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Winnerrrr:
i’ve been indulging in this despicable act since i was a teenager and i just turned 25 this year but i was able to quit completely from the root, currently, i have zero urges and i can stay with myself as long as i want without reaching out for it.

FIND A GIRL YOU REALLY LOVE (NOT LIMERENCE OR INFATUATION)

Find a girl that motivate you to become a better man, make sure she is worth it (vet and observe her before you commit) also make sure it is mutual.

A girl will change you and make you want to do better for yourself, before i met my girl, i would goon and go to work or will do it the first thing in the money, i was always low energy and can’t keep a conversation going, what broke the camel back was one day, immediately i finished gooning she called me, even though she was not there i felt so guilty, i was like imagine being with a girl and you still watch porn and masturbating, is that the type of boyfriend you want to be.

i don’t know what happened but ever since that day i felt free and never had the urge to do it.

this can’t work with any girl, it has to be a girl you truly desire, not a lashing mate, the desire to be the best for her will overcome the desire to goon.

this is my own personal experience.

I pity you. You're changing cause of a girl. What if she's no longer in the picture? You go right back to masturbation

Sonnobax15:
My brother,you no need banny for your life right now. Wetin you need na upgrade and na that phase I dey now. Anybody wey go carry banny matter come meet me no go like wetin I go tell am and I dey very brutal and serious about am

wait your new babe don dey show you shege already

Meedon:
You are pronatalist

nah. Nah. I don't promote or encourage uncontrolled procreation. Infact I belong to the school that encourage people to bear only two children or less. Pronatalist ke

Meedon:
Life is full of wickedness. There is nothing in it. Every human beings are selfish, if not willingly bringing another being to this earth of suffering wouldn't have been the case but alas everyone want a toy or toys to play with. Look at humans killing animals that are living things for food but they will pray for long life. But they can take other living things life.


Go on YouTube, most antinatalists are white people. African that love to procreate like rabbits. Bro talk another thing abeg

shey you know say I be antinatalist?

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Meedon:
Go antinatalism and save your future kids of suffering (kidnapping, grapes, murder, cancer, kidney failure, drug abuse, burning to death etc). Remember no one is special and anyone can be faced with severe pains.

dem go ask you say if your mama no born you u whether you go fit type this thing. Africans never really think beyond their selfish selves

YoungLionken:
For some reasons, the woman with kids and the other woman on the Lord's Chosen Mopol apron were asked (by the kidnappers) to go. I can't wait for the woman's testimony . Some of you who doubted and made mockery of their past testimonies would at least agree with this one now that it has evidence ..

As for the corps members, I believe most of them are the Tiktok genZs who take nothing serious if it's not for Tiktok likes and views. (I find it disgusting that many of these lots don't know a considerable amount of information about their government and governance)Why, because someone who's conversant with the current affairs of the nation would immediately reject (I know of a young man who did this) after being posted by NYSC. I remember the genZ's protest against their corrupt government in Nepal sometime ago and today, the country is gradually having a lift economically and in governance..

However, I pray for their speedy release, from the claws of those political monsters!!

2027 will be the year I will truly know if Nigerians want a positive change for us and future generations or not! Many Nigerian youths are living below average but still think they have something to lose if they stood their grounds against this evil government, hence the cowardice; "I no wan die, I no wan fight, I wan enjoy life.." By Fela. But whereas, someone in US prison is in a far better condition than the average Nigerian today...

you've said it all brother. The Nigerian youth is busy on social media changing Elon musk money. Being selfish, most would say as long as it's not affecting me or my family members and we can still provide our basic needs, nothing spoil. It's this mentality that's dragged us backwards

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Vendor127001:
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Imalwayshorny:
no be your pictures be this

you dey stalk her??

HeatSeeker:
She's actually correct. I have known about this for years. Water in plastic bottles placed under direct sunlight is very toxic. However, if you eat an antioxidant rich diet, the effects can be counteracted.

could you list some antioxidant rich diet we could easily gain access to/adopt here in Nigeria?

Northsouth:
If you say you no like being hugged at all at all
I will say you're worst than the devil himself
You are a dangerous and wicked soul

But if you say e get some kine people in ur life wey u fit hugg only
Then I believe that one is normal and very okay

Why I mention the dangerous part be say, even president Putin wey be hard man get people wey him dey hug

Even idi Amin of uganda or abacha of Nigeria self get who Dem dey hugg when Dem dey alive

So if u no like to hug anybody at all all, then it's not normal, because even ur wife no for be ur wife today thats if u even get one now self, and if u never get, u no fit get woman or wife, talkless of children
U self know say Dem no go be yours

So it's better u choose that my second paragraph before u lose yourself

abeg o😂😂

sinola:
you have a very uncontrollable high libido...nothing you will tell me

that's wrong lol

LordReed:
Did you notice this when you were young?

not really.

ufotunang:
..so females with big front milk industry you do not like being hugged by them

nope. Unless naked.

mfm04622:
You are very normal. Nothing is wrong with you. Just let people know so they will stop trying to hug you

thanks man.

tayepop:
I don't too. You could be communicating with a dark energy field by hugging. The spirit controls the physical.

wow thanks man

WatchYourSix:
Maybe…..

many mild autistic pple function well in society….

Quick need to Pull away when hugged.
Flinching at unharmful touch
Some mild Crowd anxiety or sensitivity when in crowded areas
Also Some Sensitivity to some type clothing material that won’t bother others

damn. I can relate to everything you typed here sir. Plus i don't like crowded places at all. I get anxious and very uncomfortable. Plus I don't like the light on my face at night.

LordReed:
That is serious. When you were young your mum didn't carry you to comfort you or you dad didn't carry you to play with you?

BTW it might not be a single event. Like mine wasn't, just a build up of resentment towards being treated a certain way.

hmm

elitper:
No big deal. Shey you dey fo.ck regular sha? Na dat one dey important.

fosho fuckenin is important

femi4:
You need hug from busty ladies

lol. Naked busty ladies please

LeeSmart:
Ashawo na now you talk true😂😂😂

dawan different na. 😂 You won dey hug me fully clothed as how?

Godfullsam:
I no dey hug people and I find it irritating when someone tries to hug me.
I resisted a hug from a lady colleague at work the other day, she was like 'You should even be happy that I wanted to hug you'.

I was like, happy keh!

wahlai. She dey mad. She no know say she dey infringe lol. Think say you go jump for joy. Weyre woman

DystopianMuse:
SEE NONSENSE THREAD ON FP. NL HAS GONE TO THE DOGS. DON'T QUOTE ME OO. I AM FEELING PEEVISH AND H..RNY

nonsense thread...who forced you here? Oga go and find your bf and leave us tf alone.

Mirasteel:
I also don't like being hugged too, I guess we are the same.

yeah. Didn't know we were many on that ship

Tooreda:
I don’t even like being touched, let alone hugged. Very annoying.

my nigga. You Sabi the matter.

Hezmatosky210:
In as much as I don't have issues with hugs, as a man wey I be, I have limits of getting close to me, especially if you're not my babe or my child. I have a neighbour, my uncle's friend, very friendly and playful. He's much more older than me. Tall and lanky, always happy and joyful anytime He's greeted. But the issue is that, when even ever I greet him, he will like to hug me instead and I always feel his hood because he doesn't put on boxers before wearing trousers. It disgust me alot. But now, I have learnt that greeting him from a distance is just ideal since I can't tell him what I feel

oh dear. Can't imagine myself in this situation 😂😂😂

StealeR:
Yo man! I can relate, but mine is a bit different.

I hate bein' hugged, but I love givin' hugs. There’s somethin' thrillin' about givin' a hug, it makes me feel like I’m in charge, like I’m the man... 😊

bruh .you give hugs? Omo...you dey try oh. I don't want to give or receive hugs.

LeeSmart:
You never really tell us why you no like hugs oo, anyways if you learn to control ur 3rd leg then you'd love to hug and be hugged✌🏽

nah. Not that. I no just like the contact. The only time I could is when we're making out naked. That makes sense cause I'd want to feel your boobs and body. But to just hug me randomly, mba

WatchYourSix:
Some mild autistic pple dont like too much contact like hugging

are you saying I could be autistic? What are other symptoms of mild autism? Id love to know.

LordReed:
Sounds like unresolved trauma. Humans are naturally drawn to touch, if you are rejecting it then something is impinging on your mind when it happens. Maybe explore memories of your childhood and formative years, you might recall what triggered this type of response.

I'll give you an instance. Growing up my parents unduly restricted my going out and the question where are you going became symbolic of that restriction. Anytime anybody asks me that question now I get very angry.

interesting. I can't recall ever experiencing anything that traumatic. I've always been adverse to touch. Even public display of affection I don't like it.