omaira: Na today ?? She has since moved ooooo. Although we do talk but I don't call her oooo only talk to her nicely when she calls and sometimes chat her on WhatsApp.
Fineman2: The girl you meet for the first time is already asking you for money, this is a big societal problem.
I met this young lady inside the bank, I talked to her and asked for her phone number which she gave me.
When I got home, I called her and asked when we could see and she was like "see ke
The following day she started telling me she was not okay, that she was sick and she didn't have money to buy drugs, but I told her bluntly that I can't be played that way, that I mean business with her if she's serious.
I ask this girl to come to my house which she refused, but that doesn't bother me
Days after I called again and she gave me a location where she will meet me, I agreed, but she went further and suggested that we go to chicken republic in her choosen area.
That was how I deleted her number.
Another story
I've been talking to this girl since December last year, we met on Facebook, she was in Abuja then.
We even attended the same school and we were both having some issues then, so I asked her to help me out because I was far away and working as well and she was closer to school.
Sincerely she did tried her best even though it didn't work out for me, but the stupid male lecturer addressed her own issue.
That day she asked me to transfer small money to give the man which I did.
Weeks after we became very close and she started telling me all her plans and asked for my advise, she later said she was broke that day and had nothing to eat so I sent her 2k even though she didn't ask me. She thanked me.
After that period she went incommunicado for months and reappear just last month, she now told me that she was coming to Lagos for job interview and that we might see this time, I said no problem.
Two days later she said she was in Lagos and wasn't too bouyant, she asked me for 1500 naira and I sent her 2k, she said she would see me the following day before going back to Abuja.
The following day,she sent me a voice message on WhatsApp saying she can't come to my house, that I should wait for her at a road junction where we can see, and that I should arrange a bus for her to take off after seeing me.
I politely advised her to go straight to her destination without stopping to see me and wished her safe trip, that was the end of it, she was surprised, but I kept my respect.
Sex is the cheapest thing in town today, i don't know why some ladies keep playing games, saying they can't come to a guy's house.
The wahala of getting a naija girl to come to your house and the money you will spend isn't worth it. I will send the money to my mum instead
bobazuka: Is there any other website apart from Kudotap where we can chat with fun & interesting Nigerian girls who are open to hookups? Most of the girls on kudotap are just there to chat with someone that'll tease them & make them laugh. None of them (at least none of the ones I chatted with) are interested in hookups. And nearly all of the ones I mentioned hooking up to, blocked me.
So pls is there any other fun chats website where one can chat with Nigerian girls that are cool with hookups?
youngZee23: Is having oral or anal sex a demonic act..u know the way naija girls are sharing the pussy this days,u hadly see tight pussy ..so guys now using the analsex to hold body..though some are just fantasy like MouthAction..but i want to know if having oral or anal with ur patner a demonic act..for the new generational sake..
Worriedguy6699: (Female opinion are not welcomed in this thread)
As the saying goes, spare the rod, spoil the child. Since women are perpetual children, I think it’s time to start correcting them the way our ancestors did.
I think the rise in unfaithful women these days is because society has castrated men and stripped them of their masculinity.
Even women want to be corrected with strength and dominance.
Please do not spare your woman if you catch her or are suspicious of her. Flog her very well on her bumbum (with love of course).
She might not talk to you for a while, but when she comes off it, she will forever fear and respect you. She will not love you because women are not capable of that kind of love you see on TV (it’s all formulated by Hollywood).
Even the Bible tells women to respect their husband not love them (the Bible knows women are not capable of love)
Do this and She will forever respect and adore you.
Salisu19: “Knack well before you come to UK” – Nigerian man advises people getting ready to ‘japa. btlsblog.comOct 11, 2022 1:27 PM
“Knack well before you come to UK” – Nigerian man advises people getting ready to ‘japa.
A Nigerian man based in the United kingdom has taken to social media to give premium advice to those aspiring to relocate to the UK.
While walking in a street in the UK, the young man who spoke in pidgin accent, talked about the difficulty he’s facing in satisfying his urge.
According to him, he has been unable to get in bed with a woman abroad because they believe that if you’re trying to get attached to them, must be for paper.
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In his words,
“See me now, I don dey here for good…going to two years now and I never see knack o. I get many of them as friends o, girls everywhere buh them no dey gree knack o cause they believe na paper wan make I knack them because they know say if I knack them Wella na, them fit forget themselves begin follow me”.
Wealthbrain22: There’s this guy that wouldn’t leave me alone in my compound, no matter what I do or say this man would never leave. He has come three times alone today to look for me, I refused to open the door for him and yet he stayed outside talking about football scores because he knows that’s what I like to hear.
I have told this man to leave me alone yet it never works, I intentionally told him I needed space with him and for the first time and I had peace for a month. This man started ignoring my greetings, all because I said I wanted peace in the house I rented. I was okay with the fact I had peace finally, then people started begging me to forgive him? Forgive him for what really? Did we quarrel? They tagged me a bad person all because I wanted peace. All of a sudden he came yesterday and started forcing conversation with me and i responded back to him and before evening he was back at my window again, I ignored him.
Only today he has visited my window three times. He has a wife, he’s 43, he’s urhobo from Sapele, please am I in danger? Why is this man obsessed with me? This is the same person that when I mistakenly gave him my number, he calls me 8 times daily, just to say hello. He called me one morning at about 6 am and I was done so I told him never to call me again, and blocked his number. You’re living in my compound why tf are you calling me at 6 am to say “how far” I’m in my 30’s I’m doing important stuff, why are you obsessed with me?
In my entire life I have had hundreds of friends and I have never experienced this type of friendship before? Is it until I warn him or threaten him before he leaves me alone?
omaira: Well, I feel very happy to have my own fair share of this day to day breakfast that’s served on relationship. But in this case, I wasn’t dumbed rather, I tried to make peace with her while I stopped loving her.
It all started 2 years ago when I met this girl, she was everything I had always admired in a woman, I talked to her and we started up as friends and after a period of about 4 months we started dating. Meanwhile she had a guy in her life oooooo but I didn’t even care as I just wanted to be in her life.
Initially, I had thought she was from a very wealthy home considering her beauty and looks, she always dress nice but when I started dating her, I automatically became the bread winner in the family. She was dead broke but I never mind, my likeness for her didn’t change a bit... I mean, I still liked her even more.
After 5 months of being in a relationship with her, she had an issue with her boyfriend and they broke up. The first lie she told me was that the boyfriend found out about me and this caused their break up. I hardly believe mere words so I didn’t believe her, I only noted those words she said with hopes of finding out the truth someday.
Now!! I ought to become the only man in her life right ?? oya come and see gobe!
After a while, she moved in with me and this was when I started to understand what the noun called “woman”. Relationship ought to be pure and sacred, but that’s not what it is now ooooo as the first red flag I saw in her where lies, Jesus!!! The girl tells lie at every glimpse, I started to trend with care.
One day I realized she was arranged for hookup, I swear, my head big that day... my girl friend that lives with me in my house wants to go have sex with a guy she has never seen nor does she know. Well, as a man who is eager to know, I confronted her but didn’t break up with her as I was curious to know what relationship really means.
Confronting her made me feel she’ll have a repentant mind set but guess what? The story just got more interesting. 3 months later she cheated on me, and yet again I caught her. She apologized and I forgave her almost immediately, I didn’t even show any sign of anger at all. As I felt she would this time have a repentant heart.
My dear nairalanders this girl has been cheating on me up and down, that I can’t even mention, I keep catching her and she keeps apologizing.
Please Note: I am financially doing very well as I am able to provide for all her needs, there is something I always brag about that there is nothing she ever asked from me that I didn’t provide.
Believe it or not, our sex life is perfect as I have seen a chat she had with a friend where she confessed nobody has ever had pleased her in bed like I do, I can stay in bed one hour and I’m a very romantic man.
She has never caught me cheating as I have always been faithful to her.
I’m saying all these to make the readers understand that the relationship actually lacks nothing. But still this girl finds it hard to close her legs.
Well, the last time I caught her having an affair with a married man, we quarreled and settled but believe me, the love is dead and buried.
So if you’re out there and you find a woman that’s manageable please adore her and make her feel special, the specie of a virtuous woman is going into extinction gradually but we’re yet to notice.
Just feel like sharing my own experience and I’m curious to see the comments that will follow.
Adeolamapamina: Life is so unfair for me I am more than 18 no relationship till now I keep searching but no one come my way sometimes I get depressed everytime what has life brought upon me no true love the one I keep meeting are gold diggers the last relationship I was into doesn’t last long now I need a relationship but hard to find why is true love so cost like this The amazing part is am handsome not that rich but dress fine killer dress sense and good phone and sense of humor although I get crushes but they ain’t my type of woman I want what do I do?
Wealthbrain22: Have you people ever asked yourself that question sincerely? What’s so special about you that makes you think that your so called babe is dating just you? Is it your money or car or house or looks? Why are you special? You think you’re the only one with whatever qualities you think you have ? Bro trust me , 95% of you are in a relationship with yourself or best case scenario you are sharing one girl with at least 5 other guys, take it or leave it.
As for me I have made my peace with this, I don’t expect loyalty anymore, I know that the only time I’m truly with someone is when I make it official between God and man and we get married, till then let the games begin. I never mean what I say to any girl, I don’t love anyone, I’m just flowing with the tides, and I know any girl talking to me now is definitely doing the same and it’s cool.
It’s when you start deceiving yourself that you have found your dream girl and she loves you, that’s when you become the clown. Whatever you have, there are 6 billion guys out there with more, so if that girl isn’t wearing your ring, bro you’re dating yourself or in a polygamous relationship with a girl who has other boyfriends too. Many of you won’t agree but deep down you know your babe has other babes.
udofia234: Good morning everyone!!! I'm so so going to pay her back with the coin she paid me!!! I once worked in a micro finance bank as a marketer and my MD happen to be the relative of the owner of the company and guess what friends she's just 23 year (graduate) when I go the job I was 33 years then, guy she was even the one who employed me and she happens to know I'm also a senior graduate and older than her! this lady is so rude!!! I could remember the day a customer called her to lodge a complain which was false sh never waited to hear my own story, this lady insulted me eh! after I left her presence I went to the rest room and wept bitterly, but since there was no job I had to manage it, but this lady picks on me at any slightest mistake, I couldn't attend my brothers wedding because of her, I lost my relationship with my brother because we where very close and we planned it all together! Guys I know u won't believe this! I resigned from that work simply because she attempted to slap me when we had a little argument but thank God I was smart I dodged it, if I had my chance I would have beaten her but I can't because I'm not trained that way, so I simply resigned and relocated away from that place. To my utter amassment my mum called me that my cousin who state with is from childhood until he graduated from the university and now works with dangote was bringing his fiancee to the house to show them, I was happy and told my mum I'll come over. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw this stupid, useless and God forsaking bastard of a girl that never Regarded me as anything, she humiliated me out of that place!!! I hate her so much, when they came into the house cause we where sited already waiting eagerly for them, my brother was the first to come in and then her , when our eyes met she was shocked and uncomfortable, I was so infuriated that I gave an excise and left them there, and I know her conscience is judging her already!!! I haven't told my cousin and dad the kind of lady that is about to join our family!!! And I'm bent on destroying every thing , I swear he won't marry that Jezebel of a lady!!! imagine me!!! the lady that insulted my whole life was greeting me and smiling!!! to who? guys I doubt anyone one of you will also allow this union to happen!!!
Timmy9999: Where are my igbo speakers,who can translate this igbo language to English.
E kwuru konye o bula suba asusu ala ha? Umu afo I been,ngwa nu ka anyi jiri asusu ala anyi chulaa ndi ofe nmanu nime ofia.
And
Edemede asusu igbo a adighi Mma ma oli. Aghotasighi m ya nke oma I kana amu kesi ede ya. Jisikwe ike! Ndi ofe amaghi kesi kesi amu asusu Igbo kofodizikwa I de edemede asusu igbo Udo kam jiri bia! Udo diri onye o bula! Udo Chiba! Ututu oma nu ndi nkem.
Chioma4eva: Join me celebrate nairalanders as I add another year to my life, God has been so faithful. Happy birthday to me!! (Not a fan of birthday photo shoot. This are just random pictures of yours truly)
balmingilead: Please I need advice. I and my husband had some issues and he asked me to leave. I left because my mum said we will settle the matter in her place that I should come. Some I packed my things and left with my children. When I got to mum place she called my husband but he refused to come. So I stayed with her for 3weeks and later went to my cousin place to stay. I pleade with my husband to take me and the children back but he refused.
Now when I left it wasn't up to 2weeks before he brought a lady to the house. The lady was staying with him.
After 4months with the help of God, his friends and some relatives he we settled the issues. And he brought us back to the house. But the problem now is he is insisting on marrying the girl. They are both serious on getting married. He even told me he brought me back because of my children that he is not my husband any more. That am only in his house because of the children. I don't know what to do. We have been together since 2016. And I love Him so much. He had treating to leave the house. Now he complained of not having money, my 2 children have not resume school this term because of money. We don't have food in the house. But he is insisting on marrying that girl. The little money he have he will share with her. Am not happy because financially he is down and am ready to manage with him but he refused to leave this Hausa lady. He said he doesn't want to marry me any more. That am in his house because of the children. Please I need help. The lady in question live very close to our house. Please advise me on what to do. I don't want my home to scatter The lady said she must marry him.
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I just want to know if staying single the rest of my life is the best decision. I'm well into my 30s and I'm a graduate. I own my business in addition to my Federal Government work. I have a house and two cars and I lack nothing. But i don't have interest in settling down with a woman so i decide to stay single. I have a girlfriend tho, but so far i haven't proposed to her but recently my family members are mounting preasure on me to settle down. I'm hesitant about it. Would getting married be the best option or staying single?
Iamdbull: As I don drop song and I no see money push am, and I no fit afford the kind life wey I one dey live, we all know say sapa hold Nigeria down, I say make I find sugar mommy ooo.
Here are my requirements: She must be filthy Rich. She must not be more than 40. She must have flat tummy and figure 8. She must be very intelligent. She must have a well curved ass like Nengi. She must have at least M. SC. She must be atleast 5.7" She must posess a caramel skin. And most importantly
She must be ready to spend heavily as Dbull doesn't come cheap.
So take a look at me in my pictures and tell me if I can get such a woman!
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The conflict between the Kogi State government and the Dangote Group over the ownership of Obajana cement took a new turn in the early hours of Tuesday, when citizens of the state occupied all mining sites across the state to express their plaight over the alleged exploitation of the Dangote Group.
Another group of Nigerians have hit the roads in Abuja in protest against Dangote's claim of 100% ownership of Kogi Cement without the approval of state assembly. Video above
StagethemTVee: Afrobeat artiste Teni Makanaki who hit the limelight with her song case walked away from President Buhari without shaking him during the collection of her award.
The video shows Teni in a trousers suit walking with a mannerism that suggests displeasure and anger. One wonders why she bothered to show up for the award at all if she was that displeased with the President.
The official event was not the place and time for such attitudes and it has attracted a lot of criticism and support from online viewers.
fergie001: Mbappe's was allegedly promised the club will get a striker (Lewandowski, his choice) and for him to return to his favoured left position (occupied by Neymar) or right. However, Mbappe has consistently been forced to play the 9 position against the wings like he enjoys playing for the National Team.
Romance › Re: A Sad Experience, But A Happy Growth. by Tegabadguy(m): 12:52pm On Oct 13, 2022
I’m in my 30’s I’m doing important stuff, why are you obsessed with me
