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Yes, MouthAction is a sin if done before or outside of marriage.

However what is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Also just as with consent on vaginal sex is proper or it would just be outright rape, the wishes of the other partner must be considered.

The mouth can be used to cut thread, eat hold screwdrivers grab a rope in an emergency among many other uses.


On MouthAction
Son 2:3 [Bride] Like an apple tree among the trees in the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. I want to sit in his shadow. His fruit tastes sweet to me.
Son 2:4 He leads me into a banquet room and looks at me with love.
Son 2:5 Strengthen me with raisins and refresh me with apples because I am weak from love.
Son 2:6 His left hand is under my head. His right hand caresses me.

Son 4:15 You are a spring for gardens, a well of living water flowing from Lebanon.
Son 4:16 [Bride] Awake, north wind! Come, south wind! Blow on my garden! Let its spices flow from it. Let my beloved come to his garden, and let him eat his own precious fruit.
Son 5:1 [Groom] My bride, my sister, I will come to my garden. I will gather my myrrh with my spice. I will eat my honeycomb with my honey. I will drink my wine with my milk.

b), Eat, my friends! Drink and become intoxicated with expressions of love! (After the wedding night conjugal bliss)

You might both need to read the Songs of Solomon together. A lot os ashiri there.

On Anal Sex

Lev 18:22 Never have sexual intercourse with a man as with a woman. It is disgusting.
Lev 20:13 When a man has sexual intercourse with another man as with a woman, both men are doing something disgusting and must be put to death. They deserve to die.

We know most sexual unions in gay homosexuals is via anal sex, and the bible is saying it should not be so as that is a way a woman can be lain with. It's simple english.

N.B Never move from the backyard to the frontyard. Never as the bacteria from the back are not friendly to the ones up front.
It is all a concept of agreement. If the rejections are on a biblical approach I hope to have cleared that itch. mOst important thing is communication and openness

probably he did not consider what to do during pregnancy. also, he certainly outlawed pre-intimacy as a form of sexually stimulating one another. reminds me of the jews trying to enforce the law of moses on new gentile converts of acts of the apostles

once upon a time, i too used un believe if you wear a shirt of two or more colors you're living in sin and directly on your way to hell. we all have the bible for personal discernment lest another give non bible rules. wisdom is profitable to direct.

some clerics hide their personal inadequacies by placing adherens under bondage. guess his wife cannot complain anymore. mixing scripture with unverifiable arguments. thank God we have those that tell the truth and encourage better conjugal relations

see as guys dey use statistics confess their experiences. i see you o.

a second chance - that's what the altar is for.

passionate88:
.... Her toto go dn expand pass gp tank mouth, e go don worn out... The cons far outweigh the pros

kegels exist. actually those in the sex profession know how to take care of their bodies than most.

dasrackhor:
broda wey d stone na me go first cast am....Mtchewwwwwww

lol

zyzxx:
How did she survive?

she will now end up in church and someone will end up marrying her.

That is the nature of the Jesus we serve. He says "Go and sin no more" to each and everyone of us who is willing to change his/her ways.

passionate88:
I pity the man wey go marry her

On the contrary it might be a plus. As long as she would not let the torment of her past past haunt her.

Let him that is without sin cast the first stone.

I remember the marriage vows of a mentor of mine. - To love her and her alone forgetting all others. Every one has others but once you have made up your mind to marry one, the others must be evacuated totally off your mind.

When you then do with any other what you should do alone with your one you are breaking a vow as well as putting your one at risk of infections. Irregardless of the reason, it is not justified.

Within every institution there is a disciplinary department. Let the army authorities hear of and deal with this.

212blaze:
Your domain doesn't point to any website. Been checking it at intervals but its definitely not setup. Please fix.

Also i'd like to know your take on money management. Which system do you use or not use?

I did a site 'reset' as I am working on some new arrangements for it.

Use the excel attachment. Just play around with the section on the top left especially the % risks. The rest will fit itself. Cheers.


P.S Post as soon as you download it so I can remove it.

I would like to draw the attention of the nairaland administration that could mislead the reading audience as not all newpaper prints are read in full but mist titles are digested.

Osinbajo Blasts Jonathan For Attending OIC Meeting at 8:26am On Feb 04

compared to

Osinbajo Chides Jonathan For Attending OIC Meeting https://www.nairaland.com/2128900/osinbajo-chides-jonathan-attending-oic

VICE Presidential candidate of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Professor Yemi Osinbajo, has chided President Goodluck Jonathan for being the first Nigerian leader to have attended the meeting of the Organisation of Islamic Countries (OIC) since Nigeria was surreptitiously enlisted by President Ibrahim Babangida in 1986.

The word 'blasts' seems to be common these days.

and

Adeboye Curses Pastors Collecting Bribes From Politicians at 11:41pm On Feb 04

compared to

Adeboye Curses Pastors Collecting Bribes From Politicians https://www.nairaland.com/2130608/adeboye-curses-pastors-collecting-bribes

Adeboye, said, “I read in the newspaper this morning that one of the serving governors in Nigeria said that some pastors in Nigeria collected N6bn from politicians for the purpose of influencing their members to vote a certain candidate in the coming elections.

“ May I humbly request that if there be any pastor or pastors who collected such money, they should please return such as quickly as possible before the fire of the Almighty consumes you .”

A warning from my point of view and not a curse declaration as the OP and supermod depicted.

The norm has always been to use question marks on unverified topics and to modify titles on frontpage titles as to what seems fit irrespective of original title by OPs.

Though the nairaland disclaimer reads "Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland." the supermods rule the frontpage and we should remember that the unguarded comments of just one radio presenter fueled an uprising that left around a million people dead in the hutu and tutsi skirmishes of rwanda. (watch the movie sometimes in april)

Though an action like stirring the pot might improve site traffic, we do need to take care of what it might generate to and take more resposibilities for our actions. But who knows, I simply might have misunderstood the english meant due to my poor grammar.

Wishing you well - Teemy

back in the days we used to search for paying hyips. the litmus test was low paying, long existing and consistent companies. lots of hyip review sites exist. search stopped when we noticed they kept saying they trade forex. we looked for forex later

The ills of illicit affairs include great men falling to their knees in front of their enemies. David, Samson, Bill Clinton, e.t.c seems the greater the anointing the more their attraction to destroy you though unintentionally but as he that called you detests such associations, it is a one way ticket to an unholy downfall.

The devil you resist, youthful lust you run. Even warns knew how toxic it is to the holy spirit.

5minsmadness:
Good point sir.
See as you and ya wife resemble

na anointing, na anointing. oya go marry funny man.

Eladua:
Can such prayer work? Btw i am the first to like ur pic *winks*

It is in line with God's will so it will get answered. However the element of 'work' to be done should not be left out. I will repeat a piece I once dropped on a similar issue.

sheddyboy:
STRICTLY FOR MATURED MINDS
PLEASE (NO INSULTS)
Please i need matured advise...

My name is mrs Ola, you are free to post my story with my name on it, because i want my husband to read it and the comments that will follow it. I got married 4years ago,@ age 27 as a virgin, while my husband was 31, but now 35yrs old. Our marriage is blessed with a baby girl of 2 and half yrs old.

The problem i am about to share is sometin that is killing me gradually.
...

Dear Mrs Ola, I am glad you are on a path of betterment of your marriage's sexual health rather than contemplating an extra-marital affair. I hope you would make your husband see reason with some advice I would be putting up here. Money and Sex issues and not even lack of love top the reasons marriages fail followed third by decisions on children.

Sex in marriage is a fundamental duty of both partners in marriage to one another and as the almighty has put it a force of bonding as such that the great apostle paul mentioned that it could make a man soul clung to a prostitute. Why not have let that soul-tie exist within a holy matrimony. For Mrs Ola to have joined the #notamperingtillmarried I really commend her and I say do not be discouraged by the disapointment of low sex explosion you have always believed in while still holding out.

Operation Seduce Mr Ola

An appropriate solution is needed for a properly identified problem cause.

Case 1: Mr Ola Really Believes Sexual Contact Is A Sin

Forgive us for this sin we are about to commit (Seriously some do this!)

1Co 7:1 Now, to deal with the matters you wrote about. A man does well not to marry.
1Co 7:2 But because there is so much immorality, every man should have his own wife, and every woman should have her own husband.
1Co 7:3 A man should fulfill his duty as a husband, and a woman should fulfill her duty as a wife, and each should satisfy the other's needs.
1Co 7:4 A wife is not the master of her own body, but her husband is; in the same way a husband is not the master of his own body, but his wife is.
1Co 7:5 Do not deny yourselves to each other, unless you first agree to do so for a while in order to spend your time in prayer; but then resume normal marital relations. In this way you will be kept from giving in to Satan's temptation because of your lack of self-control.

- Good News Bible

You guys are married and hence should fulfil each other's sexual needs which paul calls normal marriage relations. If it was just for kids modern science can get the sperm and egg lab built to produce a baby but as a deterrent to immorality paul recommended marriage and as being human it is an appetite like food that needs to be met hence the hunger for it every once in a while.

Playing the "You have a Jezebel spirit card" is wrong as having sex regularly is normal.

How regular? I remember a thread https://www.nairaland.com/2070153/sex-marriage-pastor-taiwo-odukoya by lalasticlala where it was mentioned that lack of enough sex in marriage can have grievous consequences. A 2-3 times per week is on the average. Some go like once a week and some more for like once or twice per day (guess they have no need chasing money to have that amount of time - why rich people have better sex).

Rather the prayer point should be for Mr Ola to have a higher sex drive and over time a threshold would be reached for the two of you in between.

Case 2: Physical Trauma

a: Lack of body stamina to carry through the process hence leaving him well spent and stressed out.
Let him have revitalizers to regain back his strenght. Don't forget lots of milk

b: Abbrasions from friction causing soreness
Usually a woman's complaint which can be phased out with proper lubrication. Prior to sex, Mrs Ola should consume lots of waterlike an hour or so for the body to produce lubricating fluid required for sex and with good pre-intimacy, the vagina should produce abundant. Some women however still cannot produce adequately (no two people are the same anyways) enough or some other reason or just to play safe, secondary lubricants can be used. E.g your local chemist should have Lubrica or KY Jelly. Our ever popular olive oil like Goya used by church goers as anointing oil is cheaply available and perfectly safe - probably your most common choice (Lubricate the penis shaft). Oil or oil-based lubricants however break latex condoms so keep note to check the contents and switch to water-based lubricants if you are to use a latex condom.

Case 3: Psycological Trauma

Was Mr Ola abused as a kid, did he see something in the past that put him off? You need to have a heart tete-a-tete with him and let him pour out his soul to you.

Alternatively: You Can Masturbate Yourself To Climax

Nowhere in the bible is masturbation called a sin. The misleading is caused by what some call the sin of Onan

Gen 38:8 And Judah said to Onan, Go in to your brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to your brother.
Gen 38:9 And Onan knew that the seed would not be his. And it happened when he went in to his brother's wife, t[b]hat he spilled on the ground, not giving seed to his brother[/b].
Gen 38:10 And what he did was evil in the eyes of Jehovah. Therefore He killed him also.
- Good News Bible

Onan was killed by God for having sex with his late brother's wife whom he married yet did not want to give her kids in the name of his brother. Just to chop and clean mouth. The semen he spilled on the ground at the time of ejaculation.

Who else is being killed for not giving his brother's wife kids? However if we are to make use of Jesus' defination of immorality

Mat 5:27 You have heard that it was said to the ancients, "You shall not commit adultery."
Mat 5:28 But I say to you that whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
- Good News Bible

it would not apply as immorality to you if the one you sexually affix your attention to is your spouse. This is not a case of wanking off to a picture of some other person in a mag or whatever. (Which in a way means singles should steer clear off masturbating as usually your desire is affixed to someone you are not married to - no technical twisting)

I would paint another picture here. Usually men stroke their John Thomas once in a while to make it stand erect before penetration or woman to get lubricated. What do we call that. Still arguing that it is okay because they are in the process of having sex? What if one party is a little distance away say at the end of the bed, 5 metres away, just stepped into the next room for a brief moment to shush the baby, in the shower, next house, next town. Now you probably have been using distance as a yardstick to measure morality. A rule not laid down in the bible. The main aim is to keep all your sexual desire to only your spouse and not burden/enslave yourself with hearsay nonexistent commandments.

Act 15:1 And certain ones who came down from Judea taught the brothers, saying, Unless you are circumcised according to the custom of Moses, you cannot be saved.
Act 15:2 Therefore dissension and not a little disputation occurring by Paul and Barnabas, they appointed Paul and Barnabas and certain others of them to go up to Jerusalem to the apostles and elders about this question.
Act 15:9 And He put no difference between us and them, purifying their hearts by faith.
Act 15:10 Now therefore why do you tempt God by putting a yoke on the neck of the disciples, a yoke which neither our fathers nor we were able to bear?
Act 15:24 Because we have heard that certain ones who went out from us have troubled you with words, unsettling your souls, saying, Be circumcised and keep the law! (to whom we gave no such command);
Act 15:29 that you abstain from meats offered to idols, and from blood, and from things strangled, and from fornication; from which, if you keep yourselves, you shall do well. Be prospered.
Act 15:31 And when they had read it, they rejoiced at the comfort.
- Good News Bible

In this case of the converted gentiles, it was settled by them keeping away from idolatry and fornication. Finito.

In Conclusion

I hope your marriage lasts throughout your entire lives and there would be no need to call it quits. Prayer does move mountains and Mr Ola needs to wake up to his manly responsibilities quick. One point or the other he would see reason and Mrs Ola do be gentle with him.

Wishing you well - Teemy

In yoruba - loore koore (regularly). As we feed our hunger appetite s should our sexual appetited be fed.

GreenWhiteGreen:
Why do Nigerians lie so much like this ? In your write up, you said your friend is VERY RELIGIOUS. So how can a religious person be sex starved ? Truth is you are too canal minded, not religious as you think you are. There are more things to derive joy from than sex.

I beg to disagree.
Sexual union on a regular basis is the bible's rate of action. In yoruba - loore koore (regularly). As we feed our hunger appetite so should our sexual appetites be fed. God made both so.

1Co 7:5 Do not deny yourselves to each other, unless you first agree to do so for a while in order to spend your time in prayer; but then resume normal marital relations. In this way you will be kept from giving in to Satan's temptation because of your lack of self-control.

1Co 7:1 Now, concerning the things that you wrote about: It's good for men not to get married.
1Co 7:2 But in order to avoid sexual sins, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband.
1Co 7:9 However, if you cannot control your desires, you should get married. It is better for you to marry than to burn with sexual desire.

The man has accepted his own weakness and put himself under the umbrella God has given him to express himself in a sinless union. The wife is the one that needs more encouragement.

I did a simple figure 1,2,3 added together gives 54kg = combined weight of 2 rabbits + 2 cats + 2 dogs. Divided by 2 gives 27kg as answered by the algeraens.

There is an honest possibility that the wife might be going through stress. That is why it is said that men who help in the household chores get better sex. Let the hubby see what he can do to reduce her daily routine to a more bearable one. He won't even have to ask her but she would be the first to 'show her appreciation'.

Nice that this dude always wants to be with his own woman.

i just read that her father, fela's grandfather was nigeria's first gospel singer. josiah jesse ransome-kuti

firstly get video and people evidence covering the bank manager and the sars people that confirms your mum is in detention so they cannot deny it later to avoid her suddenly disappearing when the case becomes hot on the cops and the bank. be discrete

oyetunde22:
So they say during osun state election n lot of malpractices happened under the nose of Inec...... Electorate should just do their own n leave the rest for God.

actually God has done his n left ours to us

a good development which could be made better. a list of phone numbers of commanding officers in charge of each zone in case security agents are themselves the offenders like in cases of seizing camera devices among others.

@catlanta, looking forward to having this solved this time. thanks

the almighty has his set of rules and won't bend it for anyone. heaven i know won't be overpopulated. if anyone has acted in disobedience in the past, follow jesus' rule of go and sin no more. God help us all. Wishing you well - Teemy

the rest from proper medical examinations. most marriages are not with first loves. if there is no sex outside marriage stds would be a thing of the past. herpes has no cure and not even caused by sexual fluids, it shows as boils caused by skin link.

if we (self included) have not lived up to this calling do let us encourage those who still have b chance to to. in agreement with the op's questions of knowing what you are getting into, most can be known from a relationship of truth. we know liars.

but with the female sex organ nature has made it clear that the hymen seal which has only one purpose of affirming non tampering. the woman in songs of solomon would after depicting a sexual act say do not not stir love till its proper time

the concept of seals is to show authenticity and such absence could make a product rejected especially if a stranger is believed to have tampered with it. the male organ is however an urinogenital and does not have such a seal (wish it were so).