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Doctors, a girl that started her period when she was 13 and has had six days of flow, now she is 25 and for the first time, she has just one and half day of flow. Is that normal?

Thanks in advance.

Tania, on the romance page, you'll see a tab that says, topic or something like that. Click on it and it should take you from there. Sorry, Tania, you can't post new topic now. It has been disabled until Monday I think.

And having a Yoruba accent, while speaking English is bad? Hmmm, Dak. don't forget that we all have an accent. In the US, peeps from the North go to the South and they complain about the way the southerners talk and vice versa. Mind you, all they speak is English.

See, this accent thing, has nothing to do with your native language. It is all in your head and mostly Nigerians. Trying to sound like something you are not, will not make you better than the next person.

Speak simple and correct English. Speak clear enough for people to understand you. Don't rush your words. Even with an accent, follow these simple rules and everyone that need to listen to you, will get you.

From your post about me worrying about what others think, I was just referencing what Trully typed before that. But I'll say it again, if by me speaking and having an accent, other than the American accent makes me Ajepaki, then na u sabi. 

Been following this thread for a while. Logical, you are equating forcing 9,11,12, 13 year olds into marriage with rape, adultery and all. What you fail to understand is this, all the vices in the west, is frowned upon and there are laws against all these things. Pray tell, is there a law against early marriage in all this Islamic countries? When caught, do they punish the 50yr old men?

Please, let's not muddle things up. What is bad is bad, What is good is good. What is right is right. Forcing kids to have kids is not only wrong, it is bad. Something needs to be done. The key word here is FORCE. You said something about legalizing prostitution. Guess what, no one is going to come put a gun on your head to go to the LovePeddler house. Freedom. That is what this kids don't have. They can't chose how to live their lifes.

Hmm, don't be hating on Amobi now. Ok, make all una fine, fine sisi wey dey US post una pics, make we, the cute ones judge una. You never can tell, Amobi might find his better half.

Trully, you can say that over and over again. Mehn, do I just love the way you put your last post. Whether you speak queens English or American English or whatever bull crap english, if you don't carry your self with respect, no man, white, black, pink, brown, will respect you. It got nothing to do with your ability or inability to speak your native language.

And to those that think because I understand and speak Yoruba that I am Ajepaki, make them continue to think so. Na them sabi.

I guess, from experience then, people who are married can say, you can marry your first love and be happy.

Me, lai lai. No way in hell will I do that. As far as I am concerned, you can only know the best, after comparing, QED.

Happy birthday. Two more years and you aint a teenager anymore. Enjoy it while it lasts.

Have fun!

Please now, must_a_far, no vex. Make people please hold you back, before you break the Ice on this Chicken. No mind am, she/he go get the gist one way or the other. Ode!

Anuli, glad you shared that. One, if you feel like taking the post down, just sign in and modify your post. See most Nigerians are fake. They'll come and crucify one person, when in the real sense they are worse than anything. Please enjoy your sexuality. You got one life to live, so you go girl!

Newbie, hit me up on theopops@yahoo.com. I can give you advice on what to do. I can also share things with you that you need to know about residing in Americaa. It definitely not the way you thot. Not to worry, you will get something soon, believe me you will.

@ topic, because Americans do not respect any one and also, they want to be sure you have the right education and that you have invested into your education here and that you are ready to give back to the society what they have taught you.

The question is not about marrying your first love. Seun merge two threads together. The question is, marrying the only person you ever dated and calling the person your best. My argument is this, how would you know you have the best, when you have only dated one person?

Your post is very sensible, winteric.

Marriage in the bible was more often than not a cultural issue. And so you see Jesus attending a wedding which, by the way, we are not told how it was conducted, but assume it was according to the Jewish tradition. The important thing in a marriage, as far as Christianity is concerned, is that the relationship has God's approval.

In theory, therefore, there is no need for any of the things usually done at wedding, receptions, etc. A simple prayer and exchange of vows in the presence of witnesses is acceptable. Note that the exchange of vows is particularly important, because when you make these verbal assertions before God, you are bound by them.

However, in any society or group of people, there is need for order and a prescribed way of doing things. Otherwise there would be anarchy. This is why the church as a whole, and local church assemblies in particular, has come up with certain guidelines aimed at making the process not only public, but transparent, reproducible and ordered. The presence of rules and a law would also make it possible to "encourage" faithfulness to the marriage vows.

If you consider the different cultural, social and family backgrounds of people in churches, as well as different individual dispositions you may agree that introducing some form of uniformity in the wedding process is not such a bad idea.

NB: Your assertion that the conditions imposed as prerequisites for marriage by certain institutions are responsible for the high unmarried population is at best a hazy conjecture. When you say "unmarried", do you take into account the widowed, divorced and those who have taken oaths of celibacy?

thank youuuuuuuu.

I notice your name seems to be spelt backwards.

Do you also sleep upside down?

Hmm,

Now I think I actually prefer the not-so-tall ones.

The ones about 5ft 5inches tall.

See, it ain't about sex. I mean, it is marriage. The M word that most men hate.

I am not saying or condemning my friend. All I am saying is this, to know the best you must have to compare. And you don't have to compare with a million women, but at the end of the day, if you have not compared, then you don't know or can't have the best. You have the 'good'.

Hmmm, good analogy gigitte. But still, all these talk about love is kinda interesting. See, love is not always going to be there. It is what you have left, that you hold on to and that is what keeps the r'ship going.

Someone said something about having sex with one person and that's it, whether great or not greatest. That I can understand, if you are a v and you remain one until you are married, so henceforth, you actually don't have a choice, than to stay with your hubby. Actually, to you, it might be the greatest, cos you don't have any experience.

But like I said, marriage is a big deal. It is not just about love, or sex, or beauty. It is a lot. And if it is a forever thing, then by golly, I want to make sure I have the best and not come to doubt myself ten years into the marriage.

Hmmm, gigitte, not to worry, my gender will be revealed has time goes by. Some days I am in touch with the feminine side, other days I am in touch with the masculine side. Let's just say, my gender changes with my mood.  

Incomparable? How do one know that the other has everything you want, when you have not tried something else. Take the example of liking oranges. You might think you are absolutely in love with oranges and think that is all you want, until you try apples and then you can actually, without any element of doubt be sure you like oranges and that oranges are the best thing to happen to you, but without trying apples you sure do not know.

Maybe I am the only one that don't get this, but this idea of marrying the only, (best) person you have ever dated is kinda scary to me. I'll hate to resent the person I get married to and start wondering, if I should have gone around a little and see what the world has to offer.

I really don't think it is about sex. How can he have the best, when he only have one? I thot best is a comparative adjective. He can have the 'good', but not the best, because you have to compare at least three things, before you can know you have the best. Or am I missing something here?

Actually, I ain't worried about him/her or anybody that is going through this out there. Just curious about that.

Tall sistas have it all. I enjoy them tall ones. Big ups to all the tall sistas!

I am still trying to understand. The question is this, if you don't have anything to compare with, how will you know you have the best? That is the question I am trying to answer.

Thanks. Feeling the love.

But how do you know you have real love, when you have only one person to use as your yardstick?

Can you marry your first and only love? I mean, I was having a discussion with a friend and he is planning on marrying his girl of eight years. The first and only girl he has dated.

Now the question is, how can you know you have the best, when you have only dated one?

Awww, I feel the love already. Thanks for the update and I will surely keep away from posting offtopic. Don't want Seun the admin to get at me.

You are lonely? What do you do? How about you pick up an hobby, like hmmm, running or playing tennis or something. No worry, the girl go come your way soon. How old are you sef?

Thanks gigitte. Hope I'll have fun here. So, what's the 411 of this site?

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