@ poster,

happiness is where you find it (to quote a worn cliche). If you feel happy and loved in the armsof a Deltan, what is anybody's problem with  that. The fact that you are from the Ibo end and he is Deltan is not an issue here. Neither is the fat that his people are knowen for this and that. All that is important is what both of you think and want.

Nigeria has become such a mixed country that there are many cross-cultural marriages. I am happy for you, that you are one of those trying to integrate and unify Nigeria.

I will just suggest that you follow your heart.  But, you need to realise that marriage is a lifelong commitment be sure this is what you both want. Then just go for it. I wish you luck.

@ poster,

happiness is where you find it (to quote a worn cliche). If you feel happy and loved in the armsof a Deltan, what is anybody's problem with that. The fact that you are from the Ibo end and he is Deltan is not an issue here. Neither is the fat that his people are knowen for this and that. All that is important is what both of you think and want.

Nigeria has become such a mixed coutry that there are many cross-cultural marriages. I am happy for you, that you are one of thosetrying to integrate and unify Nigeria.

I will just suggest that you follow your heart. But, you need to realise that marriage is a lifelong commitment be sure this is what yoy both want. Then just go for it. I wish you luck.

ololade,

ur figure for blocks appear to be on the high side. Given the standard 60 by 120 plot u would need between 2500 - 3000 at the most. This depends on ur gatesize.

Hi,

just called ur line now. Left a message for you. Lets talk.

@poster,

nice rides. Obviously, well taken care of. Could you post the Vin herein for people to check. Would have been interested in the Camry 07 (Am really crazy about that car, but seems to be well beyond my reach).

Please post the Vin and lets take it from there.

@almond,

tell me, what if the guy be real 'kolo'. Wetin go happen that time. Moreso, as a 'Lady' madamkoko has got to show some level of decorum and decency. Dont you think your approach would be taking things too far?

Almond, i know u got class and am sure u wont ever go that low to make a point. Methinks, madamkoko should just walk away from the 'maddening crowd'.

@ almondjoy,

then when do you think the madness will stop. The two of them will just go on and on and on till someone backs down. So, why not just stop the madness right away by ignoring the guy.

You do not win a battle with a madman by degenerating to his level. You keep your respectability by refraining from joining issues with such mad people. Well, thats my tupenny worth o.

madamkoko,

though it might be difficult just ignore him. He is not worth the stress. U already said ur goodbyes. I am sure he is jsut doing this to spite you. TO make you feel like you are truly missing something. He is like a child crying for attention.

Imagine he does not exist.

@poster,

the fellow might not be gay. And, his reason might just be valid. He knows it takes some level of finance to make a marriage work. Not to even think of the fact that he might start having children immediately after the wedding.

However, the fella might just need some counselling and be able to plan his finances better.

Even if the twoparties are willing, they will have to contend with societal demands - their families, immedaite neighbourhood and even at social gatherings. They need to be aware of this and know they have to deal with such issues at one point or another.

Poster, ur friend is an adult and the decision is hers, not urs. Let her be, and let her make her decisions herself.

teetalks,

thot u said 1.25m was negotiable. In your last post, you now said last price was 1.27m. Abeg which one be which o.


On a more serious note though, you are asking far too high than the car is worth. A Honda Baby Boy costs between 1.2m - 1.3m. Would you say your Bulldog has been appropriately priced. Lets be serious now. You need to get your pricing right brother.

@poster,

I am interested let me have the details. You can email me.

@ajagx1 ,

the way you presented the deal makes for suspicion. The cars are cheap, yet so far away. No one in their right senses will buy a car 'sight unseen' in Nigeria. Even, when you do see some cars, who knows the abracadabra that has gone on before they got here.

The prices are quite competitive and should be a selling point for you when the vehicles get to Nigeria.

So, the ball is in your court now (to use a worn cliche).

Good luck.

The problem is that a lot of people are not their real selves on nairaland. People pose a lot here. So, it is not really difficult to see why some ladies will avoid the brothers in here if they can.

Also, the guys too are no different. They give off a wrong picture of who they really are. Infact, most of them sound really desperate, and I dont blame the ladies for not really looking at their side.

But, Sam, since you started this, probably you should just be appointed the official 'alaga iduro' of nairaland.

@ajagx1,

I called, we spoke. And, you gave me your conditions. But, to be frank with you, no one will be willing to drop any money for a vehicle he is yet to see. So, i will recommend that if you really desire to sell these cars, bring them into Nigeria.

Thats just my own angle to it.

Best of luck.

@ poster,

i am interested, please send me the pics. Thank you.

@poster,

nice one. Wish you could translate the whole bible like that. Probably area boys, agberos e.t.c. may be interested in reading that kind of translation.

Meanwhile, u are on ur own o!

@ poster,

you have done your best. I guess, you just have to leave the rest to GOD. Some other ladies would have let sleeping dogs lie, you did right by baring all. Only, you never reckoned that your man would behave true to type (Typical of most men, the writer inclusive - A man would want to marry a virgin that knows how to please him in bed - what a mixup).

I can guess the impact the loss of your man must be having on you at the moment.

There is no need beating yourself over the head for telling it all to him. Why not just take a step back and let go of everything. Let GOD take control. If he is for you he will come back, if he is not you can never make him return.

Let Go, and Let GOD.

Cheer up. Its not the end of the world, you know. Infact you have something to help you with reality - your exams. Face your studies now, and stop grieving as if the guy had died.

Take care of yourself, at the appointed time all will be well.

ofans,

this should do for now. I am still trying to digest some of the points u made here.

Phinie,

thanks and keep the flag flying.

@danity,

u are welcome. Hope you will remember to invite us to the wedding.

@danity,

dont worry. Just fast and pray. I can bet you, your life will never remain the same again. Bless you.

@poster,

please are u a poet or lyricist? U have a nice write-up here though. Read the other one on flying, not bad. Keep it up.

@poster,

GROWN MEN (MATURED IN THE REAL SENSE) NEVER KISS AND TELL. At least respect the person of the lady. Imagine, it could be your sister, your daughter or any other close female relation. Would you wish your kind of person on them.

The fact that you had a nice time was enough for you to appreciate the 'service' the lady rendered you. For you to now turn around and gloat shows you as an ingrate. Another way to look at it is to put yourself in the other person's shoes. U know, if u had been a woman, u could have been worse than the person u are now condemning.

Though I respect your right to have your say in here, but what you have done is in bad taste.

Now, I pity the poor lady to have met a person like you. Poor woman. You know, I am sure we are yet to hear the last of this story. I hope you have heard the new term, "The evil that men do, just does not live after them, it lives to haunt them". Just keep us posted.

Two wrongs, they say, do not make a right. To quote a worn cliche. The guy's manner during the date was one wrong, whilst the lady slapping him was a second wrong. Chikena.

Two wrongs, they say, do not make a right. To quote a worn cliche. The guy's manner during the date was one wrong, whilst the lady slapping him was a second wrong. Chikena.

ofans,

please start by explaining the principle that holds a plane up in the sky. Thus, negating the law of gravity. The venturri principle, or something of sort. I have read it somewhere before and could not understand the whole gibberish.

@ poster,

suddenly feels cold in here. I think am about to have the chills.









Nice one

@jenju,

thanks. Now I get it. I was always wondering what these guys meant by those terms.

E kaaro nibi o. Se a jire. E yase o. O dabo.

@ kronkykay,

nice one. But, please dont let the ladies hear this o. Am sure they will tear you to pieces. And, I mean literally tear u to pieces.

Once again, nice one.