₦airaland Forum

SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

If she is really your cross, carry her and move on with life and stop hallucinations .

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
He site looks abandoned....smh
When other countries are already using other source of clean energy, Nigeria still dey use dam....and the light dem no dey seeam o

Pls is energy from hydro not clean again in 2020?

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bolaayenimo:
Plenty here in Nigeria. In Yorubaland, we call it Sisi Eko or eja eyinfunjowo. It's a taboo to eat it sha.

Seriously?

How does this affect your way of making money? or you want to go into pageant.
With the way I see you , you look very healthy.

Explorers:
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I would be there during the launch

Logoking:
Please why do u say so?
Have you been victimized before

Check Google.com

Calabar favourite meat

Poverty in Nigeria more dangerous abeg.

Myralison:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2o6OLx81Ms

Top and success not for the liars

SIONKPO1:
This is fake name,Nigerian forces wears G-belt
,mods please do the needful by deleting this thread and also suspend the Op

I noticed those pictures are not actually Nigerian Army, with the way they dress

Hadeaks:
Nigeria's politics is funny. Once a deputy governor falls out with his principal, he becomes corrupt and worthy of impeachment. If he stays within the party, he is as white as snow. Same with Obasanjo and Atiku back then.

It is a shame that we don't run our politics based on principles.

Thanks God the deputy governor know all this before taking such steps.

NaijaRoyalty:
Akeredolu is a baby politician who only rigged his way to office through the help of his former SSG.

Ajayi Agboola, Insha Allah , is the next governor of Ondo state and nothing will stop that.

I see.

nelsonmai:
Where can I download old & recent nollywood movies?

Check fzmobile

Gabriel411:
I had no problem with the increased fee when I saw additional new channels but was disappointed when on 1st of July was told those addition channels were pop up channels and has been discontinued.

They were offer due to Corona pandemic, just like free SMS from Telcos.

On the contrary, since the beginning of the year, DSTV and GOtv has been offering Nigeria package upgrade i.e pay for a bouquet and get the next higher bouquet for free, though they just end the offer 30th of June.

Dakad:
This is not the first time we are hearing this and honestly we don't care. I'm sure nothing will be done by the time the DSTV drop some millions. To put an end to this monopoly, I believe we the subscribers have a lot to do. We could stop subscribing for a month to protest our displeasure to this endless increase in tariff. DSTV is so useless that even during the lockdown when service provider like MTN are giving 10 free SMS per day, DSTV can't even leave the basic Nigerian station like Channel and TVC when subscription expires. I believe we the subscribers are the only one who can break their monopoly and bend them to stop taken us for a ride. If we wait for the government that song will change when they are bribed, then we are in for long thing

Good job, but on the contrary, Multi choice never increase bouquet price in Nigeria technically, they scrap some bouquet and introduce 7.5% VAT on the available bouquet

bigerboy200:
“Send multichoice packing and see how naija go do am much better” you made me laugh with this statement of yours. Tell me one service that is ran by Nigerians today for which Nigerians are getting good and proportionate value? Is it your banks? Is it PHCN? Is it your airports? Is it your schools? Is it your internet service providers? Is it even your government as a whole?? Take it or leave it, service delivery in Nigeria is very terrible. Back to the matter, your Abuja politicians are evidently ignorant of how TV rights work globally. The contents being showed on cable TV are bought from TV companies Worldwide for millions of dollars. For e.g, Multichoice pays sky sport about 250 million USD to broadcast EPL and this is in addition to the 100million Euros to broadcast UEFA champs league. In light of the embarrassing depreciation of the naira against international currencies, it is only fair that Multichoice increases their tariff to make reasonable profits. Multichoice is not a charity organization, it is a business entity. Let the Abuja politicians focus their energy on stabilizing the economy, stabilizing by the capital market, improving the earning power of ordinary Nigerians and providing good business environment for investors, rather than chasing shadows. If at all anything, Multichoice should be commended for providing a wide range of flexible plans to match customers financial strength. As for the many Nigerians supporting the Abuja politicians to fight multichoice, I shake my head for you. Instead of you to channel your energy into holding your leaders accountable and demanding for a better Nigeria, you are instead making noise over multichoice that never forced itself on anyone. If anyone thinks he/she is being ripped off, then he/she should quit subscribing. After all, cable TV is far from being a necessity of life.

This dunting effort should channel towards our power sector and not DSTV... Cable TV is by choice afterall we have nigcomsat, startimes

jornwhite:
Like seriously, how is breaking monopoly in other to facilitate more indigeneous paytv or pave way for other investors anti business.
As for the sub been lowest in africa, how many nigerians enjoy there sub, i.e imagine you sub n all you get a day is a 5hrs light .. this is where d issue of been over charged comes in.
In past & recent times, dstv as enjoy more preferential treatment than any other firm, excluding dangote ... if govt were to be more committed to startimes or indigenous firms .. dstv won't av sole right to air certains leagues, Hitv would av survived & Tstv would av been bursting our heads by now.
A country is not poor by virtue of economy she runs rather whats decides is balance of trade .. dstv income remits to south africa GNP, more subscribers on mtn & airtel respectively compared to glo .. asides crude oil what really boost our GNP, weytin we dey sell out.
Its not just the govt alone, we (consumers) have a role to play as well.

olajizz01:
Keeping fooling yourself.

DSTV and other multi national companies have been cheating you and other Nigerians since time immemorial,but the likes of you think otherwise.

But at least opt for startimes instead of sticking with DSTV

Crochet:
Pay per view should be Implemented and if they are not ready to abide by our rules they should leave. In south Africa they operate on pay per view, why can't they implement same process here? Abeg am tired of hearing same news every time without any action

How many hours of electricity do you have in your area on the average per month? Compare with South Africa

laladre:
I guess this motherfucker does not have DSTV, you better shut that gutter you call your mouth before I hire Aboki to come seal it for me... Idiot.

Little you know that Nigerians work with them and earn a living also. If this failed govt bring a policy that end DSTV in Nigeria, who will be affected? And I think electricity should be fixed first, that's what affect all Nigerian

geezynoni:
What do you know?

He know much cos Nigerian work and earn a living with DSTV, however I think we need to fixed power first and open business for competition, to subscribe should be by choice and cable TV never cheap anywhere in the world.

FG continue chasing DSTV as if they are the causes of Nigeria woes.... Fix power for Nigerians and see things take shape by itself

1914 was actually a great mistake, but if we can heed to division as a nation now, it would be better for each region.

May His soul rest in peace.

AfonjaConehead:
What's the meaning of this? 4kU!

If you see it as a disease then what are you?

I guess you are a product of failed parenting, for abusing someone you barely know on social media.

And the good citizen will immediately adjust their pump price. But if it were to be downward price review, it will take ages before implementation.

AfonjaConehead:
An 8 month pregnant woman cannot do this... don't believe this story


Graphic

People like you see pregnancy as a diseases

mekuso89:
you are right, this thing is enough to make someone commit suicide he shouldn't list to many of idiots here

Suicide? Children of nowadays way of thinking. What if he was wrongly accused by stranger, what would he now do?

Agba2020:
I've only told this to one person and I've been carrying this one for 9 years now.

This might turn out to be a little long, so bear with me. When I was 17, a few days to my first WAEC, I was reading in the living room when my mom walked in and falsely accused me of sleeping with my own Dad... Oh, I'm a guy btw. I'm not gay, neither am I effeminate.

She claimed she saw my Dad touching me and that he slept with me. I was stunned. I went through different ranges of emotions. At first, I wanted to curse her, then I wanted the ground to swallow me up for real, then I wanted to cry, and then I wanted to scream, tears just filled my eyes, and the first thing that came out of my mouth was "Why are you doing this?" and then she just walked out. I just sat there losing my mind, I knew it was untrue because there's no way you would penetrate a guy without him feeling it, right? Not to mention the fact that I have no memory of this ever happening. And yet she claimed she saw this happening, if that was true, why didn't she stop it?

Long story short, that was the day my life got turned upside down by my own Mom. The not so funny thing is, she never once brought up that issue again since then, and yet she never apologized for it (not that I'd ever forgive her anyway). Dad has no clue about this issue, by the way.

What is big deal here abeg? Accused you wrongly and then.? Please stop nursing imaginary wound.

Well done