Kemical23: It's normal oga.... What you don't do in your childhood will be difficult to do in your matured age especially for introvert... Shame too follow..
Stephen0mozzy: Be like person wey their armpit dey wooze hug you when you small, and them don scar you for life 😅
Just kidding.
We all have our own quirks. We're not a very hugging society sef. Handshakes are more common, with hugs reserved for young siblings or girlfriends.
I swear. I can take a hug from little kids, babies, but not grown ups. Thank God. I think say na only me. I feel like I offended an old classmate when she tried hugging me and I shifted one side somewhat.
Thought I'd outgrown this shii. But ist getting worse. I don't like being hugged especially by females. When someone reaches out to hug me I feel like getting out of that situation really quick.
Shey I normal like this? I hope there are other nairalanders that can relate. I no like hugs at all. Just shake me and leave me tf alone.
TheHatofEsther: In February, a guy followed me on social media. He said he liked me and all that. As at then, he said he was an Engineer, working as part of a constitution company.
Honestly, for 2 months he was texting and calling me for a relationship and meeting each other. At some point, I started calling too and texting back.
In April, he told me he was depressed because he lost his job. I told him, it could be very difficult for him to cope, since that was his only source of earning.
3 weeks after that, he sent me a message and deleted it. I came online and asked him what he typed initially. He said he wanted to come my place to check on me and stay for a week. I felt there was nothing wrong with that even though I have never met him.
Then came a catch22 situation, he said he wasn't financially bouyant to come visiting and asked if I could send him some money. Honestly I didn't have, I had to call one of my friends in the Uk to lend me some money till month end.
I sent him the money and when it was the day of coming, I kept waiting for his text. I kept waiting for his call to notify me he was at that Ibadan garage. He never called, he never texted me. When it was around 3 in the afternoon, I called him to ask him what was happening. He told me, his friend who was a neighbour had a clash with someone. And that the police arrested him and the neighbour. And that I called him immediately he paid their bail to the person that came with police to arrest them.
I told him straight up that a complainant cannot pay the bail of the person arrested. Then he quickly changed his narrative. I let that slide and didn't communicate with him for a while.
He kept texting and telling me how sorry he was. Then again, In may he told me he wanted to come. I told him due to the distance and the nature of my work, I can't come. I sent him another money just for him to come. Only for this guy to ghost and come up with another excuse that his brother had and accident and had to go home. He sent me some chat and pictures.
I find it amusing why a person will be behaving this way. Why? And he had never thought of saying he wants to refund all the transport fare. I want to accuse him of collecting transport and not coming but I don't want to be too harsh.
The guy is a monumental mooowwwron. Block him please. He's a butt wipe. Why do you females never run away from guys like this?? Drop that guy. He's unserious
Evaress: What makes you think its every girl you see that you will go hit on? Or what makes you think every woman will lower herself to a street money olosho? There are still way lot of classy and independent ladies out there and we get irritated when these horn*y ass men keep touching us in public and trying to flirt with us inappropriately. If you need a ha*rlot, you know where they stay.
Stop sending me email horn*y ass guys, i'm not your type and i will never be. You wan come give me infection. I reject it in Jesus Name!
stop making noise. Show us the guys that are emailing you. No dey disturb us with noise abeg.
Godfullsam: Which lady will allow you to get her pregnant without marriage. No sane girl will enter into such arrangement with you. Except of course if you deceived her with marriage promise and dish her after getting her pregnant.
But mind you, every decision has consequences.
no worry as long as money dey. Dawan na small thing.
You dey like me, I no like all that stress. E dey affect me badly. I know for a fact I'll have hypertension at middle age if I try marriage and kids. No be joke. So I'll pass on those abeg.
amen boss. Swears life simple abeg. Make person no go carry wahala for him life.
blamingthedevil: "As a governor my cook was killing one cow everyday to cook.” — Peter Obi
Peter Obi speaking at The Platform event in Lagos, where he describes arriving as Anambra governor to find his cook slaughtering one cow daily to feed around 50 people and instructing changes to cook only for himself as a cost-cutting measure.
Obi presented the anecdote to highlight wasteful government spending, arguing that official residences should not function as restaurants and emphasising frugality in public office.
“As a governor my cook was killing one cow everyday to cook.”
— High Chief Lawrence Igbins Okoro (@HighChiefOkoro) August 24, 2026
I'm not even a fan of Tinubu, but this man don dey move funny. Which kind useless statement be this? He's making himself to appear like a desperate fool now. I wish he'd just focus on the goal instead of making himself to look like a clown. This kind of statement screams desperation.
We know Tinubu is the Desperate one but I'm begining to think maybe Obi has started taking a leaf from his playbook. Too bad. I can never trust politicians. They're the same.
saintopus: No reason marriage matter at all! You go thank me later.
thank you sir. I kuku like my solitude. My mind rest. Na to find one girl wey like me let am know my stance give am belle. I don't like stress. I like to travel light. Even the pikin sef I still dey get two mind.
saintopus: Is the land in the city or village. If city, build the house get a baby mama and continue your business. I've been in marriage for over 14 years and I know what am saying.
Lovelink1991: It was a show of unexpected incidents for the groom to see his bride going opposite his expectations in the presence of their guests.
After the groom accepted his vow and pledges; expecting his lover to do same, the bride turn down every questions that deserve YES I DO answer as the father of the bride was heard saying TELL THEM WHAT YOU TOLD ME WHENEVER YOU VISIT ME, I AM RIGHTLY BEHIND YOU MY DAUGHTER.
lamentor78: Honestly I miss her neatness.....this girl neat die, smell good and well behave ......but I dey look for graduate that time..... foolish me
PerfectStranger: I'm beginning to think over 87% of women don't have sen.se.
Ok agreed, broke men should stay away from women, while broke women should be sleeping around with rich men according to u.
But when a man starts making money and eventually womanize, y'all complain and call him irresponsible. Isn't it silly? y'all think you can eat your cake and have them, it's impossible,neverrr
you're still begining to think? Lmao. You Neva ready.
Oldhead: My bro , these people are indeed something else. If at all any man want to have anything to do with them, Let it just be on a transactional basis, or thanks for coming ish. Don’t keep them around long term.
No One to report to , she owns the agency herself But it’s all good sha, lessons learnt , Before any of my documents will go across a table of any female again, I’ll do some digging first.
Omo very terrible beings. Sorry about your ordeal. You'll get another shot.
Well personally, between "because" and "the reason being that" I often don't like using the former, with the reason being that the latter is more compatible with the Nigerian in me.
haybee2018: The best comment so far . Pesin wey get first-hand experience Thumbs 👍 Bro
I can totally relate with everything he typed there. It's like these single moms attend schools for deception, theatrics and manipulation. Dem dey always come out with flying colours.
Oldhead: Are you sure my bro?, that not all single moms are evil? Because they are never beating the allegations 9 out of ten times. I don’t know , I just feel that there’s this animosity single moms have for men in general, maybe it’s not pronounced in most cases but it’s there somewhere. Taking out the anger they feel for the one who they chose and who left them on other men. Funny thing is, you don’t even have to be dating a single mom to incur thier wrath. A single mom bleeped up my visa application and I was denied. What happened? She complained that I only call and text to ask about my application and that I don’t care to ask how she’s doing and whatnot. Couldn’t believe my ears.
ah no be JuJu be that? Did you report her to the organization she worked for? Omo which kind mumu thing be that? Na you she open leg for give am belle abandon her silly ass? No wonder she's messed up. A lot of them are walking around with baggages looking for men to use.
Lacash: So sorry about that broda, but from my own experience, many of them are nothing but leech and parasites. They don’t have any iota of feelings, they are only living for survival😃😃😃
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