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Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

Madam, how can u try to justify anal as either maybe the right way since others feel sex styles should be enjoyed as Christians? Sex is the joining of 2 opposite adults copulating through reproductive organs and not any other means so, it can either be missionary or doggy or any other but not through the ANUS. Sex is meant to be enjoyed as God designed and reproduce at the same time. The anus is not a reproductive organs and as such can not be termed as love making and even if the world sees it as love making, it is ungodly. You can not justify anal sex simply because someone has decided to make love to his wife standing.

If you are truthful to yourself and as a children God, you can never say you've not had other sex position different from your so called mommy and daddy style.
When you are 8 to 9 month pregnant, was it missionary your husband was doing or you went sideways or any position that wouldn't hurt the baby or pressing your Tommy?
You just simply lied in church and caused commotion by vehemently justifying what was never written in the Bible. God favoured King Solomon and can you authoritatively beat your chest he made love the missionary ways all through?
Vagina for reproduction
Anus for excretes
In your vagina, the urinary duct is different from where reproduction takes place.

You're simply scared of loosing her if she goes out in pursuit of her long dreamt ambition....

victooman:
Please help advice me,

We both finished our NYSC service last year, luckily enough we started a POS business and as God will have it, we are both doing well, we both make a minimum of 5k at least on daily basis.

The main problem is that of recent she is talking about applying for her masters degree, l told her what is the essence of going for masters degree when the degree we obtain has not been any useful to us, why not expand this particular business, be financially stable before you start talking about masters, beside we need to build our self financially well if we have to settle down.

She told me that is her long time ambition and she is not expecting any money from me, she left my house this morning with anger.

Please Nairalanders, did l do anything wrong? What is the best way to handle this issue?

Flight90:
Hello Nairalanders,

Please I need your help in sorting out a transaction I did. On the 25th of April, 2022 I did a transfer to a first bank account which didn't go as a result of bad network from the bank. Later that day, I tried the transaction a second time and it was now successful.

When it was time for me to go home, I did my balancing and discovered that I was having shortage. So I did a review of my days transaction and I discovered that the initial transaction later went. Meaning that the customer got credited twice.

I called my bank to confirm the transaction and I was told that both transaction were successful. I then called the customer who now claimed that he only got credited for once.

I told him to check his app, he replied that he doesn't use an android phone. I then told him to go to his bank to get his bank statement, his reply was that he doesn't have time to go to his bank.

Please guys, how do I solve this case? Is there a way I can go to first bank to get evidence that the money is in the customers account? And is it possible for me to get a police report in other to go to first bank to get evidence?

Kindly advice as your suggestions will go a long way in solving this case.

Op, I'm dealing with almost same issue here too. In a rush to credit a POS operator, I credited a stored name in my app but I don't know who the person is. So, I called my bank and an issuer error has been raised. I am now to give them 4 working days which I believe begins today so, I'll follow up to see if I can get my money back but the credited account bank has to be notified and then the customer. If your customer refuses to pay back, it can be a criminal offense and can serve jail term. Explore your bank to take it up from their end.

TyroneP:
He simply asked for a lawyer's input. Most people commenting are condemning him. Advice should be from legal aspect. Lawyers in the house should help him with this.

He wants advice on the custody of the child or soon to be charges of kidnap n murder against him? How sure are you he didn't poison the lady or used her for rituals? Does this boy really knows what's coming for him or he will just suck it up and see reasons. I feel his pains but even married men go through financial melt down from having to treat sick spouses n still loose them

jokinexcel:
Something like happened in my community, the family of the girl asked the guy to come and pay the bride price he refused, so the girl's family changed the case to kidnap and murder case , that they have been looking for their daughter for years , only for the guy who they claimed that they have never seen or know to inform them of their daughter's death . So they claimed that the guy kidnap and murder their daughter.

Very simple. The guy just doesn't know what he's up to. Before I read your post, it was the same reply I sent him. He's busy talking about how much he spent on her but failing to see the murder case against him. Stupid fly that will follow the corpse into the grave. That's where he's headed.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
Why would I carry it to the village..?
It's already in the morgue, for her people arrival, it's their daughter.
Have done my most vital parts borrowing money to save her now am in debts, if you want me to marry her corpse because am scared. My brother your wrong.

Oga, your woman is Akwa Ibom or another tribe that does this thing. First, do you know you can be charged with Kidnap and murder? Because you took someone's daughter and even got her pregnant to do the extend she died in your possession? Do you know her parents can deny knowing you were with their daughter? Do you know you can remediate all these by putting your head down and finding a better way out than that which you're taking? I do not believe marrying her corpse means you taking pictures with a dead body but to properly call her your wife since you both have a child. If you ever loved her while she was alive, pls do the needful and remember her as your wife. Imagine if you were both married, wouldn't she or you die while married? There's no EGO here, we were once as stubborn as you are and if not worst but life is best if you played her calmly. No pride bro

Angela1996:
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Stop looking for an easy way out. Go and report him to the police and look for a human right person in case the police will Fu ck up...

Are you mocking his God or what exactly are you trying to say?
You hope he regains his freedom but did ask if his God can save him... If you don't believe in anything, why don't you hold to your unbelieve and allow those who believe in something or someone live their purposeful life as they dim fit?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Can his God pls save him now?
I hope he regain his freedom..

Do you know that this dangerous vaxx can cause heart failure sef... The autopsy will tell anyways.

aanuoluwami14:
With the current situation in Nigeria, even with management, #50k can't be enough for all of you including your mom. Your wife might be so fed up with the triplets consumption, a woman who will take good care of triplets should be very well fed, it's not a easy task at all. Endure with her, let your mother endure too, pray for more income, there will no more fight again.

Do you hear yourself at all?

Imagine a lady calling him a scum.. Has anyone tried to even understand what's going on? Has anyone tried to see his woman's actions led to the forceful penetration? Should sex in marriage be a tool to punish the other partner? Bashing him here and excusing his wife's excesses is wrong. Something is wrong between but having to endure months before he sees her undies is also wrong. Whatever was happening between them before needs to be addressed else extramarital affairs will spring up... Every man and woman has their limits...

Dude, you know the initial issue, deal with it first and then forgiveness from her in this dispicable act of yours can be forgiven easily... Best of Luck in resolving your issues amicably.

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My friend, you do have a problem and I want to believe you're only seeing what your mind is wanting to see in your wife's sister. You call your wife the "gossip" because you're trying to find a reason to sleep with her younger sister. Don't you have self control and also respect for your wife? How can you begin to compare your wife with someone else? You've sold her already man...
You need not talk to her younger sister as regard anything. If you aren't a pervert or idleness is killing you. Engage yourself to something else. Also, there has to be a reason why you loved your wife, face or beauty didn't count so why does it count now. Get a grip of yourself.

And then Sowore's declaration...what are ye all thinking?

jbaby265:
hello house please help a sister out.. my relationship of 6 to 7 years is about to crash..
I Love my man and he loves me too.. he stands by me in all times and I do the same for him too in fact our relationship is a typical example of grassroots relationship.. but recently I'm beginning to get frustrated at his attitude or should I say our attitude towards each other.. which is why I resorted to you guys.. this is a faceless forum so I feel comfortable to share my worries..

in recent years I found out that our quarrels, dispute, misunderstanding and bitterness has drastically increased and it bothers me alot.. he quarrel more often this days and can even stay up-to a month without communication.. he complains about everything I do and that's me angry.. AM NOT A SAINT HERE cos he complains of my non Challentless too.. but this our constant quarrels and misunderstanding is driving crazy.. I've cried and ask GOd to dissolve us if it's not his will for us to get married rather than us fighting all the time. HONESTLY AM CONFUSED PLEASE YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED. I love him and he loves me but we fight a lot.. our wedding is Sept ( still don't believe is possible though)..

the problem is just stress associated with wedding preparation. it does happen to majority except those that have their families figured their wedding plans up... play it cool n be more sensitive n understanding till September. try as much as possible to make things go smoothly for him from ur parents angle. it's ur wedding so don't allow ur ppl stress him much and you'll be fine after the wedding

sexaddict08:
She has been with me for the past one year....faithful n all that...she's almost perfect. 22 and Igbo, and has a good dress sense. Almost anything wey she buy they fit her oooo no matter how cheap. She's got that.

But, she no go school oooo. She can chat n read but not fluently. If i jokingly ask her a random question like 7 x 3...she may not know it ooo, even though she finished secondary school 3 years ago.

She sha love me die, and i actually opened that place...
But what do u think of a future with her?? i need advice folks

I was in a similar situation but mine was quite different from yours cos I knew Wah I was looking for in a woman. Lemme cut the long chase short, I married her and even before the marriage, I got her a diploma course in ABU Zaria. Glory be to God, she's done with that n I want her to start 200L in Open university and reasons for that, is that we have a son now. I haven't had any reason to regret my choice in her. same as my parents. They're happy they respected my decision. I have a wife and not a woman. She's all a man wants n not those sisis that claim to be graduate n lack some basic homely attitude. Another thing that buttress my decisions was that I asked a simple question n looked around me, most of the graduate married women, end up not working n no hand-work again but mine has one and she's about to enroll in a NOUN soonest. Love is all that matters.

omenkaLives:
I can hardly wait to have a good laugh at those pigs that think elections are won through hate and online insults and likes and shares.

When their fathers are busy cutting deals with "the devil", they busy themselves whining and grunting day in day out over what they know next to nothing about.

2019 would indeed be very interesting.

As you've also lacked relevance, why won't your fathers be cutting deals with the DEVIL in front of you and they do that behind others they're scared of.... yeye youth

OP, just relax n go for the test but it might be HERPES or SHINGLES which are equally deadly but can be treated. Good luck

@naija.com probably want to stir trouble in the country... Why not make your findings before reporting. Must you be the first to report a news and at the end of it, it isn't properly reported? And their news has gone round the world with negative and biased reportage.

If only you guys saw the conspiracy that played in the north, you won't go about insulting him. I am a northerner but all that he said, is very true. Only that now he looks like a crying baby but only if you knew what played out. my pity is to most of you the yorubas because you really don't know whom you're laying your bed with. And to the IPODs, not every day is business. Sometimes, you need to put that aside and go what is needful of you. You're too money conscious and that's why most regions don't align with you. Have a none money relationship with others.

ZKOSOSO:
JEGA too is Fulani supremacist...

U can't change leopard's spot. It's in their own DNA......

They live to sleep, eat, plot evil, execute then repeat.....!!

Everywhere you find them.... No matter their educational standing...

You've nailed it real hard. Are sure you are a northerner because each time ppl like you speak, the afonjas, doubt it. I have said this repeatedly but most tend to scold me for speaking the truth about this ppl. The other part of the country will have to learn a very bitter and hard truth as we have.

Indeed, it's a crazy world out there. Imagine if this were to have happened in Naija?

This pregnant woman, got everyone's jaw dropped with her appearance in a mall to shop.

Damage control to save face of the failed PMB. why must everything be anonymous? Bush people.

It's their ways ma dear. I also bought an item from Aliexpress last year for my wedding at December. The item got to Kaduna state where I am but unfortunately, I was in Abuja when they called and I said I wasn't home in KD but will come over to the office to pick it up. On getting there, I was told it is missing and couldn't be found. it was devastating for me and my wife to be then. I got angry and forgot about it cos I couldn't open a dispute with the seller cause she was told the item got to Nigeria. it was a bad experience and worst, is that they are nonchalant towards customers.