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If you are not married, kindly shut up. "Yes, I will walk out". "I will quit". Yeah right. Na so e easy.

Abegi, talk to your man. If he is really sincere and you know you can forgive him, abegi do so. All these people telling you to quit, na them go give you correct man to marry? These over riped old women and over sexed teengares wey no go find husband marry, lai lai. Abegi, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't. Quote me, every man will cheat. Every single one of them. One will cheat once and repent and one will continue to cheat. So, if you are happy in the relationship, don't let some idiot of a LovePeddler spoil am for you.

Abegi, go do HIV test and move on. Nothing do you or your hubby to be o jare.

Y'all need to get off your high horse and see things the way it should be seen. In some parts of the world, kids as young as 12 have to work to take care of their family. Whether it is right or wrong, is not the case. When poverty sets in, they are left with no choice.

Onyinye, have you been to the midwest states before? Kids as young as 10, help their folks with farm work. Yes, farm work. They wake up before 5am to help milk cows and stuff. I don't see anyone shouting child abuse there. For crying out loud, she is even forcing him to go to school. Do you know what poverty does to someone's mind? I bet you all wouldn't know. You were all born with enough money to hire six maids at a time. So, please spare the woman. She is here to find solution to stopping a young man from turning into a full blown thief and all you can do, is accuse her of child abuse.

Poster, I think your mom is right. I don't subscribe to beating. If you truly want to help this child, spend more time with him and help him see why stealing is wrong and bad. His parents don't want him sent packing, because he might be their source of income for feeding and stuff.

I tell people that Nigeria will never get better, them think say I dey curse the country. Bunch of idiots. Always shifting blame from one man to the other. I am sure they think they are men. Men my crusty black ass.

Inteligent? Abegi, us Aries ladies, don't go down with people that don't know how to spell, o jare. There is a spell checker, you know.

Ok, now to the issue at hand. You want us to mail you. I am sure you know a little about us. We don't give a shit about you, if you are not rich. We have enough men at our beck and call, that asking us to get back to you, is just not gonna happen. Just my two cents.

Just messing with you o. Hope you have a sense of humor.

Ok, so what do you bring to the table? Are you rich, good looking, tall, intelligent, smart, "a corporate thug"? If no, then make I no waste my time o jare.

There are a ton of Nigerians here. Even got the RCCG thing going for them.

What happened to the boycotting of BA? Guess we get treated like shit, because they know we don't even care for ourselves.

The name you are looking for is Yemi Blaq.

I love the movie. It was so on point. I gave it an eight. Acting was good, the costume on point. Even the big and beautiful girl was funny. It was a nice movie.

Wow. This is a big disgrace for M'uslims. It took a threat for Seun to "greatly respect" your religion. I will be so ashamed, I'll not be able to show my face, if I was one of you. It's a big shame.

Sad, sad, sad. Greatly pathetic.

Ok, sabix2, I guess you aint serious.

chika, I won't "chop" money, but money answereth to a whole lotta things.

And yes, I am indeed serious. No kidding here.

Sabix2, not so fast. You did not answer my questions. Ok, lets say I make between 45,000 to 68,000 usd, multiply that by 5 and convert into naira. Do you have that much? I am very serious o. I don't want us to waste each other's time, if otherwise.

Also, about the height. I stand 5ft 11inches. If you are less than 6ft 2inches, it aint gonna happen.

And oh yeah, I am in the USA. It says so on my profile.

I am actually very serious about being interested. No kidding here.

That's sad. Was planning on using them next year.

I am interested.

Few questions though.
- How much money are we talking about here? Hopefully you make at least five times what I make.
- How tall?

Once those are answered, and I am cool with your response, we can take it off NL to private.

Babs787, if I were you, I will simply accept that I was wrong and made a mistake and then move on. Even a person with saw dust for brains, know what you are trying to do. You do not have a verse to produce, so just be a man and say so. I know, you don't want to be tagged a liar, but sometimes we say things that we have not verified and then we find out, that it is not a fact. So just man up and stop lookin and sounding like a retard.

I am asking everyone.

Want to know people's view on auto financing.

Hope that helps.

Reading through some of viperman's threads, he seems to have a lot of cars coming into Nigeria and a lot of people are interested as well. Though, it seems a lot are money short as well.

So here is my question, in the USA, most people don't go and drop $25k just like that in one day. It is paid over a period of time, say five years. I am sure there are places that loan out money in Nigeria, but might be few. So here is the question, will you be willing to finance a car and pay a fixed amount over a period of time? You can also lease a car for a period of time. Is that an option that Nigerians will be open to?

Thanks.

Laudate, no one is trying to say that Gamers is a saint. At least, that's not what I meant. I could easily turn around and type the same things you typed, only changing the direction. e.g. did Gamer put a gun on the girl's head when they were having sex? Did he force himself on her? How come she did not think about using a condom or protecting herself from this? Abi, she is too young to know what happens when a man sleep with a woman without protection? Oh, she did not think she could get pregnant? See, we can look at this from different direction. At the end, we all need to choose the path to follow in life.

Now the deed is done and all he wants, is a cordial r'ship with her. I'll even give him some props for that. How many men get girls pregnant and just run away, never looking back?

At the end, let everyone think about what might happen, before they do anything, because we'll all be the one to face the consequences, whether right or wrong, bad or good.

It is as much your fault as it's the baby mama. If she was dumb enough to sleep without protection, she should be ready to face life. If she made a decision to not abort. She should be ready to face life as a single mother. See, what I am trying to point out here is this, we all choose the way we want to live. She chose to have a baby out of wedlock and she will have to live with that decision.

Yes, people sleep with others. Heck, the sex is sweet and you know deep down, you feel nothing for her. That if push turn to shove, you'll go with your GF. Believe me, girls know this, but some are stupid enough to think the guy is going to leave the GF for them. Yeah, wishful thinking.

Abegi, carry go jo. If her family wants you to marry her, tell them you will, when their daughter starts to tell the truth. I so hate liars!

No, it is not.

I had to sign in. Christians, what is the problem? Donnie you clearly made a statement or two and pilgrim 1 called you out on them and the best you can come up with, is you are not led? What is wrong? Where did the Church fall apart? How would it have affected you by admitting your statements and standing by them? Led by the spirit to lie? What do you think the spirit does? Men, this is really sad. God help us all!

At topic, I do not believe in infant baptism, for the reasons Donnie raised, but can't admit to.

Thanks a lot ladies. Ok this is what I did:

I used a push pin to "work" out the kokos (tangles) on by one.

Then my mom combed it out slowly.

Then I washed it.

And guess what? My hair bonded together like dread locks. I wanted to cry. But I did not sha.

So, I stood in the shower, armed with my big comb and started separating my hair, little by little and combing it out. Let's just say, it cut a bunch, but I have a big head with fully full hair, lol.

In essence, I am so grateful to y'all. If not for you all, I will be bald by now. Thanks so much for the tips. Let's just say, I will never braid my hair again and if I do, I will not keep it for five months.

Thanks once again, I really do appreciate all the tips.

You know how you carry million braids for a long time and it is time to take it off. Now, you have that “tangle” portion at the base of each braid, which is usually accumulated dirt. If I comb it out, I will lose all the hair on my head. What do I do?

A friend suggested that, I put conditioner and wait for like three to five minutes and try combing it out. If that don’t work, then I can shampoo it and then put conditioner and try to comb it. Is there any one here that has tried this before?

I don’t want to lose all my hair, so please help me. What do you ladies do?

Thanks

Doctors, I did not see any response to the concerns raised by uchetobi. Could you kindly address that?

Thanks.

P.S: This was the concern raised by her:

Doctors well-done. More power to your elbows. I have a little question that is gynaecological related. Am 21(been seeing my periods for about nine years now) yes and I see my period like between 30- 35 days. That is its not regular. Unlike other girls I still can't say the specific day am expecting my period. Tho I can guess the week. 30-35 days also mean I get eleven period in a year instead of twelve.
Second and most pressing is that the 2nd / 3rd week after my period I get blood colored discharge. I actually think it may be ovulation but it lasts as long as 3 to 4 days and I don’t think ovulation lasts that long. Iv been too busy with work and all to see a doctor can you please tell me if my worries are in order

Thanx in advance

Ok, that's him.

Proof that Nigerians are not the only one involved in scams.

Read and enjoy.

ADELAIDE, Australia - An Australian farmer held hostage in Mali for 12 days by a gang of men who had posed as an online love interest has urged others to be careful when seeking romance on the Internet.

Des Gregor, 56, traveled to the West African nation last month to meet his supposed bride, whom he had met on the Internet, and collect a dowry of gold bars worth $85,000.

But when he arrived, the wheat and sheep farmer was abducted by a gang of armed bandits who bound him, beat him with a machete and stole his cash and credit cards.

Gregor, who returned to his home state of South Australia with a police escort late Sunday, said the men told him they would hack his limbs off with a machete unless he paid them a $85,000 ransom.

The scam was stopped when Australian and Malian police, alerted by Gregor's family in Australia, tricked the kidnappers into taking Gregor to the Canadian Embassy to collect the ransom money.

Australian Federal Police said in a statement that Gregor's case was an "extreme example" of what can happen to people who succumb to Internet scams, and warned Australians to protect themselves.

Speaking to reporters, Gregor said he was met at the airport in Mali by a well-dressed man and had no indication that anything was amiss until he was led into a room where two men with a machete and a homemade pistol began demanding money.

"It's hard to explain what I thought," he said. "I basically was wondering what the hell was going on and then they started demanding money _ then I knew things were serious."

Gregor said he had learned his lesson and urged others to be careful when looking for love online.

"I reckon another couple of days and I wouldn't have returned," he said. "Just be careful _ make sure you check everything out 100 percent."

Source: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/20244273/?GT1=10252

Shadex, that's not you. Abi, when did you start having dread locks?

Busta, kindly tell your brother O, to reply my mails. Don't worry, he'll figure who I am out. Thanks.

They learn to impress their white girls. If na Nigerian girl ask them to learn, them go carry nose up.

Talk about double standard!

And this is a question?

You already know she is in love with money. If you lose your money today, she will drop you like yesterday's news. Why you would be considering dating this girl, is beyond me. It is no brainer, leave her alone. She loves money. It can't be clearer than it is already.

Joey82:
This isn't different from d thread "Why are u still single"

People can be single for a moment, but still decide to get married. I think this post is about people that do not ever intend to get married.

I do not want to get married, because I love to sleep alone. Funny enough, while I was growing up, I hated sleeping alone. The irony of life!