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Foolish lies.

Air peace is not cleared to fly in Canada. It is not a lawless country where anything goes. You people should keep your lawlessness in your country and find a licensed airline to charter and bring back the Nigerians.

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

This is my advice. Count your losses and move on. I've been in a similar situation (though without the beatings...she dare not) .

From your description, though she's beautiful, she's not in your class and you shouldn't be in a serious relationship or think off marrying her for your sanity. When the love, beauty and glamour fades in marriage, something else should be there to keep you going. And it is not here inn this relationship.

Count your losses, take a stand, be a man and end the relationship. Or wait till you have to come here again and complain of cheating and next year rent.

OdefaGirl:
Good news.....at least the boy's mind will rest on that aspect and face the war coming for him.

Good news? Now the Nigerian police have valid reasons to hound the boy.

SeverusSnape:
Low budget PELICAN.

This was the first name that came to my head.


Someone should use Google lens to find out the name. I'm eager to know.

Congratulations!

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?

This posts reeks of foolishness. Buy foodstuffs and give him if you don't want to give him money.

I am very sure when the going was good , he didn't think twice before spending on you. Look at you now.

Stalwert:
Many people can't just comprehend, they mistaking US oil price to be one and the same with global oil price.

Laws of economics suggests our oil will also fall. US oil is about -30 dollars a barrel. Meaning they will pay you 30 dollars for each barrel and give you the oil. This means there's little demand.

That little demand will naturally move to the WTI crude (who no like free thing?) and no one will buy our oil. Our oil price will also fall. Maybe not to negative though. But it will fall enough for WTI to regain.

US WTI crude drops below $1. Our oil should be like $18

Breeding murderous monsters at this age and then expecting every thing to be okay.