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since your wife is the kind that gets wordy at moments of emotion, emotional moments would also be the best time to let your feelings sink it. like ezego1 said above after a nice romp and caressing her hair tell her how you feel and she will hear you

it is better she wants you to always respond to her calls. if she does not mind anymore and there is an alternative person she begins to talk to, things might go awry if that new person does not have your interest at heart. find a balance @multicast.

the bible talks of it's better to stay on the roof than in the same house as a nagging woman. your current stage is the one where you guys argue over every little thing. if you endure it would pass and better times would come.

governance should be a thing of continuity. it should not matter who was there yesterday and the new face of today.

i just see on television some donations here and there but no mention of how the complete allocation is being spent.

federal and state budgets are common so everyone plans in line with the areas the money is flowing towards. however, is any lawmaker declaring spending plans for his/her constituency in line with transparency? anyone seen any?

their salaries could be reviewed to reflect the same as other economies within the same range as nigeria's gdp.

I recommend spending your six months here and when your papers are ready you can travel conscience free to another man's land without having to look over your shoulders.

Rastamann:
“Ever since I started living with my wife, she never allowed me to have sex with her. I had to force myself on her before we had our four children,” Obi said.

This man is a rapist and should be charged as such,

Ilekeh:
Arrest him for Ra.pe, please.

A rape count would only be valid if the victim makes an accusation to that effect or verifies that the action took place.

However if the wife admits to being raped before having sex it would confirm that she really was depriving him of sex which was the reason for the hubby coming to court in the first place. She rather kept mum over that and tried to make the court dismiss his accusations.

boarding house things!

Dyt:
Why wld I even let the child know I adopted him/her?

See, u don't have to take on my own piece of advice, I just said it how I feel it
Mt child is my child, either adopted or abandoned
Kapish

I believe it is necessary as health issues do abound as well as family health history might need to be known. Not looking for blood/help in the wrong direction.

Back in secondary school, I once saw a complete circular rainbow around the sun. I think it has a special name it is called.

I do believe this man means good for Nigeria. Who else would have told mama peace to start moving out of the aso villa. His rejection of the results could only mean violence in some parts of the nation. If he has extended an olive branch to the president-elect I believe he has come to the conclusion that his ovation time now is loudest and is bowing out honorably.

Let everyone within his or her capacity do what they believe will move Nigeria to the next stage of global relevance.

This shows exactly the scenario Jesus was confronted with by the jewish crowd concerning the adulterous woman only that this crowd was not trying to stone her to death. If they really are to be christ-like no one need tell them that laying hands on their relative's heifer was wrong. Whatever decision making of quiting or sticking to the marriage was his and his alone to make. This only shows the previous level of how accessable they were to ridicle her even before the incidence. The woman might have just been frustrated into the arms of a willing lover who makes her forget what she goes through at home.

Personally my initial accessment recommends an end to the union as if they continue together the lady would not for a minute be made to forget her misdeeds and her sorrow would only linger. A fallout of not having a man willing to protect her. However I do not know all the facts of their past and they would be in a better position to resolve it amicably as man and wife. Life goes on.

People on our side of the world tend to take out their frustrations on those they perceive as weaker than them. IF it was their daughter she definately would not have been treated as such. If the family of Baba Joy - christians - would want the total disgrace of one whom they feel is alien to them it really shows that they lack the ability to love a stranger which is common in our lands here. Christianity by fashion and not by example.

The woman was placed totally in your care to love and to protect Daddy Joy, do that or let her go. It is in the ways of women to lie, it is the duty of men to forgive them. Cure her fears and she would be yours forever.

http://www.less-real.com/quotes/search/Sanji

That's no way to treat a lady!

A real man is someone who forgives a woman for her lies!

I'll never kick a woman, even if I die!

I don't care if you're a god. If you lay even one finger on Nami-san, I'll become the Devil of the Blue Sea!

Any person who hurts Nami-san's feelings! I won't let them live peacefully!

Men who can't wipe away the tears from a women's eyes, aren't real men.

I hope she looks like the pic on her pvc else she would be told to remove all the addons or go back home. Quite courageous and patriotic too.

looks brand new, probably yet to be connected to the grid. even a transformer without power is still intimidative on its own.

My take is one of their members approached inec recently to help secure the website but they rejected the offer. Read the message again.

King James Bible Proverbs 6:29
So he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife; whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent.

English Standard Version Proverbs 5:20
Why should you be intoxicated, my son, with a forbidden woman and embrace the bosom of an adulteress?

Pro 6:32 Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; he who does it destroys his own soul.
Pro 6:33 He shall get a wound and dishonor; and his shame shall not be wiped away.
Pro 6:34 For jealousy is the rage of a man; therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance.
Pro 6:35 He will not take any ransom; nor will he be willing if you multiply the gifts.

Any woman whom at any moment is not your wife (includes unmarried) lover is not to be touched as she bears the title a man's wife which does not make her yours until you complete vows. Now that she is anothers' you do NOT go there.

End things quickly. Call hubby, police or elders. The woman can go for insemination.

I had a similar issue between mum and wifey only that they did theirs over the phone. Funny both are ibadan raised so it seemed the blood boiled at exactly the same time. I blamed my wife for not putting off the phone once she became annoyed by what she was hearing (abi na by force to reply?) and had her send sms to apologise. Anyways mum fired back by sending me and pregnant wife from her house we were living in then telling me she had other opportunities for me in lagos. I no vex only that I did not receive her calls nor called her for about two years.

After she got an inter-mediator to bring her to my new place I stuck to my horns that she need settle things between dad and herself and not that I was angry. If she had believed she has a place with her own hubby there would not have been any reason to poke into another's matrimonial home in the first place. She obeyed and things are between us as they were before as if nothing happened only that there is no interraction between them two yet as well as no wahala.

Thing is loving mums do this possessiveness with their sons when the love they should have for dad has waned and being transferred to that loving and caring son. It is always better to keep two volatile liquids away from one another. Women have this jealousy whenever they believe someone is sharing the love of their man/friend/lover/son.

perfectionist:
Nairalanders, I'm in a quagmire! About one week ago, my mother came to visit my family with her sister and a friend. After the preliminary greetings and felicitations, I proceeded to take leave of my guests in order to go and service my car, leaving them in the hands of my wife after having provided some refreshments for them.

While you were around mum did not ask you for the pictures neither did she decide to wait till you come around once she was rejected.

Now, my wife and mother have no love lost between them and barely get along but the joviality they displayed together in my presence combined with the fact that my mother's sister and friend were also around made me to believe all will be well and nothing will go wrong.

At least they were smiling together before you left why the sudden decision to go slap your wife over saying no to pictures?

No sooner had I left home than I received a frantic call from my wife to return quickly that all hell had broken loose.

Wifey did not want a degenerative state hence showed respect for you by CALLING YOU BEFORE THINGS GOT OUT OF HAND.

Upon getting home, I found my mother and my wife on the 3-seater going at each other with both wailing. I managed to separate them and proceeded to find the cause of the fight. I was told by the two onlookers (mother's sister and a friend) that my wife prevented my mother from taking some photos of the child dedication we did a few weeks back from the photo album. This incensed my mother and led to my wife being slapped following which all hell was broken loose. My mother even sustained a deep scratch on her face.

Does you mum slap people around if she is denied anything. If there was love and she respected you she should have waited for you to come back and ask you for the pictures or was she thinking she might have had to slap you too if you denied her request. It is another's property for God's sake and respect should be shown when asking for something not yours andnot hitting people. Was it not the other day on Nairaland Frontpage that it was reported that a lady got blinded from a slap the school teacher gave her ( a blind swollen eye from just an equallly dangerous slap now a police case). I would attach the picture.

https://www.nairaland.com/2196810/female-student-goes-blind-after

Now, my family members have insisted that my wife must leave the house for committing this abomination (their words, not mine). Indeed, my mother has told me in no uncertain terms that mother and son relationship has ended as long as my wife continues to remain in the house.
I love my wife and has two young children with her but this whole issue has complicated things.
What should I do? Your candid advice and suggestions will be appreciated.

Your happiness from now henceforth till the end of your days lies with whomever is your wife and your kids not your mum's house.

Your wife hitting back your mum deprived you the judgement of asking your mum never to step into your home again.

NOW CONCERNING WIFEY

Tell her to calm down that hot blood else it would lead her to do 'greater things' in the future if not controlled. Fairly it was not your face or mine that the hot slap landed on but she need not to fall into an obvious trap especially seeing that the stage was set. Furthermore, no one for any reason lays a hand on an elderly citizen for any reason not to talk of frailty sef as come what may the points are always against the one who does so even in the face of self defence, just protect yourself and back away slowly. Let her also in your presence tell the kids that she did a grave thing against grandma and would be apologizing to that effect. Teach her also to avoid grudges especially if there is any of those spiritualists leading her on (a very dangerous layup). Two wrongs don't make a right.

My wife would gladly do that but my mother has threatened fire and brimstone if I ever show up at her place with my wife.

I recommend you get your wife to sms an apology (at least it would be seen and read) and you take the siddon-look approach. If any relatives try anything tell them you have heard them and put it under advicement and do what some civil service staff do of filing it under the carpet and set it with the trash.

Above all it is all your decision and you not another has to live with the results. Also keep them apart so that you don't grow greyish in your young days dear. To each queen her kingdom - the queen without cannot dethrone the one within.

Wishing you well - Teemy

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Gallant but not considerate of their combined weight on the vehicle they would later use in operations. Kudos all the same.

At last the US has washed its hands on the surveilance part of the chibok girls' abduction. I have always believed since they has birds in the sky prior to their abduction, they had the info necessary to make an effective retrieval. Unfortunately saboteurs did a lot of damage to that intel.

However that just one phone call could betray them does not need to mean that the entire Nigerian Army was not serious on the girls' recovery except there is more they are not saying due to diplomatic reasons. The saga was meant to ridicule the Jonathan administration so saying the govt was not serious on the boko haram war is not it. Though even I have got to admit that there has been a lot of foot dragging on the matter.

A proper look should be in the direction of some leaders that initiated two ceasefire agreements only to have the group reinforced and better strategised.

morocco cancelled a phone appointment because it 'believes' it's for election support. tomorrow it would 'believe' something else and act so. truly our foreign affairs messed up. wish gej was this tough on erring officers like the immigration exercis

barristerMDGs:
Hmmm.

I don't know what it is with this my account manager calling me after I have told him I am not ready for deposit.

seems they get paid on commissions of deposits.

but from a fair view of the whole situation our govt played politics with the lives of nigerians by not cutting this fungus in the bud. our security agencies are highly performing once given the appropriate order and support. we could ve done better.

there is no way US intel would not have known that a huge army as isis was grooming and coincidental with their movement out of iraq violence started. at least if they had left saddam hussein (though cruel) in power he would have protected his people

so because they are not pleased with the syrian president syria suddenly does not have a government. nice knowing that's the yardstick used considering they back syrian rebels leading to more syrian deaths. if not for iran i guess they won't bother.

has anyone noticed the trending nollywood model that hollywood is rolling out movies fast and sometimes with low level graphics. guess they are facing piracy caused by the www and want to use numbers to settle the deficits.

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