₦airaland Forum

makydebbie:
Awwn, sorry dear.

I wish my job allows me to sit sef.

They shouldn't stress my baby o. My nairaland crush since day one, dont worry when i become a boss you wont have to work again.

I'm sure you dont remember when you were in lagos and i wanted to take you to the movies, but then you had to fly and leave me and go to ghana . Its been a while, i hope you'd remember.

makydebbie:
Lol, okay. I prefer here tho. How was work?

Crazy. I need two hefty females, one to grab my hands, the other my legs, i need them to strech me till they hear my back make a cracking noise.
That what that stupid office chair i sit on for 8 to 9hrs from monday to friday did to me

lawrykings:
you sound so enlightened on the subject matter but how do you as a man maintain your manly status with someone with a mental prowess and abilities that measures with you? i dont want to argue, i really like to learn sir. thanks

Mutual respect, thats it. Men need more respect than love, women need more love than respect. Both of you have to understand that, the main thing in a relationship is understanding. Once you guys understand yourselves, there wont be issues.

If you meet a feminist( a true one) she is only advocating to have equal chances to get a job like you when both of you submit your CV and not to be the boss of the house or of a relationship. Its all about equality and fairness and once you guys understand that. You are good to go.

makydebbie:
But you ignored my last mention?

I am so sorry dear. I think work was on my neck, dont worry i wont ignore you again

I wish i could get your digits, but then i guess its too early. Well, its yours to decide.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Personally I don't like to talk about religion because it is a personal thing and I can't choose for others,I am liberal in my views,Maybe it is working for those women but those laws cannot work for me so I leave them to their beliefs either way your post have been wonderful and enlightening.

It's okay. Have a nice time.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Emotional beings that may be the answer because the way some women reason sometimes especially the conservative ones you begin to wonder.

I wonder, maybe you should sensitize you fellow women on the issue. But religion is the hardest thing to break someone from.

Someone said " I freed a thousand slaves, i would have freed a thousand more if they knew they were slaves"
It would take more than magic to clear some peoples eyes.

makydebbie:
When will you all learn to respect people's opinions? Even if it doesn't sit well with you, the guy is entitled to his opinion.

Most of you shouting hoes and whatever do same behind closed doors anyway.

Debbie my love, I'm sure that lady is a guy.
How about our randomness talk, lets complete it..lol

Ladyhippolyta88:
Very true that is why I can't explain the fact why women are more religious than men I am still thinking but I can't get it.

Religion appeals to emotions. Women are more emotional beings than men.

When you believe the ultimate aim of your existence and the your afterlife is hinged on something, what would compare afterlife to being subservient a little?

Religion just hits the nail at the head, every other thing bends to its will.

Ladyhippolyta88:
The society and religion are part of the problem.

religion makes it worse, it make women themselves believe they are inferior.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I am impressed.

This should be an innate understanding everybody should have but then we are in a very irrational society. How someone feels good about a women being denied equality riddles me or maybe they do not have a proper understanding of what feminists are saying. A collective judgment about women being inferior is pure madness i believe.

Nobodys:
you have said it all sweethrt....we Shud all be feminist cause we need eachother....and we are all equal... I love u...

Yeah sweetie, we are all equal and women should be given equal rights and opportunities as men. love you too, take care

skillzbae:
Sorry I forgot not everyone is smart.... I mean where is atican beach on the list

Sorry i forgot, frustration render people incapable of humor...i mean what happened to your life?

skillzbae:
Where is atican beach

In my house

kenonze:
OP u are very wrong

Ibeno beach is a dirty beach,
The only outstanding ones u mentioned are Elegushi and Uwana Beach.
Others aren't nothing to write home about in terms of recreation and fun.
Where is ATican, Bracuda beach just to mention few

You too like beach o.

Anyway, I bring sand to the beach cause my beach (bitch) is better

Safiaa:
I understand that. But leave her to believe what she wants. Don't shovel your thoughts and opinions down her throat .

Lol. No wahala

Safiaa:
She's entitled to believe what she wants. If she says she's not an olosho then she's not

Some people believe the earth is flat. That doesn't make the earth flat.

Same way some people believe they are not prostitutes despites pointing out they have all the characteristics of one. It doesnt make them not prostitutes

I pity that guy at your dp, he is unknowingly patronising an olosho

Jamariwolf4:
3 minutes read.

So a female romancelander opened a thread this evening, and as usual, the brokers started shouting and calling her ashawo etcetera.

Well imma be honest with you: I collect money after sex, and that ain't ending anytime soon.

I AM NOT A OLOSHO OR PROSTITUTE.

I work for my money, but you must still pay me.

Take note and read carefully before you start insulting all the females (gone, alive, and yet to be born) in your family

Reasons why I'll always collect money after sex

1. Sex is difficult :
Oh yeah, it is! But you wouldn't know, would you? When you're just dicking down and going, you take 90% pleasure and me takes 10%.
In my sexually active years, I can count with one hand the number of sex I actually really enjoyed.
If fellow females won't be honest,
You can ask bobrisky and other faqqots who take dicks up their orifice, the receiver passes through pains!!

2. I'm a woman with needs:
I mean, I need to take a hot bath, change into something Hanes and eat good food, so pay up.

3. I'll get slut shamed anyway :
How many of y'all can swear on your life that you haven't bragged to your guys how you nailed that 'hoe'
Why not be a complete slut when I know I will still be tagged one, whether I collect cash or not?

4. Did you expect to leave like that?
So if i didn't ask, you'll just go?
Smh!!!!

5. It's the right thing to do:
Before you type that trash, remember your Bible or quran condemns Fornication. If you can't pay my bills, find some cheap young naive bitch.

6. It's a man's world:
Women have no say or opinion, right?
Well, in bed, we do!

7. I'd never fück a fuckboy ever :
I'll soon open a thread on how to identify fvckboys, but in details, they want to eat without giving anything in return. I can smell their stench from miles and I activate my ignore button, so I don't need to argue for money like a prostitute after sex.

Real men pay up without you asking,

whether you decide to go au naturel or sans naturel, pls pay your woman and treat her with respect.

Thanks.

Your heading says:
7 reasons i will always collect money after sex

Then you go ahead to say

I am not an olosho or prostitute.

You will need a book bigger than the bible to explain how these two contradictory sentences should appear in a paragraph

Alariwo2:
But you know the whole idea behind feminism is flawed right?

They don't want to be under men or controlled. They want equal rights with us which is laughable.

Na man go still dey shine their congo till Jesus comes not the other way round. They should be humble and obedient to their "heads".

#SayNotoFeminism

Saying no to feminism is very stupid i must say, calls for equal right between men and women should be an innate characteristic any sane and normal human being should possess.

Wasn't it white people that protested the racial equality years back and now they have accepted their wrongs and black still think they dont deserve racism when they want to only have subservient women in the society.

True! Most african women who claim to be feminists do not even have an iota of idea of what it means and most african males who reject the idea are just afraid of losing their imaginary ego or are just too religious to accept that women are just as human as they are.

This is the age of reason, let your irrationality fly away and give women equal opportunities and equal rights. Anyother thing outside this is not feminism and anybody who rejects what is inside this circle is not human enough.

In my view every sane human being whether male of female should be a feminist.

Between fela and soyinka.

I'm igbo btw.

Lets see what the dude below me got to say

sholatech:
Vanity!

The first thing poor people say

Twoclans:
Am not saying its costs rocket science to bring light to the male hostels. I only pointed out where the female hostels are located for people who have never been to nsukka.

The female hostels are lucky to have light because they are located where it's easy for eye service and propaganda to take place. Example :if someone comes into the school and sees light in the female hostels it's easy to assume that there is light everywhere and the school authority will score cheap points.

I don't want the students to take to violence and destroy things don't forget we have alot of them in this forum.

The SUG leadership should find ways to resolve the issues. I was in that school when more serious issues came up and I can confidentently tell you that violence is never the way.

I get your point about the male hostel being located where visitors cannot easily see so therefore eye service. But that is not true completely, PG hostels which is a stone throw from male hostels are very well renovated and their generators are alwayd working so its not a complete case of eye service rather i would say negligence and the dismissive attitude of the management towards the issue.

By protests i do not mean violent protests instead i mean peaceful demonstrations. They should tell the school to regard them equally as students.

Twoclans:
Most of the female hostels at UNN are located at the heart of the campus so that really explains why the light supply has always been better.

The two halls the OP mentioned are almost at the outskirt of the campus, it does not justify why power supply should be low,i hope this can be resolved peacefully.

Daniel2808 are you a lion?

Almost at the outskirts? Thats an inconsequential fact.
Are you trying to say it costs rocket science to supply electricity to the male hostels which is just a few miles from the female hostel or that it takes albert einstein to buy gas and power their generator.

Its not a matter of distance, this has been an issue right from when i was a student. The school management is relegates male students need for electricity. Its true males pay less for hostel fees but that should be because their hostels are obnoxious still pointing to the fact that the management lacks eagerness to do anything about male hostels. I pity those guys, i had to leave the hostel after my first year. Its quite sad that VC after VC no solid plan to renovate those male hostels. I hope things change soon and those guys deserve to protest.

Zykod:
Lol. Phyics is more fun, sowwie

Metaphysics is physics yet to be discovered

Zykod:
Too much metaphysics will do you damage. Trust me i'm retired. Been there

Better come back

mrphysics:
Boss, what is thy problem? Why are thou derailing the thread of thy maiden servant?

Boss i am sorry

makydebbie:
I understand what you're saying and where you're coming from. But what if I'm lackadaisical about deep diving?
It would definitely be unfair to you when everything is 70-30.

You have always been, everybody is. Its harder to try out things for the first time, especially things that are not logical. It is stupid actually but then a normal life is boring. Old people regret what the didnt do not what they did. How far can we go by going round the same loop of picking the best characters and then discorvery our algorithm is wrong or the character got boring.

Maybe intuition or randomness have metaphysical value. What is even randomness?

If i chose a ball from twelve balls in a basket, why would i say it is a random choice when i cannot go back in time and try the same exercise to see if i would pick a different ball. What if randomness depends on time?

So we can never know the metaphysical importance of a moment or random decision until we try it. Dont be scared, our future is well written. Go random, maybe once.