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RomanceAssisting Someone In Need; My experience. by thedarkened(op):
Just yesterday night, i picked my phone to call someone, but it was not connecting due to poor network , so i decided to stroll down the street perhaps the network would be better.

As I was going, i was trying the number. However, i noticed two figure standing beside the road, one appeared smaller than the other; it was around 9 pm. Well, since i had no issue with anyone, i kept on going while trying to connect with the person i had in mind.

When i got to the spot where they were, the person called out to me; 'Brother'. At first i was startled, but i waited to hear her out; it was a young lady and a child, and if i guessed right, she should be around 22 or 23 years of age, while the young girl, whom i later got to know was her daughter would be around 3-4 years.

In her words when i finally waited, " Brother, please help me with any amount, this girl is going to school tomorrow, i need money to prepare breakfast for her".

I had just 500 Naira on me; as i planned to used 100 naira to get another network airtime due to bad network, while i keep the remaining 400 Naira for my transport to work the following day; it has been budgeted for grin. I told her what i had and she said she wouldn't mind, so gave it to her without thinking twice.

She thanked me and i continue searching for network down the road; i left her there with her daughter. Meanwhile, while strolling back, just a minute or two minutes apart, she was still there.

When she saw me, she thanked me once again, and her little daughter also joined her in repeating what her mum said.

I deduced she is a single mother battling with the scorching economy condition. I looked back when i was close to my house as it's not too far from where she's standing and i saw a man standing where i was some minutes ago, and i was happy another person was willing to help her. However, he was giving her a phone, as i could see them, and all i could think of is how some might want to take advantage of her situation to sleep with her. But it's well, we all get rewarded for what we do.

Let's do the Little we can for people around us,nothing is too small.

Although I'm someone that gives when i have , but i was more motivated by the kind gesture of two nairalanders who gave out their resources a few days ago, to assist the vulnerables; they are good examples to imitate.
RomanceRe: 200,000 Naira Gifting For 20 Guys On Nairaland by thedarkened: 7:36am On Feb 20, 2024
guobe:
@thedarkened 10,000 naira sent
Well received, thank you very much. I once again thank both you and the sponsor; this kind gesture really means a lot. Greater heights i wish you both.
RomanceRe: 100,000 Naira Gifting For 10 Guys That Doesn't Belong To Redpill Or Misogynist G by thedarkened: 4:48am On Feb 20, 2024
labake1:
100,000 Naira Gifting For 10 Guys that doesn't belong to redpill or misogynist gangs

You must meet the following conditions;

Have never commented on that redpill group.
Has not insulted any lady while trying to make his points.
Must support Feminist movement.


To select the winners, they will be a background check.
I'm interested, thanks.
RomanceRe: Valentine Is Coming: Who Will Be My Val? by thedarkened: 4:42am On Feb 20, 2024
You are principled! Of course, married men should not apply!! smiley
RomanceRe: What's Your Opinion About Splitting Bills With Your Partner? by thedarkened: 4:31am On Feb 20, 2024
advanceDNA:
Equality..equality..until it's time for bills, una go start to dey quote bible .....
No be two hands God give everybody......abi ur husband get 4 hands and two heads?

Once money is involved ...u only want to be responsible for little or nothing...but when it's time to share property u want collect everything.... grin
I agree with you. In this case, women are to complement what men bring to the table to make it complete. A man must provide for his family.
RomanceRe: 200,000 Naira Gifting For 20 Guys On Nairaland by thedarkened:
[quote author=guobe post=128542123]All six people should send bank account details to enable me credit them.[/quo


Thanks so much, i really appreciate you and the donor. This means a lot. God's blessings on your endeavours
RomanceRe: 200,000 Naira Gifting For 20 Guys On Nairaland by thedarkened: 7:39pm On Feb 19, 2024
Sir NemoDatQuod, i will really appreciate it if I'm considered. Your kind gesture so far to people here is well appreciated.
You can check my profile, the hustle is real and i have never used a vulgar or insulting words on anyone. In as much as i am happy for those who have benefitted, i will be happy if I'm considered as the economy is very hash. Please sir.
Guobe, welldone sir.
RomanceRe: 200,000 Naira Gifting For 20 Guys On Nairaland by thedarkened: 2:52pm On Feb 19, 2024
guobe:
@stsylve 10,000 naira sent
Since i came across this thread, I've Indicated interest on page 8, but I'm yet to be be favoured. Hopefully my time will come too, thanks in advance sir guobe.
RomanceRe: 200,000 Naira Gifting For 20 Guys On Nairaland by thedarkened: 11:20pm On Feb 18, 2024
guobe:
200,000 naira have been sent to me by a good samaritan to distribute to 20 guys with the sum of 10,000 naira each.
The criteria for getting the money as instructed by the donor include the following,;
1.must be struggling
2.Has not insulted others while trying to make his points.
3.He is not an ethnic jingoist and sees every other person as a fellow citizen with whom he merely has a disagreement over how things should be done.
You can show interest and I will do a background check on you and if you are found worthy, you will be picked.
Thanks and may God bless us all .
I'm interested sir, Please do a background check on me. It has always been from one hustle to the other here on Nairaland. Even though i was even cheated here by someone i worked for in the course of survival, i never used vulgar or insulting words on him; i embrace all. Thanks in advance.
RomanceRe: 250,000 Naira Gifting For Widows by thedarkened: 9:37am On Feb 16, 2024
guobe:
Okay send me a mail with your contact details. Thanks.
Thank you very much sir, she really appreciate you so much. And on her behalf, i appreciate you too. Greater height for you.

She has received the money.
Thanks once again.
RomanceRe: 250,000 Naira Gifting For Widows by thedarkened: 9:16am On Feb 16, 2024
guobe:
Okay send me a mail with your contact details. Thanks.
Sir, please have you received my mail?
I've been with her for a while now, as I don't want her to miss out when i step out to attend to something else.

I really wish i know when the call would come in. grin
RomanceRe: 250,000 Naira Gifting For Widows by thedarkened:
guobe:
Okay send me a mail with your contact details. Thanks.
I don't know how to send mail that would reach you on time.
Please here is my number

I have also sent a mail sir
RomanceRe: 250,000 Naira Gifting For Widows by thedarkened: 8:01am On Feb 16, 2024
guobe:
I made a post earlier today that I will be gifting 2 widows the sum of 5,000 naira each and I got the greatest shock as a good samaritan saw my post and volunteered to assist with the sum of 200,000 naira.
I have gotten the alert and 20,000 naira will be sent to 10 widows.
I am also stepping up mine as I will be giving 10,000 naira each to 5 widows.
If you know any widow that needs this signify as I will make video call to confirm their eligibility.
Thanks alot and God richly bless us all.
Good morning sir, thank you for this empowerment initiative channel towards assisting the vulnerables in the society; it's a lot.
Meanwhile, I do have a woman who is a widow in my area here. She engages in petty business, but one can tell that what she makes is not enough nor sustainable for the family; i sometimes give a helping hand to the kids. Assisting her with this will go a long way in her life.
She doesn't have a WhatsApp enabled phone, but i can help her with mine. All i need do is to go to her place.
Thank you.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by thedarkened: 12:41pm On Feb 15, 2024
elega:
Hello, it could be either of two things; Return of her mense or Retained Products of Conception (meaning she hasn't actually shed out all the particles from her previous pregnancy). But best advice is to take her back to the hospital for proper evaluation. Congratulations on your new addition.
Thanks so much for your comment and suggestions, i appreciate.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thedarkened: 12:38pm On Feb 15, 2024
Rhemaville:
It could be that her period is back then it could be that all the blood did not come out . She should take those natural spices to flush out the old blood. I also notice that I start to bleed again when I tie my tummy . So maybe there is still some old blood left
In fact, that's exactly what we were told at the maternity.
Thank you, aprreciated.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thedarkened: 6:37am On Feb 14, 2024
Nitabb:
Her period has returned
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Really? Alright, thank you.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by thedarkened: 8:03pm On Feb 13, 2024
Good evening.

Please, to experienced mummies,
Is it normal to start bleeding again, perhaps after about 5 weeks after delivery/birth?

Note that, after giving birth she used hot water to massage the stomach and sit on warm water so the bad blood could come out, and after carrying out that exercise for days the blood eventually stopped.
Going to second week now, she started bleeding again and we thought it's menstruation at first.

Please is there anyone Who has experienced same, whose insight can help us with a better understanding of the situation?
Thank you.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thedarkened: 8:02pm On Feb 13, 2024
Good evening.

Please, to experienced mummies,
Is it normal to start bleeding again, perhaps after about 5 weeks after delivery/birth?

Note that, after giving birth she used hot water to massage the stomach and sit on warm water so the bad blood could come out, and after carrying out that exercise for days the blood eventually stopped.
Going to second week now, she started bleeding again and we thought it's menstruation at first.

Please is there anyone Who has experienced same, whose insight can help us with a better understanding of the situation?
Thank you.
AgricultureLivestock Farming; Your Insight Needed. by thedarkened(op): 10:01am On Jan 18, 2024
Morning everyone.

As the topic suggest, I'm thinking of venturing into livestock farming; cow and goat to be precise.

However, I've been scammed in the past through a friend who base in Niger state (we met in school and became friend thereafter), however he played me (money was sent to him to help purchase the liestock then, but he never delivered) and i ended up losing my money. We are still friend till now, but i just let go of the matter.

Some years have passed after the encounter, and i want to give livestock farming a try again (i will start from little). However, this time i have already gotten someone who will help me with the purchase, but i need help from people who are into this type of farming to put me through and give me insight as to how to go about it in order to make it profitable.

I welcome your suggestions and ideas, thank you all.

Seun, mynd44 please help move to front page for a wider input and suggestions, thanks.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job As A Storekeeper by thedarkened: 9:25pm On Jan 17, 2024
Rubyjade:
Are you interested in a remote job
I'm also interested, thank you.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Advise Me On This Job Offer, I Am Confused And Sad by thedarkened: 3:40pm On Jan 16, 2024
I know of many people both married and single, who work on the island but stay in the mainland; all they do is to hang around, perhaps within the premises of the organisation for some days, thereby saving themselves the cost of transportation while they return home by Friday (you being single would even make that hassle free as there is no one to complain yet).
Well, it's just a suggestion, if it's something you can cope with, then why not take up the job?

Life is about making sacrifice in order to achieve our set goals and objectives!
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thedarkened: 10:05am On Jan 16, 2024
LadyG05:
Sitz bath ( sitting for some minutes on warm water with salt or dettol) is the care given to stitches.

You can check the area for her and see if there is boil around the tear from where the pus-like discharge is coming out.

It could be her normal after birth discharge but if not then she should meet the nurses at the hospital of her delivery for check.
Thank you very much, we shall heed the suggestion.

And yes, i checked, and there is a boil around the tear from where the pus is coming from.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thedarkened: 4:56am On Jan 16, 2024
Good morning mummies.
Please assist me with this concern!
My wife had tear after given birth about three weeks now. Although she was given some drugs, which she finished taking i think within a week.
The issue is that, a few days ago she noticed some discharge as though there was a pus. Meanwhile she uses hot water to clean her private everyday as suggested;she has never missed a day!

Although she earlier confirmed that she felt she was healing as some of the stitches are falling and she could feel the wound are closing. But alas a kind of discharge like a pus!

That leads to the question, please is thee a way to clean the wound and stiched area for it to heal faster and to prevent infection aside the normal hot water usage everyday?

I would be counting on our suggestions and experience, thank you all.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Earning 30k Monthly Salary As A Graduate by thedarkened: 8:11pm On Jan 10, 2024
WolfOfWalstreet:
I’m without a job at the moment, a friend recommended a security 30k job with free food once a day . Pls would you advise I go for the job?
I have a friend who works in the same company where i work at the moment. How did he come in?

He was working as a security guard (supervisor) attached to my company, the difference between his salary and that of other security guys is just 5k if I'm not mistaking.

While at the gate, he was very friendly and down to earth most especially with the big guys in the company. At a point, there was vacancy for a position in the company, and he got to know about it. Rather than applying online, he took his CV by hand to the receptionist (as someone who had built bridges), and begged her to help him submit it as soon as possible. He was among those chosen for that role.

We now work together as colleagues.
So, there is no harm in starting from somewhere in other to be in that place you desire. It's all about determination, perseverance and vision.
But i will encourage you to be humble, it's VERY essential.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thedarkened: 3:37pm On Dec 24, 2023
Gratefulheart2:
please take her to the hospital. Severe back pain for 2 days is nothing to be ignored, she might be in labour.
Thank you for the suggestion. We actually went to the hospital but we were told that's just a sign that the labour will soon start. We were asked to go home.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thedarkened: 9:07am On Dec 24, 2023
Good morning my awesome people, please i your need insight and ideas. Please What happens next after mucus plug comes out? How long before the real labour start? My wife has been experiencing severe back pain for the past two days before this new development. I need your contributions as I'm a first timer.
EducationRe: 50K For Project Work by thedarkened: 10:00pm On Nov 11, 2023
mykelllll:
I am in need of someone to write a project work for me for 50K naira. If you can do the job, quote me so we can share contact and start.

Project Topic. The impact of relationship marketing on the activities of International companies
If you want a well written project that's free of plagiarism, you could reach me on this number 07zero4878398zero.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: A Reputale Cargo And Logistics Company Is Recuiting For Remote Staffs by thedarkened: 8:18pm On Nov 08, 2023
temple007:
Big T Creative Hub Logistics and Services Limited {RC:1813905}
Available Positions; Truck Sourcing Agent Positions
We are looking to massively employ people that will WORK FROM HOME in Trucking & Logistic services all across the nation and earn a good amount of money with ease. But will also report to our Head Office on Mondays for Meetings and Acessment.
Job Role: The Truck Sourcing Agent(s) will be constantly provided with JOBS Offers on the Trucking and Logistics daily orders and he or she will need to find/provide Verified trucks ( Vehicles) that will move goods & products in and around the nation and he or she will also be paid based on the number of time each of the trucks engages on the job.
Payment: of #10,000 To be paid as commission per Truck.
To Apply Simply Send Your Name And Location and years of experience To This Number(s) below
Or Drop Your Info And We Will Contact You
Whats app Link: 09016709953
Phone Number 08035189461
www.bigtcreativehublogisticsltd.com.ng
Where is your head office located ?
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thedarkened: 1:57pm On Oct 23, 2023
Boliboli760:
Yes, there will be more live sessions, just the begining. I am currently broadcasting live on instagram @afribirther , you can join in. But will also be constantly uploading the Live videos on the websites, youtube and social media platforms.
Okay, that's fine. Thanks.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thedarkened: 7:28pm On Oct 21, 2023
Boliboli760:
Hello Everyone. I decided to host @afribirther first Instagram live and you are all(moms &dads) invited tonight. African pregnancy discussion for Africans by Africans. So we can discuss about ewedu, ose abiwere, okra,ewe abiwere , medical terms , hospital procedures, birthing
positions and much more.

Please DM me any questions, especially first time moms. I might know a thing or two, or help you ask other experienced moms.
Chai! I wasn't online yesterday, i could have joined. I really missed!! Is this kind of lecture still gonna come up anytime soon ma'am?

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