Politics › Re: See The NEPA I Received In This Lockdown by Temidayo9(m): 9:00pm On May 19, 2020 |
You only consume #9600 for the month in review |
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Autos › Re: 1999 Toyota Camry Tiny Light For 650k- 07034485442 by Temidayo9(m): 12:51pm On May 19, 2020 |
Your location? |
Family › Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Temidayo9(m): 12:43pm On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare: so do u. Anybody that don't read and understand with wisdom is a failed product. My son, get wisdom and in ur finding, get understanding What's this one saying please? Who indulge you in this conversation? If my contribution cannot help you out of your drug problem, why can't you move on |
Family › Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Temidayo9(m): 11:12am On May 19, 2020 |
Fulcrum15: Shut ur stupid mouth u know nothing. Ur likes condemn innocent kids for witchcraft. With the way you reacted here, it shows you also suffering from excessive drug intake. Watch yourself Couse you are already a product of failed home. Be careful |
Family › Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Temidayo9(m): 11:03pm On May 18, 2020 |
star4ever: I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.
He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.
We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.
These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.
Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?
I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.
I believe a problem shared is a problem solved. Hnmmm. Well, the family need to know the root cause of the problem before there can be a solution. Obviously this is a spiritual problem, and it has to be treated as such. Please take a step, the matter is not a rehab or psychiatric issue. |
Technology Market › Re: SOLD!!! Clean Dell Latitude E7470 Laptop - Core I7-6600u 2.6ghz -512gb Ssd by Temidayo9(m): 11:44pm On May 15, 2020 |
How much? |
Autos › Re: C300 2015 10.5m by Temidayo9(m): 6:52pm On May 12, 2020 |
See beautiful ride. Poverty na bastard. Money is good. May God bless me with plenty money |
Health › Re: Olivia Farnsworth, British Girl That Never Sleep Or Feel Pain Even When Crushed by Temidayo9(m): 8:45pm On May 07, 2020 |
Abami eda |
Politics › Re: Ego Beta Ego Beta: When Will Nigeria Our Country Become Better? by Temidayo9(m): 1:42pm On May 07, 2020 |
when God answer your call, Nigeria don better be that |
Health › Re: Corona Virus The Pandemic That Never Existed. The Cure by Temidayo9(m): 1:02pm On May 07, 2020 |
I like this mode of Advert. Simple and straightforward |
Health › Re: Why Do They Keep Warning About A “second Wave” Of Covid-19? by Temidayo9(m): 7:44am On May 07, 2020 |
To me, there is a model always deployed in Managing epidemic. And everything you see happening now is a model once used to manage similar pandemic
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Nairaland General › Re: See The Animal I Caught Today by Temidayo9(m): 7:29am On May 07, 2020 |
Wao this is Elephant |
Technology Market › Re: How Reliable Is A UK Used LG Direct Drive Inverter Washing Machine by Temidayo9(m): 9:43pm On May 03, 2020 |
Why not Google the reviews of the said washing machine? |
Health › Re: Help! Is This COVID-19 , Health Challenges by Temidayo9(m): 8:54am On May 02, 2020 |
People experiences all this symptoms even before Corona, Only test can state otherwise. Get tested if you are in doubt. Good luck |
Career › Re: Panic In Access Bank As MD Herbert Wigwe Announces Plan To Retrench 75% Of Staff by Temidayo9(m): 8:59am On May 01, 2020 |
Aftermath of Corona may be worse. May God spare all of us economically. |
Politics › Re: Why There Is No Electricity Supply In Nigeria by Temidayo9(m): 11:02am On Apr 28, 2020*. Modified: 12:34pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Nigerians are not ready for steady electricity. Could you believe people still manipulate and bypass prepaid meters? Some don't even pay there bill at all. Not to even talk of the outrageous bill DISCO send out to some household. Definitely we are not ready. #electricty are not cheap anywhere. |
Properties › Re: Fire At NNPC Petrol Station, College Road, Ogba (Pictures) by Temidayo9(m): 4:03pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
ignis: Nigeria is more of a reactive country than a proactive country.
What is NNPC petrol station doing very close to Residential and Commercial buildings ?
Secondly, A 3 digit or unique phone number of police and fire service should be at the finger tip of every Nigerians incase of emergency like this. In the states the number is 911.... In Nigeria what is the number ? If telecommunication companies can have such customer care numbers like 111, 180, 121 etc, why can't the security agencies have it?
15 minutes after the fire incidence started, people were busy forwarding broadcast on WhatsApp and other social media, even the op created the thread calling for attention of fire service.
We need to re strategise and get it right for once. May be you don't know, there is efficient and effective 112 emergency number in Nigeria, if you call the line with an emergency, they dispatch your case to appropriate agency to handle it instantly, I have a brother working in the Akure 112 emergency call center operated by NCC. |
Health › Re: Senegal Becomes Africa's COVID-19 Hero For Producing Testing Kits That Costs $1 by Temidayo9(m): 10:57am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Experience is the best teacher � |
Foreign Affairs › Re: PRAY FOR KANO!!! Reactions As Prominent Persons, 600 Others Dies Mysteriously by Temidayo9(m): 9:27pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Not even 600, may be 6,000,000 people died |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: EPS Nigeria (earn #30,000-#50,000 Weekly Working From Home) by Temidayo9(m): 4:14pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Just like that? |
Sports › Re: Residents Troop Out In Mass To See A Football Match Amidst COVID 19 Lockdown by Temidayo9(m): 2:32pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
At least your Illustration should mention the location |
Health › Re: Corona Virus Does Not Exist In Nigeria-concerned Nigerian by Temidayo9(m): 9:11am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Oshogbo Weed is very dangerous..... Warning.  |
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Politics › Re: Kanu's Bombshell; Olunloyo, Kyari's Body Wasn't Buried; Odumeje I Saw Davido Hol by Temidayo9(m): 4:45pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
Hear they come again o. 5G men of God  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Covid-19: Atheist Doctor In Italy Found GOD While On Duty Fighting D Virus(vid) by Temidayo9(m): 4:42pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
Ok. But God was never hidden. May be decided to find him. Lost sheep may be. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Should I Pay Tithe From My 20k Stimulus I Got From Government? by Temidayo9(m): 11:03am On Apr 19, 2020 |
madegreatbygrace: It seems some don’t understand the message jmoore is passing across. He is not against giving to God to advance the kingdom, he is against tithing being taught in churches as a law.
Giving should be taught in churches as a principle and not as a law.
Is it wrong to pay tithe? Many have asked that question and my reply has always been; is it wrong to give?
The major difference is MOTIVE. Under the new covenant, we don’t give because we want to be blessed. We give because we are already blessed in Christ Jesus. We don’t give out of obligation but out of love. To think God blesses you because you pay tithe is missing the point big time. It’s like saying God contradicts Himself in Matthew 5:45 ;
“That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.” ~Matthew 5:45 KJV
So if God blesses unbelievers who don’t pay tithe, how much more His sons. The New Testament encourages us to give cheerfully and generously, and without compulsion. May God bless you with this insight and message. |
Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by Temidayo9(m): 8:11am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Opiletool: Not all. Some blind people are just lazy to develop that sense of theirs. I once watched a program on the TV, a blind black dude who plays basketball. He wasn't born blind, but had a sickness at a tender age so his eyeballs had to be completely removed. This guy hardly use walking stick. He skates on a major road in between parked cars and could detect incoming vehicles and which direction its coming from. He knows where a building ends and where another begins. If taken to a new environment, he would know everywhere after 1 or 2 outings. Noone helps him around the house, he runs upstairs swiftly like someone that can see. I believe his clip should be on YouTube. He uses frequencies, air, body heats, counting etc to know all these things. While I agree with you on this, but you can try to experiment it by blandfold yourself, and try to work around your street, I wish okada spare you when you try it.  |
Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by Temidayo9(m): 11:49am On Apr 18, 2020 |
mfm04622: Totally blind people can do all normal sighted people can do except see! ALL! They don't seat in a place! I have seen many go anywhere they want with minimal assistance and live productive lives whoever that can do all normal thing is not blind totally. Blindness is a challenge. If you want to experiment it, just just blindfold yourself and move to a new place and try to do something normal. |
Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by Temidayo9(m): 10:16am On Apr 18, 2020 |
EzzyCarter: When one sense gets impaired especially the sense of sight, the other senses become sharper. It's the body's natural way of ensuring survival. Visually impaired ppl usually have a stronger sense of smell, sharper ears and their sixth sense is sharper too that's how the girl was able to sense what you had on ur mind  also there are various degrees of blindness, some partially blind, and they could see faintly. Totally blind people tend to sit in one place. |
Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by Temidayo9(m): 10:11am On Apr 18, 2020 |
ArticleBeast: I am a replica of that your friend. I watch a full season movie in 45 mins you have extremely fast video player? |
Crime › Re: Robbery At Agege And Iyana Ipaja by Temidayo9(m): 10:38pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
abbiboy: A friend just informed me of a robbery going on around E mart shopping mall at Agege.Affected resident should dial Lagos state toll free emergency line-767 or 121. 121 na Glo care go answer you. |