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xristos:
Dont deal ur pi coin with that guy..
Any account less than 3yrs is a scam...ofcourse not all ) there's what to look out for

Thanks so much. I didn't note that red flag at all.

Opedolapo:
Don't worry, by the time she hits second trimester, everything will be fine.

You're doing great and it's for a good course.

Very true; I agree completely.
Thank you

Boliboli760:
Totally understand how you feel, she will definitely reciprocate late with great things.Just keep at it, it will pay off.
On behalf of all preggos , we salute 👏 🙏 🙌 you.

Thanks so much

Boliboli760:
That means her body is not up for it. It could be due to all the sickness ,tiredness and many other ailments that comes with being pregnant. This just simply means you have to step up as a man and relieve her of stress where she needs it. That way are body will be more receptive of the idea of intercourse. Massage her often, be there for her when she is sick, help with shores and assure her she and baby are okay.
Basically her body is trying to return to factory setting (lol), so you too have to try not to let that happen by wooing her the way you did when you wanted to get intimate with her when dating. Be gentle and kind,Gift and money 💰 is not a bad idea either. When you get your way, be gentle and consistent with your attitude.

This advise is for mature minds, who understand the duty of being in a relationship and marriage. In relationship and marriage, things will happen that you will have to re-date your partner again (use the same effort you will use to get someone else outside). And trust me it will get you two through many hard times.

I read somewhere that " A pregnant woman never forgets the way she was treated during pregnancy, during childbirth and after birth". And I totally agree, I have had 4 pregnancies, and the way I was treated by husband is one of the reasons we are still together.

How I wish I can like your comment a thousand times!! It's a detailed and very practical one.

To be sincere, I do everything in the house, ranging from cooking, washing, cleaning and running errands ( I now carry lunch-bag looking for mama-put on the street, even when food is at home). Sometimes, when I come back, that's how she will be sending me from one place to the other to buy her different food!

Frankly she has been wasting food very much these days! Many times, after eating and enjoying the food, she will vomit it. Although that's understandable, but my wife will abandon the food that I cook for her before going to work (my work sometimes take me away for two days) until it spoils; She will be cooking noodles (with plenty pepper that's enough for party rice).

Regarding massage, I'm now her masseurs/massage therapist

It's has not been easy on me , i must be sincere; the stress is much. But at every point in time, i do assure her that i Understand what she is going through and we are together on this.

Thanks once again.

Boliboli760:
All through the pregnancy as long as you both are up for it and you've not been advised medically to stop.

Nothing as such was advised medically, my wife just felt it's not safe for the baby, hence the decision.

Please mothers, pardon my question. Permit me to ask this question; at what stage of pregnancy can a couple have intimacy?

Birthing a life is a process that does not fully guarantee nor complete what it takes to be called a father until an integral part (responsibility) is carried.

Appreciate and respect that man that took it upon himself to look after your wife-to-be till now, by involving him in the introduction and bride price process as suggested by the mum and your fiancee. Along the line, prefferably before your wedding, you can meet the dad.

GreaterFuture:
Buy directly from China, though Unbranded and not a known name
It's perfect and excellent

Far cheaper including shipping fees, and will save you get a better quality larger screen

How can one go about this. Please put me through, I'm interested.

Kingzeez10:
I got a 3 plots of land somewhere in Ogun state unknowing to me that the land has some issues. Till now we never solve am.

Anyways, a friend want to sell a 32 inches HISENSE TV. It's very neat and got no issues. 45k sharp

Where is your friend located ? And is that the last prize ?

In a situation where a boat capsized, people will start to drown. Meanwhile, those who can swim will try to find their way out to the shore. Depending on the distance they are to the shore, they might get tired along the line and even drown themselves.

However, there are situations where those who can swim will try to help those who can't. In this case, if wisdom is not applied, those who can swim can be drowned by those who can't. I have personally experienced a situation where someone who can't swim held on to a swimmer in a manner that both started to drown and death was starring at both. The swimmer had to tear his clothe and let go of the person he was trying to help in order to survive.

What's the point in this my analogy?

If care is not taken, in the process of rendering help, which in your case is very important, as the person involved is a blood brother, one might might lose himself!!!

You have tried! I really commend you!! However, at this point, since you are yet to find your bearing in the ocean (life), you might lose yourself while trying to help him.

At this point, try to make your life better, work on areas recommended by people here, gain your footing, at least to a point you can be able to help him stand. If you decide not to do this, your help will not be noticeable nor have impact, and your own life might be begging for assistance too.

Don't lose two while trying to save one my friend.

You should go for the second lady, if you know and appreciate quality!

The rate at which marriages are collapsing today is as a result of men putting physical endowment ahead of qualities that really qualify women to be called WlVES!!

The truth is that, the first lady's physical endowment and your sex drive, over time as you both age, will reduce and fade. At that point it's the wife material in a woman (quality) that remains; and it's at that point you begin to appreciate having the second lady in your life!

Have you ever wondered why, despite the handsomeness of some guys and the acceptance they get from females, when it's time to settle down, they don't go for women in the same class of beauty as theirs?

The truth is that, after exploring, they finally come to the realisation that beauty and physical endowment are not what make a marriage last!!

Think about it man, and chose wisely!!

I've sent you a mail.
I'm interested, thank you.

You should just see it as a normal pre-wedding requirement.

What I will advice is that, you sit her down and tell her that there are test those contemplating wedding and of course marriage need to do as a sign of seriousness and commitment ( she must be aware of these already).

She may probe you regarding those you have in mind. Then you list them ( genotype, blood group, STD and fertility test).

Don't single out the fertility test as though you have something else in mind or you are targeting her; just list all the test you guys are expected to do.

Then give each other timeframe to do it and show each other the results. It's as simple as that.

Dad wants the best obviously, because what's out there among ladies of nowadays is beyond comprehension!!

Should this development not affect the NYSC members too?

With the possibility of an impending inflation, I personally feel their allowance should be increased too.

It is well!!!!

AndroBlaze:

All these people advising you that the moment you "taste it" you will become an addict are just clowns...OP I will advise you for the last time, be natural, read your bible "clearly", God has always preferred those who are natural and imperfect (Jacob, Moses, David, Solomon, Paul (look at his past)) to those who will strangle this life with their holier than thou pretentious attitudes (Pharisees and nigerian christians).

Their are so many people who have had sex once and never gone back or show serious lack of interest....if your body continues to need it after your first experience, it is because that is the way you are naturally, simple, not listening to your body will only make it worse...I personally know of no young man who craved sex more after his first time than before he had it, I seriously despise people who give young men this kind of perverted advice of "abstinence is the only way to stop addiction", utter rubbish!!

You completely missed the message because you want to attack; as a matter of fact, you completely derailed from the logic and rationale behind my advice for the young man.

I never blamed nor castigated him, did you see any? I only advised him.

Point out a line or paragraph in what I typed that could further worsen his case or make him stray. Your guess is as good as mine, you can't find any.

Now look at what you just said!! Are you really trying to help him with that kind of advice?

AbuAeesha:
You are I your 20's
You are never too young to get married regardless of your faith.
Why not put more effort in getting married.
You mind will totally be at peace wen u have marital love session with a legally married wife.
Don't give the devil that opportunity to take full control over you.

Op take this advice!!

It's better not to taste it (sex) at all in the first place, because the moment you taste it, you crave for more; it's just how our body system is wired.

If you are incapacitated to marry at this time, which of course I strongly recommmend, then I advise you to keep yourself very busy; be occupied with one or two things, like the skill you are learning.

Try to avoid situations that would make you be idle and carried away in thought about stuff like that. Visit friends if need be;just be occupied.

Also, avoid situations that would make you be alone with the opposite sex (this increases one's vulnerability level; it's not always the devil, we can cause it too).

Meanwhile, when you are alone, think positively, take your mind off erotic thought and contents. Mind you, it will come but the moment it comes, be proactive now to think of what you could replace that thought with.

Please note that, sexual immorality does not only occur when there is peneration of the female genitals; masturbation, touching of the opposite sex private parts or genitals, deep kissing of one who's not one's spouse etc are all under the umbrella of sexual immorality.

Finally, I could see you really want to stop, therefore don't rule out the impact of prayer. Talk to God like a son would demand things from the father. Tell him how you feel and how you so much want to stop this, he sees your heart and would definitely help;cry to him if need be, he will help.

I believe this will pass!!!!

Authenticbiz:
Yes... Ondo state. You can come there if you are closeby

I wish there was one in Lagos .

I'm actually in Lagos

Do you have a physical training center?

Interested
shysesede@gmail.com

Anthonyj30:
This is not a remote position but inside office.

Noted

Anthonyj30:
We are looking for young, vibrant and energetic sales people to work in our office at Ikeja
Female applicants are strongly encouraged to apply.

Requirements:
You must be smart, young with high energy.
Very persuasive, means you are able to convince our clients to do business with us
Must live close to Ikeja
Must have strong selling skills
Must be good with computers
We work Mondays to Saturdays
Must be ready to talk on the phone for long hrs with our clients
If Money motivates you, this is the best place to work.
If you hardly take no for an answer, then this is the job for you.

Qualifications:
SSCE, OND (must be able to read and write clearly)
Salary is ₦60,000 PLUS weekly bonus given based on performance, our reps earn as much as ₦100,000 to ₦150,000 monthly

How to Apply:
Send CV to: optimalcsrng@gmail.com Subject of your mail MUST be Online Sales Application.

I've done a related job in the past. Is there room to work remotely?

Epinigirls:
Thanks a lot 🙏
Please send me ur whatsapp number

Zero7048sevety83980

It's a pleasure

Epinigirls:
I'm a graduate of medical Biochemistry oh
Will they accept?

There are WhatsApp groups, at least i belong to about three where they post jobs update everyday.

You will be the one to apply for anyone that matches your area of specialisation and competence.

If you don't mind, i could message the admin of those groups to add you. I wish I could personally help more than this. That's my quota to assist you.

businesslandnig:
COLLECTION OFFICER

Our Client, a CBN licensed Fintech company with head office at Ogba Lagos.

Job Title: Collection Officers
Location: Ogba Lagos
Fixed Pay: 35k +Variable Pay up to 60k

Requirement:
* Must have an android phone.
* Good communication

Qualifications:
* Minimum of SSCE

Interested candidates should send their CV to careers@protalentafrica.com using the job title, Collection Officer as the subject of the mail

I have experience in this area. Can I work remotely?

Cazzim:
am just afraid of the traffic bro if not am ok with mainland for just main time

Since you mentioned that staying in the mainland is not an issue, then chose areas in the mailand that's a bit close to ikoyi, while you discipline yourself to wake up and leave home for work latest by 5 a.m everyday. Ceteris paribus, you will beat traffic everyday.

That's what I do.