t listen to anyone. Like every bully, Fayose acts on instinct. He tries to think later though.
Fayose has abused the turban and arrogantly violated Islamic a etiquette. It is an insult for him to have so boldly dressed himself up like an Imam on Id ground. Only a titled Muslim leader or an Islamic scholar can dress like that. Fayose has failed to respect a major Islamic decorum.
Can any political leader put on a pastor’s cassock and clerical collar without causing uproar? Fayose has shown that he has no respect for Muslims or their religion.
He derides Ekiti Muslims yet he tries to con them to vote for his party. On a final and very serious note, we suggest that in view of our experience in the Third Republic, it has become necessary, from now onward, for the electorate to demand certificate of psychiatric examination fro m candidates seeking political offices.”
Alcatraz005: An Igbo man should be nominated as Vice President. Osinbajo has not done anything forg me as a Yoruba man or a Christian sef. He stood by and allowed them kill many Christians. The man has no balls!
I agree with you. I am not igbo but I think the time has come to give them a sense of belonging by voting an igbo vee pee to allow the north finish their term. Moreover, Atiku is above 70 and a single term may just be okay for him to add to 8years as vp. If a younger northerner is put there, he may plunge the country into more crises by seeking a 2nd term after the 1st. This appears to be Atiku's appointed time. He is more detribilist than all the names being put forward. El Rufai is a no no no. If he cant fix southern Kaduna the way the likes of Makarfi handled it without noise, the he cant fix Nigeria. Any party that fields him will loose badly.
I have a conviction that this woman was even nominated to her present job by Atiku. She may also be aware already that she is going to be dropped in the reshuffle coming up soon and so decide to go haywire.
ChangetheChange: Aisha Alhassan, minister of women affairs, says she will support Atiku Abubakar, former vice-president, if he decides to run for office in 2019.
In a video which went viral on Wednesday, the minister declared support for the former vice-president.
Her action sparked condemnation, particularly among supporters of the All Progressives Congress (APC).
“Atiku is my godfather even before I joined politics. And again, Baba Buhari did not tell us that he is going to run in 2019,” she said.
That hostel na offcampus apartment for the school o. Na few boys do that one.
Choiszman: Malaysian-Based Nigerian Big Boy, Hushpuppi has revealed his excitement, after some Students of Auchi Polytechnic, Edo State decided to name their hostel after him.
He shared the Picture on his Instagram page, and promised that one day, He’d surely donate to better the living conditions of the students in that hostel.
“Somewhere far away in Auchi polytechnic Edo state where I’ve never been, some wonder students decided to name their hostel after me, I am so honored and this is just the beginning, many more to come, streets will be named after me soon.” “To this wonderful student I someday soon will reach out to you guys n make donations to better your living conditions in that hostel. #TeamHushpuppi #WinningTeam”
I dont believe it. I can see another person in d pix. They wont do that publicly if both are married.
Kolababe: An angry Nigerian wife, Ndidi Onyekwelu has taken to Facebook to call out her husband and share photos of him and his colleague, who is married,smooching and pressing each other in dangerous places. Ndidi alleged she is having an affair with her husband.
According to her, the woman is married with two kids and is allegedly fond of sleeping around with other married men. She wrote;
"Josephine ekerette i can see dat u are in d habit of fucking oda women’s husbands despite d fact dat u a married woman with 2 kids. I dont care wether u se jazz or not but dis will b ur last. I pity ur husband who decided to marry a waste of woman’s labour and a public latrine like u. A woman of easy virtue", she wrotes.
Baawaa: They knows what they are doing, they want Northerners to conclude their 8 years so by 2013 it will be their turn
There is no time northerners will not complete their 8 years either through Buhari or someone else. Any other northerner who takes a shot in 2019 other than Buhari will do a single term, else he is out to create trouble for the country. You can see how jealously the northerners are protecting their mandate even with Buhari's illness. So when it is time for power to shift back to the south, they have no choice but to let go.
izombie: Mr oyegun, as it stands now, apc is busy campaigning for pdp because of your failures. Guess what mr oyegun, 80% of those that failed nigerians while in pdp are now in apc. They've become worse than they were under pdp. The only way for apc now is to rig elections.
The truth is that APC scammed nigerians by making promises they knew they couldnt fulfil. I dont even understand Oyegun. APC campaigned with the shortcomings of PDP and promised to do things better. I expect they will now campaign with how far they have done things better and not say the same things they told us that made us prefer them to PDP in the last elections. If nothing at all, nepotism makes APC a party good enough only for the dustbin. I am personally waiting for what they will say this time. They no dey fit deceive ash.. 2 times.
Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Tecno66: 12:37pm On Sep 09, 2017
just need advice because am so devasted. I got married to my husband 7years ago with 3beautiful kids ,a girl and 2 boys
