Op, the way you project this issue here made it seems as if beating ones wife is addictive.

Things I expect to be articulated in this form are to be addictions e.g gambling, drinking, masturbating pornography, Etc.

Having you here seeking help on such kind of issue exhibit how half man you're. It's so apparent that you lack self control or self denial and probably You're paranoid a weak man and a weak man does not deserve wife let alone running a home.

I don't know bcoz there's no therapy I can give to help you stop this habit when you can control your anger.

Your writing is rather passive for a man?

The solution. Never beat your wife again no matter the issue.
And to unrepentant wife beaters, there's karma.

UpInTheSky:
1. There's no bashing in my post. Me calling him a "criminal" lets him know his actions (physical assault) are criminal acts & punishable by law.
2. There's no, nada, rei, null, zéro, zilch justification for physical assault and that you think there is shows something is wrong with you too.

You could also read where I said I am not in support of his acts and you telling almost everyone on this platform that there's something wrong with them shows how ill-mannered you are for thinking of such.
You could be whoever and whatever you wanna be online, now tell me if you've never hit a lady before in your life (Sister, Girlfriend, Wife, Student, slave etc)

Repent.

Self Control is key. Control yourself always.

Both of u are Ediots

You better go and beg your mum.

Why is she always moody, and what what exactly triggers you to anger that you cannot control yourself.

When did this moody attitude begin.

You have to ask straight questions then the truth and honesty will make you know yourself and know her too.

Keep any domestic violence from your children. If both of you cannot solve your problem, maybe its better to seperate.

She go shoke you, that moody speaks what's on her mind, story that touches hearts is what I see in future Both time. Both of u are Ediots [

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

Guy, If your wife does something that annoys you, you could walk way instead of beating her. she would certain realize her mistakes and apologize to you later on.

How would you be grateful if your sister or mother or daughter beaten up in the same manner ? Do you think her parents or siblings would be happy with you and praise you if they find out that you beating up their daughter/sister ?

You should try your best to tolerate your wife's negative vides and engage her in discussion where you advise her to change some certain habits that you don't like about her.

Suppose she collapse and dies (God forbid) during the course of beating up, you would be arrested and jailed. You can also pray to God for the grace to resist beating up your wife because it is a criminal offence (domestic violence ) and you could be jailed for it.

E be like you Dey mad, you need brain resetting slaps



Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

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Wahala wey start for 2009 no be my opinion on this thread go solve am.
Guy you need deliverance, better still go for pilgrimage

Kneel on your knees, fast, pray and you'll see changes,

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself.

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

It is very obvious that you love your wife. If you want someone to talk to, kindly reach me on ‪+44 7500 340938‬ WhatsApp only. Most people who have commented so far don’t really know what marriage is.

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

if you know where your problems coming from, is already half solved, so think twice

You have don well. the first step is by realizing that what you are doing is wrong.
If I can check it started since 2012 , meaning you have been beating her since 2012 till now . Which is bad anyway.
2. She is always having mood swing (Always) that mood swings equally means you are bored and she is not giving you that vibe or attention
3. Both parents was against the marriage. You have to start by giving the reason why they were against the marriage. What your mum saw in her that disapproved her and what her parents saw in you that disapproved you.
4. Do you have money Enough to Carter for your need or una dey manage and that makes her think and moody.
5. She constantly disrespect you ( which I know most men hardly take )
6 do you command her like a baby who doesn't have say or you give her reason why you asked her to do something.
I won't crucify you , non her . Men abuse physically ,women abuse emotionally. But we only see physical but don't see emotional. Both can kill.
So I will say , start by fasting.
Secondly when next she is in her mood swing , if she is still attractive to you. Cuddle her or pet her , but if she wants you to leave do that, but before going reveal it from your face that you are not happy.
Thirdly, come back and ask her what the problem is .
Fourth , go and tell your mum, so far ask for forgiveness and be ready to take insult from them first because they warned you. So allow them express their anger . Let Dem empty theirselves then before they advise you.
Lastly is bad but if the moodswing continues and she still don't give any reason for that after you beg and effort. If you don't womanize before. Then start it, if she is not giving you attention get it from someone that is willing to give you. She will notice , then if she ask let her know you lack attention. And how her actions has been dealing with you emotionally. I guess if she loves you, things might turn around. But note: you mustn't womanize you might play that .
Baba anytime your anger comes back, drink water first, enough water. Or breath in for long and out. Once you a bit calm. Don't go back to her leave the house. If she dies, no one will know if she has been tormenting you emotionally o. They will call you beast . So help yourself and the family. Bye.

caesymore:


I wonder what you really wana achieve twisting a comment. You deserve to be beaten. Well, baby girl today is your lucky day you met a guy that scolds but don't beat.

Una dey see d genesis of the whole beating? U only gave an advice and opinion yet she twisted and painted your comment black.
So tell, if na this type bi your wife at home and she with her twisting of talks, won't be 0ushed to d wall to drop small slap?

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me.Thank you

Will consider you both see a psychiatrist, my mum suffered depression still her death in 2020. We thought for a long time due to ignorance th she is very difficult. We discovered later in my mid-teen to seek medical assistance. I pray God will strengthen you morally to seek to genuinely understand her situation instead of allowing ego override your judgements.

caesymore:


Venomous mouthed Jennyclay

I KEEP SAYING IT THAt WOMEN ARE D MAjOR CAUSES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE BIT EMOTiON WONT ALLOW THEM TO SEE IT

ImaIma1:
Ask her what is causing her moodiness. Is she having regrets that after fighting for you both to be together, it is one chance she entered?

One day you might get back and she is gone with the kids. Then, you will need to explain to everyone how you have turned her to your personal punching bag.

Is she a kid? Hell no.
If she's having any regret, she should come forward and tell d husband than using being moody as an excuse.
I don't support domestic violence but using that method to passage a message is a turn off and nonsense.

Whenever she gets you angry,just leave the house,you can go take a bottle of beer.But she also needs help to curb her sharp mouth.

First step is to control your anger, all women are made that way the only difference is that some are able to control their mood. You have to get married counselor to talk to you both.

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

You should be arrested and put in a cage so wild animals can come and learn what they should NOT be like.

caesymore:


Mostly when a guy forgets how many miles he was willing to go just to get the lady. But una mouth dey venomous shaa

This beating of a time comes from not understanding the partner at all times and the devil sees the potholes and crystalize it, resulting to abusing eachother.

Acidbath:
F00l.

I am sure you look like a beast that's why her people didn't want her to marry you and her eyes have finally opened that's why she is always moody.

You think beating her will suddenly make her start smiling like an 1mbecil£?

You are just a big f00l

Sorry, but u sound more like a fool.

Are u really ok??

There is no reason enough for a man to beat his wife.

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

Think over it and ur Regrets of d actions...come Face to Face with her, apologise again and over and over again to her. Humbly ask her why does it happen and why U need to stop it. Pledge/Promise to stop it FORTHWITH. Pray together about it for help from God in d House. Make d Pledge Daily for now going forward...and God will Strengthen you to desist from it. Tolerate and Love her more when She err Pls

@Op: You can overcome this through this mindset.
If a fully trained soldier that just came from Sambisa offends you or even slaps you, will you retaliate? If not, your problem is half solved. Now, whenever you feel like raising your hands on your wife, visualize her as the soldier.
With time, you will discover how easily you will refrain from beating her.

VirileNelly2420 1mpotentNelly1960:

Sorry, but I sound more like a fool.

Am i really ok??

No you aren't, I am sure you beat your mum.

G@y Beast.

You can't stop beating her. You are the one with a problem. I wonder what she is still doing in your house? She needs to go far away from you. You are going to kill her one day and then your eyes will clear. O Lord, may none of my children ever end up with this kind of monster husband. Please let her go. Then go and see a psychiatrist. You need help because you are a murderer waiting to strike his last and deathly blow.

You and your wife need a regular bible study session. Call me on 09062802465 for that.
Still visit www.jw.org to read the book, secret of family happiness.