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Psych412:
then, why didn't she complain to her husband.



if she was sex starved, she should have talked to her husband.


sleeping with another man because her husband starving her of sex is bad.



communication is most important in marriage.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

Psych412:
so, are you expecting the man to stay at home because of sex.

is sex more important than thier marriage

will sex bring food to the table

will sex pay thier child school fees.



because I'm a woman then I should support her.


please, I don't do gender war.

any gender that bleeps up, I give it to him or her

musicproducer:
yhhh fools every where

LadySarah:
Shut up¡
Destiny differs and with time he'll arrive. Should he get into yahoo plus or the likes to please his father bcoz he's a 1st son?he's trying his best. Stop making him feel bad.
I know the pressure on my husband as a 3rd child out of 10 but 1st son is going through including my 1st bro. I just feel for them.

It took pains and shame to write these.
He didn't ask the father to keep cumming .
That's how we emasculate our men until they commit suicide or go into crime.Let him vent,let him cry,let him laugh.he's human first !

femi4:
You chased money and you forgot your conjugal duty

Now, you want to bring your wife back cos you spent so much on her bride price.

You need to work on yourself, money seems to be a key in all your decision making

Psych412:
you must be high on Codeine.


why are you blaming the man for his wife sins



cheating is a choice.


stop blaming the innocent man who was just trying to provide for his family not knowing his wife was cheating with another man.

Bestinstinct:
Stop trying to make sense out of nonsense! If the man doesn’t provide, she will still get banged for money. As long as the OP didn’t state anywhere she complained of sexlessness, she has no damn excuse. The OP is free to make peace with her but you justifying her action is damn unpleasant. Peace

Donspicey:
Nawa ooooooo.......


From ur quotes and comments e come be like say na you the woman cheat with....

Charleys:
I can't imagine you are saying this. If the woman wasn't satisfied with a sexless marriage, she should have requested for a divorce rather than cheat on him.

Do you know what adultery even means?

Her womb has been adulterated that's what it means, and you are here saying it's not the woman's fault. Like seriously, she chooses the path, it would be hard to trust her again.

musicproducer:
maybe, i guess urs get elevated

musicproducer:
still not seeing it, maybe ur sense lost

espn:
I was expecting comment like she should hand the person over to the law enforcement agency to deal with such person, if not someone else will fall victim.Na so so mumuish comment I dey see.

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

musicproducer:
mumu which rape

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

Harshreality:
Heck even if he continued till he was 20 it does not in anyways change the fact that he was raped!

That woman needs to be brought to justice.

Of all the people to sleep with she only saw a child?

Rape is rape. It does not matter if the victim comes back later.
Why are people so insensitive when it comes to molestation of males?

Even his fellow males can't stand up for him
Disgusting.

Truvel:
Honestly, U No Get Sense. Even If Ur Sense Is As Small As A Mustard Seed, U Would Av Understood My Comment B4 Replying Me Foolishly. I Only Told Him Dat 4 Him To Get Marry 4 Him To Overcome Dis Urge.

yYot:
You seem to be the simple one! There is no connection between sex and your spiritual cloud walking!
Sex is just physical activity, mental ability is 1000% better than any spiritual activities!

Yada01:
He did it for 7 years. And now he can't stop. Guy stop being irresponsible and uncultured. Must you abuse people when you quote them?

Yada01:
Don't be and idiot. Didn't you read where he said he continue the act until the left the state when he became 15?

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years

Truvel:
What Did I Say? Who Was Raped By A Lady Since Childhood Dat Came Out To Narrate Her Ordeal? U Don't Even Know What U Are Saying. U Can Now See How Empty Ur Coconut Head Is.

Yada01:
It seems you are ignorant of spiritual things. Don't talk about what you don't know

Yada01:
Only Jesus can save a man's soul. Your soul is tied to sex. Just pray and fast and talk to people (true men of God) who can help you

musicproducer:
stop complaining n move on.

b acting like a Disney super hero that complain bout their abilities for one full season making d series boring

SkyRicks:
She is way older than I am and am sure she must have married by now and have kids by now.
Like I said she is older that me that is why she sends me errands and allow me keep the change

Thanks alot yours was useful, I will re-establish contact and talk things through but I may awake hidden emotions

aikyg:
It's a normal thing for a man to want to have sex or think about having sex.

Zzor:
This one pass my power lol,make he go marry

Truvel:
What Advice Do U Want Again 4 Godsake? Get A Lady Or A Wife. I'm Even Astonished Dat U Posted Dis Here. Haba!!

abkboy:
Already 7pm from your current location?

Dedetwo:
Most Africans are dunces. The Biden in US had hinted 2025 as the time to phase out petrol-powered vehicles in US yet most foolish Nigerians want such person in power. When will African learn how to play politics?

EMXTAN1:
U finally have data. I feel like asking for ur account details. Make i sub for u. But hell no. U get what u deserve... Sorry if u felt offended by d word looter.
Gudnyt

EMXTAN1:
Yen yen,yen
I'd only engage sane people in a debate or a conversation, u re obviously very mad beyond remedy