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Nice!! That building is going to be beautiful by the time it is completed. Keep up the good work!

Ok, let us hope that more people will shift to using cooking gas....now that the price of kerosene has gone through the roof!

Beautiful letter, but not comprehensive enough. Whose job exactly is it to fix defective pre-paid meters, and how long would it take to do so? As at today, there is no policy on the warranty period and after-sales support for meters. If I share my own story with you, on the wahala of getting someone to fix pre-paid meters that have gone bad... you will curse the DISCOs.

Call now...for what? Do you think everyone is a 'mugu?' This is a classic scam. No photos of the property, no information on the location, no description of the structure and yet you want people to 'call' you? After opening a whole thread, to say nothing that had substance...? mtcheeew!

chigodo:
Sharp travel Ready 2010 Range Rover Sport Nothing To Fix

08168995190

The price, mileage and VIN number are missing...

UnknownT:
Now it will sell at least #200 per litre . When it was #50 per litre, most independent marketers sell at #100+ per litre

PPPRA are silly jokers. If subsidy has been removed on kerosene, why da heck are they now fixing a price for it at 83 per litre? When diesel was deregulated and subsidy removed, did PPPRA bring out a price template to dictate at what price diesel must be sold? Now diesel sells from 103 naira per litre to 130 naira per litre across the country, depending on where you buy from.

Why can't they allow kerosene to find its own level? After all, there is no subsidy on cooking gas and nobody has brought out any template to indicate that it must sell at a particular price. Na wa, o!

Someone should do a full-length documentary on this man - there is still so much that we do not know about the late Prime Minister. His ideology, his early childhood, educational life, his rise to power, his family life, lineage, political decisions, challenges etc.

Even copies of his autobiography are very difficult to get in the bookstores especially in the South-West. Why is there so much silence about this noble man? Is it deliberate?

What year is the RR Sports? Is it 2006 or 2008 model, before the upgrade?

HsLBroker:
Half plot of Land available for sale at the back of new RCCG auditorium Iralodun before Simawa at N250, 000 call 08088574969, 08182481552 for more or email lifelightproperties@gmail.com

Are there larger plots available in that same location??

Living4christ:
For your mind u ask better tin? I no set make them carry gun fight, I say an Govt make them carry gun fight! Y should ask what MEND is fighting for so that u will undersand

See this one? Which kind thing you dey yarn for here?? Were you not the same one defending their lawlessness a short while ago chanting : " ..If the sw pass through have of wat SS pass through u guys will pick arms, have u visited the place that feed u? when u visit the villages that gives naija oil, and see the underdevelopment u will understand....I will advice you to put ur leg inside there shoe to understand." Were you not offering tacit support for their armed brigandage through your words?

In fact you even went further to take sides with them by claiming that: "When injustice become a law, opposition becomes a duty!" Now you are turning round here to yarn rubbish.

Living4christ:
Go and listen to Mr. common sense to get sense.

When injustice become a law, opposition becomes a duty.

Abeg, swerve and hug the nearest transformer.

jayhumble:
Thank you all for the numerous advices and suggestions. Unfortunately, my GF is not helping matters at all. Even tho I respect her privacy and person, I had to violate that due to this situation by secretly going thru her phone whatsapp messages and text messages. I read to everything and I even discovered more scary tales. The moment she noticed I was with her phone, she told me she needed to make a call and I gave it back to her only for her to delete all messages, made her call and dropped her phone back to the table. I picked it up and checked again and Viola!!! All messages abracadabra. I'm just smiling now and feeling like a Don acting like I don't know nothing... . Thanks yall... I think I can handle it all from here. Since she has decided to be a player, I'll coach her some more before silently walking away. Don't ask me how.
BTW...
Thanks all. I love all yall...
Prettythicksme lalasticlala thanks for frontpaging
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Ah....now we have finally come to the end of the story. To God be the glory!

Thank goodness you decided to play 'detective,' and you finally found evidence that she has not repented. You have made a wise decision. Good luck. I pray your next relationship brings you all the happiness you deserve!

texazzpete:
From the OP, it's just one guy

and there is no direct correlation between actions she took as a single babe seeking love and how she will behave as a married woman.

Every woman has a past. He will need to live with it.

PS: 'Short period of quarrel' probably means they broke up temporarily. How was it a crime to date someone else when their relationship broke down?

Guy, I am still trying to get my jaw off the floor since I read your statement : "there is no direct correlation between actions she took as a single babe seeking love and how she will behave as a married woman." Are you for real??

So if a lady works as a stripper as a single girl, you honestly want us to believe it has no bearing on how she would act as a married lady? Who is singing this deceitful tune into your ears, please?

texazzpete:
Hmm. You guys of nowadays. No balls
Simply do what one Igbo guy in the Uk did when his mother wanted to chase away his dream babe.

He was Igbo and he found love with one utterly beautiful Brazilian babe he met in Scotland. This babe loved him so much, she flew to the US from the Uk to meet his aunt to learn how to make egusi, okazi and ogbono soup.

Then the mother came to visit , saw the Brazilian babe and privately took the son aside to tell him that he must marry a girl from his tribe and not this Brazil babe.

The guy calmly looked at his mother and said "mama, it looks like you don't want to come for my wedding then". The woman thought it was a joke until the guy proposed to his babe and started wedding preps

She had to come to accept the babe by fire by force

So simply ask your sister "is it that you will not come to my wedding or not "?

Forget all this old fashioned BS...your choice of a wife is 99% your decision.

And your choice of pain is 99% your own decision, by the time the girl shows her true colours right after the marriage. Your analogy of the Brazilian babe does not do justice to the issue at hand. The Brazilian babe was NOT a materialistic chic, or a babe with a sordid past like the OP's girl-friend. The Igbo guy's mother objected to her son marrying a Brazilian babe solely on tribal grounds, which is not an objective way of analysing issues. Her fears were probably found on stereotype, and the reluctance to accept a change from the norm.

The OP's issue goes much more deeper. He is lucky to have sister offering him facts, figures and insight that can help him make up his mind, and steer him away from disaster. Some people are unlucky not to have anyone offer them genuine advice before marriage, and by the time the wedding is over and all the ugly sides of the babes character start to manifest, they will start crying: "If only I had known..."

Afterall, the OP must have had several other relationships before this one in his lifetime, so how come the sister is objecting vehemently to this one? It is because she knows the facts of the girl's past.

My neighbour's brother almost got caught up in this same trap. His older sister was against his girlfriend right from the day he brought her home. They didn't know each other before, but from the girl's conduct and the way her brother's attitude towards his family changed for the worse whenever the girl was around, the sister knew the girlfriend was bad news. She tried to warn her brother. Did he listen? For where? Instead he cut off from his older sister, and ignored her for several months.

Finally their dad died, and he had to shelve his wedding plans to this girl. She didn't like it and gave him an ultimatum. The wedding must take place after his father's burial, or else she would walk. Guess what? The guy thought she was throwing tantrums and ignored her. Exactly one month (not 2 months, o!) after that ultimatum, the girlfriend got married to some one else and delivered a baby a couple of months after.

To say that the guy was shocked is an understatement. My advice?? Look, listen and learn before you take a leap into any relationship. Weigh the advice you have been given and consider your options carefully. God may be trying to save you from heartache and misery, further down the line.

Just my 2 cents.

DeRay98:
If you notice the advice from most ladies here, its same, " let bygone be bygone" that how many of them think. Some say "as far as she loves you and vice versa" that's what counts.
If all the allegations are true and they follow the same of pattern of her attitude, you had been run for own future peace because those are her real person. Mind you Leopards don't change their spots.
Sisters know alot and see a lot more in another girl than a bro sees. If your sister has been sincere with you till now, she has your best interest at heart. Girls always play the " love " card, all too often when they sting you they don't remember love. Be warned, don't cast your pearls to a swine the mud its destination. May God help you.

You talk am well, jare. A man cannot be too careful these days.....

neoapocalypse:
Not everyone has a sordid past marred with wrong decisions. I always say it that if you go into a relationship with the best of intentions and you don't make choices which would portray you as irresponsible then you wouldn't have a past you aren't proud of.

Gbam! Gbam!! Gbam!!! Best quote of the month! Chisos, you deserve one chilled bottle for this comment and a suitcase full of Benjamins!

LMFashions:
Bye bye

Come back when you can reason properly.

Last shot to you.

Haba! You are running away? After your inconsistencies and faulty reasoning has been exposed? Choi!

LMFashions:
If you are intelligent enough which I strongly doubt, you'll realized that everything I typed here was based on the interview which Sowore had. If you have a problem with what he said then the onus lies on you to dispute it and correct him.

Once again SOWORE OMOYELE said he is YORUBA and nowhere did he say he's Ijaw. I believe him than a nobody like you and barcanista

I'll appreciate it if you can refer me to any link where he said he's Ijaw just like I showed you where he said he's Yoruba.

Don't come back if you can't dim wit.

Guy, stop reaching for the handle of insults, it just shows how empty you are upstairs.

In your earlier posts you were clinging to the fact that Sowore Omoyele said he was Yoruba, and you completely disregarded the section where he stated that he comes from a place in Apoi-Ijaw. Or didn't you see where he stated categorically that he is from "Kiribo in Apoi-Ijaw??" In fact, you berated another poster who said Sowore was a 'Yoruba-speaking Ijaw'. Do you remember, now?

Why have you turned round at the last minute, to claim Sowore Omoyele is 'confused,' like you asserted in one of your last posts? Afterall, you were the same person who was insisting he was Yoruba, because he said so? Why didn't you point out the inconsistency in Sowore's statements right from your very first post on this thread??

Oh, I forgot...you were using the same statements made by Sowore where he said he was Yoruba, to call out somebody else. Can you imagine? The same statement that you are now turning around to use to label Sowore as a confused man. Laugh wan kill me die!!

Living4christ:
I guess u are abroad or in ur ac room with ur laptop and juice, but will advice you to put ur leg inside there shoe to understand.

Wrong! I am right here in Naija. Answer my last question: All the anarchy, attacks, kidnapping and violence that your people and the militants have unleashed in the SS, how has it improved your communities or changed your villages for the better??

LMFashions:
Honestly it's not my fault that you reason slowly and can't comprehend my argument. Come back when your IQ has been nudged up a little bit. Until then Ciao

Hehehe.... hahaha..see this one! You are the one with comprehension issues, man! It is so glaring. Your responses lack cogent points, supported by facts. Did I not warn you earlier that you were basing your comments on a faulty premise? See what is happening now, you are being forced to eat your words and back track. What a pity!

LMFashions:
Your mumulity is outta this world man. He is Yoruba but has an Ijaw ancestry, huh?. How did it sound to you before spewing it out? Chaiii na who do this to you? Abeg swerve go one side, you are a lost course already.

I'm sure the Yorubas in Kwara have Fulani ancestry as well. Guy you are blabbing.

I don't need to provide any documented historical whatever when the subject of discuss already told us his identity. If you need any you should go to him and tell him he's confused.

Guy, you get problem o! Did I not tell you to get off my mentions if you could not answer my questions? Instead of saying clearly that you do not have the answer to a simple question, you had to digress and show your ineptitude by citing Yorubas in Kwara. Who asked you about that? Why not open a seperate thread if it bothers you so much, whether the Yorubas in Kwara have Fulani ancestry?

Instead of providing cogent answers, you descended into the gutter to unleash your barrage of insults, on a matter that does not put food on anyone's table. Everyone can see that the 'mumulity' (only God knows what school you went to) on this thread is lodged in your brain.

I beg, go and hug a transformer sharp-sharp. If you like, go ahead and develop high blood pressure on top of Sowore's matter, o! He has said it clearly that he comes from a community in Apoi-Ijaw land. Why do you find it so difficult to comprehend this simple fact?

LMFashions:
Bro I didn't say Ijaw-Apoi is not Ijawland, Sowore, who is subject of discuss, said he is Yoruba from Ijaw Apoi. I was thinking they should reach out to Sowore Omoyele to ask him how he can be Yoruba in Ijawland.

They are here howling whereas the nigga has told us who he is.

Who do we believe between Sowore, who is the subject of discuss and all the noise makers in this thread?

See this one changing tactics. Now you claim you were "thinking they should reach out to Sowore Omoyele to ask him how he can be Yoruba in Ijawland... " after you had stated categorically that he was NOT Ijaw in your previous post? You even went as far as now claiming Sowore is confused, after all the epistles you wrote in your previous post as if you were the sole authority on his ethnicity. Wonders will never cease!

Na God I take beg you, avoid Military Hospital in Yaba. I had a friend who was admitted there 2 years ago, unfortunately he died after about 10 days on admission. The doctors are not paid on time, and on weekends (especially, Sundays) you will never get a doctor to attend to you if you are on admission. In fact on weekends, they assign 1 nurse to watch over 3 wards and each ward contains over 35 patients, at any point in time. Tell me how can such a nurse monitor patients effectively?

The place is another glorified General Hospital with inadequate facilities and over-stretched personnel. Let me stop here....

LMFashions:
Young man what is your problem?

Sowore Omoyele said HE IS YORUBA and I reiterated his statement. You should direct this question to him. Don't you think so? Perhaps he was drunk when he said it. Are you telling us all that Sowore is confused about who he is?

Bros, you are the one who is confused about who Sowore is. The man has said that he comes from Apoi-Ijaw land, and he is Yoruba, but there is nowhere in his statement where he denies his Ijaw ancestry, too.

I have asked you one question and you are still fumbling around unable to answer it: "Is there any documented historical fact to show the Apoi-Ijaw migrated to their present location in Ondo State?" Let me repeat this - If you do not have a clear articulate response grounded in fact, (and not the hypothesis or conjecture that you thrive in), kindly do yourself a favour and get out of my mentions.

Daalu! God bless you as you comply.

LMFashions:
I'm done arguing with you. The tonyebarcanista I called out has realized his folly and has kept quiet. You should do same

SOWORE OMOYELE IS YORUBA AND NOT IJAW

Shuo! Na you suppose close your mouth, nah! Your comment is a clear example of a lame excuse given by someone who has run out of points to prop up a weak defense. Oya, answer my last question: " Is there any documented historical fact to show the Apoi-Ijaw migrated to their present location in Ondo State? " If you do not have a clear articulate response grounded in fact, (and not the hypothesis or conjecture that you thrive in), kindly do not bother responding to my post.

Thank you.

LMFashions:
Maybe we should ask those who made us believe, to which I'm sure Tonye agrees with, that there is a Yoruba community in Delta North called Olukumi. The same where these Olukumi people got to where they are is perhaps the same way these Yoruba got to where they are in Ijaw-Apoi.

If you read the link I posted Sowore said he's from a Yoruba speaking TRIBE called Ijaw-Apoi and he told us what Ijaw-Apoi meant "because the Ijaws (which can also mean "the Ijaw people" claimed their land or nation started from there"

He may have accepted but that Ijaw-Apoi is Ijawland but he still has reservations with that statement.

Bro everything I've written here is based on what Sowore Omoyele said is the interview. Who do I believe between you and Sowore?

ANSWER

You can choose to believe anything you like. It says a lot about the state of your mind, if you choose to dwell in the realm of conjecture, rather than truth. You said 'Sowore has reservations about the statement.' Please show us in black & white where he said clearly he had reservations about the matter, and kindly stop trying to imply things he did not say.

The Olukunmi people in Delta North are not Ijaw and are not related to the topic at hand. Stop comparing oranges with apples, because your premise is totally faulty. Your hypothesis about the Ijaw migrating to their present location in Ondo state, is totally based on conjecture or is there any documented historical fact to show they migrated to their present location?

RealityShot:
Hmm.. Manufacturing with what?
You still need some imports to manufacture.

Being airplanes sources parts from all across the world to make 1 plain.
And that remains so for all manufacturers.

...... .
Hmm.. And all these big cars that cause hold up in
Port Harcourt, OWERRI, onitsha, etc are made here bah?

All the motorcycles and tricycles too?

All the electronics too bah?
Carpets, etc too bah?

I no wan laugh today, but....

LMFashions:
I think you are the very dull one here with your god tonyebarcanista. Whether Ijaw-Apoi is Ijawland or not is not my business.

I'm calling the silly tonye out for calling Sowore Omoyele an Ijaw. Even if Ijaw-Apoi is Ijawland though Sowore somehow disagrees , he is making us understand that there are Yorubas there who are indigene and that's where he's from. SOWORE said he's YORUBA, is that too difficult for you to understand?

Why the name calling? And why are you referring to Tonyebarcanista as my god, when I do not even know the man? Choi, this matter dey pain you well, well o!

Next time you want to call out someone, make sure you are quite familiar with the tenets and depth of the whole issue. I have lived and worked among the Apoi-Ijaws in Ondo State for a few years. I doubt if you are familiar with the place, otherwise you would not be splitting hairs about whether they are from Apoi-Ijaw or if they call themselves Yoruba. You are trying to call out someone without even understanding the premise of the whole issue, and you are in danger of making false assertions in the process. Na wa, o!

I am still scratching my head trying to make sense of your comments here : "Even if Ijaw-Apoi is Ijawland though Sowore somehow disagrees, he is making us understand that there are Yorubas there who are indigene and that's where he's from.." Where exactly did Sowore disagree? And how can a Yoruba community have its ancestral home inside Apoi-Ijaw land? How did it come about? Were they colonised by the Ijaws, or did the Ijaws colonise the Yoruba people living in that territory?

OAFMods:
but why are some of you Igbos educated but act so ignorantly deranged ? What happened to the Ijaw included in ancestral land name n indigenisation of the locality he cited ? Why ignore those but chose to be foolissh with a claim not only pathetic but senseless ? Why, you this Igbotic ritard ?

Ask them, o. It is similar to the way Igbanke people in Edo State bear Edo names and speak a dialect with Igbo words in it, which often makes IPOBB groups rush to claim them as Igbo. Meanwhile many of those Igbanke people do NOT see themselves as Igbo. Even their kings all have Edo titles.

LMFashions:
I don't care if Ijaw Apoi is Ijawland or like Sowore OMOYELE said "Ijaw CLAIMED it". My point is that Sowore said he's YORUBA. Even if Ijaw Apoi is Ijawland, does it mean there are no indigenous Yorubas there?

You should go take this issue out with Sowore who said he's from Yoruba speaking tribe and not from Ijaw speaking tribe

Guy, go back to secondary school and retake geography exams, please. The Ijaws stretch from Ilaje Ese-Odo in Ondo State all the way through parts of Edo State down to Rivers State. All along the waterside/riverine areas of the western to southern coastline of Nigeria, you will find indigenous Ijaw communities.

Take a trip to the waterside area in Ondo state, and you will come across the Apoi-Ijaw people in large numbers. Many of them speak Yoruba along with their Ijaw language, and bear Yoruba names. In fact, their Yoruba dialect is difficult to understand, because of the multiple Ijaw phrases in it. The see themselves as Ijaws first, and Yoruba second. Sowore said clearly that he is from Apoi-Ijaw area. So what else do you want to hear??

mordsith:
I'm still in shock over what happened today.
I was paying my fees when i saw the name remita....... strange!!!... All payments are through remita here in university of uyo.

I was even more shocked when I was told that all universities must pay through remita also.

I further recalled that Lagos state uses remita to collect their taxes during fashola and the current administration.

Further the single treasury account by the FG was through remita. The FG was to pay 5% of the sum collected to remita.

Who owns remita.......... who is stealing Nigerias money under this angelic government(lol)

THIS GOVERNMENT SHOULD STOP LYING........ IT IS THE MOST CORRUPT ADMINISTRATION EVER.

IT DOESN'T LOOT FROM THE NATION........ IT COLLECTS AUTHORITATIVELY.
"Abacha never stole"-Buhari


REMITA........ REMI TINUBU AHMED


DISCLAIMER........... ALL HUMAN GOVERNMENT ARE THE SAME............ CHRIST IS THE ONLY RIGHTEOUS/INCORRUPTIBLE LEADER.
HIS GOVERNMENT HAS ALREADY BEGUN.............. ASK A JW.

Haba!! I weep for you. This story is so old, now. The real truth has been revealed ages ago and you could not even Google it to verify the facts. The money spent on your education was totally wasted. Where did you get this piece of trash from? Did you go to Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC) to check the particulars of the directors and you saw Bola Ahmed Tinubu listed on it?

Guy, you need to see a psychiatrist fast!

Living4christ:
Go and listen to Mr. common sense to get sense.

When injustice become a law, opposition becomes a duty.

Guy, you are the one that lacks common sense and it reeks from your words. Continue believing the lies, that you have told yourself. So armed robbery, kidnapping, violence and brigandage is what you call 'opposition', in your own view? Those who use legal and non-violent means to put their demands across, are the stupid ones in your own eyes, not so?

All the anarchy, attacks, kidnapping and violence that your people and the militants have unleashed in the SS, how has it improved your communities or changed your villages for the better??

If you cannot answer that question directly, please take a leap into the Atlantic and don't bother to resurface.

Living4christ:
If the sw pass through have of wat SS pass through u guys will pick arms, have u visited the place that feed u? when u visit the villages that gives naija oil, and see the underdevelopment u will understand.

Guy, pls swerve and throw your fake stories in the lagoon. I am not from SW, and what SS villages have passed through does not give you the right to justify illegality and armed brigandage! All the community development levies your people have been collecting in the SS for the past few years, what have they done with it? All the money the militants have made from their illegal activities and kidnapping, what have they done with it? Have they used it to repair their communities, or improve their lot? Lawlessness does not breed prosperity! It only impoverishes the people.

Don't quote me anymore, if you are only going to justify the stupid armed banditry perpetrated by your people.

guest12345:
FOR YOUR INFORMATION.... WOMEN DONT JUST CONCLUDE ON A MATTER THEY'RE NOT SURE OF... IF YOU HATE THE NORTHERNERS IS YOUR HEADACHE. THIS IS NOT TRUE.

Point me to that section in the post where it was stated that I hate Northerners. Why must you lie to get your point across? And how long will it take the women to investigate the matter, and discover if it is true? Someone here has just confirmed that it took place in the Baba Ahmed family house in Kaduna and that is their standard practice.

Nigeria lacks appropriate logistics infrastructure that conforms to international standard, so what are these people saying?

Oloriode:
N5m asking

Are they still available?