₦airaland Forum

indoorlove:
I completely understand your concern, especially given his age and the stage of the cancer. At this point, I would also be very careful about anyone promising a complete cure in one month, particularly for ₦200k. That kind of claim should definitely be treated with caution.

That said, I know someone who is into herbal/traditional medicine and, from the cases and feedback I have personally come across, I consider him quite knowledgeable and sincere in his approach. I wouldn't say he can “cure” stage-IV prostate cancer, because that is a serious claim that should only be made based on proper medical evidence.

However, if you are open to exploring complementary options alongside the hospital's treatment, I can connect you with him. My advice would be not to stop the prescribed medical treatment or palliative care, but rather let the herbal practitioner know exactly what medications and treatments he is currently receiving and have the doctors involved as well.

At this stage, the priority should be his comfort, mobility, pain control and quality of life, while giving him every reasonable opportunity to benefit from treatment.

good day. Can I please get this man's contact?

Lastmankc:
Omo, Una dey talk for here ooo

na because e Neva affect him or him family. I hope when he goes throught the same ordeal e go take am as that Gods own way of managing the population

Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.

Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.

To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.

I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.

What would you advise me to do?

lol. Pet her, buy her gifts, infact a car would do, kneel down and wipe the tears of her eyes, tell her you understand that she's human and she's got feelings too. Assure her that you're gonna raise the child if it's from the guy she had sex with. And also assure her that you won't have issues with him coming to see his child.

Make her feel safe and understood. Apologize for not paying attention to her when she needed you most. Promise her the world. Get her an engagement and marry that woman. She's god sent.

Nairaland111:
Imagine my ex-girlfriend, who earns ₦80,000, describing ₦3 million as “just a small amount of money” needed for her marriage dress. She even told me to start sending around ₦250,000, instead of ₦150,000, every month because “things are expensive,” even though she was only my girlfriend, not yet my wife or a parent. The issue is not only about the money, but also the unrealistic expectations and the way some people have started to see large amounts of money as if they are easy to provide.

most Nigerian women are exactly like this. 98 percent of them. I promise you. Just trash marriage. Find one smallie give belle you won't regret it

Evaress:
even ugly girls get hit by many men. Don't you see mad women getting pregnant?

😭😭😂

IbrahimSola:
No girl is really ugly. You need to see how these "so called ugly" women change when they meet good money and easy life. Besides God did not cheat anybody, any girl must have one attractive thing about her. Some that you can't find anything at first sight, just put some money and see how she blooms. Whereas some "ugly" ones have excellent character that can easily magnetize. Indeed God did not cheat anybody. Beauty is vain though.

guy calm down na. I was just being sarcastic with the question. Jeez. 😐

ArcToyin:
What is the gain you get when you deceitfully have sex with a girl and throw her away. Sincerely, this is an example of act of the devil but i believe you believe to Jesus. Pls, shun those evil act. Love genuinely and truthfully.

okay na. I don hear.

Infolenka:
I'd never have created this thread if the lady in question wore a dress that covered her big boobs. She was literally showcasing her cleavage to the world and probably using it as a selling point to sway the male judges.

Women who objectify themselves by showing off their ass, boobs or sexy body parts deserve to be objectified by me.

no mind the defender of women.

Infolenka:
I will believe you if you tell me her name and surname and the university she graduated from. I have all this info but I don't have her number.

guy you no get her Instagram?

Sixfeetbelle:
Honestly, it's outright disgusting the way you objectify woman at any slightest opportunity. If you're not posting them based on colour, you're posting them based on size, if it isn't that, it's using their body shape.

Sure, we can argue your threads came about because those ladies posted it on "Instagram", but this lady now, did she post any pictures anywhere? Just normal sight on a television screen had you fapping? Is it safe to say then that any sighting of any woman is enough to have you doing "soapy"? In what world is this behaviour normal?


Stop demeaning women with this sordid behaviour. You're supposed to know better.

Woman rights activist. Dem tell you say she no know before she dress like they come the show? Una go dey fight for people wey no send Una.

Evaress:
Men should respect women that choose to remain faithful to only them because everytime a lady steps out, she gets hit by up to like 10 different men and she will keep saying No to them because of One man she is trying to be faithful to. Is it easy to be chased everytime? We all know men hardly gets chased.

what should we do with the faithful ugly ones then?

Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating on me. Unfortunately I love this girl so much.

Please should I expose her secret to her or should I continue playing the game with her?

Kill yourself.

Proserpina:
None confuses me, all doesn't just make any sense.

you're still very much confused is why you're missing the point.

Proserpina:
I'm trying so hard to get your point.

smh. Which parts confuse you please?

Proserpina:
And what became of those women? Especially the ones who ended up with struggling men? In 2026 where nations or at least growth minded nations are on about structural measures to improve their economy , You and op are taking us "thousands of years" backward. Lol

I just hope the young women you will be marrying are millionaires like yourselves else nah poverty go finish una

I go like see you tell this to the head slammers. Make I see how e go pan out.

MissOpe:
..

Go Siddon put for some where..

Lame take ko, Lime Make ni...

Ozuor

you go dull wella frl o.

Emmy000seun:
I don't have a girl friend but a wife And even no woman can ever play smart on me because I'm always miles ahead in my relationship with woman.💯💯..I control my affairs, I always believe a woman need me more than I need her..so with this it's easy for me to check balance at any f**king time 📌

Even people wey smart pass you still get women wey manipulate them. Don't get cocky

Johnnoah1st:
Hello house,

I need the elders and experienced men on this forum to give me a brutal, real-world assessment of my current relationship. No emotional sugarcoating, please. Give it to me raw.

I am currently engaged to a 25-year-old lady. I have already done the traditional introductions, visited her family house, and let her speak with my mother. In her mind, the marriage track is fully sealed. But over the last few weeks, I have uncovered serious operational red flags that make me feel she is a massive liability to my future.

Here is the raw data log:

1. The Ex Factor & Lack of Boundaries: She still maintains active contact with her ex. When her friend brought him up right in front of me, she tried to minimize it. When I expressed my discomfort about her exes, she casually told me "I will try" regarding blocking them, instead of taking immediate action.

2. The WhatsApp Security Lock: Two days ago, I audited her phone and linked her WhatsApp to my device. The moment she noticed, she violently revoked my access immediately to shut down transparency.

3. The Sting Operation Failure: After a deep night conversation where I laid out my boundaries, I ran a compliance test. I texted her from an unknown number pretending to be a random guy. That exact same day, she accepted an invitation to meet this stranger at a bar. The conversation only paused when the "stranger" offered her 70k for intimacy—which makes me think she now suspects it was a setup.

4. Toxic Philosophy on Bed: During intimacy, she jokingly compared our relationship to a transactional hookup, saying "full option is for the person who pays." On another day, she casually dropped the phrase that her "sweetness is not for one person."

5. The Carefree Mask: Whenever I bring up these red flags, she completely stonewalls me. She will literally continue watching a movie on her phone, wave me off, or give me a shallow "pet" on my hand to keep me quiet, expecting me to be the one begging for her attention.

Right now, she thinks I am too heavily invested to pull out because I have seen her parents. She is traveling today, and she thinks her carefree attitude has managed my mood. She has no idea I know about the 70k text or that my final consequence is going to be a total, permanent exit.

Nairalanders, look at this chessboard. Is this girl genuinely "senseless and naive" as she claims, or am I dealing with a highly calculated, deceptive operator who views me as a long-term financial client?

I am preparing to pull the plug permanently. Let me know your thoughts.

shebi na Una dey find modern women, woke girls. You Neva see anything. Better marry that girl o. After sleeping with her over and over again you want to leave her for who?

Koppaguard:
You for just collect your own turn and ghost her, your impulsive reaction came too early to the game

wahlai. E too dey in a haste. E for don chop her several times then remind her. Some of these women deserve the worse treatment.

Toolegit123:
. And what correlation does my age has to do with my post?

Guy you did well jare. But you too dey in a haste. You for just gba scores first. She suppose don use am learn a lesson or two now. No call her again.

pocohantas:
Yes, because you guys are overbearing.
There are more women without makeup in Nigeria. Pick them.

no vex ma. 😂 It's just opinion. Don't mind them.

pocohantas:
Well said. They have been saying they don't like women with makeup, yet that industry keeps booming and women keep wearing the makeup regardless. It should tell them either it is not being worn for them or they are not the target men. But no, they like to control everything. They don't like women that wear makeup, they don't like women that breathe... Marry the ones without makeup and rest.

Omo the way you're taking this personally. Lmao

MissOpe:
Stop using a mobile phone, stop using modern days technological equipments, stop using the internet, these things are culturally familiar and they evoke nostalgia.....

Our forefathers didnt get to use them, so lets stick with the culture.

Omo which kind lame take be this? How you dey compare human hair extension with a novel invention like the mobile phone and internet?

We4all:
Some men think the world revolves around them, and expect women to wear or do what they like. If a woman decides to wear weaves and make up, why don't you just mind your business?

The same men will dye their beards and hair to look good, but will sneer at women for trying to enhance their looks with make up and weaves. If she likes what she sees, who are you to decide for her?

Do make you remove your genitals make we know say you don turn woman finish. See as you care woman matter for head like who dey kiri buns. Sus mf.

Miggs:
Lol
Nigerian males are too narcissistic
This is NOT an issue about impressing men.It is ABOUT women (competition,status-jockeying etc)
What does the average Nigerian man know about "bone-straight" ? hair , a "shift dress"? or vintage prada bags?

lol. Dey deceive yourself. You really don't know women. Even in the midst of the so called competition they are still wearing wigs to impress men. If you like argue.

Hermoniy:

2026,who unah want dey deceive?.

smh. You really think a host of men fancy the fake hairs y'all put on your heads? Do you even know where they get these hairs for? You females should try and get yourself out the herd mentality. It's saddening to witness.

sandra2025:
I'm open to a relationship.

lol

Extrazee:
Peak fooling. You sound very much like a kid.

dem dey tell you truth you dey there dey do like goat. Okay na.

Diamond098454:
I'm very faithful

I don't cheat

hmm hmm hmm hmm