₦airaland Forum

KanwuliaJara:
Too much BEGGING from the BOTTOMLESS PITS!
Like you are packing money abroad.

I dash one couple with 5 children under 12 years N650,000 2 years ago, last year dem ask for N1.2Million.
I just delete dem #s sharp-sharp.
Na me say make dem open nyansh and blokos dey born-born like termites?
Mtcheeeeeeew!

komek:
I used to fantasize about this babe back then. I so liked her then. She looked so naturally beautiful.

100Cents:
Pictures of your UKWU before I comment.

pretydiva:
She's jst like me..be happy u ve such a gal as ur gf

elohorayodele:
1. I used to hate fish n dodo so bad I could puke if I bit a little piece

2. I am scared of travelling by road

3. I sat beside kcee on a flight to
London and didn't recognise him

bokohalal:
Even sef, it wasn't just from football that they banned India. During the 1940 Olympic games, in the midst of WW2, one Indian High Jumper jumped so high that they are still waiting for him to come down.

Nexxy007:
i have always wondered why India has never participated in any football tournament though

blemon44:
is she married

agrovick:
The travails of a ukwuless lady

naijaboiy:
Hehehehehe!

Who doesn't Like a big butt?

Every man Likes something grabbable,,forget all these things wey some of them dey yan for here

#My Anaconda don't want none unless you gat buns on#

komek:
...When I wake up I will comment .

FastShipping:
This is the same woman that was selling fish and palm oil as late as 2008 but all of a sudden she is super rich to the extent that she donated 250,000,000 to build a church in Otuoke, Bayelsa State. Where did she get such money from?

2kris:
d 1st tyn i discoverd is that u ar an igbo girl

2kris:
the evaluation u want me to carry will suffer i little set back because u dont have a pix

RedBenson:
Yes, just incase you have idea

RedBenson:
Does the senator's daughter have a younger sister?

Ewuro4:
Soooo if I get you right.. African way is the ONLY Right way? My kids for example are only African in their schools, we don't attend Nigerian church, NO SINGLE NIGERIAN in their extra curricular activities(skating/hockeyetc) ... ETC...SO does that mean they'll lack manners and not do well??

I thought you're here to learn from diasporean parents and not attack people's POVs but Seem you have an agenda...Not worth my time abeg. I'll rather watch

mutter:
Lousy parents in diaspora would also have been lousy parents at home.

When you have african friends, belong to an african community and possibly attend an African church or mosque your children get exposed to their culture and tradition.

As regards the upbringing that depends on the parents.
Training a child starts virtually from the day it is born. Children need love, encouragement and also boundaries.

When I compare my kid`s that I raised out of Nigeria I must say I am very pleased with the result. Not just academically but also behavior wise. I did not do it the African or the European way but our way. Each child is different and needs to be treated as an individual first. I want my children to understand why they have to do or omit doing something and not just do it because I said so. I want my kid`s to be able to confide in me, no matter what they did.
There are some aspects about the african way that need to be changed.

2CatWoman:
A lot of African parents put most emphasis on getting good grades and not answering back to them over everything else. Culture is at the bottom of the list. Few diasporian raised kids speak the native language or know much about their ethnic heritage, some don't even carry native names. Good manners should be a universal thing.

Ewuro4:
What do you mean "African way"... Are they in Africa?

Brb to share an experience/ observations ...

BABE3:
Kids and technology these days. Tablets are the new pacifiers.

You enter a home with a 5 yr old kid and you expect him to say "Good afternoon aunty BABE3". But mba, all their focus is on that ipad. They don't even notice when you come and leave.

...or instead of greeting you, first thing they say is "aunty do you have games on your phone? "..

Wtf? who are the jokes raising these kids...

2CatWoman:
In my opinion a lot of Nigerian parents in the diaspora don't actually raise their children. The eldest child who could be as young as 8 years is left in charge at home while the younger kids are babysat by Messers 50Cent and SnoopDawg (or other bad TV influences).

Then when the kids start acting up at around 11 or 12 years, only then does dad decide to send them home for their "African training", something which should have taken place from birth.