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Travel / Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by thalpy(m): 6:48am On Sep 30, 2023
please I have tried study route, admission not forth coming. so I used a visiting visa. now I was given a visitor's visa, but I plan to convert to study visa when I get there. I don't know if anyone here has done that before .
wanted to know if police report and medical report will be needed when am already in their country and also the compulsory short course needed to apply for a study for international student on visiting visa where it can done.
Travel / Re: General Australian Student Visa Enquiries Part 3 by thalpy(m): 1:56pm On Mar 25, 2023
Good day everyone, the thread is long and couldn't read all or get what i want. I want to ask if anyone can share a link questions below has been answered or someone can just help out

1.I Studied engineering in Nigerian university, planned on doing phd in Australia, but the only cheap one i saw for masters is 45000aud


4. Is it compulsory to use an agent or i can handle or apply myself.

5. Is there a face to face interview or everything is online.

Is ietls important or it can be waved if someone proves he can speak English

Thanks
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by thalpy(m): 4:06am On Feb 28, 2023
geminipie:
Good day everyone, please is there anyone here in corner brook, Newfoundland, or anywhere in Newfoundland?
I just want any valuable pointers about accommodation, fellow students in the school, jobs a student can do when school starts, or even any WhatsApp group to associate with Nigerians in the province.
also, can I come months before resumption since I got the visa early?
I recently got a passport request for my program to start in fall 2023, at the College of North Atlantic, corner brook campus, Newfoundland.
Please check your email.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 22 by thalpy(m): 6:03pm On Feb 10, 2023
blkomo:


First of all,
With your BSc you can get a postgraduate admission even with a 3rd Class. I have been able to secure admission for people with 3rd class several times.

Your NECO result if you made Credit in English can be used for proof of English.

You can hit me up if you require further assistance.

please how can i reach you
Education / Re: Talk to a PHD holder here by thalpy(m): 7:46am On Jun 07, 2022
DaInferno:
Studied Agricultural and Environmental Engineerinh...where'd they have prospects?
Agricultural lab and for Field (agricultural,mechanized farms, fertilizer or agro companies too) For environmental engineering, people tends to work in an oil and gas most especially rig and gas plant. But in Nigeria an engineer is an engineer. Once you are good with maths, management and a little accounting even in banks you can work there . But your main focus are the ones listed above first.

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Education / Talk to a PHD holder here by thalpy(m): 2:40pm On Jun 06, 2022
Ok for those graduates , students or staff in engineering let's post our challenges here. Some one out here can get a quick and easier way of tackling that challenge!. You can equally ask for advice on the career path to further on in engineering.
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Woman Who Is A Workaholic? by thalpy(m): 4:45pm On May 20, 2022
The funniest thing is . The man encouraged her to work but now he comes back home and remain alone. Most times he does the dishes since he can't wait for her to come back before eating. Money is not the problem now, but attention is ! Lolz lolz
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Woman Who Is A Workaholic? by thalpy(m): 4:44pm On May 20, 2022
Emma2Seconds:
Are they paying her for the extra works she does
no!
Romance / Can You Marry A Woman Who Is A Workaholic? by thalpy(m): 2:05pm On May 20, 2022
Want to hear from you guys. Can you marry a faithful woman who respects you but a workaholic? She doesn't play with anything career. She goes to work and come back home late. Yes late. And you know she is actually coming from work. Her colleagues does same work and go home but because of her passion they even gave her extra jobs to do . This in other round makes you lack her attention a bit. An attempt to stop her from doing too much might bring quarrel or a talk that you are bossing her up. If she is at home there will be gist but in no time it will be late and sleep calls. The circle goes on and on .

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Family / Re: I Need Help.... Marriage Counselor In The House by thalpy(m): 1:30pm On May 20, 2022
You have don well. the first step is by realizing that what you are doing is wrong.
If I can check it started since 2012 , meaning you have been beating her since 2012 till now . Which is bad anyway.
2. She is always having mood swing (Always) that mood swings equally means you are bored and she is not giving you that vibe or attention
3. Both parents was against the marriage. You have to start by giving the reason why they were against the marriage. What your mum saw in her that disapproved her and what her parents saw in you that disapproved you.
4. Do you have money Enough to Carter for your need or una dey manage and that makes her think and moody.
5. She constantly disrespect you ( which I know most men hardly take )
6 do you command her like a baby who doesn't have say or you give her reason why you asked her to do something.
I won't crucify you , non her . Men abuse physically ,women abuse emotionally. But we only see physical but don't see emotional. Both can kill.
So I will say , start by fasting.
Secondly when next she is in her mood swing , if she is still attractive to you. Cuddle her or pet her , but if she wants you to leave do that, but before going reveal it from your face that you are not happy.
Thirdly, come back and ask her what the problem is .
Fourth , go and tell your mum, so far ask for forgiveness and be ready to take insult from them first because they warned you. So allow them express their anger . Let Dem empty theirselves then before they advise you.
Lastly is bad but if the moodswing continues and she still don't give any reason for that after you beg and effort. If you don't womanize before. Then start it, if she is not giving you attention get it from someone that is willing to give you. She will notice , then if she ask let her know you lack attention. And how her actions has been dealing with you emotionally. I guess if she loves you, things might turn around. But note: you mustn't womanize you might play that .
Baba anytime your anger comes back, drink water first, enough water. Or breath in for long and out. Once you a bit calm. Don't go back to her leave the house. If she dies, no one will know if she has been tormenting you emotionally o. They will call you beast . So help yourself and the family. Bye.
Travel / Re: How To Get Your High School Transcript by thalpy(m): 3:11pm On May 04, 2022
After getting it, do you scan and send it in pdf format or you send the hard copy that way
Family / Re: Husband Saves Screenshots Of Our Chats by thalpy(m): 2:59pm On Apr 11, 2022
To me. Is because of one thing.
He has seen how women cone to social media to say what the man did to them but never for once said what they did to the man. So he is saving that should Incase it warrant to that and you go out and start saying Al what he did to you without saying what warranted that , then he will bring all out to show them what you did that amounted to that. I guess he screenshots the bad things you said but doesn't screenshot his own bad side.
To for him to release them depends on you if you want to preach to the public how he maltreat you . So in my Hubble opinion I will say this. Screenshot your chat same way he did, leave your phone carelessly so he will see it. Watch how he reacts that will tell your next move . But in whatever way, social media can lead you astral . Na you know your husband pass us . Do what will make the family grow
Romance / Some Things To Expect When Dating A Girl Who Has Poor Uneducated Parents by thalpy(m): 2:02pm On Mar 18, 2022
Omor relationship with different educational background has a lot of role to play in a relationship. Sometimes people tends to say you are dating her and not her family . I guess that no longer go well with me again.. even in biology to form a zygote it requires both the gene of mother and father. If the father is porous or mum is porous one of the children will be, most expecially if they were raised up by same parents .
Two of my ex's omor ! Am not trying to bellitle uneducated parents who are really not well to do. But I still dated a lady who has educated parents that are still not well to do.
There was a huge difference which I am about to state below.

Though it can't be genaralised but to some extent most have similar trait . They have the ability to do anything they like and the parents have zero control over them .And if you as a guy were brought up by parents that are disciplined just know it's going to cause huge chaos.
Most of the things you see as wrong they see as normal. And ones you try to educate them you hear my parents never bothered me about this.lolz.
Now if you are dating a lady from religious background it will cause quarrel but they will listen and be submissive but those that their parents don't give a damn about that omor one correction is like you telling them go find another guy.

Their parents never question how they got things they themselves can't afford, if they bring 3 guys within a month home as long as there is cash they praise them then few father's/mother's will be like ""is this the way you want to live your life, na you know"". No forceful sanction towards their children they make Dem feel like they are above 30 years who have started staying on their own mean while they are still very young.

They lack courtesy, they stay up late till night like normal, they can sleep anywhere for days and still go back home, their parents will only talk but no action. They can eat anywhere without thinking twice (well that is understandable since no food for house )

The funniest thing is they ask for things that won't help them. Things like phones ,many new clothes, outing . But most of the ladies who came from uneducated parent but went to private schools or good schools where they interact with kids or students brought up by educated parents tends to learn from them and deviate gradually from the typical way children of uneducated parents behave.
And lastly if you dating any of such, just know you are like their parents(many billing) if their parents are not doing well. Food, clothes,phones everything their parents leave everything for their kids ( unlike educated poor parents who no matter what will still fed for their children no matter how small and to an extent still question something huge they know they can't afford, Critizise their kids when post, when they follow different guys up and down . Infact they call their chidred to other ). These ladies look stingy but they might not be because they have so many needs so any little cash that enters their hand they sought out. So it looks like they don't like giving but too much things needs to be sought out.
So if you are brought up by educated parents and you intend dating a girl who didn't attend a good school from scratch and is from an uneducated poor background just be ready for initial misunderstanding because of different idea about life.
So when you know the background of a girl you are dating it gives more info about the character you should expect to see in her. That's why I hardly encourage online dating. When you eventually meet ,that quarrel wen una avoid must showcase because without it there won't be strong understanding

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Family / Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by thalpy(m): 10:13am On Sep 04, 2020
A year and 8 months different. And yet she can't cook? Lolz . Does she have kids or without kids? And is she against you in that meeting?
To me there is more to it, but if nothing then she is literally stubborn... Except she is a career woman who has a job or always busy ..then in such case , order for food or pay someone to cook the stew and supply you people. But she should bear it in mind that she too might need your cooperation someday and you will fail her woefully. Only then will she understand, that word ""selflessness"" .. and if you too don't cooperate with before now, then I guess she is doing payback ..

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Change Of Date Of Birth On National Identification (NIN) by thalpy(m): 6:02pm On Aug 09, 2020
Quelme:
why not, but I can only link you up if you are in Lagos.... Drop your digit or mail. I will get across.
Ops Am in Delta state.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Change Of Date Of Birth On National Identification (NIN) by thalpy(m): 5:10pm On Aug 08, 2020
Quelme:
I paid 20k just to facilitate things. on top the 15k remitta... Not funny bro... All because of international passport. 35k altogether. In 10 working days it was corrected and rectified.. Lagos precisely..
Please can you give me the link?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Change Of Date Of Birth On National Identification (NIN) by thalpy(m): 5:32pm On Aug 05, 2020
jacquincy:
go to the nearest enrolment center with the following.

-The NIN slip
-original Birth certificate (fixed)
-Evidence of Remita payment in favour of national id commission (#15,000)
-Official application to the D.G requesting a change of your DOB
-and some or all of the documents listed below...
1. WAEC (must display dob)
2. NECO
3. Voters card
4.Drivers license
5. first school leaving certificate
6. any document that can substantiate your claim

Do also note that the fee paid for this service is non-refundable and the commission reserves the right to dismiss your application if found to be false or if you do not provide enough source documents to back your claim
thank you

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Change Of Date Of Birth On National Identification (NIN) by thalpy(m): 5:31pm On Aug 05, 2020
Quelme:
even with the payment of 15k, it takes forever for it to be rectified and corrected without bribing those NIMC officials. Talking from experience, very expensive bribe. If you are not ready to bribe in order to facilitate it, you will wait forever.
like how much

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Jobs/Vacancies / Change Of Date Of Birth On National Identification (NIN) by thalpy(m): 11:33pm On Aug 04, 2020
Please the date of birth in my NIN is different from my certificates and id cards. I don't use the NIN id for anything.
But now I discovered that the new international passport needs NIN.
And the date of birth I want to use in my international passport is different from the one in nin . And if I make the international passport dob to be thesame with nin it will affect other certificate that I have.
Please any info on how to change the dob on my NIN and how long does it take to effect the change if it's possible. Any useful information will be appreciated.

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Investment / Re: Is DW Arerben A Scam Investment? by thalpy(m): 8:43pm On Jul 26, 2020
Does it have an Insurance plan? Because MBA first came . And I know they are into same thing. But my question is , is the company insured ? Not a little trade in market, all offices will be closed o. The only thing making me want to try it is because no MBA in asaba. So please any info if they have insurance please hit me
Religion / Re: Writing Exam In The Dream by thalpy(m): 7:07am On Jul 18, 2020
thelish:


Woow, such a long time now.
Just stumbled on this post now.
Well,I got a solution to it.
It has stopped.
What about urs??

How did yous stop.throw more light on that. Don't just ignore
And also after you stopped did it change anything about your physical life. Like getting a job, marriage, family, health etc. Because some say dreams means stagnation, so if it stopped did you progress in what you have been aspiring for?
Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 11:55pm On Mar 02, 2020
Most career ladies are circumcised! When you hear them say am focused i have no time for a man. Its just that no feelings... just discovered they have degree of the circumcision ... And all these are some of the enlightenment men ought to have . Alot of men dont even know what’s up. And thanks to the ladies here that shared their experience.... last last na fingering go find the g spot....this girl circumcision can make fellow married men cheat if they lay their hand on uncircumcised girl that can scream and get wet easily.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 9:43am On Feb 25, 2020
omomummy13:


I'm beginning to doubt the authenticity of ALL these yeye stories on nairaland. If your intention is to drive traffic, you'll only succeed at making this site unattractive and irrelevant.

Like seriously? You mean we are the ones to tell you what to do with your circumcised wife? Ori e ope my friend angry

You have not encountered problem in life that’s why. When you do , you will realise that you can even pour out your heart to a baby who you know still cant help. Na problem dey bring prayer point .

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 9:35am On Feb 25, 2020
witworth:
no, not my grandfather, it's my ancestors. That's why people like you will continue to suffer lifetime pains, brainwashed souls like you will never learn even from others mistakes.
No don't test drive na. Test run ni,
Am not even done yet, in fact, my girlfriend must even be pregnant before marriage, you have not seen anything yet you fool.
You this hypocrite, it is people like you that will know a lady is circumcised and will dump her first. I know your type, you think ladies will like you for giving out sweet opinions in their favour like this.
For example, am sure people like you still don't know Christianity is colonization. Brought to you by the foreign missions. Just in case it's your religion, try and clear your eyes.

Lolz it’s obvious you don’t have sense. Your type will test and test before marriage . And your wife will still end up saying you are not good for her.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 10:15pm On Feb 23, 2020
Chidonc:

It's a natural aphrodisiac, normally gotten from north east, it's just like udala. It causes severe wetness all day and erection for male

You want to dehydrate her? Wetness all day? Haba .

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 5:19pm On Feb 23, 2020
Graxie:
Too many lies here, ignorant folks trying to sound great. Op, I am circumcised, married for 11years, have birthed thrice via vagina delivery. I climax during sex. I will start by telling you that you need to be patient with your wife while making love, just close to that supposed clitoris space, take your time and be rubbing their while you suck her breast, she will be wet, then you can gently penetrate, don't remove your hand, combine the three process, you will see she will cum. I allow different styles for my husband after I have cum, for me to come, it must be missionary position and just the way I described above. I squirt more than 4times, our sex last above 20minutes because he is good. It took me time to discover my husband, many before him where my nightmares, I hated sex until my boo showed up. I am forever grateful for the awesome sex I receive.


This end this trend... the right person has commented. Thank you for this... God bless you
And my advice to orhers is not everything you google because that might be the beginning to your fears.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 5:16pm On Feb 23, 2020
Jossyfine:


Yes, I agree on circumcised girls getting dry quickly, but on the side of child birth is not correct cos I was circumcised but had the easiest birth experience on all my 3 kids. CS is a no no for this except there are complications

Nice one ... but you been circumcised did it affect your sex life in your marriage?
Family / Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by thalpy(m): 5:09pm On Feb 23, 2020
First thing:: does he have hot temper or he is those type of man that will say “”I understand “”just to make peace.
Your ex is the problem but you can beat that by letting him know. Dont dilute anything, the more you keep it to yourself the more the feelings for your husband go down. Tell him that your ex is affectting you, whether he is angry or not. But he should be. The reason is this. It will make him piss off and that might reduce his attention towards you. Which will affect you and make you worry and in return give you something to think of rather than your ex . If he doesnt reduce the way he act towards you like doing everything you love even when you get angry for no just cause , you might lose him. Sometimes when a marriage is without anger is seems cold . Try telling me everything dont leave any stone unturned i mean everything. Thats the beginning of you helping your marriage. Break his trust now and make him feel angry and bad . In your attempt to try and make him happy and letting him know that you are sorry the feelings will rise. But mind you his feelings might drop. But will time he will stabilize. And for the sex, who comes to your mind when you are Hot and were you circumcised (because only that will make you abstain for 3 years) and for him does he masturbate or have sex outside? So who ever that comes to your mind still tell him that. Like everything should be communicated. I bet you it will help. Say it exactly the way you feel dont sugar coat it say it. You might be scared but it will help. And if he doesn’t react angrily or disappointed just know what you are feeling is same with him. Like you both arent compatible and he will be happy with divorce. Then spell it to him only if he just said fine its ok without feeling bad.
In summary tell him you dont have feelings for him
Tell him your ex is in your mind
Tell him who comes to your mind when it comes to sex
Tell him everything
With these if it will lead to divorce it will happen fast
And if it will lead to happy marriage after it will shake and pick up later. But the earlier you let everything out from your heart the better. From experience... you are not wicked , no spirit husband its just that you havent let it go out from your heart.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 11:57am On Feb 23, 2020
Phosphorus666:
First of all, let me correct a wrong impression: circumcised women do have sex urge; it's just the associated pain that comes with sex that keeps them away from it.

Engage in more pre-intimacy with your wife. Touch other sensitive spots like the breasts and nipples. Use good jelly oil on her. I believe circumcision doesn't take away the center of gravity; locate it with your fingers and give her a good treat. Ultimately, visit a sex therapist if you can, and pray for the strength of the Lord God.
Please how can center of gravity be located if you can just share. Thank you.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 11:54am On Feb 23, 2020
Tunagee:


Bro, you be wizard o! You just described my wife. She had a CS birth also, and gets dried easily. I don dey find the clitoris for more than 6 yrs now. Does it mean she was circumcized?

My brother yes o. How you take dey cope. Hope no be serious matter as google take talk am

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 7:53am On Feb 23, 2020
BareFacedLies:
How can you say you did not know she was circumcised till she told you?

If you're experienced enough you should be able to find out yourself.

There are some flaps that should be on the outer part of her pûssy, if they're not there then she's circumsided



No difference. We just got married. And its like we are dating too. Its just that its now made known formally in chirch. So what would i have done if we were dating? is it not same thing i can still do now. Or you are saying breakup and even if i broke up someone will still marry her. So breakup is not a solution. And mind you she told me earlier and i confirmed when we started making love and no sex. Since i didn't see clitoris but didnt know it has huge potential effect. And for the childbirth you mean every circumcised lady gove birth through CS. Mehn that’s saddening.

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Family / My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by thalpy(m): 7:24am On Feb 23, 2020
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.

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