Cerebellum:


Guy I didn't create the post nah Eleribu you be??!

Nazgul:

For your mind you've made sense ko?

Cerebellum:


Now I rest this case!

Cerebellum:


Haha!!

Arindin

Cerebellum:


Funny you

Am going to implore you to stop being a sick dirk head!

Nazgul:

If they also look for a job will heaven fall. If the guy should be told to look for a job which is normal, ladies themselves too should also look for jobs as well. Transferring your generational problem to a man simply because he asked. You out is a very stupid thing to do

Nazgul:

If they also look for a job will heaven fall. If the guy should be told to look for a job which is normal, ladies themselves too should also look for jobs as well. Transferring your generational problem to a man simply because he asked. You out is a very stupid thing to do

Cerebellum:
See you
Those girls mad gan...I can't even imagine how you will see a guy today and the second day you start begging for money, how annoying and irritating is that!

They've always love the hard way
If you know, you know

Nazgul:


I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male

Nazgul:


I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male

soulstalker:
ahhh! Mad oo, Seriously i can't. I don't have anyone that will bail me if am arrested oo.

soulstalker:
while praying in church in today, i recieved a credit alert of 72k from an unknown source, was even wondering if my prayers have been answered so quick, because i was not expecting from anyone. then few hous later i got a debit alert of 20k thrice, i started getting scared, then i recieved a new credit alert of 128k, then few mins later, 20k was deducted again. Now am scared, i don't give out my banking details to anyone, infact while typing now, i recieved another 20k debit alert. What could be happening? I need advice on what i could do asap, cus i don't want wahala for self. Thanks for ur inputs

Queenttoast01:
If you were the one, what will you do?

Queenttoast01:
If you were the one, what will you do?

dorin27:
badt guy

bancoleh:
A Boss Lady is a confident lady Who Is Intellectually, Mentally, Physically & Spiritually Sound. Not One Helpless Beggar With Chain On Her Leg, A boss lady is career driven not iPhone for sex driven.
A Boss Lady is someone who can accomplish all tasks while remaining beautiful; a good looking woman in an authoritative position in a business (non-sexual); a woman who is successful without the aid of others (although others may help to make things more convenient......
THE Boss lady is always in control. People close to her feels the need to respect her, and do.she runs the show, is cool and collected, gets the job done. Confident, never looks down. Commands respect and gets it.
A Boss lady values the husband headship, they cherish feedback and accept advise.

bancoleh:
A Boss Lady is a confident lady Who Is Intellectually, Mentally, Physically & Spiritually Sound. Not One Helpless Beggar With Chain On Her Leg, A boss lady is career driven not iPhone for sex driven.
A Boss Lady is someone who can accomplish all tasks while remaining beautiful; a good looking woman in an authoritative position in a business (non-sexual); a woman who is successful without the aid of others (although others may help to make things more convenient......
THE Boss lady is always in control. People close to her feels the need to respect her, and do.she runs the show, is cool and collected, gets the job done. Confident, never looks down. Commands respect and gets it.
A Boss lady values the husband headship, they cherish feedback and accept advise.

dorin27:
is there something you want to say to me?

victorian:







Totally untrue.
Don't use one unfortunate nutcase to judge all females

I adore my calm and quiet bf.

We ride and keep riding together
We are unbreakable!

stop lying jorr..u dont have a man......
anyways, am a Londonor juss in case u still intaressted(real talk)

wasbas:
RIP, I like his movie the league of extraordinary gentlemen

Cerebellum:
OP wey never step outside yaba whey hin dey...dey talk say him be Londoner,
Londoner koh Nigerian

Thunder fire that yansh!

brain54:
sleep with your wife...come beat you on top....double tragedy!

dorin27:
Not really...Mabinu if you find my reply annoying.

dorin27:
Not really... Mabinu if you find my reply annoyin.

brain54:

can I chat with you off nairaland?

brain54:

can I chat with you off nairaland?

Shortyy:
Beautiful girl

Dorababy16:

The said Alhaji is a TIV man from Benue State

Nmezor:
Surprised