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Akir2025:
. Men Stop

Don't Send Her Money for hair
Birthday
Shoes
clothes
Phone
Family issues.
School Fees .
Medications
Call cards and Data

Wake Up Guys .

If any Girls wants Free money they should go and meet there Parents .

Girls Go and Work if you need Money .

Men Spend wisely even if you have Intensions to Marry Her

The Naked Truth. .Those that are Hurts by this Bitter Truth Would keep getting Hurts .

No Man Force any Lady to Go and starts Turning any Man to ATM Machine

If What Your father Gave You is not enough ,Go and Work ...Stop Trying to Be Smarts .

Truth Hurts Badly

no mind dem. See as dem dey cry. Very selfish and wicked creatures. It's always about them. Everybody else can go to hell. Shiorr

Yourbbydora:
ClapforYourselfFirst.....Just know that the kind of men you're advicing today are the same kind of men your sisters, daughters will meet tomorrow. Hope you go still dey proud of the advice then.

lmao. See how pained y'all are.

faxana:
All these expletives for Nigerian women because they're not fools that will let you use them for money? 😂

fools? Lmao. In other words, you're admitting men have been taken for fools by Nigerian girls for a long time now? Interesting. Well I feel sorry for my brother's that keep spending their hard earned money on Nigerian girls in a bid to sustain a relationship.

Everyone knows what they are doing sha. What's my own

Jman06:
Lolzzz...I honestly believe there's a sort of divine intervention. It's not about synergy or personal efforts because I had been synergising and trying hard before now. Those favours actually came without me breaking a sweat.

Don't worry poco, I'll take very good care of my girl. I can assure you that you won't hear any negative stories about my marriage.

lmfaoooooooooooo honeymoon stage still dey shack you.

Afrah04:
As a very beautiful girl that suits societal standards ( well confirmed by a good number of people); that ratchet men or both street and urban urchins tend to have a degree of boldness when they see a lady they walk up straight to her which I find disgusting and silly. On the hand their counterparts tend to kind of acknowledge they notice you, yet seems like they're keeping tabs on you, probably watching or something I don't know, but I do know they don't walk up to a girl on first sight. It's feels in between I admire the courage yet hates the low life approach of the former, and kinda confused on what is running in the minds of the latter category. Seems they're slow or think ur engaged. So what does it mean when men act that way?

ROTFFFFFFFFFFFFLLLLLLL

Mikedel80:
Thanks for your advice. So you said you wana delve into tech. You wanna be a Techpreneur or a Software Engineer

don't know shii about being a techprenneur. But I'd love to learn programming and also delve into hacking at some point. Finances is at its shit mode. I wish I could say more here. But I can't.

Mikedel80:
Wow. I'll have a re-think on it

you don't need a live in partner. Just a casual relationship. You're doing well financially that alone is magnet for the wolves. Enjoy your life abeg. You deserve it. Btw, I also wanna delve into tech, I wish I could get some resources from you. I'm like a decade younger. Your advice is golden.

Mikedel80:
ly.

what are you doing bro? Why invite trouble into your life?

BigYash:
Una matter strong for this site sha.

She has never disrespected you for 17years,and now she don disrespect you.. Shout Gloraaay!

You have not seen anything yet..

Omo the guy too funny. Lmao

Fika01:
https://shorturl.at/kIBzR
"I've never been disrespected by my wife for a single day for 17yrs now" this was the exact words from a husband in grief.

Yes it has never been all rosy for 17 years, there have been moments of disagreement but never disrespect, he added.

I suddenly began noticing a major change in my wife's attitude months after I had multiple backlash in my business.

To be honest I wasn't feeling like a man as we were surviving basically from my wife's wallet as she was a staff in an exporting company.

Recently unlike her, she has normalised coming home late with the excuse "I've to work extra time to meet up with the family's needs" other days she'd come up with "we had a very tight calendar that needed sorting urgently"

Sincerely I was beginning to get worried if she started keeping an affair outside our marriage but I never questioned her. This have been happening for 4 months now and I can't take it any more, she's always quick to remind me of she's the one taking care of the family now whenever I want us to talk about our marriage not being what it used to be.

What can I do?
https://shorturl.at/kIBzR

if marriage don tire you, you go know wetin to do.

Sirchiboy:
Met this girl on michat.
Took interest on her and I thought I will change her but she use juju on me.
Spent my entire life savings on this hoeee.

give us the full gist please

PJI161616:
This Actress is very beautiful and focus, 32 and most successful in Nigeria


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AaCwY0novfM?si=nnFNaNMZop9EOUYk

see the useless BBL. These girls think say we all dumb like Tinubu and him supporters.

Tell the guy say if e think say you go follow am fight because of babe, then e dey confuse you for a fellow without dignity or principles. Tell am to take the girl home. She no worth the hassle.

Reverseng:
Flow State Definition: An optimal state of consciousness where you are completely immersed in a task or activity. At this point of concentration, your sense of time will likely be altered.
For example, you could be at an activity thinking it's just 45 minutes you spent, but when you check the clock, 3 hrs have just gone by.

That definition up there is how flow state is perceived by many, but what is left out about flow state is that it happens to you when your will is directed towards the task that you're involved in.

There's a difference between an activity you were 'stimulated' or saw the need and conviction to carry out yourself, and an activity you were forced to do.

Popular movies like inception can explain what it means to "stimulate a person" to make an "original thought"

For a deeper read, I've explained more in this link, here on nairaland:
https://www.nairaland.com/8598916/chimamanda-adichie-case-choiceless-children

thank you for this. I needed this.

dontrulee:
Lol, dey play.
Even if I give you her number, she no go give you face

oya make we put am to test na.

Israel5:
As lawless as we are, it CANNOT happen in Nigeria o.

you're funny lol. Nigeria wey be zoo. Anything can happen here. No be here parents come beat teacher up for school for disciplining their child?

dontrulee:
She gave me her ATM card and said to me "My money is your money, everything I have is yours". The thing shock me mhen.

While it is true that I have helped her in the past by being there for her when no one was, I have zero attraction for her, but Omo, I'll end up marrying this girl. Her good qualities are topnotch. I'm indeed a very lucky Man

she still dey available? Drop her contact abeg.

dontrulee:
True, very true.
But me I'm a different breed.
My girls dey give me money steady, joy wan wound me! Lol

How!!!!

fattprince:
Thank you for explaining these to them. I didn't know I needed to explain, my bad for thinking everyone on this forum is smart.

weyre you no see my response ba. I just replied to thin air ba

silibaba:
I thought there's this school of thought that say is not good to lay your hand on a woman. I piss on such men with that idea.

You married a girl from the street, and they tell you is not good to lay a finger on your wife same woman the father tire to beat while still living under his roof. Same woman the elder brother gave several uppercut before she got married. E reach your turn they say is abnormal to lay a finger on her

That is why you are the bridegroom and she is the bride.

Bridegroom mean you have to groom the bride and if beating is necessary to groom her you have to apply it on her to suit your taste and standard.

I rest my case.

Let me run before those weak men that always leave their own home they paid rent to their wife and end up in beer parlour to avoid beating their wife. So if your wife pick up a quarrel with you 5 times a day, you will wear your shirt and go to beer parlour 5 times a day?

Go and ask how her ex dey use belt flog the living he'll outta her while they were still dating and till present, she keep telling her friend she loves her ex more than you. E reach your turn you dey form jack and rose [titanic love]


There is always peace in a home where the woman loves the man rather than the man loving the woman.

Even Dino Malaye threathen to beat Remi Tinubu while serving as a senator.

lmao. Na before I dey believe all that kind nonsense. Women need discipline. You need to discipline her when she messes up. I pity the woke men. Dem go get sense by force.

Dybala11:
Initially, I thought you had a point. But reading to the end your opinion was riddled with bitterness and nothing more. To start with, who told you that it's only men that should contribute to development and making inventions??
The problem with prostitution rests on both parties. If the men pipes down a little, it will affect the business. Likewise the women, if they pipe down on it, it will also affect that business. It's a two-way thing for God's sake, or you want to say that the prostitutes are victims in this particular case??

leave that one. Ignorance won kpai am.

chatinent:
Have you ever sent money to someone about ₦100k (maybe small to you, but not to me) to assist them in sth and they totally ignore you maybe because they feel the sum wasn't worth their expectations?

Then you call in couple of days later to ask about their welfare and check if they'd mention it and they didn't?

You called sometime later and talked about it and the animal says "oh, I saw it. You try."

Omo. You deserve am. You don gift your fellow man like that?

DickenClarq:
Lols.

And here am I buying stuffs and gifts for my man he will not only refuse but get angry.

His last birthday I bought him a Fairly use PS5, because I didn't have enough to get him a new one that period.
He gave it out to his cousin and told me never to get him any gift again. That he is a man and I am his own responsibility to take care of,
not the other way round

MEN and their yeh yeh EGO eeehhh.

I wish I can screenshot some of the response here and send to him so that he can see how some men have never gotten
even a tooth pick from their wife or girlfriend.



May God help us

no vex but na akpamu you dey date.

Marvieduke:
Security Guard Praised for Honesty After Returning Misplaced $9,100 in Lagos Bank

A security officer, Adebanjo Samuel, has been widely commended for his exceptional honesty after returning a customer’s misplaced $9,100 while on duty at a branch of First City Monument Bank in Marina, Lagos.

In recognition of his integrity and exemplary conduct, the company has announced plans to host a special reception in his honour.



https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/lagos-security-guard-praised-after-returning-customers-9100/%3famp

the guy na fool. He just returned stolen money.

LocalBuka:
I'll start.

Pizza.

Before you people attack me, I like it o

But sometimes the way people talk about pizza will make you think each slice comes with salvation.

It's just fancy bread with toppings doing shakara.

Meanwhile one good plate of rice and stew will satisfy you and you won't even spend so much.

Anyways, I understand that every popular food has people that will overhype it.

So which food do you think is overrated but people are not ready for that conversation?

Let's hear it.

Please don't bite me😂

shawarma and pizza is overrated rubbish.

Julibet:
A prime example of why men feel lonely even in marriage. Most females are naturally selfish. I just hope you don't raise your daughters this way.

too late. She's already doing that.

Dpsychologist:
When it's her birthday you are to spend on her. When it's your birthday, she will be asking you what do you have for her or where are you taking her to.

Most naija females are sick. But they don't know it yet.

helinues:
The solution which late Aketi made use of, I suggested it, rejecting anything Ighoho's involvement, I championed it. if na bragging, so be it as I have a thread to back it up

my belle. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

helinues:
You can't even win any arguments against me as we are not in the same level. Your likes should be listening if I am talking.

Where were you people during the End sars and Igboho interfering in Ondo herdsmen crisis? I know the role which I played that saved SW, those are just one of the references.

So listen whenever I am talking

this one is confidently delusional. See as person calm down dey spew trash with confidence. Smh. Btw it's "on" not in the same level. Delulu