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kpankpangolo:
I don’t read rubbish.

HacheNoire:
Louder!

We the disciples and followers of His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR) know the opposition is behind the current insecurity in Nigeria.

Former Governor Ayo Fayose already gave us an insight.

They only reinforcing our support for His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR)

Solofresh2:
Yeah 👍

TrioVibes:
BY ANTHONY ADA ABRAHAM



https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1CfCtBkMpg/

EmmyMaestro:
“Everybody Go Dey Shout For Road” — Lady opens up about challenge of having prominent curves

A lady has sparked conversations online after sharing her experience of attracting attention in public due to her body shape.

In a video posted on social media, the woman explained that she often receives comments and reactions from strangers whenever she steps outside.

According to her, attempts to dress in a way that conceals her figure have largely been unsuccessful, as she believes her natural body shape remains noticeable regardless of what she wears.

Her comments quickly attracted reactions from social media users, with many sharing differing opinions on body image, fashion and public behaviour.

Attempts To Avoid Attention
While narrating her experience, the lady said she was preparing for a trip to a friend’s shop and had tried to dress in a way that would attract less attention.

“When you have big yansh and you want to go out just know that everybody go dey shout for road. You waka for road, motor go stop. You waka for road, bus driver go shout. Conductor, bike man, private motor go shout, everybody go shout.”

The lady further stated that clothing choices made little difference in her case.

Reactions online
Continuing her explanation, she said she had experimented with different outfits but believed none were capable of completely hiding her curves.

The video joins a broader trend of social media users discussing personal experiences related to body image and public attention.

Many commenters shared similar experiences, while others debated whether clothing or physical appearance plays a greater role in attracting attention from strangers.

The post has continued to generate discussion online, with users reflecting on public interactions, body confidence and the challenges some people face when navigating unwanted attention in everyday life.

I find it hard to go out in Nigeria cause I’m blessed with big àss, cause everyone stops and stare,drivers packs and compliments, and street boys always shouting “Na only you get this one” it’s not real it’s fáke

https://x.com/KvngGenerous/status/2063588063549292841?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E2063588063549292841%7Ctwgr%5E6a3e6b6583c528ecd964472f1ecf5a3554deb376%7Ctwcon%5Es1_c10&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.gistreel.com%2Feverybody-go-dey-shout-for-road-lady-opens-up-about-challenge-of-having-prominent-curves%2F[/quote]Rubbish. She's advertising herself

yarimo:
Opposition vs opposition, it's clear opposition are not ready for any election.

Ttalk:
Why did Atiku delete his post on the innocent Deborah that was killed for blasphemy by Atiku Muslim fanatics?

Diamond098454:
Hmmm Me of course.
I'm perfect💯

Pukkalolo:
A scorpion needed to cross a wide river but couldn’t swim. She saw a frog on the bank and asked:

“Frog, please carry me across on your back.”

The frog laughed bitterly. “No way. I know how you scorpions behave. You’ll sting me halfway and I’ll die.”

The scorpion smiled sweetly. “Why would I do that? I’m not like every other scorpion. I promise I won’t sting you. Trust me.”

The frog, moved by her soft voice and pretty eyes, finally agreed. “Okay, climb on.”

Halfway across the river, the scorpion stung him.

As the poison spread and they both began to sink, the frog gasped in shock and pain:

“Why?! You promised! I carried you! What did I do to deserve this?!”

The scorpion, shrugged with a cold smile:

“It’s my nature.”

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Most of you Guys reading this are still that frog.

You meet a woman. She looks innocent. She talks sweet. She tells you “I’m not like other girls.” You sponsor her school fees, rent, business, phone bills, hair, data, and “small small things.”

You tell yourself “she is different.” You invest your time, money, emotions, and future in her.

Then one day… she stings you.

She cheats. Or She suddenly dumped you because you both had a little quarrel.
Or she betrays you. Or she makes the relationship hell, making you feel worthless as a man while still collecting.

And like the dying frog, you ask in confusion: “But I did everything for you… why?”

Because that's the female nature.

Frank Edoh (and countless other Naija men) learned this the hard way. He built a whole business for his “beautiful wife,” poured everything into her, thought she was “the one.” Then she stung him… cheated, disrespected, and turned the very empire he built for her into a weapon against him.

This is not bad luck. This is female nature when left unchecked.


That’s why the man who makes a woman spend on him, sacrifice for him, and invest in him usually gets far more loyalty and desire than the man who only gets sex while doing all the providing.

A woman who has nothing to lose will sting you the moment she feels bored, entitled, or finds a better option.



The more you invest without demanding equal investment back, the more you become the safe provider frog carrying her across the river for free; and she will eventually sting you.

You've been warned.

Nicoddemus:
You guys are the reason why these ladies lose their respect and senses

Fiscus105:
That's, spending money on your woman and for the woman to be spending the same money for guy she really loves. since, you so much believe spending for your woman is only factor that can guarantee loyalty.

Fiscus105:
I also you won't be indirectly spending money for your fellow guy using your woman as a medium of exchange.

amancalledgodd:
Pls try to get her
Women are really scarce and needs to be treated well. I put my babe on monthly salary 100k and this june is her birthday.
I have an upcoming surprise for her.
Make i no talk much she dey here dey read. Spoil your woman o

Panda7:
and you just couldn't resist the urge to respond, shows you are the whole field. What makes you think I would be seeking validation from an online warrior like you who heap praises on herself online yet quickly fold into her shell while offline. Problem with people online is them thinking everyone who bleach is attractive.

Goldrosewine:
If you come online insulting someone's personality, you give the person the liberty to hit you below the belt. There are no rules to this thing but parents should know to do a better job.

Hassanmaye:
I'm just telling you how women psychology is

Goldrosewine:
I guess you are describing what your mom did sha

Daniluv1:
Not everyone can be as lucky as you bro enjoy it while it lasts bro

Mariangeles:
Without "burden", there's no sense of purpose.
So, what are you living for?

blaise26abj:
I join you to laugh. Married women cheat more or at least equally with married men, know this and know peace.

Axis313:
She is 100% correct,in Islam,it is the husband's duty to provide for the household.
No matter how rich the wife is, it is not compulsory for her to provide but she can support the household.

Al rijal qawwamun ala nisa" (الرِّجَالُ قَوَّٰمُونَ عَلَى ٱلنِّسَآءِ) is a well-known phrase from the 34th verse of Surah An-Nisa in the Quran (4:34). It translates to: "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women".The verse outlines the foundational roles and responsibilities within a marriage in Islam.
Its core concepts are:
Maintenance and Protection: The verse states that men are designated as caretakers because God has given them strengths to excel over others, and because they are required to spend their wealth to provide for and protect their families.

Reciprocal Rights: Scholars emphasize that this role implies heavy responsibilities rather than absolute authority. Men are required to ensure the financial security, physical safety, and overall well-being of their families.

Diamond098454:
It's easy for women to forgive but very hard for men. Women hardly cheat

pappilo:
I am in a similar position but my plan is not to take it to the grave. I recently survived stage 3 cancer but it looks like its come back and that is usually terminal.

I dont have a wife as I got divorced about 7 years ago but I have a girlfriend. I wont give her my password. She will get my spousal pension as she stood by me during my initial diagnosis. My password and control of my bank accounts and assets will be given to my son (will be 19 years soon) when it has become clear that my time left is short and I still have the strength.

Although I will have to do some cleaning up of my phone before that happens.

Caaz:
I know my husbands password to his phones....down to all his Arm cards. ...cuz I handle 89% of all his monitary transactions.
He knows mine.




I guess the relationship btw couples matters a lot down to understanding.

He's very comfy and free operating my phone's too viz a viz