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Politics › Re: Fashola, Obi Disagree On Geo-political Zones, Constitutional Amendment by Theben(m): 3:51am On Oct 19, 2012
I think Fashola's opinion on the constitution amendment is being misconstrued. He feels the solution to Nigerian problem isn't the constitution, we've not followed the constitution on ground yet we're clamouring for a change. What is the need of amending the constution that won't be followed? It is a case of misplaced priority.
Crime › Re: ALUU4: Dismissed Sergeant Faces Prosecution by Theben(m): 10:31am On Oct 18, 2012
Callotti: Please. . .where is Johnbull? cheesy
lolz, don't you think you'll make a good comedienne should you venture into the enterainment industry? Your posts are hilarious
Christianity Etc › Re: Do You Think Legalizing Abortion Will Be A Good Idea? by Theben(m): 10:51am On Oct 14, 2012
Callotti: I never knew that abortions were illegal o. cheesy
In what planets? wink
Thank God for abortions. . . .
God aborts humans every day. . .AFTER THEY ARE CONCEIVED! kiss
Go to church and pray sweetheart, no sin is too much for God to forgive.
@topic, what's the need? Are people not aborting even without it being legalized?
Romance › Re: I Can See The Signs But I Cant Listen To Her Mind Maybe She Wants Me by Theben(m): 8:48am On Oct 12, 2012
[quote author=Anti-Gbagaun]sad sad[/quote]grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Romance › Re: I Can See The Signs But I Cant Listen To Her Mind Maybe She Wants Me by Theben(m):
OP sorry o, i need to know what you mean by doom, you mean it could lead you to commit suicide? Haba, i don't think there's any lady worth this in Nigeria.

However, Try lower ur expectation before approaching her. Approach her like you want to play game. You can't be sure she wants you if you don't approach her.

When you expect too much from a gal, and get disappointed, it will so bring you down.

Know that no man is aversed to being turned down by a lady however your beauty, social status, wealth or intelligence.

Anyway, if you're still very much afraid of approaching her cos of an impending disappointment that could devastate you, then it would be better to let go. Numerous gals abound in Naija
Literature › Re: MI's Touching Piece for Murdered UNIPORT Students by Theben(m): 6:16am On Oct 09, 2012
chizzy94: Wat a shame..out of 24hrs we've got in a day,Mr MI ABAGA could only spare 10 seconds of thought...so what happened to the remaining 23hrs 50secshuhprobably,he popped into d studio to make a song out of it,..only thinking about his returns,wat wud go into is pocket..Mr I for one believes in hope,I still av a dream,I still believe in diz gr8 country...Mr wat u shud av named diz stupid piece of urs is 'Black inhumanity to Black'....mhen,I miss d great Fela Kuti..sad
Ignorance stinks
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Romance › Re: What does this other gal want and what do you guys think i should do? by Theben(op): 1:04pm On Oct 07, 2012
ghettodreamz: If I may ask, how has she been behaving lately? I mean your current girl friend? How long have you been together with her? And how long have you known the Ijebu girl since your last departure from her?
My current galfriend nags a lot, she complains about issues that ought to ba overlooked etc etc,we've been together for over two years. I met the Ijebu gal in the estate i stayed during my service. Don't understand your last question.
Romance › Re: What does this other gal want and what do you guys think i should do? by Theben(op): 11:58am On Oct 07, 2012
Thank you all for your suggestions. I'm actually not looking for excuse to dump my current girlfriend. She actually has been misbehaving, there was a day i even threaten to quit the relationship should she continue with her nagging attitude yet she continued. I'm still with her cos of the years we've spent together plus the love i have for her. As you all know, there is a limit to which one can endure funny and silly behaviors from the opposite sex.
Romance › What does this other gal want and what do you guys think i should do? by Theben(op):
This might sound stupid, inconsequential or irrational, however it sounds, your candid advices are highly solicited.

There is this gal i met while serving in ogun state, we got talking and actually fell in love with her and i thought she felt the same way. Like two weeks after we met each other, we were intimate. I actually happened to be the first man to be intimate with her. After the whole show, she left my place feeling dejected. Two days after the incident, i was shocked by the message she sent telling me she didn't know what she was thinking, that our tribes differ and she definitely can't marry someone from my state.

Well, I'm from delta state while she's an ijebu gal. I wouldn't have minded marrying her cos she meets 70% of my requirements in a lady. She's cute, smart and fun to be with plus the fact that i de-flowered. After all efforts to get her back proved abortive, i was left with no choice but to move on.

I met her some days back. The look on her face showed she was excited at seeing me, we exchanged numbers again and parted ways. Since then, she's been bombarding my phone with calls and messages urging me to come back and reminding me of the fact that i disvirgined her.

The problem now is, i have a girlfriend whom i so much love but has been misbehaving of recent. Dunno if it will be ideal to dump my girl and go for this other babe. I'm very much confused.
Romance › Re: That Awkward Moment When.. by Theben(m): 7:03am On Oct 05, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]Slap yourself[/quote]lolz, help me tell am o, perhaps he woke up at the wrong side of his bed or had a nightmare
Romance › Re: That Awkward Moment When.. by Theben(m): 3:01pm On Oct 04, 2012
UmericanGirl: Let he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone
where is that my stone again o, *oya take it! Gbosa* **throws stone at her not minding if it touches her br::east**
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: UCL: FC Nordsjaelland Vs Chelsea (0 - 4) On Tuesday October-2-2012 by Theben(m): 7:07pm On Oct 02, 2012
afam4eva: lol grin If matches were won by mere proclamation then it means by now chelsea would have won more UEFA titles than Real Madrid and Barca.
lolz Afam, i will never dare argue with you again when it comes to matches btw chelsea and other teams cos it's obvious you're anti chelsea
Romance › Re: That Awkward Moment When.. by Theben(m): 6:22pm On Oct 02, 2012
Sorry o, according to sexkillz, "you are what you attract". The places you go, the friends you move with and the way you behave determine the type of man that would approach you. So don't blame the yahoo boy for being a yahoo boy, blame yourself for attracting a yahoo boy. Pele
Romance › Re: The Wooing Challenge - Female Version (Audition and Pick Your Man) by Theben(m): 3:16pm On Oct 01, 2012
D-explorer i believe you're the one who is disorganized, didnt you notice the male version was a success because you did the pairing? Why don't you just pair the available females online with any male of your choice? This is just a game na, i dont think it is wise for the females to pick. Anyway sha, what do i know? I'm just a kid
Romance › Re: Funny User/screen Names U Have Seen On Nl/romance Section. by Theben(m): 9:01pm On Sep 30, 2012
I saw one today o! Omiobo
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Tottenham (2 - 3) On 29th Sept 2012 by Theben(m): 7:21pm On Sep 29, 2012
Manu players should remember to take garri when they get home
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Tottenham (2 - 3) On 29th Sept 2012 by Theben(m): 7:00pm On Sep 29, 2012
This space is for sale
Romance › Re: Being Touched My Female Co Staff In The Office by Theben(m): 7:24am On Sep 29, 2012
goodbobo: Female in my office ( all married women )find it very easy to touch me . today , when one of them was laughing her hand went as far as my ass lets say mistakenly .
But one thing is as a man u can never make such mistake of touching a woman like that if u dont want big wahala .

Guys do u something experience such in ur office .
OP sorry o, are you working in the state ministry?
Romance › Re: Chubby Ladies On Nairaland,pls Share Your Love Life Experience by Theben(m): 6:57am On Sep 29, 2012
Well, i believe people tastes are different. I for once never fancied slim babes, most of the gals i've dated were the so called chubby ones. OP, do not allow your body weight bring down your self esteem. Good, handsome and rich guys who admire fat babes abound all over Nigeria. Dunno about other countries. Real men look beyond body size, so far you got a good dress sense, look neat and ensure you smell good. Please don't appear desperate before men cos of your low self esteem, they will take advantage of you and at the end, dump you. A word is enough
Romance › Re: Funny User/screen Names U Have Seen On Nl/romance Section. by Theben(m): 11:26pm On Sep 28, 2012
moron10 sorry i mean boron10
Romance › Re: Should I Stop Spending Money On Men? by Theben(m): 10:43am On Sep 13, 2012
sexkillz: [color=#000030]As in ehn!!! My phone screen burn na. The magnitude of the catastrophe caused by the bombs. . . sad
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You're the only one who has the right to derail a thread. Carry go
Family › Re: Expectations From A Non-yoruba Lady Married To A Yoruba Man. by Theben(m): 6:36am On Sep 11, 2012
OP, your husband knew that you're not from his tribe before asking you to marry him. I'm sure you didn't beg or coerce him to marry you. The guy should cool down jor, at least he's educated enough to understand you ain't from his tribe. Don't stress yourself, do the best you can. If you're not comfortable with adding bros or aunt to the names of his sibling, omo call them by their damn bleeping name, na them be ur aunty ni?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: NNPC PORTAL, How To Compress Ur Document To 150kb Or Less As Required by Theben(m): 4:15am On Sep 08, 2012
Pls o, how many documents are we to upload?
Politics › Re: SAFRAN Fined $630,000 For Bribing Nigerian Officials For Contract by Theben(m): 6:34pm On Sep 06, 2012
They obviously acted on the saying "when you're in rome you behave like a roman". It's a pity it back fired.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Michelle Obama's Speech At DNC2012: Democratic National Convention by Theben(m): 2:22pm On Sep 06, 2012
teezlycrest: And she didn't tell us how the husband position helped to pull down our world bank candidate Ngozi! Smh
young man, dont assume what you dont know
Romance › Re: Advantages And Disadvantages Of Having Girlfriend(s) In Varsity. by Theben(m): 6:13am On Sep 06, 2012
Please dont later come and create a topic on how you have been victimised by your lecturers or how you feel you're better than those who made better grades. I implore you to focus on your studies, have female friends but avoid getting yourself emotionally attached until you feel you're capable enough to deal with the 'shadow objectives' of going into a relationship. Having a girlfriend in school is no child's play especially if you're a novice in that field.

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