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Lmao. These men no go kill me. 😆😆😆 Show us the so called guys.

placeofallure:
First, neither partner, especially women, should be greedy. A man once took me shopping in a mall. He gave me his card, but he was surprised I picked only 3 items. I wasn't acting; I only picked the things I needed at the time. It made an indelible impression on him. In the future, he'd buy stuff by himself and bring it.

Secondly, don't ruin the night by talking only about yourself, your businesses, your huge account balance, your heroics, your wins... Be modest and pipe low, please.

Next, be kind to everyone around, anyone at all. Be respectful to everyone. It costs nothing.

Don't overdress or underdress for the occasion. I have a penchant for people who are well put together. Be moderate. Don't come with perfume heavy enough to choke an entire cemetery. Ṣ'ogun l'aye ni?

For men, don't expect me to contribute financially on our first date. You probably initiated it, so you're solely responsible for it. On subsequent dates, I may contribute if I like your vibes and wish to be with you.

Exude confidence. You'll need lots of it to deal with a tough nut like me. Some of us are clever inside out. There's hardly any discourse that I won't be able to contribute intelligibly to - Sports, Medicine, Music, Economy, Technology, Renewable Energy, Fashion, Finance, Statistics, Humanities, etc. I'd prefer you feign introversion than open your mouth and spurn rubbish.

This last one seems petty, but it's me. Please, speak good English.


My humble submission.

Well said. You are spot on

pansophist:
Funfact. Most of the first date red-flag can be forecasted and prevented, so the date wont hold in the first place.

If for example, she asked for transport, talked rude on the phone and responded like she is doing me a favour, said negative things about her ex, and gives a general bad energy, then such date will not hold.

No point discovering on the date what can be discovered from afar. Always have an extensive phone calls before a date, to eliminate unrefined, low barrel people.

If she finally makes it through my firewall and the date holds, then I will look out for these things.

1. Almajiri behaviour. She came to eat than to know me. Also ordered takeaway, and lacks proper table decorum.

2. Provocative dressing. This tells me that she is an attention seeker and lacks true confidence. If she cant cover up and dress with dignity, then I wont honour you. I wont give honour if you do not give it first to yourself.

3. Her physical prints. If in our conversations, I hear or see things like frequent visits to hotels, abortion, overnight parties, bbl, tattoo, superficial looks, too focus on my earnings, sexcapades, rebellious, then in my mind, its over.

These are all I can remember, there should be more. My cardinal rule in dating is that you must meet me halfway. I do not have the energy to be patience, or help you get better beyond what you could have achieved yourself.

this is very apt, bro. Well said.

Dtruthspeaker:
Of course.

Ask her if the friendship is one based on the fact that she would be the one to pay for food and drinks and outings. And see whether after maybe 2 outings she won't breakup.

Clearly na another format

lmao. Wahlai. I dey curious to see where this is headed.

Rrchrd:
What if the man is late?
I can marry a single mum of one
If she is ready to start a single life with me.

ROTFL. You'll learn. Don't worry.

DaddyRochie1642:
But you post your pictures on Facebook and Instagram without hesitation,.... Are Facebook and Instagram not part of the public online forum again??

interesting

Evaress:
I just want someone to keep me company and be my friend.

are you in Lagos?

Evaress:
Personally, i love been friends with Guys, even love hearing their gists. I prefer their friendly company to ladies. All ladies talk about is either their hair, makeup, all those superficial stuffs and i find it boring. Most guys that hit on me, i accept and give them my number. They call me and i offer them a hangout with my own money. I do take them out and pay the bills myself without demanding nothing from them, i just love their company. I tell them i just want to be friends, i'm cool if they can be dating another girl as far as we remain friends, then i notice the guys start avoiding me. Even when i call them, they don't pick up again. Its so sad😭

so that you can bill them like mad abii? Cause that's what the average Nigerian girl does, keep plenty male friends around for financial benefits. Unless you're not a part of this group.

Lastpharoah33:
Chill, thou have noth ,


I read the epistle she wrote up there, you care for the summary, chief?

the guy just dey disgrace himself. I just dey shame on him behalf back to back. Getting all excited over a female that he doesn't even know what she looks like. As if e no dey see females around him locality. Nawa o.

budaatum:
Please engage with me in six months time so I can reassess your mind to see if it has grown or not.

Please know that I am not in the least disappointed. I'm just observing and charting and monitoring your progress to study mind growth and development in general.

Also know that "the mind can grow overnight". You simply need to delete the bad software and install better software in your mind overnight. But I am not charting your mind growth overnight. I'm monitoring you every six months or so.

smh. I hope he learns to respect himself now.

eepeepook:
I have plenty; from real to imagined. If you make a mistake and display one, quick dismissal. As I’ve grown, I search more for reasons to disqualify women than keep them. I’m above lust.

I'm telling you brother. I am always scanning for any sign of foolishness and lack of character. The more I know modern women, the more I'm starting to despise them.

joseph1832:
Sorry to disappoint you, my mind hasn't grown. Like the mind can grow overnight, eh.. Hehehehe

Baba stop to dey make yourself look like you no get self respect. She's clearly not entertaining your BS. No dey make men appear like desperate fools na.

budaatum:
It's my bath tub in the privacy of my own home, so why would I hide parts of me with a bikini?

Should I also wear a bikini when I shower?

P.s. Do know that I am only engaging with you to see if your mind has grown since the last time. You are warned.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 he'd finally get the message now.

joseph1832:
Not really. You can still go in the tub with a bikini, but yours is special, going in naked to the bone.

if I were you, I wouldn't get so excited. That person is not your average bimbo.

Lucifyre:
See them foaming at the mouth rabidly cause someone chose to live their life differently from the herd. The ironic thing is most of em end up being deadbeat parents.

you dey mind them? Some were even saying He wouldn't be here if his parents made same decision. As if he requested for it.

akpumping7720:
If your parents have this same mentality, it means you won't be available in this world spewing this trash.

this quote is stale already. Bro didn't ask to be born. Make Una stop this silly talk.

chicfarmer:
This one go think say im wise.
No worry, by the time you realize your foolishness e go don late for you

atleast father one child. If e zuzu na him loss. If money dey to train child no go too hard.

Merry100:
On what grounds are you erasing men's choices from the equation while lecturing only women about accountability? Are you implying that men are helpless individuals with no brains, self-control, or agency?

Even after urinating out waste products, they continue to be burdens.

When exactly are you guys going to grow up? Must women carry you for nine months, nurture you into adulthood, and then continue babysitting your decisions by pretending that you bear no responsibility for the choices you willingly make?

🤡 If two adults willingly participate in something, both are responsible for their respective choices. You don't get to erase men's participation from the equation and then disguise one-sided blame as "accountability."

keep it moving. I have nothing else to say to you. Y'all keep shifting blames. That's what y'all good for.

nairavsdollars:
Bobrisky Stuns in new pictures



https://www.instagram.com/p/DbGHDmbCJ9j/?img_index=2&igsh=OG5jNmtoMjdhNHF0

no be now body go tell you. The regrets wey dey await you for old age dey do press up. For now, flex on

Merry100:
Something does not become the truth simply because you believe it or because you find it bitter. 🤡 Why would I be triggered by unreasonable words?

Tell your gender to do better. If those persistent knckers called men stopped knocking on the gate, the gatekeepers would have no reason to open it. If there were no demand, there would be no supply.

Your complaint that some women earn income through sex is also inconsistent. You can't have it both ways. If your gender is willing to create the demand by paying for the supply, why are you directing your outrage at the women instead of criticizing the men who make that market possible?

And if those women willingly "spread their legs" without complaining, why are you crying on their behalf? Tell your gender to keep that little finger-looking thing inside their trousers instead of blaming women for choices that require the participation of both men and women.

you're the 🤡 here. Still running away from accountability I see. Keep it moving.

SirCloudControl:
😂😂

bros na me first reach out on. Incase e decide to show you.

DeloitteNG:
Nothing is wrong with it and you are explaining? 😁

🤣🤣🤣 if her throw back be like this, I wonder how she go really be now with such a ugly face.

Afrah04:
coming from a faceless man hiding behind keypads, well say anything you want that will make you forget ur miserable life and sleep well at night

😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 Well, I'm not the one seeking attention upandan creating threads upon threads for validation from the so called faceless men.

SirCloudControl:
All these ones no really concern me bro.
I just want to learn how to earn me £70,000 per month

abeg carry me along boss. When time comes

SirCloudControl:
Teach me

Omo wahlai. I swear. That caught my attention

lindqvistbergst:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPp7pL3kY4M?si=H6IuHOTcaTBxrmPb

Done the video.

keep up the good work bro. Women believe they can eat their cake and have it everytime. She must be made famous.

Traay:
if i was that lady, i will countersue your a*ss for bridge of privacy. you still haven’t told me while you decided to hide your friends contact while revealing hers. you can still pass your message without having to reveal her personal information

mods rule 10
Rocktation , dominique , farano

see this one, hopefully someone does the same to your brother. Spits

Merry100:
Your moral hypocrisy is alarming. Your gender has no business preaching moral standards to women. Given the countless atrocities committed by men, it is astonishing that you feel righteous enough to single out women for judgment while overlooking the heinous acts committed by men. This world is simply being polluted by both men and women.

There is absolutely no point in this shameless act of judging and criticizing women. You guys really think you are that important. In a world that belongs to both men and women, you still try to play the boss. You are not in any position to criticize people, especially people whose bills you don't pay and whose lives you know nothing about?

truth is bitter. What he said really triggered you. Tell your gender to do better. They are the gatekeepers of sex. Today they are weaponizing it and using it as a means of income. Nobody pointed a gun to their head to spread their legs. Don't blame men for that the average woman is greedy asf

SirCloudControl:
I am impressed with your submission, I hope men open their minds and see how females actually think of them.

I'm happy to know women now say what they only think about in their head before.

exactly. In 2026 only naive men with low self esteem still take women seriously. Don't try to elevate any woman that's not blood related. It's not your cross to carry.

DeloitteNG:
Just look at the person calling people poor

na the petite, pretty and curvy be that. Lmfao 😂😂😂😂