Kingzrocky:
I will be 33 next year.
I must quit this miserable Security work.
I can't waste away like this.
Never.

bros . Lol. I just dey laugh you. Everybody dey try save your life you dey do strong head over 60k. Go ahead and do it. Just don't come back here for further advice. Drop the man's contact here please. We neeee to root out scum in the society at large

Wake up and smell the coffee

Nicepoker:
Give her the chance to come and finish you finally

mumu dey happy say girl dey ask am

Autobot05:
Good morning and merry Christmas

I have this distant cousin ( Mid 20’s) and we are quite close. From my perspective She kinda suffers from a mental disorder or illness rather but y’all know African parents and their mentality na. Her parents believed it’s a spiritual thing . This cousin of mine often run away from home.

The last time she ran away from home, she copied a pastor's Number from a TV advert when watching TV at home and ran to his house when her parents tracked her down to his house through his ( the pastor’s) help too. After meeting her parents He said she should stay at his place for a while so he can tackle her case specially . Her parents often send money to the pastor during those times. After a while She suddenly packed her bag and ran back to her parents house Without any explanation and the pastor kept calling her mother frequently to bring her over that he wasn’t done with the deliverance or whatever. ( the pastor is a married man btw and stays with his wife but I don’t know if they have kids )
Fast forward to last month the parents of my cousin found out she was pregnant. After multiple interrogations She finally confessed that the pastor Raped her ( while she was at his place ) and threatened to kill her if she tells anybody
She never told anyone even after she came back to her parents house until they found out she’s pregnant. The pastor isn’t aware he is still calling for them to send her back but her mother isn’t picking his calls

I’m lost because I was so close to her. she even babysat me as a toddler and even taught me Before I was old enough to go to school and we have been close since like forever … now I even stopped speaking to her because I feel so bad she opened the door for all this mess by running from home and not telling anyone at the right time .. I’m just trying to manage my emotions because I’m short tempered and can act irrationally when Angered

What can I do in this case ? What legal steps can be taken ?

just mind your business man

Clarendon:
In recent times, I have found myself experiencing a profound and enduring connection—a sentiment that eluded me for over a decade. This newfound emotion is grounded in love, it is an emotion I have discovered for a remarkable woman. My affection for her is sincere and genuine, accompanied by a deep sense of care and devotion. Her presence in my life is of great significance, and I find myself willing to go to great lengths for her, as if traversing the expanse to the moon and back.

My admiration for her extends beyond reason, marked by a keen interest in every facet of her being. Her infectious smile serves as a testament to her beauty, which captivates not only my attention but also reflects the genuine joy she emanates. I am enamored by the melody of her laughter, finding it to be a source of genuine delight.

It is important to acknowledge and celebrate her innate beauty—she is a woman of black heritage, and her radiance is a reflection of that. While she may not be fully aware of the depth of her beauty, I am keenly attuned to it. My earnest desire is to shield her from any form of distress, with a commitment to ensuring that the radiance of her smile persists indefinitely. My love for her is profound and unwavering, and I am genuinely dedicated to fostering her happiness.

I don't merely say that I love her; I genuinely do, with a depth that words struggle to encapsulate. It's a love that goes beyond the superficial, beyond the fleeting moments. I care for her in a way that defies explanation. My devotion to her is unwavering, a commitment to her well-being that knows no bounds. There's an inexplicable draw, an undeniable force that pulls me towards her. It's as if I am tethered to her soul, willing to traverse any distance, just to witness the glow in her eyes. And why? For no particular reason, except that she has become the axis around which my world revolves.

Her smile, oh, her smile—it's not just a curve of the lips. It's a symphony of joy, a radiant expression that unravels the beauty within her. Through that infectious smile, I glimpse the poetry of her soul, and it's a mesmerizing sight. But it's not just her smile; it's the melody of her laughter that resonates in the chambers of my heart. Each burst of laughter is a chorus of happiness that elevates my spirit. It's a sound that I crave, a balm for the soul in a world that can sometimes be discordant.

She, in all her resplendent black beauty, is a masterpiece. Whether she realizes the depth of her allure is uncertain, but to me, it's as evident as the sun in the sky. I want to shout it to the world—I am in love with this beautiful, black goddess who graces my existence. The mere thought of her shedding tears sends shivers down my spine. I am resolved—I never want to be the cause of sorrow in her life. Instead, my earnest wish is to be the architect of perpetual joy, to be the reason her laughter echoes in the corridors of our shared moments.

I love her—not just with the usual cadence of those three words, but with an intensity that transcends the ordinary. It's a love that defies rationality, that transcends the boundaries of time and space. I love her so much, not because I should, but because I can't help it. My heart has become an orchestra, and she is the melody that plays on an infinite loop. Yes, I am in love. But it's not just a declaration; it's a celebration of an emotion that has rekindled my spirit, giving my life a new purpose and a renewed sense of meaning. I find complete solace in the fact that this love, this beautiful, inexplicable love, is mine to cherish for all eternity.

😄😄😄🤣🤣🙄😁 otilor. Make sure to keep us updated when it turns sour.

God bless

SIRTee15:
babaYibo ignore juvenile and immature rants here on NL. I read response to the friends one yesterday and concluded na small pikin dey nairaland. Until it happens to them, they won't understand.

Housing project is a big achievement in naija esp for the middle class. If not, why is the friend throwing a huge party because he built a house.

There's something called betrayal of trust and that's what your sister and the friend did. There's something in Yoruba called aponle- regard, it's obvious your sister don't have much regard for u, same for the friend.
Your sister don't want to have a close relationship with u, just see it that way and respect her choice. Do your thing and let her hers. It's painful but that's the way it is.

You are a wise man. It's easy to say rubbish when you're not affected directly. Hypocrites wey em be

AbujaLagos:
nothing like wickedness, na she know how e dey go for the family

good she for dey her dey. Make she no meet them for anything at all. Not even loan

King125007:
The only reasonable comment so far
Many people just rush to comment without reading properly

By all means you can keep your achievement and goals to yourself as you please but don't extort people while pretending you are broke

God bless you. Notting I hate pass that attitude. Them dey think say dem wise

okine4real:
I have built more than 6 houses, am evening building presently, my mama know say I dey build, my younger brother know say I dey build, my friends for my street know say I dey build, non of my business associate know say I dey build, my wife and kids knows there dad is building, if you like come ask me for 5k, shishi I nor get, infact the more you know am building, the more I will not give you shishi because you see watin I dey spend money do, my children done spoil my chair badly for house, I tell my wife say shishi nor dey to repair chair, but we dey pump money enter site. Na mentality, some people believe say if them tell you say them dey build, you go dey see them as big man and them go won dey tax you, the first rule I learnt when I started building was, even if I dey spend 10 Million Naira for foundation, if you come ask me for 10k, I go tell you say I NOR GET MONEY. Even my chair for house nor fit collect money for my hand because I nor send, even my mama know say, I go give her, her money steady, but thinking say because I dey build, you go come bill me, omo na story you go dey collect steady

Lmao na man you be. No mind all those ones wey dey defend rubbish.

Jewessgratitud3:


Seun
nlfpmod

be playing. I said you would come back and discover how foolish you sounded here.

Rubbish. It's easy for y'all to judge when you're not wearing those shoes.

Jewessgratitud3:


If you can view some people in a certain way, why can't the guys friend do same? Do you really know the kind of person the op is and how his friend views him.?
Lets stop condemning others for choosing to do things their own way especially if it doesn't affect other people directly.

see dust wey this one dey yarn. Wait until it happens to you, and come back to see how foolish you sound here.

Dikastan:

Pray you don't go down one day cos it is only your family that can truly be there for you

people just dey yarn like mumu. Adults for that matter. Acting like they are islands.

AbujaLagos:
Good decision, I built two houses without getting any of my family members informed. Am no living to impress anyone.

agba. But you didn't live off of any of them. That's the difference. Her sister is a wicked being

AbujaLagos:
very wise and calculative

and feeding off the same people she couldn't trust. Una just gather dey yarn f anyhow for NL. Why did she have to be asking family members for support . She should have stuck to her own. Wicked people

fastseo:

You are wrong. Blessed are the hand that gives. The act if showing people kindness pays.
Giving opens doors and has positive implications

na there you go Sabi people wey stingy. It's a female sef. I am not surprised. Fucking stingy things

Roseodd:



My brother all my papers are out already!!

okay. Wish you all the best. Be careful

Roseodd:
Good morning my good fellow nairalanders, please I need to know if is possible for me to invite MTN or any other network to come mount there mass network provider on my land.
Please is there a way I can go to them for that.
My location is in Benin.
I need money to complete my traveling out, because if I want to sell it I know they will not buy it more than 1.5million or two million.

Help me please guys

if you know what's good for you, don't sell that land. You can lease it, but don't sell. All of Una won run go abroad.

AfahaAbia:


You sound American! Are you Nigerian or?

on the surface.. beneath the surface, not so much.

Persephone1:
This one's soap don hear am
😬😬😬😬😬

Even him pillow don dey run from his tears

You will be alright.

🤧 Yawns

VeeVeeMyLuv:

This is the tragedy of gender equality, letting women into career, labour market. There will continue to be fallouts and backlashes

It is bound to happen, how can they bring women with all their soft features into the workplace? What do they think will happen female and male come together? Na to mate remain na, like this Op is trying to do now.

lmao. Feminist won't like this

ikeno:
Hypocrites and two face people full this forum.
He can't have a relationship with her cause she's a bank and he's a cleaner? But, a male banker can have a relationship with a female cleaner abi.
Try being friends with her, you can also compliment her on so many things.

it's sad but that's the reality of the world that we live in. Men don't care if you're a cleaner as a woman... They love you for who you are. I can't say the same for women. They'll consider you a bum.

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

Don't do it bro. Women don't date down. Don't disgrace your lineage please. Abort mission

Dimaya:


shaking my damn head

I know right. I felt the same way on that day. I was so disappointed.

siofra:
Na men dey like tell this kain boring stories 😂

Mtchewwww. I will enjoy my youth fucking any guy I like. Thank you very much☺️

Wow. Olosho doings. Mama the mama!!

When she started squeezing my balls too hard.

Persephone1:
How to sleep

yawns

Operating multiple personalities, reading people.

GOVERNMENTBOY20:
It's hard to find a soul mate, it's very hard.
How do people find love?

I have always been of the idea that soul mates are real and that love is real. I am still of the opinion but I haven't been lucky.

How do people get true love

Baba wake up from that slumber. There's no love anywhere.

Magnoliaa:
Are you new here?


Don't you know we all live in an alternate reality on NL?

yawns 🤧