₦airaland Forum

EmpressT:
Hahahaha! Wawo! The highest of the things nairaland guys don't like about ladies are Hair Wig, Eye-lashes, Make-up, Long nails and Tight clothes.

Sincerely, I am speechless. Being naturally beautiful and endowed is the best a woman can be.

I just wish all ladies can go natural.

AkataWoman:
Why do you care about who BA women love or don’t love

You seem pissed that no BA woman wants you.

AkataWoman:
Well, excuse me for being off by 1%. 21% of BAs are in poverty-not 20%. Feel better now?

I’ll admit to just skimming a lot of the rest but from what I gather you pulled up stats about BAs and student loans??!! LOL! You had to concede that BA women are the most educated but ended with ‘but still in shambles’? Lol! You cannot make up this level of jealousy. I’ve never seen anyone so determined to try to put people down so badly. You do realize that says so much about YOU right?!

Anyhoo, if a sista has to take out loans to get her degree, so what? At least she’s getting it! And she’ll have to pay it back too-with that professional job the degree will allow her to have. Best investment ever! Right up there with a house. Maybe YOU should take out a loan to invest in some therapy. This anger you carry is really unhealthy.

And I think I saw single parent stats in my skim, yes? I said on page 1 that BA love black men unconditionally and fiercely-even those unworthy of their love. That’s how they end up being single moms.

Thank you for supporting my point.

AkataWoman:
THEKONGOEMPIRE,

Please explain what part of any stats you pulled up prove me wrong in the following:

BAs love fiercely, with loyalty and are attentive partners in a relationship who strive to make our men happy.

AkataWoman:
Well, excuse me for being off by 1%. 21% of BAs are in poverty-not 20%. Feel better now?

I’ll admit to just skimming a lot of the rest but from what I gather you pulled up stats about BAs and student loans??!! LOL! You had to concede that BA women are the most educated but ended with ‘but still in shambles’? Lol! You cannot make up this level of jealousy. I’ve never seen anyone so determined to try to put people down so badly. You do realize that says so much about YOU right?!

Anyhoo, if a sista has to take out loans to get her degree, so what? At least she’s getting it! And she’ll have to pay it back too-with that professional job the degree will allow her to have. Best investment ever! Right up there with a house. Maybe YOU should take out a loan to invest in some therapy. This anger you carry is really unhealthy.

And I think I saw single parent stats in my skim, yes? I said on page 1 that BA love black men unconditionally and fiercely-even those unworthy of their love. That’s how they end up being single moms.

Thank you for supporting my point.

AkataWoman:
PS, KONGO, Do you know how to read stats?
Yes

43% of the NEW HIV cases? You do realize that is not the same as 43% of BAs having HIV, don’t you? It also doesn’t account for those infected who haven’t been tested.
I know, I can read. What I'm trying to show you is HIV/AIDs isn't the rate you make it out to be. It's just as bad here.

And let’s compare BA HIV cases to Haitian AIDS cases. Oops! We really can’t because Haitian stats aren’t reliable. People die from AIDS without ever being diagnosed, get thrown into the ground and their children sent to orphanages-that are running because of the charitable hearts of horrible BA women like my sister and me.
And how do you know it isn't the same in the US?


It’s like the STD stats you pulled up. I wasn’t even going to mention it shows that about 1-10% of BAs being diagnosed because I could tell you’re just a hurt, broken person.
I'm hurt nor broken.

You post links to stats without trying to interpret what they mean. Your head is clouded by irrational anger so I’m sure you’re not mentally equipped to do so.
I do but I'm willing to admit they can always use some sharpening. I'm not all-knowing you know.

AkataWoman:
It’s very clear you are jealous of BAs. Get over it and enjoy whatever blessings you have.

Someone’s gotta come in’last’ but be clear, 80% of BAs are middle class or higher socioeconomically. Check government stats. Then compare that to the percentage of Haitians living middle class in a BLACK country!

And the BA women you hate are the most educated group in America and have held that distinction for YEARS-over a decade.

But you like to overlook those FACTS in your hate-filled tirades-proof that you come from a place of brokenness and jealous. A balanced person would acknowledge the positive even as they accentuate the negative.

chrisagyei:
yea,am a Ghanaian and am reading all these Ghana bashing and low self esteem comments from afar.It's interesting when I read them although I sometimes find most as insulting,buh I keep it cool.They say we're too black buh I say,well,why do they think we call ourselves the Black Star Of Africa.That Black Star glows upon all the oppressions the imperialist and oppressors try to oppress it for 62 years of Independence.The Black Star glows in the darkest of darkness.We're proud to be called The Black Stars .We have different and many ethnic and groups who are very light skinned and even majority buh we all call ourselves black because of Dr. Kwame Nkrumah's one Africa dream.To the whites,we're all blacks,even Obama and Beyonce who are mixed and lighter skins are all discriminated as black folks.

iRepNaija1:
You might want to consider taking a look at the link below:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_African_Americans#Jezebel

AkataWoman:
We all know HIV exists in the US but not at the rate that AIDS does in Haiti.

And in America medication is available that allows people to live long lives without the disease even progressing to the AIDS stage. We don’t have a community filled with AIDS-orphans.

"That said, just get yourself a good BA woman already. We know how to love men through their pain. Some even like taking on broken humans as projects. I like my men healthy and WHOLE but there’s a compassionate BA woman ready to take you on somewhere out there.

khiaa:
Your ancestors were warriors but its too bad their descendants aren't worth a damn. Your ancestors fought for nothing, look at the catastrophe their descendants made of their beloved Haiti. Those men in prison eat better than those free Haitians who do nothing all day but search the earth for more mud to eat in order to get rid of their hunger. How many Haitians would rather be in American prisons where they can eat 3 meals a day as opposed to eating mud? Put yourself in your own people shoes and be thankful that black Americans made it possible for your ungrateful azz to enter into this country.

AkataWoman:
If you’re a Haitian in America I can understand your bitterness and anger. And YES you ARE bitter. Your posts scream HURT, ANGER and BITTERNESS.

Haitians are so devalued in this country that no one pays attention to you unless it’s negative. It’s either our coast guard turning your boats around so you can’t enter, being bullied in school for being Haitian with your Haitian ways, or unflattering stats about your country. The AIDS and poverty are out of control over there. Now the US is ending the temporary protections we gave you after the earthquake and in the process of deporting you by the planeloads.

What’s really sad is that I’ve sent lots of money to Haiti through a close relative. We both support an orphanage and the building of a school there. We’ve been doing this for over a DECADE. Two BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN!

Watch your mouth, always. You could be insulting the very hand that feeds you-or your people.

khiaa:
Black men have been the whipping boys by white America since they have been in this racist country for hundreds of years but it is easier for these men on Youtube to blame their counterparts because they are too afraid to face the white man and the thought of Becky shyting on them would destroy their whole existence because these are the females who can do no wrong in their eyes. Black American women are the target for these Youtube cowardly men and I can see that you are one of them. Black American men aren't like this in real life, this is the behavior of feminine men.

khiaa:
Don't pay any attention to that troll its a self-hating brainwashed Tommy Sotomayor worshiper.
This is the hatred against black women that Tommy panders to white racist and self-hating coons for financial gains.

Twizzy30:
lol.. migration is part of life.. how about you migrate down here and come help fix things for us.

khiaa:
OMGoodness!!! Are you Haitian? Look at the hell hole which is known as Haiti. Look at the behavior of a nation of hoodrats and you have the nerve to talk about Black Americans? Why don't you leave America and go and help those poor destitute people in your homeland eating cookies made out of mud to fill their bellies? Even the Dominicans hate you. We have never been that poor. Before you complain about the stick in someone's eye pick out the beam in your own.

AkataWoman:
In the ‘5 Facts About Efik People” you state that you’re HAITIAN!!!! I knew it!!! That makes so much more sense. I told you you’re a transparent troll. It was very obvious you were not an American-much less a Black one.

With all the stereotypes and issues in the Haitian community I’m not sure why you care about BA women-especially BA women being in relationships with Nigerian men. It has NOTHING to do with you or yours.

I feel so sorry for you. Your obvious misery is one thing. Knowing you’re Haitian gives me more insight to your pain.

khiaa:
Another Tommy Sotomayor brainwashed worshiper.

AkataWoman:
So you shout the same stereotypes you claim don’t pertain to you? Did it ever occur to you that they don’t pertain to most BAs either?

You are clearly not a BA. No one in America is this angry on such a beautiful day. I don’t care where you are in the country, the weather is GORGEOUS for the 1st time in a long time.

Also, a good troll wouldn’t insult the very group they claim to be a part of. Now choose another user name, log back on and try again. LOL!

AkataWoman:
You are one angry person.

How miserable do you have to be to spend time talking down on and demonizing people?

What “PanAfricanist” would spew the nonsense you do about black people? You’re obviously a troll. Not a very good one at that because you’re transparent.

Any halfway reasonable person knows you can’t paint an entire group with a negative brush-the nastiest, ugliest brush you can imagine at that.

I stand by my words. Some BAs are problematic, but generally speaking, your typical BA woman works hard, loves harder, would die before she’d hurt or allow hurt to come to her man, and keeps her head raised in a world filled with people like you.

JjBankys:
Ghana women too black and most of them are not good looking

Cholls:
my brother good luck but make sure you don't come back here with ugly charcoal ooo

Obainoneandonly:
because u people are notoriously known to be promiscuous

AkataWoman:
I come to this conclusion by being born and raised in the US as the descendant of slaves who’ve been on US soil for centuries.

BA women have at no point in history had the ‘slutty, promiscuous’ stereotype in this country. Ever. We’ve had other stereotypes but not that one.

AkataWoman:
Hood rats are a contained subculture that most BAs refuse to go near, live around or deal with. I’m not even talking about them in this thread. They are a different breed. Only equally hood guys deal with them.

AkataWoman:
I come to this conclusion by being born and raised in the US as the descendant of slaves who’ve been on US soil for centuries.

BA women have at no point in history had the ‘slutty, promiscuous’ stereotype in this country. Ever. We’ve had other stereotypes but not that one.

ivolt:
Africans and inferiority complex.
All indigenous African tribes originated from Africa,
there is plenty of DNA evidence to support this.

The middle east origin like most biblical stories
are pure jewish myths.

Epsilon5:
I didn't know Africans claimed to be from other places than Africa. Apparently that's where some of those African America s get thwir shame of being Afeican from and why they claim to be Israelites and Native Americans. Fruit don't fall far from the tree. Lol

londoner:
Nigerians are yet to actually market themselves or extend a hand to those who are away from home because of the slave trade.

This is what Ghana and a few other countries have done and rightly so. That is why so many people feel they won't be welcomed by Nigerians because they don't see the same move towards them from Nigerian leaders.