₦airaland Forum

Estello:
https://applesbite.com/fbi-offers-5000-reward-for-nigerian-woman-who-failed-to-report-to-us-prison/

Una dey ment. That's too small. Increase the bounty to 100k dollars. Stingy people.

Northsouth:
I don't think my own girlfriend reason is among listed here self
Even me self never understand her and why she's in relationship with me

Omo naso your own be? You fit explain better make we get context

livelymatilda:
Show us where Kwakwanso fling thr Cap to the floor...Shameless thing filled with lies.

be like you get eye problem. Lol.

FSBoperator:
You think you are hungry .

Try nonsense and you will appreciate stone beans for the next 10ys.

ROTFL. This man Sha. Hand go touch Una make Una no worry.

Stephen0mozzy:
It won't boss. I only associate with women who have something more than kuntus to offer.

lol. Okay. If you say so.

Stephen0mozzy:
The husband of Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala will disagree with you. The partner of Oprah Winfrey will laugh at you... Etc.

You nor see say the complaining men are always those who tried to be a Captain Save a Ho, by picking broke girls with zero drive and negative ambitions.

Look inward bro. Women are not the problem. Your choice of a woman is.

those women you mentioned how old are they? Can you compare these women with the ones we have all over the place today? I really admire your faith in women. I hope it doesn't come back to hurt you.

True love in this current Nigeria. Lol. Only fools still believe in love.

FSBoperator:
We welcome our Chinese partners into the retail sector.

No more cheating and fake products from you guys.

you're very ignorant if you think the Chinese aren't currently flooding our markets with sub standard goods. Hearing your opinion makes me feel very sorry for you and your ilk. The ignorance no be here. Tueh

FSBoperator:
You think you are crying now .


Just wait till Jan 17 next year.

You go cry tire tears go dry .

you call him crying lol. As long as you're still in this country, you'll be affected by the rubbish governance on display. You think your little money can spare you from the plight of the average man ba. Make Una no worry. Una eyes go clear. All of Una wey dey support this evil government. Na small time. Truth always prevails.

professore:
Collectivism and dependency have become a way of life in many African societies. It is one of the ways communities support one another. While this culture can sometimes become parasitic and detrimental, it remains deeply ingrained in our way of life. One of the worst assumptions a person can make is that they owe nobody anything. I rarely assume that all my money is mine alone. Although I am far from wealthy, I find fulfilment in keeping some extra cash available for close associates who genuinely need help. This is separate from the monthly support I give to my parents.

The golden lesson from all of this is that when fortune smiles on us, we should do our best to improve the circumstances of our family members where possible. Procrastination can be a thief of time. If Toluwanisings' relatives had felt more included in his success, it is possible that many of the unpleasant revelations now emerging would have remained unsaid.


Life of a person who has made it, na so so problem from those who feel entitled to it.

well said. If only our yoooseleess leaders can think this way

SafariHunter:
Brooklyn Nine Nine , it a series (comedy). It's really funny.

This particular meme is from Season 4 Episode 4

thanks man.

SafariHunter:
Their family, their problem.
I dey only put mouth for matters of national interest and my account balance.


Una don hear of SHAMONDA VIRUS?

lol. What's the title of this movie? Seems interesting

Cmanforall:
That’s not nice. She should have at least skipped agent’s fee. After all , you were the agent

Omo I shock

Britishpea:
Start afresh with the likes of you people on nairaland? lol...jokers....arent you all offshoots of the country??/ What have you done differently in your locality or units?? Anyone that has a good mentality on how a society should run wiont even say what you said because that WILL NEVER BE A SOLUTION... We have just one solution and that can be done by any generation

you don't know me brah.

Cmanforall:
Must people use agents?

Can’t Landlords post their houses online or use a poster/placard?
Some people do get houses directly from Landlords without passing through agents. Could be from colleagues at workplace, friends or families

bros the landlady of my compound is someone I've known for a while. She is my mom's customer. I even thought because of this, I could get to skip the agent and agreement part. She still requested for it. Forget it, most of these landlords are equally greedy. Yes, I paid her agent fee without going through any agent. Forget ehn. Nigerians are a wicked people.

Britishpea:
Start afresh with the likes of you people on nairaland? lol...jokers....arent you all offshoots of the country??/ What have you done differently in your locality or units?? Anyone that has a good mentality on how a society should run wiont even say what you said because that WILL NEVER BE A SOLUTION... We have just one solution and that can be done by any generation

do you think the animals ruling over us give AF about society? You're still delusional

PinkNature:
i wake up every morning thinking about her. sadly but i discovered im just a weak man who fell in love and is addicted to a hoe.

but my main problem now, is that i met a new and we started taking. she’s a virgin and nice, she cooks for me without complaining and she’s real young and pretty.

but im scared im going to cheat on her. im just so scared. but i wont.

i just need to forget my hoe ex and move on. god please help me

gimme your virgin girl contact abeg. Don't ruin her.

EdiskyHarry:
Look at what our country has been reduced to. Look at how few greedy old men made Nigeria a laughing stock in the world all because of politics and their selfish interest. What is the difference between us and black South Africans now?

Omo these men need to be exterminated. All of them. Let's start afresh. Their own don too much.

Hotfreeze:
Africans aren't dumb, it is those from that side who are dumb.

Hospitals are respected and protected spades, but they are not civilised or mentally evolved to know.

I sometimes feel ashamed to be called Nigerian. A lot of things are not normal here. That's why these animals we call leaders continue to steal us blind with impunity BC there's an unfortunate group of people to support them. Slaves.

femi4:
He will learn the hard way

No dey shook mouth for politics...maintain your lane

Omo nawa oh. His own state where he's from? Nawa for Una oh. And the people that attacked the hospital are dumb AF. Same hospital that could save your life tomorrow. Most Africans are dumb. All because of useless politics. Nawa once again

budaatum:
I read his thread creation history and decided not to care which he chooses. Thankfully, there's more caring you who should give him your own honest opinion instead of challenging my own opinion. Or do you want him to choose the greater evil?

Seriously, my comment was to attract you to the thread that no one was bothering to engage with. My work is done here.

okay.

budaatum:
My honest opinion is that you should grow up.

he wanted an honest opinion and you didn't give him any. Do you want him to choose the greater evil?

Caaz:
I had someone that was looking for a husband,I notified you that time,you nor show interest she has been taken

And na good girl fah....

chai. I be dey busy naaaa. Chai. No wahala. Another time

Caaz:
Fufu
Egusi soup
What a combo

Chicken drumstick
Chicken chest

na wetin you dey call low budget. no lemme fight you one day

Caaz:
My Sunday food dump...cravings satisfied.

Ingredients used.
A whole chicken
Culinary
Lasor
Spice city
Plantain

low budget . No lemme vex for you oh. these are all looking nice btw. Hubby dey flex. Btw you get younger sis wey dey find husband?

Caaz:
It's on the first page.

lol okay make I feed my eyes full my belle

Caaz:
Tenrack
The storiesofman
Kalulu44
Sonnobax15

Food is ready.

na invisible food?

ManLikeL:
Brothers, What Will You Advise a Brother?

I'm currently confused about my relationship journey.

I haven't really been the type to consider a serious relationship for a while now. It's just been a couple of sex partners here and there. We do it safely and keep things on a superficial level.

Now, recently, there have been demands and questions here and there about starting a family, especially considering that my immediate junior brother is done having children. His lastborn will be three next month, while the lastborn of my family is also done having kids. Her firstborn is already 10 years old.

I seem to be the only odd one out in this regard, even though I'm arguably more financially settled than all of them. Not to brag, please; I'm just trying to paint a clearer picture of the situation.

I clocked 35 in May, and it was as if everyone in the universe agreed to centre their birthday wishes around God providing me with a wife and family. Ever since then, the reminders from my folks have been pretty loud, persistent, and disturbing.

For the first time in years, I decided to seek a proper relationship, unlike my usual superficial flings and sexcapades.

Come to think of it, I can barely go three days without proper sex. This detail should be useful later.

I met this very beautiful babe from my state. She's 27, a first-class graduate (I am too, actually), and I'm naturally attracted to every facet of intelligence, especially communicative and academic intelligence. She has both, and I'm superbly into her.

She can hold a very reasonable conversation without leaving you mentally exhausted. She's become an integral part of my life, and at this point, I think it's safe to say I'm deeply attracted to her and genuinely like her.

Worthy of note is the fact that I've enjoyed a very unusual level of peace with her over the past three months, which is absolutely unlike me.

I get correct anger ish, although I've learnt to manage it well. I'm not a violent person, but I pick offences easily, and most times, I walk away when provocations get too loud. More often than not, my walking away is goodbye. I'm so good at it.

But since meeting this babe, we've not had any ugly disagreements over these past few months. She's very calm, calculated, and receptive. These qualities have made me like her even more.

She has a reasonably good-paying job, but that's not even an issue. I earn well enough to cater for everything, but she's also financially independent. Gifting seems to be her thing, too, as she's spent quite a sum on gifts for me without expecting anything in return. I haven't even matched up to a quarter of what she's spent on gifting though.

For the first time in my life, I agreed to a no-sex-before-marriage relationship because she's a virgin.

I still dey run my games on a low, so this didn't really look like an ish.

Here lies the rub.

Just last week, she said she had a confession to make, and she opened up about being SS. Mind you, I'm AA, so, by the usual norms, this shouldn't be an issue.

But during one of our previous conversations, she had claimed to be AS and asked if I would be comfortable settling down with someone who was SS. I almost freaked out.

I'm sorry, but I've always wanted to have AA kids. With apologies to those affected, I've always believed that if I ever have children, I owe them the best possible chances at life, including heightened intelligence, beauty, and a sound genotype. I believe I have a reasonable degree of control over who complements my genes to bring these qualities to fruition.

I'm honestly very good-looking and intelligent, so why not get someone who possesses these qualities, too?

Call it insipid or vapid, but I could swear that life has already dealt some people heavy blows by limiting their options in their quest for a future partner. Unlike those of us with AA genotypes, who can consider partners across all the common genotypes without the same risk of having children with sickle cell disease, they don't always have that freedom. I wanted my kids to have that freedom and an avalanche of options, too.

So, when she asked me that question, I sincerely freaked out and couldn't hide my disdain.

This, in turn, stopped her from opening up until last week, when she could no longer hide it.

Funnily enough, I already like her to the point where I don't mind if she's SS, BB, or iPhone.

But the fact that she lied is what actually turned out to be my ish. She's been a very straightforward person so far, and this particular issue has upset our fashioned norms.

I proposed that the no-sex-before-marriage agreement should be off if we were going to be together, and she agreed. But now, I'm beginning to think it might look as though I'm trying to take advantage of her at this point.

Brothers, what will you advise a brother?
Am I being unreasonable?
Considering the emotional supports people with SS need, how challenging can it be? What is the possibility that she lives long enough?

All insults, curses, and whatever are welcome.
T for grateful.

You're a fool of you let this get in the way of whatever you think you're building with this lady. Na nonsense full dating market now, mind you.