₦airaland Forum

SmartPolician:
A man said that the truth is the first casualty of war. A soldier who killed people, raped women and stole from them can never tell you the truth. This is common sense.

While Nigerian soldiers and Biafran soldiers may have different accounts, one thing that nobody can deny is that the Nigerian forces massacred nearly 800 unarmed civilians in Asaba and blocked food and medical support to eastern Nigeria.

It's not as though Nigeria became another Singapore, China, UAE or USA after the war. Gowon wasted a lot of lives just to keep a dysfunctional jungle going for over 60 years now.

Looking back, do you think the animal regretted it?

I have seen over the years wicked politicians praising him for fighting for the so called democracy of Nigeria and keeping the dungeon together. Meaning they are grateful for what he's done.

spiceadole:
Nairaland taught me

lmfao. 😂😂

Panda7:
Well, to me keeping between 6 serious dates upwards is a waste of your time, as you will not have satisfaction choosing the right one. Everyone has flaws as we all know.

six "serious" dates ke...who still dey take women seriously? Una dey try oh

spiceadole:
Where is the sarcasm? 😜
Is 29 years old woman not almost an evening newspaper?
Are men no longer the prize?
Can a 70 year old man not marry a 20 year old lady and still have children?

My brother who is 35 years old is still crying over a 33 year old woman.She broke up with him because he was fond of hitting her..So if this OLD woman didn't walk away,he would have considered marrying someone who is already post menopausal instead of going for 18 -20 years old girls.

Imagine ending a relationship at 33 ..She will die single and lonely.

This one and her funny takes sef. Lol.

udofia234:
Yes my guy! Na platonic oh..... All of a sudden she join Nun without informing the guy you claim you love....... Imagine

how old are you? Your original write up sounds like it was composed by a Kindergarten kid.

kiddaz:
Lol she's wicked. Only remembered you when she needed to buy on credit. Bro I done accommodate guy make him no lose him job opportunity. Even his younger ones in Lagos refused to accept him but I opened my door wide for this guy. Only for him to show me his true colors. I come broke one period, this guy see me dey carry one of my laptop go sell to fill gas and buy some food stuffs, bro just lockup. Someone earning about 500k monthly minis allowances lol. To make matters worse this guy come dey order expensive clothes then him go leave the price tags on top tv stand so I must see it. Na few weeks later na I let am know say him done gather money reach to rent somewhere and I need space. Till today him dey narrate me to him people say I do am bad thing. Na only those mutual friends close to me know the real truth. I go say I nor go help again but then, what to do

Omo. Lord have mercy. You don see things sef o

kiddaz:
Very funny bro. And to think I was even planning big things for him not knowing his own heart is crooked

bros I dey Lagos with you. Leave am. Make we talk. I don't even need your money just your connect. I get plans. Just need enabler.

kiddaz:
It's funny but not funny. I always love to help and be there for people but then they start thinking they're using me not knowing I just naturally have a very large heart. I know a guy who used to be one of the best at the services he offered in that ajah axis. Somewhere along the line he fell off. Left for mainland and then to Ghana. Went missing for about a year+

Sometime this year I reached out to him on FB and it took a while before he could return my message. He told me of all his troubles and all. We all have our share of it but then he begged me for help to get back to Nigeria and I also saw the benefits of it because he was losing where he was. So I sent him the fare. And he called me when he was in Lagos. I know he was actually in Ghana because I confirmed it. Now he has to work and I know some people. He now works and has free accomodation in somewhere in VI. I know how things be so I dey always send am upkeep funds until he gets paid he hasn't worked up to a full month now so I'm still the one sending funds.

Like some days back I was on a project online with others working on a project and I am not even in Lagos right now. His calls were distracting me. If I dey resolve things online I always dedicate my focus 100% make I no go miss any line. After I missed his call I got a WhatsApp message claiming to be a doctor and that my brother (this guy I'm helping) was rushed down and he's sick. My mind first go "format" but I chose not to believe. I later called and he explained what happened and still tear me bill join. Na me carry am enter naija back so I dey beat everything until he starts getting his salary so I just overlook and asked him what he needed. I sent it to him to buy the drugs.

Today my instincts just told me to check on him again and I did. This guy came with another billing oh telling me he's dependent on some drugs. For his health. One time he fell really ill I think kidney issues and he was lucky to survive so that was what he used to cover up his new story. But what he forgot was that this doctor and the previous one where he was admitted are different or rather supposed to be different doctors. Cos he was taken to his parents house then on the mainland. When the guy just dey narrate the situation I felt so heartbroken, like why lie? I dey update you regularly even when you do nothing for me, I carry you as my own and then this is what I get?

To add insult he told me the funds I sent him was used to buy Aspirin for strength and na that one weak me pass. Aspirin for strength? Lol he was literally crying before I sent that funds and me even dey low on cash rn cos I'm working on something that I put money on yet this guy no appreciate am. How can you tell me the doctor discharged you and prescribed drugs for you only for you to buy Aspirin? Aspirin when no reach or pass 5k per pack and today you are talking about the drugs you have been dependent on that the doctor told you to get again to continue else you fall back sick. Omoor. Na young guy when I just dey try encourage for hustle but it seems like he has other plans. Like this I done hands up but after listening to him I just told him okay.

To help people no bad but some people will make you take certain decisions that will make you seem wicked to others. It's just terrible. Lol Aspirin for strength. I done see something sha 🤣

this life just funny. Some of us genuinely dey find who go put us on. We no even need the money. Just be kind enough to show us road to take dey earn something. One animal dey one side dey make am harder. Sorry for your experience OP. Na God go reward am

franchasofficia:
All these Igbo actors and their unending rant about Tinubu's progressive government that is transforming Nigeria.


People should thank Tinubu for ending ASUU strike and fuel scarcity in Nigeria na, is that alone not more than enough? What Nigerian past Presidents failed to do. Abi wetin una want Tinubu to do; turn to Spiderman fighting terrorists and bandits all over Nigeria at the same time?



Mr Actor abeg face your Nollywood melodrama

are you alright though? How is Laide the name of an igbo man?

Bizmind95:
She's emotionally blackmailing you bro, and this is just the beginning. Besides, you sound like an emotionally weak man. And l also know too well that you're missing the mind-blowing sex she offers you every night. An emotionally weak man that can't control his sexual desires for a few days, that's a perfect recipe for disaster bro. So l really pity you for that marriage. By the time she's done with you eh, you will go and start reading "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar.

e go think say na play. 😁😁

Ehinjuola:
UPDATE: My Mother-in-Law Finally Called Me

My mother-in-law just called and confirmed that my wife is currently with her.

According to her, when my wife got there, she claimed that I deliberately abandoned her on the road that night. She also said she fell along the way and that she even got home before I did. Honestly, I find that story hard to believe because immediately I noticed she was no longer behind me, I traced my steps back to the exact place where she said she wanted to urinate, but she was nowhere to be found.

From what I was told, she stayed there for several hours before eventually going to her friend’s place to sleep for the night.

My mother-in-law also said my wife told her that if not for her mother and my uncle who accompanied us that day, she wouldn’t have returned home at all.

For those asking why I didn’t try calling her repeatedly that night, her phone was faulty and had already been submitted to a repairer before this incident happened, so reaching her directly was impossible.

To be honest, my instinct has been telling me since the following morning that she was probably already with her mother. That is why her mother kept insisting that I shouldn’t report the issue to her father. Looking back now, it all makes sense.

At this point, I honestly feel like they are both playing with my emotions and mental state.

What pains me most is that throughout all of this, she never seemed concerned about how worried, confused, and emotionally disturbed I would be after realizing my pregnant wife disappeared in the middle of the night without any explanation for four days.

my honest advice for you is to call off the wedding. Take care of your child. Make you no go die before your time. You're now seeing the signs. No wait make you start to see the wonders. Don't say you weren't warned.

I'm toned? yyyyyyyyyyyyygyyyyy

All of them go learn alongside team "my gf or wife is different" I love as nature take dey brutal. He go help you learn.

Adonispco:
she refused to build with me only wanted an already made man.
I will keep on striving to guide properly before looking at any banny again face cos these modern women are more materialistic than our mothers.

materialistic, greedy and selfish. They don't like to admit it but they all are. None is different

autoez:
If all the married women like, they should cheat. Seems like this is the latest general message to all women now.

I will not stop telling men to work hard on themselves and have kids. Wife is not important. The new generation women are not wife materials coz they compare themselves to us. Just have kids. Let this women be. One plink no dey reach dem again.

God bless you. Bro. These women aren't it at all

Proserpina:
All this epistle all to keep women/ladies in doesn't benefit you?

The only time the average Nigerian man thinks and write deep is when it is a matter of prick and to.to.

so like this you regard yourself as a deep thinker? Lmao. Wonders shall never end. I wish the lot of you would upload your ugly faces so we are able to match them with the stupidity that resides inside of y'all. 😭😭

Goldrosewine:
...very ugly story if you ask me and several narrations have been flying around. All parties involved clearly have their own bad sides and all, so I am not trying to exonerate anyone here.

Now I clearly understand the pity votes Chike is receiving is due to years of men's polygamous by nature narration in our African clime, so naturally women and young girls are massively pitching their tents with Chike.

Generally, stupidity has nothing to do with fame. I mean to say you could be very gullible and still be the most popular person on the internet. The whole narration making Chike appear as a hero is being fuelled by celebrities who are feminists and all and we all know how heard mentality is ruining this nation.

People can't think for themselves. They are either diehard fans of VDM or Blessing CEO or Saida_boj or another celeb. People just cant think for themselves.

Young girls should remember we live in a very traditional society where infidelity from both gender shouldn't be a norm, however the man has an advantage here based on how the society reputes him even after such ugly incidence and hailing Chike actually proves this right.

The woman in question is an American, millionaire, she can take care of herself, she's already got kids, etc. Almost nothing to lose.

As a young loner girl in Nigeria who relies on urgent 2k to meet the most basic needs, you would ruin yourself if you think doing such foolish thing as a payback for your partner's infidelity is worth it.

Men talk. Alot too especially the uncouth ones. When two or three of them already see your body without clothes ur already low-value to them and they will gladly tell anyone who cares to listen that they've been into your garrage.

Your reputation, dignity, it's all gone. We are different and we need to appreciate that uniqueness, which is why selecting a life partner or accepting a guy's proposal as a lady requires a lot of vigilance, prayer, tests (yes ask him questions and test his patience and virtue on many grounds), patience and elderly guidance to avoid making that first mistake of going for the wrong guy.

A young guy who was still in his private pilot license training once invited me out. Offered me 150k CFA to have dinner with him. Ignored the message and had a long sleep. In my head, there's no point honoring the invite, if he's so poor all he has to offer is money. The way a guy approached you says a lot about his personality, countless number of them here thinks showing their privates mean anything to a woman, it's their nature but there are still men like Angel out there.

Don't let me even start to tell you what I found out about the guy, but luckily he hit his eventual girlfriend one day (badly damaging her dentition), and that prompted the girl to call some area boys on him. He couldn't continue his pilot training cux his own injuries made him no longer eligible to become a pilot.

We can't be like them though and that's an honour. Body count is only a thing for women, you are the one who becomes a laughing stock, poor you. Literally.

Even with wealth, the pride of a woman is in her sexual purity and decency.



Gold 🌹 🍷

would they listen?

Maj196:
Nor be about class but finding the right woman that would give you peace. Kai, the girl wen do you this tin nor try oo... Anyways, I go update you no shakin

Correct guy.

Maj196:
This guy na were, you better talk your mind make I link you to better wife materials and stop chasing h0es

you're right. I'm wrong. I dey follow classless girls. Sha promise to update us when it goes sour. I go wait.

occfx:
Man na slave for marriage, make children grow you go see say you be guest inside your own house

Omo 💔 shit

Maj196:
Guy, I no dey cap. That girl is 1 in a Million

no wahala na. Infact na one in one billion. Sha no forget to keep us updated. Shame us.

Maj196:
Oga, change the kind of girls you meet be like say dem don show you shege.

it's Allright. Sha make you update us. Make others learn from your over confidence.

occfx:
If you are poor, marriage is not for you.. Just go look for one shuga mummy that can do ivf and marry if you must marry.

The issue is sometimes you will think you have money until you marry. E go come clear say you be poor man.

Most guys think say they get money but if they enter marriage, everywhere go first blur.

My advice be say, any money wey you dey make now as a single guy wey you think say dey enough for you, double that inflow by 5 times. Before marrying anybody.

and some dey follow me argue say no be slave man dey slave inside marriage. Everybody go learn definitely.

Maj196:
You people think every girl na the same abi, dey their

No worry. I no get strength to argue. Enjoy.

fyneboi79:
My brother i have learnt that the hard way and won't be getting into marriage or anything serious with Nigerian Women. Its all transactional now with them and I love it that way.

That's just it. Some fools will still come and argue but they'll learn eventually

Maj196:
Na una sabi, I must marry my sweetheart

abeg when she starts to show you shege. No forget to update us.

Yours sincerely
Ser 10 racks.

Hhh4444:
Thank God say my eye don open,I no fit fall for the scam call marriage.

my nigga. Our two dey the same ship. Na suffer head.

fyneboi79:
Do you know that same thing happened to me in my previous marriage. While I was slaving away to fend for this woman i sold my Honda accord vehicle a ridiculously low price because I needed money to finish a contract.,only to later discover she had twice the amount I needed in her account. Na that day I collect sense. Selling the Honda didn't break me because it was her I wanted to pass it to because I was already sure I had an suv coming. So na she lose and I vowed never to buy her any vehicle till fate brought our divorce.

make Una continue to Marry dey turn unasslevs to slave for one woman. As long as you're well to do as a guy..you have no business marrying one woman . Bro...no make that mistake again. Women selfish die.