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This is what the beautiful actress and 'singer' posted on her Instagram page: Today is a beautiful day for mehttp://instagram.com/p/v2zkdeL4bi/?modal=true This is what Tonto Dikeh wore when she stepped out STEPPING out like a Humble Queen going to Carry Out her Fathers Work..http://instagram.com/p/v29vfFr4Zt/?modal=true
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A former captain of the defunct Stationery Stores of Lagos, Yomi Peters, 71, who has been hospitalised at the Lagos State University Hospital, Ikeja, is dead.http://www.punchng.com/news/ex-stationery-stores-captain-yomi-peters-dies-at-71/ |
They may be known as the weaker sex but in the battle to flush out Boko Haram from Nigerian territory, they stand equal with their male counterparts. Fearless, pretty and bold, the female hunters of Adamawa State fear neither man nor woman. To them, the common enemy is not their gender but Boko Haram.http://newtelegraphonline.com/i-dont-fear-boko-haram-ladi-female-hunter/
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A LIB reader said he was on his way to work around 8 this morning when he noticed a crowd gathered around the Aboju area of Festac. When he went to check what was going on, he saw a group of men had captured and killed a huge snake...and were actually looking at selling it...:-)http://lindaikeji..com/2014/11/photo-huge-snake-found-and-killed-in.html The picture apparently shows a huge (dead) snake,probably an African Python being displayed by a group of men believed to have killed it. In any case, Snake meat is considered a delicacy in some parts of Nigeria and it's very likely that the reptile pictured here has already made it into someones pot of soup. ![]()
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In spite of all the controversies surrounding their wedding, Mr Tunji Balogun also known as TeeBillz and husband of Tiwa Savage has posted a picture in commemoration of their wedding anniversary . The picture was from their wedding last year. http://instagram.com/p/vvXjwLxpoW/ Tiwa Savage also posted another picture (from her wedding) on Instagram also meant to celebrate her anniversary. http://instagram.com/p/vvIRSxRO2E/ These two pictures were taken from their wedding last year and with marriage trouble rumors filling the air many critics would like to see Tiwa and TeeBillz share more recent family pictures.
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Source: http://mrstanleynwabia..com/2014/11/nigeriassuicidal-north-and-infidel-south.html NIGERIA’S SUICIDAL NORTH AND INFIDEL SOUTH. Ever since the return of democracy to Nigeria in May 1999, Northern Nigeria has become a somewhat suicidal lot. When certain Northern power brokers anointed Chief Olusegun Obasanjo as President in 1999, they envisaged a docile administration where a submissive Southern Christian President protected and preserved the interests of the North. The North here does not include the middle-belt; neither did it include the enlightened Talakawas. No, this so-called North was made up of few individuals, largely Hausa/Fulani Muslims who believed that Nigeria's leadership was their divine right passed on by the legendary Othman Dan Fodio. Thus, as soon as Chief Obasanjo declared his independence from this ‘old North’ by sacking all military officers that had once held political office, the old North knew that they were in trouble. This old North had for decades considered the Nigerian military as a Northern constituency. They sat back for thirty eight years, watched and relished a status-quo where military rulers from their region rotated power amongst each other with reckless abandon, in the name of 'bloodless' coup. Back then, coups only became 'bloody' when the perpetrators/culprits where non-Muslim Northerners i.e. Christian middle-beltans. Certain individuals from this old North enjoyed plum ministerial appointments, contracts and oil blocks for decades, leaving only residual, harmless or intellectually tasking positions (like minister of information) to ‘southern infidels’. So, when they saw their military politicians being retired from the army by Obasanjo, they knew there was trouble. By early 2000s, Northern Nigeria fought back by committing its first suicidal act; its group of dethroned power brokers launched the imposition of Sharia in many Northern states. These set of northerners refused to A. recognize Nigeria's secularity and B. remember that apart from maybe Kano and two or three others, every other Northern state in Nigeria has strong indigenous Christian populations. Northern states like Plateau, Nassarawa, Benue, Taraba and Adamawa have near or total Christian majority. In fault-line states like Kaduna, Niger, Bauchi and Gombe, it looks more like a fifty fifty distribution. Recent activities by Boko Haram in Chibok and Gworza areas of Borno state made most Nigerians realize that even in a core Northern state like Borno, its southern fringes are dominated by indigenous Christians. Yet they pressed on with the introduction of Sharia in the entire North; a former military ruler openly supported this move, same leader is now still struggling to win Christian votes in several failed presidential election attempts. This 'Sharia' move single-handedly sowed suicidal seeds in Northern Nigeria’s social, political and economic structures. These evil seeds were further nurtured in later years to become the cancer we now know as Boko Haram. The introduction of Sharia was meant to unsettle Obasanjo’s administration, but Baba being the strategist that he is looked the other way and allowed those that started the fire to worry about it. Unfortunately, this fire was never quenched, it only mellowed underground for a while waiting to evolve into a volcano eruption-the one we are currently experiencing in form of Islamic insurgency. During late President Yaradua's final moments, this same Northern cabal made a mockery out of our political institutions, going as far as forging the ailing Presidents’ signature on many occasions. The thought of another ‘Southern infidel’ emerging as President in less than four years was a major nightmare to them. Sadly for this North, their worst nightmare came to pass-Yaradua died, with the help of civil society and a doctrine of necessity another ‘Southern infidel’ emerged as president. Simultaneously, or perhaps in response to this new political order, Boko Haram,a rag-tag organisation known for fighting with machetes, knifes, bows and arrows suddenly began to acquire sophisticated arms, tanks and Hilux jeeps. Five years and counting, President Goodluck Jonathan has been in the mantle of leadership, even if one does not like this President, the level of negative opposition and venomous attacks he has witnessed and endured will force many objective minds to stand in his defence. It's like witnessing a mob action where former confirmed criminals are the ones unleashing jungle justice on a lesser criminal. Today, whether we agree or not, President Goodluck Jonathan's most vociferous critics are core Northerners most of whom had tasted power and benefited immensely from past government patronage. This is a fact and unfortunately, this fact alone makes most of their tangible criticisms against the president to appear intangible. Take for example accusations that Jonathan is using Boko Haram to destabilize the North; they could be right, but who started the fire? They've also alleged that former Chief of army staff General Ihejirika is a major sponsor of Boko Haram (thanks to revelations by a hungry white man), again they could be right. However, if the entire social structure and moral values of core Northern Nigeria has depreciated to a level where two Southern Christians can now supply them arms and suicide vests to be used to destroy each other- who then is to be blame? Who, where are the real Northern leaders? Who is truly responsible for the so-called ‘abject poverty’ that has led many Northern youths into joining Boko Haram, wielding tanks, arms and ammunitions worth millions of Naira? How did a group of Northern illiterates kidnap over two hundred girls in Chibok and for months they've held on to these girls-who’s feeding these girls? We can keep blaming the federal government and urging them to take more decisive action against the insurgents, but accusing same government of complicity is just plain ridiculous. Whenever Boko Haram strikes, bombs, kidnaps etc, the shame and pressure falls on President Goodluck Jonathan's government. The shame of the missing Chibok girls is still on the Nigerian governments’ head; how then can an incumbent government use its own resources to sponsor activities that bring embarrassment and disrepute to its own administration? The old North needs to wake up and join the new North in partnership with the rest of the country to fight our common enemy. Yes, there is a New North, many are in the PDP, a few are in the APC and most are not even involved in politics yet. These New Northerners see themselves as Nigerians; they regard their compatriots in the middle-belt and the south as equals. This new North has embraced Agriculture, Tourism and manufacturing as viable ventures that can transform the North and Nigeria in general. Whenever individuals from this new North decide to present themselves for higher national service be rest assured that ALL Nigerians regardless of tribe and religion will rally behind them. A sad reality is that the set of Northerners currently vying for Nigeria’s top political position against 2015 largely belong to the old suicidal North and therefore can never be fully accepted by ‘the rest of us infidels’. These unpalatable set of old Northerners in normal circumstances should have embarked on self-imposed penance where they concentrate on putting out the fire in their region while grooming fresh Northern young leaders that can engage with their Southern counterparts as equals, working together to build a greater Nigeria. |
Abridged version of Chapter two taken for new Ebook, "Nigerian Lessons for Single Ladies." [size=13pt]THAT BORN-AGAIN BROTHER Nigeria is a very conservative and deeply religious society. The search for an ideal husband has rightfully or wrongfully led many Nigerian single women into the house of God. Ask any Nigerian single lady about what qualities she wants in her future man and you’ll definitely hear the phrase, “I want a God-fearing man.” Nigerian women love men of God, especially those that have some form of ‘secular swagger’ about them. Secular swagger here means, though this guy remains a born-again Christian, he still possesses some ‘worldly’ qualities that ought not to interfere with his spiritual life. These qualities may include wealth, good looks, confidence, finesse, charisma etc. An ironic twist to this search for a God-fearing man is that in as much as many Nigerian single ladies want a good Christian man, they definitely will not fancy a virgin man i.e. sexually inexperienced. Most Nigerian women prefer hooking up with men that already have some form of sexual experience and not men that will have to be guided through the tunnel on wedding night. How then can a God fearing man meet the expectation(s) of coming into a relationship with some form of sexual experience in his CV, but yet maintain the persona of an ideal Christian? This has led to the emergence of former ‘bad boys’ that have finally accepted Christ-ladies love those. Quite a number of women may have good stories to tell about their born-again boyfriend, fiancés or husbands, but there are many more Nigerian women that have had the misfortune of discovering one very unpalatable fact-a born again man is still a MAN. One thing I’ve learnt as a student of Political science is that most people make life decisions that are based purely on personal interests-same goes for a lot of men that choose to become born again Christians. As a single lady, if you find yourself involved with or being wooed by a Christian brother, there are many questions you’ve got to ask. Why is he a born again Christian? Believe it or not, there are a lot of miserable women married to pastors or deeply religious men; their God fearing husbands may not necessarily be bad people, they are just being their true selves. Most Nigerian single ladies are too reluctant in probing the lifestyle and disposition of their born-again boyfriends during courtship. It’s only after marriage that they begin to observe and discover certain peculiar traits that are anything but holy. If you are dating a ‘born-again’ man, try as much as possible to see all sides to him, behaviour and character inclusive. Ask questions and don’t just rely on prayers. Here’s another truth, several men choose the born-again path in order to suppress certain internal worldly vices that they either want to hide or fight. Others become deeply enthralled with religious activities all in a bid to achieve an ‘Alpha male’ status within that defined Christian community, a fit they clearly cannot achieve in the larger secular world. During my university days, we called such men ‘Boy Chineke’. Chineke means God in Nigeria’s Igbo language. THE RISE AND FALL OF ‘BOY CHINEKES’ As an undergraduate of the University of Lagos in the late 1990s and early 2000s, I noticed that most guys spent a large chunk of their academic years trying to fit in. There were the true born-again and ‘Efiko’ students that clearly had no interest in worldly pursuits other than their studies. Efiko is a Nigerian slang for Nerd or Geek. We had the playboys willing to forgo their studies just to sleep with anything wearing skirts. Some of us were kind of stuck in the middle; let’s say playboys with a bit of conscience coupled with the fear of God and fear of our parents knocking us out if we failed to graduate. And then there were the ‘Boy Chinekes’. During this period in UNILAG, there was this reign of what I’d call funky, well funded Christian student fellowships. Most of the pretty girls we tried to get our hands on always had some form of affiliation with at least one of these fellowship groups. The ‘Boy Chinekes’ in this era were the student pastors and their holy male crew; these guys were like rock stars and exercised immense control over some of the girls we were dying for. A lot of times, these gorgeous girls were used as workers and ushers in the student fellowship. There were times my hormones got the better part of me and as a student of Political science learning earlier on to always do whatever it takes in order to achieve my interests, I gladly put my Catholic faith on hold and jumped into a few of these fellowships, just to improve my spiritual life...and get laid.[/size] To read the full version of this Chapter plus Nine other chapters, DOWNLOAD your copy of new Ebook "Nigerian Lessons for Single Ladies." HERE https://gum.co/uPku
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Abridged version of Chapter two taken for new Ebook, "Nigerian Lessons for Single Ladies." [size=13pt]THAT BORN-AGAIN BROTHER Nigeria is a very conservative and deeply religious society. The search for an ideal husband has rightfully or wrongfully led many Nigerian single women into the house of God. Ask any Nigerian single lady about what qualities she wants in her future man and you’ll definitely hear the phrase, “I want a God-fearing man.” Nigerian women love men of God, especially those that have some form of ‘secular swagger’ about them. Secular swagger here means, though this guy remains a born-again Christian, he still possesses some ‘worldly’ qualities that ought not to interfere with his spiritual life. These qualities may include wealth, good looks, confidence, finesse, charisma etc. An ironic twist to this search for a God-fearing man is that in as much as many Nigerian single ladies want a good Christian man, they definitely will not fancy a virgin man i.e. sexually inexperienced. Most Nigerian women prefer hooking up with men that already have some form of sexual experience and not men that will have to be guided through the tunnel on wedding night. How then can a God fearing man meet the expectation(s) of coming into a relationship with some form of sexual experience in his CV, but yet maintain the persona of an ideal Christian? This has led to the emergence of former ‘bad boys’ that have finally accepted Christ-ladies love those. Quite a number of women may have good stories to tell about their born-again boyfriend, fiancés or husbands, but there are many more Nigerian women that have had the misfortune of discovering one very unpalatable fact-a born again man is still a MAN. One thing I’ve learnt as a student of Political science is that most people make life decisions that are based purely on personal interests-same goes for a lot of men that choose to become born again Christians. As a single lady, if you find yourself involved with or being wooed by a Christian brother, there are many questions you’ve got to ask. Why is he a born again Christian? Believe it or not, there are a lot of miserable women married to pastors or deeply religious men; their God fearing husbands may not necessarily be bad people, they are just being their true selves. Most Nigerian single ladies are too reluctant in probing the lifestyle and disposition of their born-again boyfriends during courtship. It’s only after marriage that they begin to observe and discover certain peculiar traits that are anything but holy. If you are dating a ‘born-again’ man, try as much as possible to see all sides to him, behaviour and character inclusive. Ask questions and don’t just rely on prayers. Here’s another truth, several men choose the born-again path in order to suppress certain internal worldly vices that they either want to hide or fight. Others become deeply enthralled with religious activities all in a bid to achieve an ‘Alpha male’ status within that defined Christian community, a fit they clearly cannot achieve in the larger secular world. During my university days, we called such men ‘Boy Chineke’. Chineke means God in Nigeria’s Igbo language. THE RISE AND FALL OF ‘BOY CHINEKES’ As an undergraduate of the University of Lagos in the late 1990s and early 2000s, I noticed that most guys spent a large chunk of their academic years trying to fit in. There were the true born-again and ‘Efiko’ students that clearly had no interest in worldly pursuits other than their studies. Efiko is a Nigerian slang for Nerd or Geek. We had the playboys willing to forgo their studies just to sleep with anything wearing skirts. Some of us were kind of stuck in the middle; let’s say playboys with a bit of conscience coupled with the fear of God and fear of our parents knocking us out if we failed to graduate. And then there were the ‘Boy Chinekes’. During this period in UNILAG, there was this reign of what I’d call funky, well funded Christian student fellowships. Most of the pretty girls we tried to get our hands on always had some form of affiliation with at least one of these fellowship groups. The ‘Boy Chinekes’ in this era were the student pastors and their holy male crew; these guys were like rock stars and exercised immense control over some of the girls we were dying for. A lot of times, these gorgeous girls were used as workers and ushers in the student fellowship. There were times my hormones got the better part of me and as a student of Political science learning earlier on to always do whatever it takes in order to achieve my interests, I gladly put my Catholic faith on hold and jumped into a few of these fellowships, just to improve my spiritual life...and get laid.[/size] To read the full version of this Chapter plus Nine other chapters, DOWNLOAD your copy of new Ebook "Nigerian Lessons for Single Ladies." HERE https://gum.co/uPku
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AfricanApple:I owe you one bouquet then! |
Princessmel:LOL...I hear you. |
rawpadgin: how can i get some of these moviesI'm thinking there are some Indian websites where u can download from,also u can have access to lots of them via Youtube. |
shamsuRana: feroz khan: memorable movies Qurbani.[size=13pt]Feroz Khan died about 3 years ago[/size] |
rawpadgin: amitach bachan was handsome when he was young
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PICTURES OF YOUR FAVORITE INDIAN MOVIE STARS FROM WAY BACK: HOW THEY LOOK NOW. For those of us growing up in the 80s and early 90s long before the Nollywood invasion,these Indian movie actors and actresses meant a whole lot to us. We cried when their characters died in films, laughed with them and relished their decent music-filled love scenes. Quite a number of them are late, but the ones previewed on today's post are alive and well. Most of them are still into movies while many also have adult children that have become movie stars in their own right. Enjoy and Reminisce. See more here: http://mrstanleynwabia..com/2014/10/pictures-of-your-movie-stars-from-way.html
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[size=13pt]Both friends and enemies come with numerous benefits but $ex is not one of them; cos you can do it with someone that is neither a friend nor an enemy.[/size] ![]() https://www.nairaland.com/1927469/ladiesenjoy-oct-1st-nigerian-lessons |
[size=13pt]@OP, it could mean you've not spent enough money yet![/size] ![]() https://www.nairaland.com/1927469/ladiesenjoy-oct-1st-nigerian-lessons |
[size=13pt]It doesn't matter how long one has been single cos if you rush into a relationship with a bad person,u may end up dead for much longer.[/size] ![]() https://www.nairaland.com/1927469/ladiesenjoy-oct-1st-nigerian-lessons |
[size=13pt]Ladies, by the time you fight for your man and disfigure your pretty face with bite marks and scars, he will eventually dump you and go for a lady with fresher face.[/size] ![]() https://www.nairaland.com/1927469/ladiesenjoy-oct-1st-nigerian-lessons |
15th reason: He will pay most of your bills. ![]() https://www.nairaland.com/1927469/ladiesenjoy-oct-1st-nigerian-lessons |
This thread answers it all: https://www.nairaland.com/1927469/ladiesenjoy-oct-1st-nigerian-lessons ![]() |
[size=13pt]My beautiful Naija sistas, are you sick & tired of how some Naija men play games with your heart? It's time to wise up with this new Ebook-"Nigerian lessons for single ladies". This New Ebook has 10 Chapters with deep relationship insights that will change your love life forever. Click to BUY Ebook here for just $0.99 (N150) : https://gum.co/uPku PLEASE SHARE[/size]
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Source:http://mrstanleynwabia..com/2014/09/question-for-thegods-do-nigerian-women.html Do Nigerian girls really appreciate flowers as gifts? At least from what Hollywood tells us, white (oyinbo) women love flowers, it makes them feel special and loved. Red roses are their favourites alongside several other plant species that we Africans use in our soups. Now let's bring this trend closer home, do black (Nigerian) women love and cherish flowers too? I'm not referring to the plastic flowers Nigerian brides cling to on their wedding day- I'm talking about flowers from real plants ***vegetable*** On Valentine’s day in many Nigerian cities, we do see a semblance of flowery gifts exchanging hands here and there but here's an observation-you dare not give a Nigerian woman flowers without an accompanying gift with more value. This is the only time a Nigerian woman 'may' appreciate flowers; but try send her flowers 'pere' and you are totally on your own. Ironically, even in Hollywood narratives Black women are hardly ever portrayed as the romantic flower loving type; they are sort of portrayed same materialistic way an urban African woman would be represented. So, which is it, do Nigerian/African/Black women appreciate flowers or not? What do you think? |
True love? ![]() http://mrstanleynwabia..com/2014/09/pda-kanye-west-grabs-kim-kardashians.html Kim and Kanye are in Paris for Fashion Week and Mrs. West posted a picture on Instagram of Yeezus showing his affection for her backside.
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Ladies, find out to HOW TO SPOT A POTENTIAL WIFE-BEATER. http://mrstanleynwabia..com/2012/10/thepsychology-of-chronic-wife-beaters.html |
CHAPTER 7: How to spot potential wife-beaters. This chapter helps Nigerian single ladies to look out for certain odd traits and behavioural patterns in their boyfriends/fiance's. These observable characteristics can help determine if her man will end up being an abusive husband or wife beater. Make sure you buy the new Ebook, "Nigerian lessons for single ladies." to get more deep insights. Release date: 10/10/14 Follow this thread for more updates. Email firewoodmedia@gmail to request for links and alerts. Thank you.
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publisher: Boko Haram has always been a Nigerian problem; for many years, the Nigerian government had complained that Boko Haram uses Camerounian territory to launch attacks on Nigeria. A top Nigerian diplomat even described Cameroun as the weak link in our cross-border terror war.WOW...intense! A million likes. |
Book title: NIGERIAN LESSONS FOR SINGLE LADIES - Relationship insights for single ladies in urban Nigeria. Available online at Amazon and other Ebook stores from October 10, 2014 Inspired by Steve Harvey's best selling book, 'Think like a man', this book seeks to educate Nigerian single ladies and other women involved with Nigerian men on the complex peculiarities of love relationships in today's Nigeria. This Ebook will offer a very blunt 'tell all' approach while providing real answers to real issues involving Nigerian single ladies in today's contemporary world. This Ebook will consist of 12 Chapters and a possible bonus chapter. Cartoon illustrations will also be featured. Preview of content/chapter title include: Chapter 1: Still single and time is running out? Chapter 2: That Born-again brother. Chapter 3: Baby Mama vs Baby Dada. Chapter 5: If you must have sex before marriage. ...and so on. Kindly, FOLLOW this thread in order to recieve regular updates on this Ebook release. You may also book for a copy in advance by emailng- firewoodmedia@gmail.com Looking to hear from you as I expect this thread to evolve into a vibrant platform where all controversial issues highlighted in this book can be dicussed. Welcome on board. From the author. |
SAINT LEO'S CATHOLIC CHURCH Toyin street, Ikeja-Lagos, Nigeria |
PRTV |
Sharing thoughts. http://mrstanleynwabia..com/2014/07/howboko-haram-conquered-nigeria.html HOW BOKO HARAM CONQUERED NIGERIA.http://mrstanleynwabia..com/2014/07/howboko-haram-conquered-nigeria.html |
Afrok: Na WA ooo.... It's like the writer wrote the letter even before the wedding was held.The moment Peter posted those 'i don't care' pictures to millions of his fans on the social media,he moved this issue from family business to public business. Okay? |
Genius100: Some people are silly sha.. How do you guys know that he was invited?'Invited'? To his own blood brother's traditional wedding? Who's being 'silly' here? |





