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MsNgo40:
Did not forget u.....
Will probably mention u elsewhere to learn some Pidgin...
Not tonight though....sorry about that.

BigChillin:
Finland's main industry is technology, and it excels in IT, telecommunications technology (i.e Nokia, VeHo etc ), science and engineering. So there is no dearth of supply of hi-tech graduates in that country. Matter of fact, their educational system is geared towards churning out highly skilled technology and engineering graduates.....truck loads of them. You will have little or no comparative advantage over them to distinguish you or create unique opportunities for you in those fields. They already have in ample supply what you have.....except you are a rare tech genius. This trait is shared by nearly all the Nordic nations....Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Finland and Iceland, the weakest of them all.
However, they are all experiencing a dire shortage of healthcare professionals, especially nurses. You might wanna look into opportunities in that sector.

Lorax:
And the guys are something to write home about? The one's that that sleep with anything in skirt or the ones that feel threatened by the success of a female or is it the ones that maltreats the females or wait is it the one's that can kill his brother over property? Look at a Nigerian guy feeling like a saint because we chose to keep quiet.

Lorax:
I still don't understand why whenever a Nigerian guy travels out the first thing he does is to compare the girls in that Country with girls in Nigeria. Telling us how we are not good enough or how materialistic we are forgetting that they have sisters and female relatives in Nigeria which are also included. If the girls there do not play hard to get we are insulted for it, if they play hard to get we are still insulted. If they dress and look better we are insulted about how ugly we look, if we dress better we are insulted about how overdressed we look. If they dress half unclad they are admired and applauded for allowing them see how sexy they look, if we dress half unclad we are called prostitutes and what not. Please we are tired of the insults and comparison. Nigerian girls outside the Country get married to foreigners on daily basis and you don't see them go about comparing them with Nigerian guys let alone insult them. Nigerian guys even behave far worse than the girls.

Nuzo1:
Your reasons don change now now.

First you said they go for third world men out of pity, and when I countered it, you came up with the control narrative. All these I clearly stated in my post you quoted. I don't wish to do a Merry go round if my points are not countered.

You talked about how your friend's babe cheated on him with his friend. How does a couple of cases like that become a general attitude? I really don't want our discussion to get to the point of comparing Nordic girls to their Nigerian counterparts as I clearly stated that their behavior has nothing to do with color but environment. I could still remember I said that Nigerian girl who were born and bread there adopt the same character towards relationships. Besides, the girl in question most likely have shown your friend that their relationship was just for sex....heck why his own friend comfortably and openly slept with her. You may not have even known that the girl was being passed around. It was a plan all the way.

You talked about how the op's girl jumped from his younger brother to the op. But this was a lie as the girl clearly told the young man that he's too young for her and they later became just friends.

Again, their married women are hardly this way. They rather divorce you then go on sex binge than go behind your back to sleep with your gateman for 20 years.

But if we must compare, I will encourage you to Google the women who cheat the most in the world. The research was done by durex condom and their results showed that Nigerian women came 1st. Again, this has nothing to do with color or race but poverty and income disparity. A quick research will show you that a well paid Nigerian or black woman hardly cheats. Same characteristics with most scandinavian ladies.

You talked about incest and how it's been the major cause of their mental illness. Haha... Oga please let's not compare the number of cases of incest in say Sweden and Nigeria. Only have in mind that just like rape, it's underreported back home. I will also encourage you not allow us get to the point of comparing number of mental cases in both worlds.

And yes, African men are mostly good fathers and family oriented. Your research countering this point was a research done on African Americans, not the entire blackmen, not Nigerians.

I also saw where you talk about honesty in scandinavian countries. How it's propelled by the law. I mean, how could you fault such a system? Such systems transform people from bad to good. It has become their culture whether the law is there or not. Why do you think their HDI, SPI, life expectancy, low crime rate, high employment rate etc are on the high side? You think everybody just woke one morning and started doing the right thing? No bro. The law pushed them and they became used to it and it became a culture. Environment of honesty and transparency. See what is happening in Asia, they have picked it up o.

I could still remember some years back when we were coming back from club at around 3am. We decided to take in the early morning fresh air by strolling home. I was new in that environment and wanted to jump the pedestrian traffic light that has no cctv, immediately my friend held me back and politely asked me to hold on to the green light. This was a lonely road o.

Another similar incident occurred recently back home in Nigeria. A young boy fell from a 3 storey building and broke his skull. You cannot imagine the pool of blood. The entire Street circled the boy within minutes. For several minutes, nobody agreed to go near him. And when my friend quickly rushed to the scene, he saw a young scandinavian lady sitting by the boy's side and massaging and singing for him until my friend and the boy's father was able to get a means of transportation. The entire Street refused to go near the the boy except for this "dumb Swedish" lady who recently relocated with his Nigerian husband back home. The boy survived as it has to be a miracle.

Their law, the punishment and reward system pushes them to be better people to themselves and to their neighbors. This transforms them to be honest people and later it becomes their culture. What's wrong with this?

Minnesota is one of the best and most progressive States in the USA. Most of the citizens of this state are Swedish migrants. They brought in the same culture of honesty from their old country. The progressive nature of Minnesota is tied to this culture.

Finally, I know they are exceptional cases, but I think it's wrong to say that it's out of pity or the quest for control are the reasons scandinavian ladies go into relationships with 3rd world men.

olaboy1:
The major reason they go for men from 3rd world countries is to control them. The feminist states have a deep rooted hate towards men, and the set of men that they can control easily are impoverished men from 3rd world countries, it has nothing to do with the women discovering how awesomely appreciated they are by these men.

Go to Malmo and see for yourself how they date beach boys from Gambia that an average African woman would not even give a time of day for a small chat. I have talked with many women here and everything I write here is fact.

You gave far fetched reasons why the relationships don’t last, but take your time and you would read a part where someone on this thread advice the OP not to allow Naija guys near his Swedish girl friend, have you asked yourself why. The women here have no sexual boundaries who they sleep with, if her body becomes Hot for your cousin or blood brother she is gonna Bleep him...as a matter of fact my friends and I have named them “jumpers” because they can jump to whoever they like anytime they want, and that was why OP’s wife jumped from his younger brother she met online to him with no remorse. In my house party a guy was angry that his Swedish girl friend was flirting with his friend, they got into an argument and the guy left angrily, fast forward to 45 mins later the girl was banging her BF’s friend in my toilet. That’s just one example, I have many many many examples I can’t share here.

If you went back in history you would read about the incest and that is wholly responsible for the mental illnesses as a result of copulation from same gene pool, and that incest even though the govt has put a law in place to make it punishable, that trait of ability to sleep with people of close ties is still in them, coupled with the fact that feminism has taught them they own their bodies and can sleep with whoever they want.

I still think you don’t know the dynamics at play in this quest for relationship with people from 3rd world countries, because from your comment it thus appear you are saying men from 3rd world countries are charming, loving and caring to these European women to a point the women consider their men to be beasts, that’s not true because the men here are rumored to be docile, caring, loving, helping in the kitchen and changing diapers....so what kind of women leave these men for men from 3rd world countries.

Most interracial relationships that hit the rock here are caused by the guy suddenly finding his foot and not able to be controlled anymore. By your admittance you are saying people from 3rd world countries are more family oriented, so why do white folks still feed their people with lies that black men are not good fathers and can’t keep a home, isn’t that contradictory.

BigChillin:
Refrigerator and A/C repair technician, Plumber, Carpenter, Electrician (automotive and residential), Welders, Computer repairs, Automotive Body repairs, Floor tiles Installers, Bricklayers etc. Out of this list, the first four artisans are in especially short supply. Those ones command whatever rates they wanna charge....and they get it. Them mofos stay busy

spongeisback:
Has no one told him yet? That tattoo looks nothing like davido

MsNgo40:
No...i am not.
But JW's don't have any exclusive rights to the word "brother".
Although, I am a follower of Christ, I actually was using the word "brother" in general.
In the Black American community, the word is used also as a term of endearment to refer to one another...just as "sister" would refer to females.
So now since you've been given a brief lesson, do you still prefer I call u something else?
Cause calling u "Man of the Year" might take too long....too many unnecessary words don't u think...
Gotta really go...talk with u later.

MsNgo40:
Thank u brother...u too.

MsNgo40:
See that's what I like....humility.
I try not to assume things as much anymore...and ask questions first.
No problem with you being the "Man of the Year"..
Just wondering how u earned the title?
I would love a lesson....however I'm getting ready for work....it's 6:00 a.m. here.
Maybe u can teach me later...

MsNgo40:
LOL.....brother u r so wrong....so, so very wrong.
First, please help me with my Pidgin....trying to learn it. So what does "Na u sabi" mean?
I have half Igbo blood.
Also what does "Haruna" mean?

Just for your information, I am:

1.) NOT MARRIED
2.) BORN, RAISED AND LIVING IN THE U.S.
3.) NEVER BEEN TO NIGERIA

Don't worry..it's ok...
I accept your apology and forgive you
Nice to meet u..."Man of the Year"..lol.

MsNgo40:
Oh I'm not misbehaving brother...was curious and therefore just asking a question
I already believe I know the answer....the title says it all.
Just amazes me the level of deception that a males are capable of sinking to....
Just unfortunate that females think so little of themselves to allow the mistreatment.
Oh well...just my thoughts.

MasViews:
Premarital sex has become a fashion these days. Marriage is discouraged while premarital sex is encouraged. Haram is haram even if everyone is doing it and halal is halal even if you're the only one doing it.

sirborjnr:
NO Mane,I wrote the exam in Bayelsa while in lawSchool...just sent you a Pm..

MsNgo40:
BlowJobs,
Ummm...interesting name....
Question for u:
Do u really love her?

BlowJobs:
*Adjustment of Status* Update.

The forms lady K ordered (FREE OF CHARGE) from United States Citizen and Immigration Services (USCIS) website came in Few minutes ago


Forms I-130/I-130A (and instruction forms)
Form I-765
Form I-864P
Form I-485
Form I-693
Form I-864

These forms looks like lots of paper works. So much forms. I hate paperworks, they make me dizzy and confuse. But i really can't complain right now.
Once we start filling out the information, this thread will go full scale into the adjustment of status Via marriage to a USC proper. Till then, just enjoy my "rants" and pictures.

sirborjnr:
already have my SAT scores.. meant to say,I wrote a new waec

NwaAmaikpe:


See grammar.
God has finally whipped her tears


She honestly shouldn't still have been admitted into that great school.
JAMB and FUPRE made a big mistake.


Higher Education is not for everyone.
This lady here belongs at Eke Ukwu or Oji markets better still she could be doing short time at Ama J.K, Amakohia or Irette

NONNYG:
too much pm

IamKashyBaby:


Don't let me catch u...I have no time for a gentleman

Will tie u down in my bed and suffocate u while im bouncing up and down til u tap & beg to make me cum

Ziggarrr:
Broooooo, i dnt know if its you but i think you are the guy i met when you came to collect reference letter from the department for your Msc application. You gist me about how your swede babe came to see you in Nigeria. We shared our dream of going to further our education abroad. I am taking a masters program in Canada now. Even here too electrians, plumbers, welders and any skill make dope money. I don go learn forklift ASAP and i get my forklift license now.....lol God bless your hustle jare. My regards to your woman and talking about women, one sweet oyinbo girl just dey shower me with too much love mehn, snow fell the other day and she didnt come to school with her car, can you imagine that this girl took a bus to her house, came back to school with her car and drove me home just because she didnt want me to walk home in the cold...no naija girl don show me that kind love before.......Shoutout to every oyibo girl wey dey show love to the niggars, we love una scatter. lol.....morning guys, its 5.58am here in Canada

olaboy1:
I totally disagree with you. Just because the old hags come to take advantage of poor Gambians doesn’t mean they are not racists.
Scandinavia generally is a joyless and depressing place to be maybe apart from Copenhagen Denmark from what my friends who moved there have been saying. Many even moved from Stockholm to CPH.

The depression in the country and utter ego has made almost all the Swedish men and women single, it’s not uncommon to see a girl that is Uber 9/10 single and living alone, there get away for the men is Thailand and the women go to Latin American countries, Jamaica and Africa.

https://www.thelocal.se/20040907/371

As for OP let me awaken you that the relationship goal of a Swedish woman is having a baby as you enjoy the system more when you have kids, and also kids help them to solve the boredom part. Without kids all you hear is someone having a discussion in the apartment and when you go inside you realize she has been chatting with her cats or dogs for minutes. After kids they are known to be very wicked to you and if you are not careful she and her system will push you away, I have many ethnic Swedish friends who have suffered in the hands of Swedish women and I had two Swedish girls in my house party after having some vodka attesting to their devilish behaviors in the family court to deal with the men, according to them men are pigs and pathetic, they basically in my world are not fit to raise a family with because they have a high flight risk and I rate them 25% when it comes to longevity of love. I am not preaching doom to your life OP, not at all, I like your spirit and I thought you could use some wise words from an oldie to complement your smartness. In the house party they even showed me apps they use to count the numbers of their sex lays, the girls here are brutal and narcissistic.

If I find the blog of one American guy I would send to you, infact American men have been known to fall for the cheap game of Swedish women to a point the USA embassy gave a warning on their official website some years ago.

drake49:
mechanical engineering?

drake49:
are you a student in uniben?

comradespade:
Why dem go carry this thread go frontpage?

Them go spoil am for us now

suomi1990:
Both are expensive oh, everything depends on your lifestyle...you’re right about the cold winters!

suomi1990:
Helsinki is a superb city with the most opportunity in Finland...however it can be expensive depending on your lifestyle, my Naija guys there dey live by “divide and conquer”...sharing bills to save more