₦airaland Forum

Quality20:
if its for security ,why don't Lagos employ we igbos into amotekun, we r more security conscious more than Yoruba n aboki ppl, and besides a large swarth of Lagos is populated largely by we de biafran ppl

there is nothing wrong in employe Igbo to amotekun but Igbo will use it and say Lagos belongs to them as they used to say Lagos is no man land. With Amontekun, they will know that Lagos belongs to Yoruba

Where is the parent? She can't come there alone

Truthbites:
Has Amotekun been launched? I know Shege ka fasa has been launched. Fear fear afonjas, 'cow wards'

you are a village man or you are living in another planet. Tribalism is not good.

Make it public. We in nairaland also can contribute.

G

Greediness is the problems of our politician. Cut 50% and you don't need to spend money for your people again because they will get free education, free health care, and good road.

G

madridguy:
If you have the resources, take 2nd wife.

I have the resources but I can't marry second wife because I'm a born again Christian.

franchasng:
hehe






Men are getting wiser now, men are no longer looking for sex machines in marriage, they want a worthy partner, a friend, a help mate, a woman that helps them to build enduring wealth and not one that drains their finances while offering them hot sex romps in return as wife.


Gone are the days sex keeps a man happy in marriage, modern Nigerian men now want more than sex, in fact sex no longer worry most men in marriage, sex that most Nigerian have been having from the age of 20 or so, and must have had more than enough to last them a lifetime of fantasies lol, you never know whatsup, guys are more interested in how their wife help them achieve their financial goals and keep their home healthy not in that few minutes overrated excitement called sex

No mater how a guy rich, he still need sex. Its nature, you can't change it. I always busy and my wife has all what you said men are looking for in women but the aspects of sex in marriage is very important.

franchasng:
lol



Because of ordinary sex, a man wants to divorce his worthy wife, honestly some men deserve the Hitler Nazi gas chamber treatment

its either you are a lady or not yet marry. Sex is very important in marriage.

yvelchstores:
Stupid fake story. U supposedly married at 24 and your wife at 20. Then you have twins, age 1.
If u have been childless for 11 years, one year is too quick to kill all your joy from father hood to embrace cheating.

I am suspecting nl now hires ppl to post captivating but FAKE stories cos the kind of stories I see these days, are playing with my intelligence.

it may be fake as you said but this is what is happen to me too. I love my wife and I can't divorce her but her sex is zero level. Sex, money and unfaithful are the major problems of marriage.

Good

TwinnyStore:
Happy birthday!

Need a loan?

Let's talk!

like how much are we talking about?

OakConsultNG:
How possible is this?

very very possible.

G

Jonathan, osinbajo, seyi makinde, peter obi and akinwumi

majamajic:
He didn't order for the design , remember ooo

The design was completely someone's 199% idea

It's a future risk

so far he bought it there is nothing like risk there

majamajic:
Apart from all that , the designer's grandchildren can come up to tell your grandchildren how their grandpapa Co founded the company with your grandpapa

local thinking

sofiscatedmoron:
No light for head slamming brownies
So sad

are u okay?

16 husbands and one wife.

All comments above show ignorant of law. They are elected into that post and the governor challenge the process that make them chairman. The governor can either allow them to spend their tenure or he pay them off and conduct another election. The governor will pay all their salary for three years.

Buhari should use young general as chief of army staff. Like 49years old and he will see changes

Abusadiq01:
He has seen the beauty of Islam... Alhamdullah

are u saying BH are Muslim? If your answer is yes, it means you are one of them

budaatum:
Actually, a person of his calibre should be advising the government instead of this silly protest of his. It's not as if he does not have access to those in power!

Sorry. But I am very not impressed!

How can he satisfy human being. He has done that one you said many times. He did it openly now you are still calling him name.

hybrid77:
Pls i need a sincere advice here.

Im 3 months old in marriage and im so unhappy about the set up (my wife too)

My wife is a student and she tried everything to shift the marriage until easter this year but i refused due to many projects for the year. so we got married 3 months ago.

I took care of her bills since she got admission and we dated for 5 years

But she is so disrespectful and want to make important decisions in marriage which ive refused to allow.

Now, she claims i forced her into marriage and she is not mentally ready because i asked her to change to my family's name.

She has been good then bad then worse..And i think her words about forcing her into marriage has irreparably hurt me.

I spent over 3m of my cash to give her the wedding she wanted (Without any support from her family) against my wish for a 1m wedding.

And despite getting the big wedding she wants before consenting to marry last year, she claims she is not mentally ready and was forced into marriage.

she has repeated this over and over and its making me go crazy..in fact im tired already

Right now she wants more time to be a wife..but im beginning to feel there is a love issue here..I feel she does not love me as she always claims

Though weve settled but we dont talk as usual..we dont even want to hear from each other...

it seems i nolonger love her like i used to..And worst still, continuing with the marriage when she claims she was forced is degrading and disreputable.

My question is, at what point should anyone seriously consider a divorce?

please, don't divorce her.give her time she will change. Within two years of marriage, this types of things do happen. She may be thinking, if she didn't marry you may be she could have find better husband. Her mind is not yet settle. Don't fight her

SifonAbasi:
Thank you sir. I've told him. Yesterday when he visited I franked at him and he told me he didn't come for me that my husband was aware of his visit.
He visits and 30mins later my husband drove in. They sat and talked, drank and he went home.

Your husband knew what you didn't tell him through your ex. Your husband does not love you again and you need to work on him. He does not care if your ex sleep with you now. Tell your ex not to come around again and tell your husband not to allow your ex in your house again. If he refuses, tell your pastor or elderly person that your husband can obey. Value your marriage. Let me ask you one question. Did u have sex with your ex after married your husband? If yes, your husband know about it.

GoTV:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, i think we Christians are becoming hypocritical with the truth. Why are we Christians crying wolf when there is none? Who and who is killing Christians? Any time a tragedy occurs we tag it as killing of Christians. What sort of nonsense is this


We Christians have demonized other Nigerians of other faiths tagging them killers for no reason. Our actions as Christians threatens the peace and unity of Nigeria. We must change our ways and learn to be tolerant of others. Everything must not be viewed with religious lens. The so called bastards we call pastors heat up the polity for their own gain hereby causing tensions between Nigerians.

The federal government should ban any protest by religious groups especially we hypocritical Christians who love to form victims in every situation. Unlike our Muslim brothers who remain resolute in the face of unnecessary stigma and persecution, we Christians have been favored most in this country yet we are never satisfied. I have been a born again Christian for the past 25 years and with the recent turn of events, i may consider Islam as my new religion

why are u always claimed what u are not. You are not a Christian and in all your comments, you claimed u are a born again Christian when you are born against.

Champneys:
My friend shut the fu..ck up!

you can do better.

Jonathan will be coming president again in Nigeria. People don't believe me because I'm not a pastor or prophet. I don't know how it will come to pass but what I saw in 2014. God show me where people gather and send him out of office but he later returned.

Kk

ignitewatch:
Am surprised....

One begin to wonder what they actually use the money the made for.

#investment is key
#make sure you plan you life in terms of monetary value, so you don't end up as a liability

I hope his colleagues comes to his aid. Not just showing off on Socialmedia

They are living a fake life. Most of them have nothing talk less of investment. They are always on loan to show people that they have arrived.

Greedy