I need genuine advice and practical steps from guys who have been in my shoes or anyone with good insight. I am currently in a long-distance relationship (LDR). I am based here in Nigeria, and my woman is in the US. Right now, things are tough on my end, and she is the one helping me financially. Honestly, I feel terrible about it. The exchange rate is crazy, things are expensive over there too, and I feel like I am stressing and draining her. I love this lady, and the last thing I want is to become a burden or make her lose respect for me because of constant financial dependence. I want to stand on my own feet and start contributing or at least take care of myself entirely, so she can rest. For those who have successfully navigated this from Nigeria: How did you talk to your woman to let her know you appreciate her but are actively working to stop depending on her, so the relationship stays healthy? What better solution did yall implore to upgrade yourself or your situation? How was she able to help that it ddnt have to let her break the bank for that help to occur cause she doesn't really have that, but u know if it's you 2 finally combining, it will make things easier.
Please share what worked for you or any legit paths I can follow to change my situation. God bless.
how can I reach you? I have something that could benefit you financially. I'm not asking you for money oh. Just an open mind to listen to what I have to say. Shikena
b this kind orange wey red like this so. Must have gone through intense action, hence the bruises everywhere. This kind orange could get demolished under the anointing of my pestle.
NoNaw: Brother im just the bleeped up one… ive dated white girls, asians, Spanish, South African, Nigerians and all and no matter how beautiful a girl is … I easily loose I interest… and of all women ive dated , shes the least attractive one even though shes like 6/10., face okay, boobs okay, ass okay. In two years plus of knowing her, only touched her twice (we had sex twice) which I reluctantly did. Means I dont have a natural likeness for her
All my life , I experience things like this with women, obsession and trying to buy or impress me with money! I hear guys complain a lot about spending so much on a woman but I dont know how that feels. Not that im happy with this reality of mine because I dont have feelings and can no longer love a woman.. I just pray someday, I cant have emotions and connections with someone again…
Omo bros. Just do you abeg. I love the way it is for you oh. If you want we can meet Baba God and swipe. What you have is a blessing in disguise.
Ah. The inability to love women Omo hug am well oh. It'll save you from a lot of unnecessary stress. Most times loving them creatures back doesn't pay. Just being aloof is the best. Well-done bros.
NoNaw: Her father aint rich , neither is her mum! They just run a food business … at a point I was scared she was some kind of spirit or somethings just brings endless money to her… this girl is always loaded.
But all she just wanted was to portray me as her man infront of her family … always trying to show me off to her neighbours, friends and everyone, mind you I never even went out with her once to a public gathering or outing…
sadly she isn’t really my type! I sound pathetic but not really my fault, she took me from a family of hers, I never started the relationship thing or showed interest in her but rather the person she hijacked me from lol
wow but can you explain how she's not your spec? She no dey endowed boob wise and yansh wise?
CorrectionFLuid: . You leave your account and car (whatever that means) with her but you felt compelled to dish out that condescending advice in your last paragraph just because of the singlet and toothpaste you receive?
This life sef.
he sounds like bullsheet out of bull mouth. Nonsense.
Lightmykpoli: My last ex paid for my PS5. Ex wife bought me flight tickets to different countries. A female friend got me a woofer for my car, she bought it for her bf but the guy window so she got angry. One paid for a 1200 euros fine I got. These are the most expensive gifts from women😁😁
spiceadole: Story story... I'm sure he dumped her for a girl who hasn't given him an handkerchief before. Men take women who spend on them for granted too much... They interpret it as desperation
it's like you must be surrounding yourself with stupid men.
NoNaw: Yeah hes lucky than many others , but what would you call mine ?
Probably no one would believe this but its my current reality.
For the past two years, a girl I never asked to be my girlfriend sends me 100k every month till today. And sometimes in a month if something urgent comes up and I need like 50k , 30k , 20k additional to the 100k .. once I MESSAGE her. I get alert within 2 minutes, maximum has been three minutes.
She randomly ask me what things would I like, but I always say nothing… whatever I need personally ill try to get but she neveer ends it there, she could show up in my house with designer shoes, perfumes and watches un announced.
She never asked me for money once or try to find out if im dating another girl because she respects and fear losing me , still does not make sense to me . If i message her and say, my gas is finished, she this girl shows up with bunch of food and drinks and calls her bike man to go fill the gas and return it.
You probably wouldn’t believe the craziest part of all this …
a luckier bastard! Where Una dey see girls like these? Her papa gets money? Abi she's a daughter of a politician and doesn't want you to know
JESHAL007: By now it must be clear that women very much want to enjoy dick first before settling down in marriage. The men the women sleep with before marriage are their first and primary choice. Their favorites. IF WOMEN DIDN'T HAVE TO MARRY, THEY WOULD HAVE NO REASON TO DEAL WITH BETAS.. In other words, IF WOMEN DIDN'T NEED MONEY THEY'D HAVE NO REASON TO DEAL WITH 80% OF MEN. It's for this reason why many men are forcing marriage down women's throats. The reason many men want marriage to matter, because it's the only way they'll get a woman to give them unlimited sex.
and how has this ideology been working out from them that finally got married? Are they getting the sex they envisaged before getting married?
Stephen0mozzy: Food, on a regular - I mean big shikin, goat meat and all that in delicious soups and stews. I've got gifts of sandals, lapel mic, bed sheet, boxers, singlets, money, data Subscription, dates.
From one Nigerian girlfriend o. Not multiple relationships.
There are good girls. Just find a good girl that loves you.
oglalasioux: Believe me, there are reasons a lot of traditions and religions relegated women to child bearing and cooking only. Social media is making those reasons obvious.
Modern women no too get sense bro, and this no be insult.
kpankpangolo: I thought it was a lie that men and women couldn’t be friends. Now I want to knack my female best friend. All she has used me for is money and expensive dates. I want my share.
How do I achieve this?
no oh. Continue being friends with her and getting used. You go dey aiight.
NaijaHelper1: Lool help OP. I just dey look you Chief. Tell op to buy Stud. So you apply it only on the frenelum. Don't apply it allover the penis otherwise you'll become a spectator in your own act. You'll just watch your dickkke come in and go out without feeling anything. One or two spurts only on the frenelum will preserve the sensation. The trick is that you cannot cumm without the frenelum being stimulated because it triggers the ejaculation reflex. So the spray will numb it. Other parts of your enjoyment go work only the part that triggers ejaculation will become numb
Lovelink1991: Shame catch me pass the guy wey go for the introduction. The place where I felt shameful was when he was ask where are you from? The moment he mentioned Africa Nigeria, I knew that it will not work because Nigerians are known to be dubious
the guy just dey vex me. Just carry fine face and muscles for nothing. Empty head.
ChisomLexus: Upon all my good girl I still never see husband marry despite the fact that I have my own money and I drive a Lexus I bought with my own money
no worries you'll soon find a man richer than you. Keep searching judiciously
Solofresh2: Banger boy's tweet? Bro, this is my real life experience and not twitter drama If the thread doesn't interest you, scroll past. No one forced you to read or reply
A friend introduced me to a lady. We chatted, vibed well, and agreed to meet on Sunday. Then out of nowhere, she sent a voice note saying she was planning to buy a new phone, had 150k already, and would be 'happy' if I could assist with 40k. I told her no problem, but she'd have to come to my place to collect it. She refused. Said she wants to 'study me first' before anything physical. I reached out to my friend who connected us he told me to abort mission. That the lady isn't serious, just after money. Now she's been bombarding me with calls and messages since yesterday.
Did I do wrong by inviting her over? Or did I dodge a bullet?
Oga ade, stop bringing these twitter rubbish here. What do you stand to gain from bringing banger boy's tweet here?
Romance › Re: How Do You Help An LDR Partner In Nig From US Become Financially Independent? by Tenrack: 11:17am On Sep 13
this kind orange wey red like this so. Must have gone through intense action, hence the bruises everywhere. This kind orange could get demolished under the anointing of my pestle.
😂😂 you see car you rush dey go text her. You don't even know if she's real or not. She might turn you into her slave, who knows?
